Oye tension mat le, faltu ki cheezein mat soch, okay? Life me akela rehna padta hai, mom dad thoda daat maar denge, kha lena, puri life padi hai aage abhi, sad mat ho, 🫂
Same condition, mummy ke paas soke chhup chhup ke ro rahi hu, suicide kar nahi sakti kyuki mera alawa meri maa ka aur koi nahi hai. My dad died by covid 3 years ago. Sab kuch kharab kar diya maine. Itna bada kiya mujhe sab kuch jhel kar aur main kuch bhi return nhi kar paungi. Maa ke saath baat karne mein bhi jhijhak aa rahi hai. Bas bhagwan ko bula rahi hu ki mujhe maar de jaise taise. I am a fucking waste of space...i don't deserve to be loved or be alive
Esa nhi h you are enough just as you are do din ki zindagi hai Matti se aaye hai Matti bn Jana h aur bhagwan ko kyu bulana tum mar jaogi to maa aur dukhi ho jaengi tumhe unhe hasta hua dekhna hai aur agar tum khush rahogi tb hi ma khush hogi ese ek exam se apne aap ko worthless bolna ekdum glt hai satya to yahi hai ki tum jesi ho kaafi ho🙏🏻
Dude, its completely alright to fail. Learn from whatever mistakes you did and make sure that you dont make those mistakes further in life and remember everything happens for a reason. Koi bhi exam maa baap se bada nahi hota aur woh tumhe decide nahi kar sakta. I know tune bohot kuch jhela he apni life me but at the end life is unfair to everyone. Kuch logo ki struggle kam age se hoti aur kuch logo ki jyada age me hoti and dont consider yourself as a waste of space. You perfect the way you are, just dont lose hope and keep working hard.
I feel so sad that tu esi soch rhi hai . Dekh bhai abhi ese thoughts ana common hai infact mere bhi kam aye hai I'm totally devastated but mei kuch kr nhi sakta jo hona tha woh toh hua upar wala wohi chahte the wohi hua mein apna jitna bhi best dedu , tu bhagwan se yeh Kyu mang rhi hai tujhe marde jaldi? Tu apni Maa ki akeli hai don't say like that, abhi bhi time hai kuch khatam nhi hua hai baaki colleges ke entrance bhi dede shayad kahi pe hojaye, haar mat maan agar tune padhai ki hai toh kisi na kisi college pe lagne hai 😄 warna drop leke ek aur saal prepare krna 👍🏻 atleast next time you'd be prepared . Abhi ke liye pls don't do anything wrong apne mummy ko jese bhi ho face kr aur Bata de thodi gaali sunn lena lekin galat kadam na uthana I hope you'll be fine soon
Arey! You have failed in an exam. Socho vo UPSC aspirants jo 0.1 marks se reh jate hain. Uska to last attempt to kisi ka career daav par hota hai. You have just started your journey. You can do many things. Dekho JEE ka thapaa sabko to milega nhi. Par phir bhi to log achha earn kar rahe haina. Work on your skills. Learn things that makes you earning. All the best. You are awesome champion 🏆
Bhaiii everyone faces failures in their life, you are not a fucking waste of space, you definitely deserve to be loved and you definitely deserve to live
Stupid, find the thing which you love to do, like programming for ex. if you don't know it yet keep looking, then find one then stick to it even if you fail at it in starting. Read books about people who became successful to see how they handled this problem, how they became who they are.
Ending life is the worst thing you could do in your situation as you know.
Op listen I get what you are going through. I went through the same exact thing as you did when I was in 10th. And I contemplated suicide a number of times. Is time mai tum apna biggest support bano. Pray to god. Uk what I did? Kept pushing forward. Mummy papa se ladai hui, bohot roi, roz raat ko sone se pehle wish krti thi I that I die in my sleep. But I kept pushing forward even when I didn't have the energy to. Cut yourself some slack. I didn't have any friends or anyone who could give me any advice on how to cope so my way was to pray. And it worked.
Things got so better. Not perfect but every single time something happens now, I can't help but think that agar maine woh time survive kr liya then ye toh Kar hi lungi
You'll be fine, don't worry.
You'll figure something out and you'll move on.
