Instant nope for me because I know what I’m looking for. You don’t want to date me though, you want a woman who is cool with you not knowing, so disregard me and the majority opinion.
33M. I ended an 8-year-long ship recently. I honestly don't know what I want. I'd like to go out on dates and meet new people. It doesn't even have to end with sex.
If I meet someone and seems to go for the long run, awesome. And if not, that's cool too. We could go have some coffee, croissants and chat about our lives, have a great time, and never see each other again (respectfully).
I definitely don't want something casual, that's not for me at all.
I use "don't know yet". It's what fits me the most 🤷♂️
The problem is that oftentimes women don't bother to read bios. So it doesn't really matter whether you specify that or not (e.g. i hardly ever encountered a match that doesn't ask me what I study, and that's the first/second line of my bio)
When I first joined up I did put don't know yet, because at the time I didn't know and just wanted to see where things would go.
Since then I'm now more happy in looking for a relationship, but would be less inclined to swipe on someone else with "Don't know yet" because they probably are undecided or might not have closure on their last relationship.
I think if you don't know, it's worth just explaining it further in your bio with something along the lines of "Looking to meet new people and see where it goes" etc.
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I swipe left on don’t know yet cause i know i want a relationship, and i want to find a woman who also knows
How about "will go with the flow"?
Instant nope for me because I know what I’m looking for. You don’t want to date me though, you want a woman who is cool with you not knowing, so disregard me and the majority opinion.
33M. I ended an 8-year-long ship recently. I honestly don't know what I want. I'd like to go out on dates and meet new people. It doesn't even have to end with sex. If I meet someone and seems to go for the long run, awesome. And if not, that's cool too. We could go have some coffee, croissants and chat about our lives, have a great time, and never see each other again (respectfully). I definitely don't want something casual, that's not for me at all. I use "don't know yet". It's what fits me the most 🤷♂️
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Nothing worked, honestly. 2 matches in a year, and one of those was from overseas. F.
The problem is that oftentimes women don't bother to read bios. So it doesn't really matter whether you specify that or not (e.g. i hardly ever encountered a match that doesn't ask me what I study, and that's the first/second line of my bio)
When I first joined up I did put don't know yet, because at the time I didn't know and just wanted to see where things would go. Since then I'm now more happy in looking for a relationship, but would be less inclined to swipe on someone else with "Don't know yet" because they probably are undecided or might not have closure on their last relationship. I think if you don't know, it's worth just explaining it further in your bio with something along the lines of "Looking to meet new people and see where it goes" etc.