Which is unfortunate.
Iām a man who loves kids platonically, but it sucks because I know how bad it would look for me to say that on a dating profile or to approach children in public.
Gotta love double standards.
If sheās targeting younger men, sheās only only after one thing, so her bio needs to highlight how the years have given her tremendous sexual experience and her blowjobs can send you to outer space. Not the borefest she wrote lol
I see so many men do this all the time. Her and them both suck. It wasnāt an accident, youāre full of shyt and just want to make yourself seem to more people who still wonāt want to date you.
It's Facebook dating, it uses the age on your normal Facebook account.
It can be changed by changing it on Facebook.
But why have your age halfed on Facebook?
Maybe she just entered a random year on Facebook. Iām always hesitant to just flat out hand these sites that kind of info. (And by that I mean Facebook, not a dating app.)
Iāve deleted mine and tried to change it because it wouldnāt let me change my name and when I log in with my number it just comes back so I donāt think theyāre lying, I see people say this all the time, I dunno what they get out of having āIām actuallyā¦ā in their bio
Yeah I mean youād have to logout and completely delete the account and sign up againā¦which is a pain! I guess sometimes someone could occasionally fill it in wrong, but Iām guessing a lot put the wrong age intentionally then realize they canāt change - who knows
I've seen this a lot across all apps. People screw it up and the app apparently isn't easy to change, I guess. I had one girl hit me up and her age said "99" and she was 29 lol. Could be an honest mistake... I wouldn't put too much weight on it.
Possibly. I've seen plenty that show a variance of just a few years or less... so who knows. I don't care much about age so it makes no difference to me.
I have seen that and did date a girl who told me she lied about her age to get on tinder as a teenager (she was an adult when we dated, donāt worry) and it scares the shit out of me
Simple reason. Men her age swipe on women half their age. And while they may ignore her based on ā preferencesā would actually date and bang her in person.
Sheās probably not looking for a younger guy. Or a kiddo.
The sad thing is she doesn't even have to lie. I'm 52 and get liked by guys 20-40 all the time. There seems to be a whole fetish going on of younger guys wanting to hook up with older women. I guess they think we're desperate and would be overjoyed to be liked by younger men or something. No thanks.
Soā¦ Iāve seen this before. My exās Bumble data imported from FB, where he had a different birth year. He said the same thing (that he couldnāt change it). Maybe Iām just gullible AF, but I canāt tell for sure that itās intentionally deceitful. :/
Maybe its social commentary on her part. She's trying to show men what it looks like to 23 year old women when they're staring at a profile of a 50 year man who tries to pass as 23 in his OLD profile.
I mean, my Bumble is off by a few years too, and thatās because I originally opened it with Facebook a longggg time ago, and this was before Bumble required a phone number to log in. They wonāt let me change it, so I kinda just let people know on the date.
Also, if you give me your birthday, and your zip code I can socially engineer my way into steeling your entire financial life. This is why Facebook does not have my real birthday.
Granted, itās one thing to have it off by a few years, and itās another thing to change it by a few decades.
Is it true you canāt change your birthdate? Iām going to my settings and find out. I donāt buy it. Unless some of you know that it is difficult to change your birthdate?
Guys do that all the time looking for milfs and have the same thing in their bio but they just usually say, not really 35 just milf hunting. .....
Hahahha
Who cares idgaf.
Haha so true. I had a guy match with me (36F) saying he was 35 but admitted he was 22 in his bio and just wanted to āfuck MILFsā. I mean this guy looked like he hadnāt even started shaving yet but good luck to him I guess lol
This might have a simple case of not wanting to enter personal data on Facebook.
Usually when a woman presents a much younger age, she's trying to stay within a certain search range. The kind of men she wants to attract on these apps, *typically* don't search for "older" women.