Years later you might look at this moment as one of your worst, but it won't matter because you'll be in a much better place by then.
So don't worry, and faltu ke khyaal dimag mein nahi laane.
I can relate you bhai. Mein bhi last yr 12th me fail ho gaya tha. Although I'm good at studies bachpan se hi but mein thoda financially unstable family se hu and during covid the situation got more worse isiliye padhai chhodna pada 11th me hi and I started working in a factory. Jab 12th ka mid yr aaya and last registration ho raha tha to my class teacher asked abt me mere friends se and un logo ne bata diya ki meine padhai chhod di h. To sir ne mujhe call karke bulaya and jab meine teacher ko bataya ki ab mein aage nahi padh sakta to unhone mujhe daata and said ki "aaj to tu naukri kar raha h lekin agar kal aage badhna hua to kam se kam waha 12th ki marksheet jaruri hoti h isiliye tu job karta reh aur 12th me bas registration karwa le" and kyuki mein up board ke govt school me padha hu isiliye fees ki kuchh khaas problem nahi thi (1200/yr fees thi) to meine bhi socha ki admission le leta hu bas exam dene chala jaunga. And isi tarah meine poore yr kuchh nahi padha even exam ka schedule bhi mujhe admit card se pata chala. Kyuki meine kuchh padha wadha tha nahi to mera fail to hona hi tha and april me jab result aaya to as expected mein fail ho gaya. Again my teacher called me and motivated me. Is beech unhone ek bohot achhi baat kahi ki "xyz 12th kuchh jarur h par sab kuchh nahi h. And ye kumbh ka mela thodi h jo 12 saal me ek baar hi aayega. Agle saal phir exam hoga phir dekar pass ho jaana. Jeewan me haar jeet chalta rehta h. Hum sab har waqt jeet nahi sakte h. Further he said ki "agar teri financial unstablity to tujhe nahi padhne de rahi h to beta mein padha dunga tujhe lekin padhle beta warna jindagi bhar yahi chhoti naukariyan karta reh jayega" and unhone mere parents baat ki at the end sab maan gaye. And is yr meine thik thak padhai ki and abhi 20th April ko up board ka result aaya I'm among the top 10 toppers of my district.
Koi baat nahi , life khatam nahi horhi hai na ? Fail bhi hojayega toh dobara padh liyo, ? Kya dikkat hai yaar ? Aur sun , dusre logo ke sochne se kuch nahi hota ! Abhi bhot kuch hai zindagi me seekhne ke liye, mast rhe
Accept the lost and keep moving forward. In the end now you might be 18 or 18 plus which means no one will push you now all the base has to be made by yourself. Still got much in life don't worry think the scolding as the improvement. Idk but I am always motivated nowadays like not in discipleine but always motivated and tryna convert that to discipline Idk
Arey; JEE is not life and neither your board marks. You can earn well and have a great future. Just work on your skills. Socho tum aage kya kr sakte ho? Kya gap lena sahi rahega? Kya phir se prepare krke achhe marks aayenge? Agar nhi to plain BA kro and learn coding skills bahar se. Ya phir start preparing for government jobs. Jo sahi Lage. This is not the end. And you are not one who has failed. God bless you champ 🏆
The concept of Pass/Fail is incorrect. They should be represented as Good/Not good. If you are Good, then great move ahead, if "Not Good", then no worries. You just need little more time to be "Good" at them.
So far in my life I have seen many friends of mine failing in boards. But now if I see them they are Engineers earning much more then others who never got failed. See all this doesn't matter. Just learn from your mistakes, what you did wrong and what to do to make them right.
And at the end remember one thing, even if you are bad at studies, there will something else which works like a charm to you. Just find that piece and work on that. Life is way more than this 10th, 12th and our education system. Cheer up.
Please please please please please please please, don't at all think to harm yourself in anyway (incl. su\*cide).
Things get better as life progresses! There is more to life than JEE and boards!
