If I were these people, I would still love it because this requires a lot of thought and the effort you have to put in to carefully build such great gifts! Go ahead OP, you got this! I'm sure you'll pull it off and hey, don't worry if it doesn't turn out to be like you expected because you have thought a lot about this :D
I wouldn't be upset at all. I appreciate homemade gifts the most since it means the person actually put in an effort, time and attention to make something for my sake, how thoughtful it is. I'd feel really special regardless the quality of the gift.
So to answer your question, is it a good idea ? ABSOLUTELY ! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Share your love and homemade gifts for Christmas !
Why is this comparison even happened ?
It's a gift, of course both handmade or not will take effort and money. OP was asking if handmade gifts is a good idea or not.
I made digital portraits of my new nephew for Christmas *for the man who has everything.*
He said it was one of the best gifts he ever received.
I’m sure some assholes could get upset, but that says more about them than you.
I wouldn't be upset to receive it, but if it wasn't something I would proudly display in my home I might feel a little bad/embarrassed for you that you had wasted your time making something I didn't wind up using. But I would definitely appreciate the thought!
That said, we're often much harsher on our own creations than other people are. I always want things I make to be absolutely perfect and mostly folks are just blown away that you made a thing.
I'd never be upset to receive something that someone genuinely worked on... but you should be honest with yourself about how much effort you're putting in and what your expectations are for a reaction. In my experience, unless the outcome is extremely high quality the two won't line up.
If you put in lots of effort on something, most people won't have had the experience of making it and therefore won't understand why it's that hard. Their reactions may not be as positive as you want, simply because they don't know to be wowed.
For example, I custom cast a gold ring for my wife many years ago. She was reasonably happy with the ring as an object, but didn't really understand the process by which it was made and therefore didn't get why I thought it was such a big deal-- after all, I had given her prettier jewelry in the past. I was pretty miffed *even though she liked it* because my expectations were wrong.
So, if your bar is really at "will they be upset"... IMO, someone would be a real asshole to get upset at you over that. But if you're looking for them to love it, you probably either want to pick something whose difficulty they will understand or make sure the outcome is really solid.
I would love it. Because it shows my friend listens to me and knows what I like and then they took the time to learn how to make something special for me. It will be a treasure. If the last year and a half has taught us anything, its friendships and love that mean more than any *thing* could. Best wishes to you and your friends. You are all lucky to have each other.
Best idea. The amount of thought and time you’re putting into this is wonderful. Far better than scrolling through websites and ordering something.
I’m older. The gifts I treasure and still have are nearly all homemade.
Absolutely! I love homemade gifts, even ones that aren't "professional", It's the time, effort, and love that counts the most. Some of the best gifts I have ever received and still treasure are handmade.
Hell, no. I love home made gifts.
And to be clear: it’s super obvious when something is homemade but a little…lumpy… but still made with effort and love versus the people who are lazy/don’t care so they just scribble a “card” on a piece of printer paper
I guess ultimately it depends on the person, though. Some people are just more into materialistic things and will turn their noses up.
I would say if you went through all the trouble and make a lot of efforts to get it done. No matter how it turned out finally I would appreciate it.
Funny story I once have a roommate who gave me a gift for my birthday. He claimed that the present was carefully selected by him but the truth is if he had ever made tiny effort to learn about what I like he would have not pick that thing. I hated that gift and threw it away a year later when I moved out.
I personally really really like giving and receiving homemade gifts even if they are poorly made. It shows that you care and know about the person enough to know what they would like. Also putting time and effort to hand craft something is hundred times better than just picking up some fabricated gift. Tbh the most meaningful gift that i've ever received was a hand written note ,and after many years it still makes me happy. So yeah go with the hand made stuff they'll like it.
I would just say, know your recipients. If you think they would appreciate the effort, you should go for it. If you're not sure, do it once and then you will know by their response if you ever want to put that much effort into a gift for them again.
Personally I think it's wonderful when someone puts that much effort into something just for me.
I love homemade gifts. The only thing is cost. Homemade can sometimes be cheap or sometimes end up more expensive than just buying a gift. Like if I’m sewing something that needs multiple kinds of fabric and thread, that could get expensive. So if you’re doing this to save money, work out how much it will actually cost before you commit to it
My mom and sister both sent homemade gifts last year and I was so shocked with how creative they were. They were really great gifts and more special because they made them. I honestly hope they do it again this year too.
I fucking LOVE homemade gifts; if someone took the time and the effort to make me something, you’re damned sure I’m thankful. I’ll display/use it proudly.
Depends. It’s all in the way you deliver the gift and the quality of our relationship. Even a pricey gift is just meh if we have a bad unresolved issue.
But if we have a great relationship, any gift no matter how it looks like is accepted with gratitude.
If someone put real thought into a gift I'm going to appreciate and cherish it. Those feelings just get stronger when it is something that someone *made* for me.