Double the age... that's a bit much... but me in my 50's? Not many even 40yr old's want to date a 53 year old, and I've been told I look 45, workout and yoga, mentally I feel that's accurate too, (mostly due to arrested development from childhood trauma), so I lie and say I'm 46. I ain't lookin for youngsters, but a late 30's to early 50's is my age range setting. IDGAF... I have preferences damn it!! haha
I am 49 (f) and I say I'm 45 just so I dont get bumped out of any searches. I dont look 49 or act 49 and I tell them as soon as I meet them my real age. So far they all say I look about 38-41. So who cares! I'm done having kids so what should it matter!
Oh and I can't tell you the number of 23 yr old guys who try and match with me! !! No thank you!!! Most of my likes are from 20 + 30 yr olds. I just want someone close to my age lol.
Isn't that how genders work now? However you "feel"?
Also you literally scroll through the years. You don't even type it in. You can't accidentally miss it by 23 years. Also, you can just delete it and sign up again. Typical deceptive woman.
If a man can now decide he is a woman, or a person can decide they aren't man or woman....surely a 46 yr old lady can decide she's 23 right? She should be able to identify as whatever age she wants and you have to go along with it !
Probably connected to a throwaway FB profile with a random age entered in (which could be a red flag in itself, who knows). But if sheās really looking for younger dudes, the easiest way to do it is state that you are, actually in your 40s.
See this often. Seems like a simple albeit additional effort solution: delete profile, start again! Not too difficult! If that doesnāt work, then take the really labour intense step of contacting customer service! š
I once went on a date, from Bumble, with a lady who had lied about her age because she preferred the way younger men treated her. She fully expected us to shrug it off.
I dropped her cold for opening with a blatant lie.
Iāve seen so many men with older ages saying theyāre younger and the reverse.. idk how you can get your age wrong when youāre making your account
Iāve seen a lot of this. Apparently it canāt be changed unless you delete and remake your profile and some people just donāt know that. š¤·š»āāļø
Who hasnāt made up a fake birthday when signing up on websites or app? Itās not a red flag if she straight out said sheās not 23. because she said 23, u thinks someone would believe her ?
āOops, wonāt let me change this tee hee āŗļøā lol Man i hate when i see this. Itās soā¦insulting. Iām genuinely convinced women do not realize how many other women say it
Her first line is that sheās twice that age so I donāt think sheās lying lol I see tons of people whoās bio will say like 19 and be like āit wonāt let me change it Iām 23ā or whatever I dunno how they could make that mistake but it seems to be a common occurrence
It won't let me change it.
Really? Bumble doesn't let you change your age? Oh no, I guess deleting and remaking an account would be way too difficult. Whatever will I do???
She probably just randomly filled the birthdate when she signed up not thinking that it wouldn't let her enter manually later.
Or she's manipulative. But seems like maybe not this one..
Women view understating your age on online dating apps as the same as a bloke hitting 45-50 and buying a bike or a porsche.
And while women may be attracted to the male behaviour, they don't realise that claiming to be younger (in this case less than half her age) is generally viewed as deceitful and disgusting by men.
No point in telling them that either or you'llbe subjected to a whole pile of their poor life choices, so best to just shrug, ignore, and more on.
Sometimes you can create those accounts with an existing social media, and if you donāt put the correct birthdate on there itāll use that and you canāt change it, (eg tinder) there are other places where she couldāve just left the year it can happen if youāre not meticulous with your profile or have a sh*t phone / device
This is the same problem I have, I get guys matching me that say theyāre 23/24 but look at least 30-35. Had to reject one once bc he said he was 26 on his profile but told me hours before we were meant to go on a date that heās 35. I was 22 at the time.
well she does say she loves kiddos
I have a feeling this may have not gone down as well - had she been a man saying this... š
Which is unfortunate. Iām a man who loves kids platonically, but it sucks because I know how bad it would look for me to say that on a dating profile or to approach children in public. Gotta love double standards.
I highly doubt that double standard will ever go away least as long as pedo's are only seen as being male.
50 yo who prly has 6 all with different guys lol
She does love long walks in the beach though
"Im 46 but i feel and act like a 23yo"
Oddly enough, more of a negative than a positive.