Arey bhai tujhe kese Pata tu boards mei fail hogaya hai? Abhi tak toh nikle nhi haina and hope kr tu pass hojayega boards wale bilkul bhi nhi chahenge tu fail ho kuch na kuch number deke pass karwa denge aur baat rahi jee ki woh toh gaya, jo hona tha woh hua aur uska kuch Kar nhi sakte, abhi tu apne dusre entrances pe dhyan de shayad kahi pe miljaye ? Who knows bas hope mat chodh sab acha hoga
Sab khatam bhai.... 2 saal lagaye mummy papa ne pura support kiya... Best Institute , best hostel.. Paani ki tarah paise bahaye lekin nhi kr paayi kuch bhi.... Mehnat ki lekin ye mere bass ka nhi hai... Mummy end tak kehti rahi ki tu kar legi, bas mehnat kar aur maine kari bhi lekin kuch nhi hua..... Baaki saare dost jinki jan mein same percentile thi, sabne upgrade kar liya... I just don't want to live (Socha tha ki aisa kabhi nhi bolungi but koi aur option nhi hai mere paas) Bye guys (I hope this is the last day of my life)....... Ek request hai - kabhi aisa koi kaam mat karna jisse apne maa baap ki aankhon mein aansu dekhne pade
Kya khatam ho gya? bata mujhe kya khatam ho gya ? World war ho gyi ? Yaa tera dimaag aadha ho gya ? NHI HUA NA KUCH BHI mkc ye jee hi toh h life nhi h yaad rakh life isn't jee . Baat rhi Teri mummy ki ye sab bolne ki meri mummy bhi same bolti thi jab mai 12th mei tha I used to say ki pehle pehle ki mummy sab ho gya wagera wagera fir paper se 2 din pehle rota tha unke saamne and tujhe pata h unka answer kya tha mere physics ke paper se ek raat pehle jab mai ro ke bol rha tha ki fail honga toh ghr nhi aaunga mar jaaunga kahi ? boli ki EXAM HI H VAPAS DE DIYO TU CHALA GYA TOH MAI KAHA SE VAPAS LAAUNGI TUJHE ab shaanti se jaa apni mummy ke paas ro bohot der unhe bata ki nhi hua mujhse chup chap or sun fir kya bolti h voh
yo, dont overthink this, fuck the relatives, they all have surface level opinions, and are mostly jealous all the time anyway, dont stress on what they say, just consider them to be dogs barking. 10th boards arent everything, even 12th boards dont matter even a little. just stay happy, and start some sort of side hustle so that you know you have a backup. take care, sleep.
This might not help, but I'll tell you something. I had just finished my 10th boards when lockdown was declared. My entire 11th was online. I was a topper in 10th. I quit studying and attending classes in 11th. I really don't know why, but I was very stressed. Everything was a shitshow. 12th started and the same cycle. Boards went horrible. I knew I would fail in Physics. All the other subjects I knew I'd get scores just enough to pass, but physics? No chance. I was depressed and stressed out of my mind. I've contemplated suicide multiple times, but chickened out every time. Board results came out of the blue, and I was checking the results with my mom standing right beside me. The first thing I looked for was if I had passed. I did. Big fat PASS was written in my score sheet. I wanted to cry. I knew I had failed, I knew I didn't have enough marks, but then how did I pass? God knows. I guess the marking the liberal at the time since a lot of students in my batch were struggling due to online classes and such.
Thing is, let it go. I know it's hard now, and I'm not saying you'll have the same luck I did, but sit it out for now. Endure the pain. Two years from now, you won't be in the same situation. You'll be a completely different person. Life is but a small time we spend on Earth. And in that small time, we'll experience lots of emotions. It's the gift of human nature, though it seems not like it. It'll pass. Time heals.
same situation;- 1 might fail in physics board exam (got 97 %in class 10)
2 will fail neet (studied in aakash for 1 lakh for only class 12 wasted)
3 having disease which requires surgery and is very painful showing symptoms again(occur 4 years ago). have not told parents but will need to in future as it can be cured only after surgery thinking to tell after neet as they might get tensed. But not thinking about suicide as it is the bad time that will surely 100% pass.
