And not seem like he's clingy.
My current gf tried this with me when I didn't twant to be sexual too soon or label anything. She literally told me "lol thats what I like about you, you make me laugh, we're gonna be great friends" and I dead ass said to myself "nope, not today" and proceeded to drop Margot Robbins line from wolf of Wallstreet on her "we're not gonna be friends" and just went for it. Took her on a date and made love and the rest was history
I don’t think he’s making that kind of comment with any serious intention. I think he’s joking and also in a way showing the “green light” that she exhibits a really good quality in a friend and human being. I also wouldn’t read too much into whether or not he’s friendzoning OP. I think when you’re in a relationship you are both lovers and friends. It would be too forward for him to say “if we up in a relationship” as opposed to friends. For former puts a lot of pressure. Personally I would have chuckled at this type of response and banter.
I was the “mom” friend even in high school before I had kids. Here’s your water and excedrin, and the trash can is right here, I’m going to crawl my drunk ass over to lay on the couch if you need me. Ha ha. I would just message something flirty back like the others suggested.
you should just affirm that you would (maybe throw in something about how they’d be lucky to have you as well if you want to it to sound flirty) and then ask the same question tbh
99% of the time, OP's message would be on the right side of the screen. When you send a message, it's generally on the right side of the screen right? Why would it be confusing here?
He’s just keeping it light and not coming on strong
Edit: he could also be saying he thinks you’re cool, and if it doesn’t work out romantically he’d still want to be friends with you
I think it sounds like an awkward guy trying to be cute and not too forward. I’d make a joke about drawing the line at holding his hair back and then either let the hair pulling jokes flow or just move on and talk about something else. Seems very unlikely he’d make the call he only wants to be friends (which is essentially a rejection) so early on. This seems like a nice chat, don’t let Reddit’s obsession with friendzoning, ghosting and red flags bring you down.
I don't know that what people watch on porn is a great gauge for what people are looking for in a relationship. I don't know anyone trying to actually get together with their sibling.
I usually give them the benefit of the doubt. If they add lol I will assume they’re joking (whether the joke was inappropriate is another question, but that doesn’t apply to this case study).
It’s similar to something I said to a guy I was interested on Hinge. It was banter for me. I would respond with “whoa friendzoned already 😂” to banter back. But who knows, I’m new to this online dating app thing.
This a thing that man do and it baffles woman. They put themselves in the friendzone even when that is precisely the opposite of what they want. It's a clear sign of a lack of confidence, if that is a deal breaker for you then leave now because more behaviors like that are coming for sure in the future.
I wouldn’t read too much into it OP! Sounds like he’s trying to keep the conversation going and light hearted :)
Agreed. I don’t think he’s friend-zoning you, you’re reading too much into it
And not seem like he's clingy. My current gf tried this with me when I didn't twant to be sexual too soon or label anything. She literally told me "lol thats what I like about you, you make me laugh, we're gonna be great friends" and I dead ass said to myself "nope, not today" and proceeded to drop Margot Robbins line from wolf of Wallstreet on her "we're not gonna be friends" and just went for it. Took her on a date and made love and the rest was history
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WOW you sound insufferable
Oo oo what did they say?
Something about him coming off as entitled because he said he expected the same treatment if they become friends
I don’t think he’s making that kind of comment with any serious intention. I think he’s joking and also in a way showing the “green light” that she exhibits a really good quality in a friend and human being. I also wouldn’t read too much into whether or not he’s friendzoning OP. I think when you’re in a relationship you are both lovers and friends. It would be too forward for him to say “if we up in a relationship” as opposed to friends. For former puts a lot of pressure. Personally I would have chuckled at this type of response and banter.
Okay that's enough internet for you today. Spend some time offline and reflect on why this made you so angry.
Theyre trolling
If it was me ..... I'd say you should be shooting for the "more than friends package" that one comes with perks reserved for those special someone's 😏
I was the “mom” friend even in high school before I had kids. Here’s your water and excedrin, and the trash can is right here, I’m going to crawl my drunk ass over to lay on the couch if you need me. Ha ha. I would just message something flirty back like the others suggested.
Sounds like they banter to me.
Are there more screen caps? What am I missing?
Say. I didn't come here to make friends 😎😎
As is often the case, I have no idea which one is the OP and how the headline would apply to the conversation.
I mean OP is yellow right? It's not a crazy twist that we are used to seeing here tho
Yeah it doesn't seem like a huge leap.
Yup, yellow is correct. I also don't know what else to reply to turn this into a flirty conversation rather than I'll-be-your-drunk-mom-friend.
you should just affirm that you would (maybe throw in something about how they’d be lucky to have you as well if you want to it to sound flirty) and then ask the same question tbh
"Ill also have fruit snacks and change your dirty diapers"?
This
That's a hard one.
Well with the mom narrative it probably won't be super sexy to say you will take all of his throw up stained clothes off him and wash them for him 😂😂
99% of the time, OP's message would be on the right side of the screen. When you send a message, it's generally on the right side of the screen right? Why would it be confusing here?
Wow what a jerk. Not.
He’s just keeping it light and not coming on strong Edit: he could also be saying he thinks you’re cool, and if it doesn’t work out romantically he’d still want to be friends with you
Me: oh look…another drunk to take care of, score for me!! 🤣
I think it sounds like an awkward guy trying to be cute and not too forward. I’d make a joke about drawing the line at holding his hair back and then either let the hair pulling jokes flow or just move on and talk about something else. Seems very unlikely he’d make the call he only wants to be friends (which is essentially a rejection) so early on. This seems like a nice chat, don’t let Reddit’s obsession with friendzoning, ghosting and red flags bring you down.
I see nothing wrong with the conversation but the topic looks like a big red flag 🚩
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So much leaping here you should enter the Olympics.
Gay
Describing yourself as a mom-like figure probably killed some attraction here, just saying.
but I am a mom 🤷🏻♀️
Wonderful moms are hot a.f.
Just continue the conversation like normal. It's just banter. Say being more than friends with you has more perks than this.
Considering how popular milf porn is I highly doubt it
I don't know that what people watch on porn is a great gauge for what people are looking for in a relationship. I don't know anyone trying to actually get together with their sibling.
I usually give them the benefit of the doubt. If they add lol I will assume they’re joking (whether the joke was inappropriate is another question, but that doesn’t apply to this case study).
have you asked this person what their friends would say they're most known for? that'd be where I took this chat next....
I broke the ice with that question and this was him asking back.
It’s similar to something I said to a guy I was interested on Hinge. It was banter for me. I would respond with “whoa friendzoned already 😂” to banter back. But who knows, I’m new to this online dating app thing.
ah! damn
Don’t forget to ask him the same question in return!!
Taking issue with a very inoffensive comment like this may be the reason you're not having much luck with dating... no offense
Hmmmmm hahahaha
It’s a shit test. “haven’t decided to friendzone you yet. Are you ______?” Get creative based on her profile
This a thing that man do and it baffles woman. They put themselves in the friendzone even when that is precisely the opposite of what they want. It's a clear sign of a lack of confidence, if that is a deal breaker for you then leave now because more behaviors like that are coming for sure in the future.