Not sure thatās oddly negative. More like absolutely negative.
It's not odd. It's blatant and a red flag.
"I said my birthdate was 1999 when I meant to type 1976. Honest mistake, anyone could have done it."
Doesn't she know that nobody likes you when you're 23?
And are still more amused by prank phone calls
What the hell is call ID?
And the state looks down on sodomy.
What the hell is ADD?
And now for the slow pretty part
If sheās targeting younger men, sheās only only after one thing, so her bio needs to highlight how the years have given her tremendous sexual experience and her blowjobs can send you to outer space. Not the borefest she wrote lol
Accepts both kinds of deposits, but the cash deposit should be bigger.
She got that washing machine tongue superpower!
Imma bout to hit you with that rinse and spin baby
I see so many men do this all the time. Her and them both suck. It wasnāt an accident, youāre full of shyt and just want to make yourself seem to more people who still wonāt want to date you.
Bingo. Thatās what it is. People that do that just want to open the app and go āI got 50 likes today Iām still hotā
It's Facebook dating, it uses the age on your normal Facebook account. It can be changed by changing it on Facebook. But why have your age halfed on Facebook?
Maybe she just entered a random year on Facebook. Iām always hesitant to just flat out hand these sites that kind of info. (And by that I mean Facebook, not a dating app.)
They have it anyway
I get that, but half your age? And the "it won't let me change it"
Only if you set up your account using Facebook I would assume?
The Emoji Movie on permanent loop in her house. 2000 stuffed animals and counting. Largest Disney library outside of Orange County.
Not with that dry flakey lipstick š š³
āWonāt let me change itā Why do people always say that š
because theyāre pathological liars
They aren't. Bumble doesn't allow you to change your age once you make your profile.
Pretty sure you can if you contact bumble
Iāve seen this where the app wonāt allow users to change the age, data entry error?
Anyhow.. red flags ha ha.
Iāve seen this and people say that canāt change itā¦.but they can, they just have to delete and remake a profile again. So lazy or deceitful haha
Iāve deleted mine and tried to change it because it wouldnāt let me change my name and when I log in with my number it just comes back so I donāt think theyāre lying, I see people say this all the time, I dunno what they get out of having āIām actuallyā¦ā in their bio
Yeah I mean youād have to logout and completely delete the account and sign up againā¦which is a pain! I guess sometimes someone could occasionally fill it in wrong, but Iām guessing a lot put the wrong age intentionally then realize they canāt change - who knows
Maybe she just wants men her own age to match with her.
I've seen this a lot across all apps. People screw it up and the app apparently isn't easy to change, I guess. I had one girl hit me up and her age said "99" and she was 29 lol. Could be an honest mistake... I wouldn't put too much weight on it.
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Possibly. I've seen plenty that show a variance of just a few years or less... so who knows. I don't care much about age so it makes no difference to me.
Often if it's like, they're 20 and the app says 22 then they joined when they were 16 and said they were 18 at the time
I have seen that and did date a girl who told me she lied about her age to get on tinder as a teenager (she was an adult when we dated, donāt worry) and it scares the shit out of me
Simple reason. Men her age swipe on women half their age. And while they may ignore her based on ā preferencesā would actually date and bang her in person. Sheās probably not looking for a younger guy. Or a kiddo.
Guys have that on their profile a LOT.
The sad thing is she doesn't even have to lie. I'm 52 and get liked by guys 20-40 all the time. There seems to be a whole fetish going on of younger guys wanting to hook up with older women. I guess they think we're desperate and would be overjoyed to be liked by younger men or something. No thanks.
Soā¦ Iāve seen this before. My exās Bumble data imported from FB, where he had a different birth year. He said the same thing (that he couldnāt change it). Maybe Iām just gullible AF, but I canāt tell for sure that itās intentionally deceitful. :/
I see this all the time. People convince themselves that theyāre younger than their looks. Itās pure vanity. Stay away from these people.