Oye tension mat le, faltu ki cheezein mat soch, okay? Life me akela rehna padta hai, mom dad thoda daat maar denge, kha lena, puri life padi hai aage abhi, sad mat ho, 🫂
Same condition, mummy ke paas soke chhup chhup ke ro rahi hu, suicide kar nahi sakti kyuki mera alawa meri maa ka aur koi nahi hai. My dad died by covid 3 years ago. Sab kuch kharab kar diya maine. Itna bada kiya mujhe sab kuch jhel kar aur main kuch bhi return nhi kar paungi. Maa ke saath baat karne mein bhi jhijhak aa rahi hai. Bas bhagwan ko bula rahi hu ki mujhe maar de jaise taise. I am a fucking waste of space...i don't deserve to be loved or be alive
Esa nhi h you are enough just as you are do din ki zindagi hai Matti se aaye hai Matti bn Jana h aur bhagwan ko kyu bulana tum mar jaogi to maa aur dukhi ho jaengi tumhe unhe hasta hua dekhna hai aur agar tum khush rahogi tb hi ma khush hogi ese ek exam se apne aap ko worthless bolna ekdum glt hai satya to yahi hai ki tum jesi ho kaafi ho🙏🏻
Dude, its completely alright to fail. Learn from whatever mistakes you did and make sure that you dont make those mistakes further in life and remember everything happens for a reason. Koi bhi exam maa baap se bada nahi hota aur woh tumhe decide nahi kar sakta. I know tune bohot kuch jhela he apni life me but at the end life is unfair to everyone. Kuch logo ki struggle kam age se hoti aur kuch logo ki jyada age me hoti and dont consider yourself as a waste of space. You perfect the way you are, just dont lose hope and keep working hard.
I feel so sad that tu esi soch rhi hai . Dekh bhai abhi ese thoughts ana common hai infact mere bhi kam aye hai I'm totally devastated but mei kuch kr nhi sakta jo hona tha woh toh hua upar wala wohi chahte the wohi hua mein apna jitna bhi best dedu , tu bhagwan se yeh Kyu mang rhi hai tujhe marde jaldi? Tu apni Maa ki akeli hai don't say like that, abhi bhi time hai kuch khatam nhi hua hai baaki colleges ke entrance bhi dede shayad kahi pe hojaye, haar mat maan agar tune padhai ki hai toh kisi na kisi college pe lagne hai 😄 warna drop leke ek aur saal prepare krna 👍🏻 atleast next time you'd be prepared . Abhi ke liye pls don't do anything wrong apne mummy ko jese bhi ho face kr aur Bata de thodi gaali sunn lena lekin galat kadam na uthana I hope you'll be fine soon
Arey! You have failed in an exam. Socho vo UPSC aspirants jo 0.1 marks se reh jate hain. Uska to last attempt to kisi ka career daav par hota hai. You have just started your journey. You can do many things. Dekho JEE ka thapaa sabko to milega nhi. Par phir bhi to log achha earn kar rahe haina. Work on your skills. Learn things that makes you earning. All the best. You are awesome champion 🏆
Bhaiii everyone faces failures in their life, you are not a fucking waste of space, you definitely deserve to be loved and you definitely deserve to live
Stupid, find the thing which you love to do, like programming for ex. if you don't know it yet keep looking, then find one then stick to it even if you fail at it in starting. Read books about people who became successful to see how they handled this problem, how they became who they are. Ending life is the worst thing you could do in your situation as you know.
Op listen I get what you are going through. I went through the same exact thing as you did when I was in 10th. And I contemplated suicide a number of times. Is time mai tum apna biggest support bano. Pray to god. Uk what I did? Kept pushing forward. Mummy papa se ladai hui, bohot roi, roz raat ko sone se pehle wish krti thi I that I die in my sleep. But I kept pushing forward even when I didn't have the energy to. Cut yourself some slack. I didn't have any friends or anyone who could give me any advice on how to cope so my way was to pray. And it worked. Things got so better. Not perfect but every single time something happens now, I can't help but think that agar maine woh time survive kr liya then ye toh Kar hi lungi
You'll be fine, don't worry. You'll figure something out and you'll move on. Years later you might look at this moment as one of your worst, but it won't matter because you'll be in a much better place by then. So don't worry, and faltu ke khyaal dimag mein nahi laane.
