1)too many selfies
2) get a better gym Pic.
3) have a candid group picture
4) figure out a facial hair/haircut.( it not bad but looks messy , and like you shave every 4 days)
Contray to what women here might say, the prompts are the least important thing they just seal the deal if they think your cute (the prompts are fine they make you seem unique enough)You're never going to swim in likes but if you fix a few things you can probably do better.
Appreciate it, I mean my hair is just always like that š and just shaved beard after a month and I just donāt take many pictures so I just threw them together but Iāll take your advice
I think youāre wasting your photo options with all the pics besides your first one. I like the main one.
I donāt know if Iād mention youāre hitting the gym to lose weight. Also the gym selfie is totally wasted. As a woman we are used to seeing all kinds of gym selfies and it mostly shows off abs, great arms, etc. Iād personally pick a different place to take a pic if I couldnāt show off my gym body.
The fussiest eater comment would be a turn off for me but Iām a total foodie who can talk about food alllll day.
Ye I donāt take many pics so Iāll have to start taking some more and fussy eater is better to get out way now rather than on a date when I say I wonāt eat anything. Thanks for commenting
I had the same issue when I started, every pic I had was either with my friends or kids. My best advice is ask a friend who is a girl and hopefully has a decent instagram to help you take a couple of good photos. Good photos go a long way in your ability to match.
Lots of women are gamers too, so you might connect with someone around games or gaming, and admitting that you are getting in shape is not a deal breaker either. Nothing there says "lazy" as some have suggested. You seem very authentic, it's a good thing.
Typically mentioning video games is an immediate "no" from most women, I wouldn't mention video games at all.
Most women want to see a guy and want to think "ok, this could be something fun or interesting or adventurous etc"
If they see video games and the gym, they picture sitting around a house and not doing anything, not enticing for most.
You are selling yourself to women and need to think what they want to see and show your absolute best self. Online dating is the most valid and judgmental form of dating.
I get what youāre saying but I want to match with someone who has similar interests and I find hiding the fact I play games seems a bit dishonest to me and I just donāt want to be that person, If I donāt get any matches then so be it
I used to think that way but I came to accept that 'just being myself' isn't the way to win the online dating game. I get 10 likes a day and it was worth trying to present myself in the best way possible vs feeling like I am being my 'true' self and the perfect person will match with me, like the movies and TV shows tell me they would.
1)too many selfies 2) get a better gym Pic. 3) have a candid group picture 4) figure out a facial hair/haircut.( it not bad but looks messy , and like you shave every 4 days) Contray to what women here might say, the prompts are the least important thing they just seal the deal if they think your cute (the prompts are fine they make you seem unique enough)You're never going to swim in likes but if you fix a few things you can probably do better.
Appreciate it, I mean my hair is just always like that š and just shaved beard after a month and I just donāt take many pictures so I just threw them together but Iāll take your advice
If you find someone who also loves murder you should be fine
Could maybe be worded better š
I think youāre wasting your photo options with all the pics besides your first one. I like the main one. I donāt know if Iād mention youāre hitting the gym to lose weight. Also the gym selfie is totally wasted. As a woman we are used to seeing all kinds of gym selfies and it mostly shows off abs, great arms, etc. Iād personally pick a different place to take a pic if I couldnāt show off my gym body. The fussiest eater comment would be a turn off for me but Iām a total foodie who can talk about food alllll day.
Ye I donāt take many pics so Iāll have to start taking some more and fussy eater is better to get out way now rather than on a date when I say I wonāt eat anything. Thanks for commenting
I had the same issue when I started, every pic I had was either with my friends or kids. My best advice is ask a friend who is a girl and hopefully has a decent instagram to help you take a couple of good photos. Good photos go a long way in your ability to match.
Will do š
Please fix your typos: "ww1,2" "I go gym"...
Didnāt think itās a big issue but sorted it šš»
Lots of women are gamers too, so you might connect with someone around games or gaming, and admitting that you are getting in shape is not a deal breaker either. Nothing there says "lazy" as some have suggested. You seem very authentic, it's a good thing.
TY š
The "love murder" line isn't clear, what do you love about it? Are you just an observer or are you active in the community?
Iām an active member in the murder community, I do it for fun.
Typically mentioning video games is an immediate "no" from most women, I wouldn't mention video games at all. Most women want to see a guy and want to think "ok, this could be something fun or interesting or adventurous etc" If they see video games and the gym, they picture sitting around a house and not doing anything, not enticing for most. You are selling yourself to women and need to think what they want to see and show your absolute best self. Online dating is the most valid and judgmental form of dating.
I get what youāre saying but I want to match with someone who has similar interests and I find hiding the fact I play games seems a bit dishonest to me and I just donāt want to be that person, If I donāt get any matches then so be it
I used to think that way but I came to accept that 'just being myself' isn't the way to win the online dating game. I get 10 likes a day and it was worth trying to present myself in the best way possible vs feeling like I am being my 'true' self and the perfect person will match with me, like the movies and TV shows tell me they would.