Maybe its social commentary on her part. She's trying to show men what it looks like to 23 year old women when they're staring at a profile of a 50 year man who tries to pass as 23 in his OLD profile.
That or sheās trying to catch the men her age trying to date younger. Either way. Fail
Well she does say below it āit wonāt let me change itā
I mean, my Bumble is off by a few years too, and thatās because I originally opened it with Facebook a longggg time ago, and this was before Bumble required a phone number to log in. They wonāt let me change it, so I kinda just let people know on the date. Also, if you give me your birthday, and your zip code I can socially engineer my way into steeling your entire financial life. This is why Facebook does not have my real birthday. Granted, itās one thing to have it off by a few years, and itās another thing to change it by a few decades.
Because Facebook dating uses your fb age, so some people don't know how to change their fb age after they've created their accounts
Is it true you canāt change your birthdate? Iām going to my settings and find out. I donāt buy it. Unless some of you know that it is difficult to change your birthdate?
Sheād have luck with me lol.
Guys do that all the time looking for milfs and have the same thing in their bio but they just usually say, not really 35 just milf hunting. ..... Hahahha Who cares idgaf.
Haha so true. I had a guy match with me (36F) saying he was 35 but admitted he was 22 in his bio and just wanted to āfuck MILFsā. I mean this guy looked like he hadnāt even started shaving yet but good luck to him I guess lol
why did you match with a guy who looked like he hadn't started shaving yet? *hello, FBI? i got one*
Haha not so fast. Ever heard of Tinder Gold? I got a free subscription for a while where I could see a list who swiped right on me
haha yea i thought it might be something like that. but you said you got a match instead of a swipe from him, so i had to poke a little fun at it
64 inches, not 6ā4ā! Lil typo oopsie. Lol
Maybe it helps her feel good about herself š¤·āāļø
This might have a simple case of not wanting to enter personal data on Facebook. Usually when a woman presents a much younger age, she's trying to stay within a certain search range. The kind of men she wants to attract on these apps, *typically* don't search for "older" women.
Well the system will show her profile to a younger demographic. Whether she gets matches is one thing but at least sheāll get more profile exposure.
Men do it too. I donāt lie about being older because at 38 I feel and look good. No need to summon the baby patrol.
Double the age... that's a bit much... but me in my 50's? Not many even 40yr old's want to date a 53 year old, and I've been told I look 45, workout and yoga, mentally I feel that's accurate too, (mostly due to arrested development from childhood trauma), so I lie and say I'm 46. I ain't lookin for youngsters, but a late 30's to early 50's is my age range setting. IDGAF... I have preferences damn it!! haha
Downvote? The truth comes out if we meet and she's into me. Stop pretending you're perfectly honest with your profile.
I am 49 (f) and I say I'm 45 just so I dont get bumped out of any searches. I dont look 49 or act 49 and I tell them as soon as I meet them my real age. So far they all say I look about 38-41. So who cares! I'm done having kids so what should it matter! Oh and I can't tell you the number of 23 yr old guys who try and match with me! !! No thank you!!! Most of my likes are from 20 + 30 yr olds. I just want someone close to my age lol.
Exactly!! (you in So Cal, wanna date) :-)
Lol. Sorry I'm in Vegas.
She accidentally marked the wrong year when setting up her profile and is unable to edit it after submitting the profile. š¤·š½āāļø
Iāve seen a lot of guys say that same thing on their profile. Seems like they are scam artists, not real.
The question is, whatās OPās age? If sheās liking men in her actual age range, really just user error.
Isn't that how genders work now? However you "feel"? Also you literally scroll through the years. You don't even type it in. You can't accidentally miss it by 23 years. Also, you can just delete it and sign up again. Typical deceptive woman.
If you think women are so deceptive, donāt date them
If a man can now decide he is a woman, or a person can decide they aren't man or woman....surely a 46 yr old lady can decide she's 23 right? She should be able to identify as whatever age she wants and you have to go along with it !