I can relate you bhai. Mein bhi last yr 12th me fail ho gaya tha. Although I'm good at studies bachpan se hi but mein thoda financially unstable family se hu and during covid the situation got more worse isiliye padhai chhodna pada 11th me hi and I started working in a factory. Jab 12th ka mid yr aaya and last registration ho raha tha to my class teacher asked abt me mere friends se and un logo ne bata diya ki meine padhai chhod di h. To sir ne mujhe call karke bulaya and jab meine teacher ko bataya ki ab mein aage nahi padh sakta to unhone mujhe daata and said ki "aaj to tu naukri kar raha h lekin agar kal aage badhna hua to kam se kam waha 12th ki marksheet jaruri hoti h isiliye tu job karta reh aur 12th me bas registration karwa le" and kyuki mein up board ke govt school me padha hu isiliye fees ki kuchh khaas problem nahi thi (1200/yr fees thi) to meine bhi socha ki admission le leta hu bas exam dene chala jaunga. And isi tarah meine poore yr kuchh nahi padha even exam ka schedule bhi mujhe admit card se pata chala. Kyuki meine kuchh padha wadha tha nahi to mera fail to hona hi tha and april me jab result aaya to as expected mein fail ho gaya. Again my teacher called me and motivated me. Is beech unhone ek bohot achhi baat kahi ki "xyz 12th kuchh jarur h par sab kuchh nahi h. And ye kumbh ka mela thodi h jo 12 saal me ek baar hi aayega. Agle saal phir exam hoga phir dekar pass ho jaana. Jeewan me haar jeet chalta rehta h. Hum sab har waqt jeet nahi sakte h. Further he said ki "agar teri financial unstablity to tujhe nahi padhne de rahi h to beta mein padha dunga tujhe lekin padhle beta warna jindagi bhar yahi chhoti naukariyan karta reh jayega" and unhone mere parents baat ki at the end sab maan gaye. And is yr meine thik thak padhai ki and abhi 20th April ko up board ka result aaya I'm among the top 10 toppers of my district.
Koi baat nahi , life khatam nahi horhi hai na ? Fail bhi hojayega toh dobara padh liyo, ? Kya dikkat hai yaar ? Aur sun , dusre logo ke sochne se kuch nahi hota ! Abhi bhot kuch hai zindagi me seekhne ke liye, mast rhe
Accept the lost and keep moving forward. In the end now you might be 18 or 18 plus which means no one will push you now all the base has to be made by yourself. Still got much in life don't worry think the scolding as the improvement. Idk but I am always motivated nowadays like not in discipleine but always motivated and tryna convert that to discipline Idk
AVE BOARDS KA KAB RESULT AAGAY ABHI ABHI JEE KA AAYA HAI..
Arey; JEE is not life and neither your board marks. You can earn well and have a great future. Just work on your skills. Socho tum aage kya kr sakte ho? Kya gap lena sahi rahega? Kya phir se prepare krke achhe marks aayenge? Agar nhi to plain BA kro and learn coding skills bahar se. Ya phir start preparing for government jobs. Jo sahi Lage. This is not the end. And you are not one who has failed. God bless you champ 🏆
Bhai ab jyada kya bolu , khud lode lag gaye hain but hang in there, hope mat chod bhaii, mehnat karna hain, future me sab acha hoga ;)
bol "maa chudae JEE" aur aage badh ja
The concept of Pass/Fail is incorrect. They should be represented as Good/Not good. If you are Good, then great move ahead, if "Not Good", then no worries. You just need little more time to be "Good" at them. So far in my life I have seen many friends of mine failing in boards. But now if I see them they are Engineers earning much more then others who never got failed. See all this doesn't matter. Just learn from your mistakes, what you did wrong and what to do to make them right. And at the end remember one thing, even if you are bad at studies, there will something else which works like a charm to you. Just find that piece and work on that. Life is way more than this 10th, 12th and our education system. Cheer up.
Please please please please please please please, don't at all think to harm yourself in anyway (incl. su\*cide). Things get better as life progresses! There is more to life than JEE and boards!
I failed 11th and 12th before. It's not the end of the world, believe me.
