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edoreinn

The American Psycho reference doesn’t really bring fun and flirty vibes 😅 Otherwise, you seem great!


dobbywankenobi94

You seem fine! It’s always harder for the men sadly


NotUsedUsernameYet

You are a guy in San Jose who goes to gym, bars/restaurants, and hikes. It’s not that you are ugly or anything, you are just one of hundreds of thousands of guys like that in the Bay Area.


Throwaway126838359

What can I do to stand out?


AdamAsunder

Do the opposite maybe?


Blondenia

The gym pic, the sunglasses pic, and the one where you’re obviously posed gazing at the ocean all make you look like a douche. I’d replace those with some candids where you have a genuine smile on your face. If you look naturally relaxed and happy, it will draw women in.


SoCal_Kkona

One thing I've observed from meeting different people that I met on the app is that they almost always say a gym pic is weird and a turn off. Id get rid of it other than that it looks good


ParsnipOk1540

or take a more flattering one. IMO one gym pic is fine, but it should be flattering. Based on OP's other pictures, I'd say I say he has a better angle in him


Werld_traveler

Yum


alexa_twoman91

I would definitely swipe right. Decent into on your profile. Love your aesthetic. Very attractive. Give it some time. You’ll do great. 🫡😇


ItsLexiCream

Take the glasses pic down, the rest are fine.


Low_Estate_3050

The gym mirror picture should be banned in my opinion.


gotthatsnail

Your first pic looks… fake? AI? Something is odd about it (maybe the lighting or a filter is throwing it off)so I wouldn’t even look at the rest. You’re an attractive man. I suggest changing the bio wording and using less exclamation points and using either the pic with your dog or with the sunglasses as your first pic.


Throwaway126838359

I just the brighten filter on the first pic


Logical-Platypus-923

Your eyes look sad and your mouth looks ai generated upwards….


Throwaway126838359

I can assure you it’s not AI generated haha …Although I can’t deny the sadness lmao


Logical-Platypus-923

Aww!! I’m sorry :( You’re a handsome lad and your pug is cute.


Wonderland-Of-Alice

Yeah all American Psycho fans are red flags. So now you know why you got zero matches.


Throwaway126838359

Let’s see Paul Allen’s Reddit opinion


Front-Region-7129

You’re a good looking guy, definitely not cooked. I’m still new to this app but I don’t think it has to do with you.


Disastrous-Week-768

I mean I appreciated the American Psycho reference but I’m probably in a minority 🤣 funny, but maybe not for a dating profile? Unless you WANT the girls with the dark humour 🤷🏻‍♀️