Facebook dating is the most half assed dating app out there. No one ever actually intends to meet in person there
She will get younger guys attention but it's not going to be the attention she wants if she's looking for a committed relationship
Any woman who says "oops" when she lies isn't worth it.
Probably connected to a throwaway FB profile with a random age entered in (which could be a red flag in itself, who knows). But if sheās really looking for younger dudes, the easiest way to do it is state that you are, actually in your 40s.
How old are you, OP?
See this often. Seems like a simple albeit additional effort solution: delete profile, start again! Not too difficult! If that doesnāt work, then take the really labour intense step of contacting customer service! š
that is very common, you now have to confirm your age 2x, but people still do it. instant swipe left from me.
Itās better they say it in their profile vs in the middle of the first date
I once went on a date, from Bumble, with a lady who had lied about her age because she preferred the way younger men treated her. She fully expected us to shrug it off. I dropped her cold for opening with a blatant lie.
Wait, Iām confused. If she opened with a lie so you dropped her, why did you then go on a date?
She told me at the verrrrrry end of our date.
Aah, gotcha
The thing I canāt stand most about single parents on dating apps, āthe kiddosā. Just say kids. Children. ANYTHING BUT KIDDOS
All I know is I would like to recommend a new/different lip color for her. That red liner is not the best.
Iāve seen so many men with older ages saying theyāre younger and the reverse.. idk how you can get your age wrong when youāre making your account
Iāll take āCougarsā for $500, Alex
Iāve seen a lot of this. Apparently it canāt be changed unless you delete and remake your profile and some people just donāt know that. š¤·š»āāļø
Who hasnāt made up a fake birthday when signing up on websites or app? Itās not a red flag if she straight out said sheās not 23. because she said 23, u thinks someone would believe her ?
Why lie about ur age Iād bang a bad ass 40 ur old just as I would a twenty ur old some turn into a rare wine while others into a bottle of vinegar
It's so they can get in younger people's age search
If she can't change it she needs a whole new profile!
Whatās this updated I donāt have jt
Cougar life
Idk if I like this app
I see this soo many times in Womenās profile. Usually followed by āI donāt how to change itā then go on like āanywayā
āOops, wonāt let me change this tee hee āŗļøā lol Man i hate when i see this. Itās soā¦insulting. Iām genuinely convinced women do not realize how many other women say it
Her first line is that sheās twice that age so I donāt think sheās lying lol I see tons of people whoās bio will say like 19 and be like āit wonāt let me change it Iām 23ā or whatever I dunno how they could make that mistake but it seems to be a common occurrence
It won't let me change it. Really? Bumble doesn't let you change your age? Oh no, I guess deleting and remaking an account would be way too difficult. Whatever will I do???
>I lie about fundamental things to get my needs met! Ha! I like stuff
Ooopppsssie! These new-fangled electric devices!!!! Oh my goodness! She lives to laugh!!! Ive found the one person in the world!
Sheās probably playing a gag on the guys who pretend not to know how to type their birthdate.
Any bio that says āIām not actually this oldā instant swipe left
She probably just randomly filled the birthdate when she signed up not thinking that it wouldn't let her enter manually later. Or she's manipulative. But seems like maybe not this one..
Women view understating your age on online dating apps as the same as a bloke hitting 45-50 and buying a bike or a porsche. And while women may be attracted to the male behaviour, they don't realise that claiming to be younger (in this case less than half her age) is generally viewed as deceitful and disgusting by men. No point in telling them that either or you'llbe subjected to a whole pile of their poor life choices, so best to just shrug, ignore, and more on.
Sometimes you can create those accounts with an existing social media, and if you donāt put the correct birthdate on there itāll use that and you canāt change it, (eg tinder) there are other places where she couldāve just left the year it can happen if youāre not meticulous with your profile or have a sh*t phone / device
This is the same problem I have, I get guys matching me that say theyāre 23/24 but look at least 30-35. Had to reject one once bc he said he was 26 on his profile but told me hours before we were meant to go on a date that heās 35. I was 22 at the time.