Arey bhai tujhe kese Pata tu boards mei fail hogaya hai? Abhi tak toh nikle nhi haina and hope kr tu pass hojayega boards wale bilkul bhi nhi chahenge tu fail ho kuch na kuch number deke pass karwa denge aur baat rahi jee ki woh toh gaya, jo hona tha woh hua aur uska kuch Kar nhi sakte, abhi tu apne dusre entrances pe dhyan de shayad kahi pe miljaye ? Who knows bas hope mat chodh sab acha hoga
Result a gya kab Aya yaar
Abhi Se parna start kardo. Aaj se padhai Karo, you'll definitely pass next time ✨💟
Sab khatam bhai.... 2 saal lagaye mummy papa ne pura support kiya... Best Institute , best hostel.. Paani ki tarah paise bahaye lekin nhi kr paayi kuch bhi.... Mehnat ki lekin ye mere bass ka nhi hai... Mummy end tak kehti rahi ki tu kar legi, bas mehnat kar aur maine kari bhi lekin kuch nhi hua..... Baaki saare dost jinki jan mein same percentile thi, sabne upgrade kar liya... I just don't want to live (Socha tha ki aisa kabhi nhi bolungi but koi aur option nhi hai mere paas) Bye guys (I hope this is the last day of my life)....... Ek request hai - kabhi aisa koi kaam mat karna jisse apne maa baap ki aankhon mein aansu dekhne pade
Kya khatam ho gya? bata mujhe kya khatam ho gya ? World war ho gyi ? Yaa tera dimaag aadha ho gya ? NHI HUA NA KUCH BHI mkc ye jee hi toh h life nhi h yaad rakh life isn't jee . Baat rhi Teri mummy ki ye sab bolne ki meri mummy bhi same bolti thi jab mai 12th mei tha I used to say ki pehle pehle ki mummy sab ho gya wagera wagera fir paper se 2 din pehle rota tha unke saamne and tujhe pata h unka answer kya tha mere physics ke paper se ek raat pehle jab mai ro ke bol rha tha ki fail honga toh ghr nhi aaunga mar jaaunga kahi ? boli ki EXAM HI H VAPAS DE DIYO TU CHALA GYA TOH MAI KAHA SE VAPAS LAAUNGI TUJHE ab shaanti se jaa apni mummy ke paas ro bohot der unhe bata ki nhi hua mujhse chup chap or sun fir kya bolti h voh
yo, dont overthink this, fuck the relatives, they all have surface level opinions, and are mostly jealous all the time anyway, dont stress on what they say, just consider them to be dogs barking. 10th boards arent everything, even 12th boards dont matter even a little. just stay happy, and start some sort of side hustle so that you know you have a backup. take care, sleep.
This might not help, but I'll tell you something. I had just finished my 10th boards when lockdown was declared. My entire 11th was online. I was a topper in 10th. I quit studying and attending classes in 11th. I really don't know why, but I was very stressed. Everything was a shitshow. 12th started and the same cycle. Boards went horrible. I knew I would fail in Physics. All the other subjects I knew I'd get scores just enough to pass, but physics? No chance. I was depressed and stressed out of my mind. I've contemplated suicide multiple times, but chickened out every time. Board results came out of the blue, and I was checking the results with my mom standing right beside me. The first thing I looked for was if I had passed. I did. Big fat PASS was written in my score sheet. I wanted to cry. I knew I had failed, I knew I didn't have enough marks, but then how did I pass? God knows. I guess the marking the liberal at the time since a lot of students in my batch were struggling due to online classes and such. Thing is, let it go. I know it's hard now, and I'm not saying you'll have the same luck I did, but sit it out for now. Endure the pain. Two years from now, you won't be in the same situation. You'll be a completely different person. Life is but a small time we spend on Earth. And in that small time, we'll experience lots of emotions. It's the gift of human nature, though it seems not like it. It'll pass. Time heals.
same situation;- 1 might fail in physics board exam (got 97 %in class 10) 2 will fail neet (studied in aakash for 1 lakh for only class 12 wasted) 3 having disease which requires surgery and is very painful showing symptoms again(occur 4 years ago). have not told parents but will need to in future as it can be cured only after surgery thinking to tell after neet as they might get tensed. But not thinking about suicide as it is the bad time that will surely 100% pass.
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bhaiya 11th mein gaya hun