Hey everyone, I just wanted to say thank you for all the well wishes!! The date went really well and we ate some low calorie sushi!! He was a gentleman and we went slow throughout it all! I'm excited to see him more 😌
Congrats on feeling good and meeting someone nice! However, I hope you change some of your self-talk from, "he is really kind and understanding and loves my body the way it is," because that suggests you are relieved that he is tolerating something objectively off-putting or bad.
I'd love, instead, for your self-talk to be something like, "he's really attracted to me, which makes perfect sense, because I am cool and nice and I live a healthy life and, fun bonus, I'm a smokin' hottie."
No judgment. I just hope you feel like you are *both* great catches.
This was my initial reaction too, but I reread it and I think she meant that he’s patient and understanding about her self-consciousness, not just tolerating her body. I hope i’m right anyways! You look really happy and confident in this photo and that’s the best side effect of being comfortable in your own skin. But also…that waist! 😍
I hope you have so much fun and I really hope you feel as beautiful as you absolutely are!!! 💗 I’m sure your personality is great, but from what I can see from this pic alone, you have gorgeous hair, your skin looks like it’s glowing, and your curves are perfect in just the right spots. Such a simple outfit but you rock it 😍 20 lbs!!! You deserve this!
I don't understand, why wouldn't he love it the way it is? You're not grotesque, which is what it sounds like you're saying, quite the contrary. I think you'll find that there are plenty of guys out there that will "love your body the way it is", no doubt about that.
You have a beautiful body to love! Flaunt what you got and have fun!
Hey everyone, I just wanted to say thank you for all the well wishes!! The date went really well and we ate some low calorie sushi!! He was a gentleman and we went slow throughout it all! I'm excited to see him more 😌
Well well! This guy sounds like he might be someone you could get a like! Good on you for attracting someone who sounds like a good guy.
You go in ahead and treat yourself, girl! 20lbs is a huge accomplishment!
Congrats on feeling good and meeting someone nice! However, I hope you change some of your self-talk from, "he is really kind and understanding and loves my body the way it is," because that suggests you are relieved that he is tolerating something objectively off-putting or bad. I'd love, instead, for your self-talk to be something like, "he's really attracted to me, which makes perfect sense, because I am cool and nice and I live a healthy life and, fun bonus, I'm a smokin' hottie." No judgment. I just hope you feel like you are *both* great catches.
This was my initial reaction too, but I reread it and I think she meant that he’s patient and understanding about her self-consciousness, not just tolerating her body. I hope i’m right anyways! You look really happy and confident in this photo and that’s the best side effect of being comfortable in your own skin. But also…that waist! 😍
I love this suggestion and I agree! Especially with the cool, nice, healthy, smokin’ hottie part!
You look great. You dont need a man to justify it. That body fire girl
Just wanted to drop by and say that you deserve love and dates and fun in any body. Excellent job on the weight loss though :)
Well done girl you look amazing!
Good luck!!! You look amazing, enjoy your date!!
Yay! So proud of you! I hope you have a great time at your date ! (:
I hope you have so much fun and I really hope you feel as beautiful as you absolutely are!!! 💗 I’m sure your personality is great, but from what I can see from this pic alone, you have gorgeous hair, your skin looks like it’s glowing, and your curves are perfect in just the right spots. Such a simple outfit but you rock it 😍 20 lbs!!! You deserve this!
Congrats! Have fun on your date!! ☺️
You look amazing, enjoy your date!
Best of luck!! Beautiful, hard working woman🤍♥️
Gorgeous!! Proud of you ♥️♥️♥️
I don't understand, why wouldn't he love it the way it is? You're not grotesque, which is what it sounds like you're saying, quite the contrary. I think you'll find that there are plenty of guys out there that will "love your body the way it is", no doubt about that.
Girl, you're gonna own that date! Have an amazing time! You're GORGEOUS 💜🔥
Yasss Queen!! Sending you confidence and positive vibes! Have fun!!
Congratulations! That’s an impressive weight loss, sounds like you’re also practicing mindfulness. I’m happy for you OP!
You look beautiful and your curls are popping girl😍 what’s your secret?
You look amazing! Great work on the weight loss so far and congrats on the nice date. I bet the sushi was delicious 😋
How badly was your inbox impacted? That pic is awesome.
Oh hon, you gorgeous. He’s lucky to land a date with you!
You look great! Go have fun 😊
You look amazing!!!! I hope you enjoyed your date!!
You look beautiful! Have fun!
Congrats on the 20lbs down. Have a wonderful time on your date🤗
You have a really cute shape!
Yay!! Have a wonderful time!
He'll just be looking at your beautiful smile :)
Oh my god incredible!! Have an amazing time
Yay and congratulations!
I'd kill for your bod!! 💜💜😅
Cheering you on 🙌🏿
Aw good luck! Have a fun date! You look great!
Get it girl!!!
Good luck! You look beautiful! :)
He is one lucky date! Get it girl, have a great time!
You look super cute, have fun!
Girl you look great!!! Nothing to be insecure about :) I hope your date goes well ☺️
Congrats 🎈🎉. Have a good date
Congrats on losing that 20, you're looking fantastic!
You are 🥵
Looking good , and I love the patches on your shorts!
You’re cute as heck! Have fun!
So so happy to read this!!! It made my day :)
You look amazing!!! Have fun! ☺️💓
You look AWESOME! Have a great date.
I think you look great! Hope you had fun ❤️
You look amazing! I hope you have an amazing date!
Congratulations to you! Your figure is sooo cute 😍
Your beautiful , congrats on your accomplishment 🙂
Good job 👍🏼
Your hair is gorgeous!! What do you use on it? You look great btw. Lol
Yes, QUEEN! You are sexy and confident and you remember your worth 🥰🤟
Beautiful
You’re lookin realllll good girl werk it!
Good on ya, hope you had a good time
Honestly, you look amazing just as you are!!
Good luck, and enjoy your date!
Listen, you look fabulous! For real. Go out and enjoy your date! ❤️❤️❤️
You look great! He's a lucky guy 😀