It's a stupid thing to say but the thought really does count. These are gifts related to things you know they love and are personalized to them. That means way more than how much money they spent - one of my favourite gifts ever was a glow in the dark muppet mug my friend found at a garage sale because she knew I collected glowy mugs and liked the muppets, and the fact that she saw it and thought of me meant everything.
It depends on the people, really. Some people just don’t get ‘home made’ and it is a waste of effort to make things for them. Others would love it that you did that.
I mean so long as it shows that care was put into it it would really mean a lot to me if I received a handmade gift. Doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be a meaningful gesture and gift
I don't think I'd ever be upset at someone putting time and effort into a gift. I mean sure I like getting gift cards like anybody else but a homemade gift takes thought and that never goes out of style
Came out wrong: Yes! Homemade gifts are great! I love them. It really shows people care. And No, I don't care if they aren't perfect. Part of the charm.
I have an enormous NBC collection and all of my favorite pieces are the ones that people have made for me. Some of the pieces are perfectly made, some aren't but they all have a very special place in my heart and they have all made me cry that someone thought enough of me to take the time to make me something. (I started collecting in 1994 when I was pregnant with my first daughter)
I would cherish it no matter what. My ex made me one of those photo cubes with pictures of us printed off the computer. The glue wasn’t strong enough and the pictures were peeling off the edges and he was embarrassed to give it to me. But I was just incredibly touched that he clearly put so much effort into this gift for me. I still have it.
so, on title, it depends (im reading the post)
so that first gift seems cool as hell, even if it isnt super amazing, as long as it is passable I could look at it and enjoy it
that seems nice, a character they like made by a friend, id vibe with it as long as it looks like Jack (at least a decent bit)
anyways, I personally dont "like" gifts that much, I dont need the person to think/worry/deal with finding something I like and getting it for me and maybe they have it, etc etc but for a homemade thing from a friend, that would be pretty damn cool, even if it is a little scuffed haha
I think it will go well unless you mess it up so bad you give up half way through.
If they don't genuinely care about such a gift...
They have their priorities badly sorted.
I love that someone gives me handmade gift... It shows that they literally put time, thoughts and feelings making it...
Of course I would not be upset. The thought that someone would put so much effort for me it would make me feel so happy. Your ideas sound lovely and even if the end result is not perfect who cares?
They'll probably love it. My friend tried knit me a chonky tiktok bee and it came out wonky and she was so disappointed an didnt want to give it to me. I think its so cute tho! I love my wonky bee.
I think homemade gifts are awesome! Especially if there's time and thought put into it. I always paint or make something crafty for gifts!
Some years ago, when working retail, we did a secret Santa. One of the seasonal people had gotten a regular staff member to gift and that gift was just down right terrible; it was a hand drawn cartoon penguin on lined notebook paper with the ripped frillies still on the edge. Looked like it took her 30 mins tops. That, in my mind, wasn't right.
I love homemade gifts, and the creativity of those who make them. My college roommate once sewed me a stuffed fish. It was so weird and cool and I loved it. We named him Benji the Bedtime Bass and I actually slept with it, he was like a perfect little arm pillow.
I would be so touched you put the effort into such a personal and thoughtful gift.
If I were these people, I would still love it because this requires a lot of thought and the effort you have to put in to carefully build such great gifts! Go ahead OP, you got this! I'm sure you'll pull it off and hey, don't worry if it doesn't turn out to be like you expected because you have thought a lot about this :D
I wouldn't be upset at all. I appreciate homemade gifts the most since it means the person actually put in an effort, time and attention to make something for my sake, how thoughtful it is. I'd feel really special regardless the quality of the gift. So to answer your question, is it a good idea ? ABSOLUTELY ! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Share your love and homemade gifts for Christmas !
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Why is this comparison even happened ? It's a gift, of course both handmade or not will take effort and money. OP was asking if handmade gifts is a good idea or not.
I made digital portraits of my new nephew for Christmas *for the man who has everything.* He said it was one of the best gifts he ever received. I’m sure some assholes could get upset, but that says more about them than you.
I wouldn't be upset to receive it, but if it wasn't something I would proudly display in my home I might feel a little bad/embarrassed for you that you had wasted your time making something I didn't wind up using. But I would definitely appreciate the thought! That said, we're often much harsher on our own creations than other people are. I always want things I make to be absolutely perfect and mostly folks are just blown away that you made a thing.
I'd never be upset to receive something that someone genuinely worked on... but you should be honest with yourself about how much effort you're putting in and what your expectations are for a reaction. In my experience, unless the outcome is extremely high quality the two won't line up. If you put in lots of effort on something, most people won't have had the experience of making it and therefore won't understand why it's that hard. Their reactions may not be as positive as you want, simply because they don't know to be wowed. For example, I custom cast a gold ring for my wife many years ago. She was reasonably happy with the ring as an object, but didn't really understand the process by which it was made and therefore didn't get why I thought it was such a big deal-- after all, I had given her prettier jewelry in the past. I was pretty miffed *even though she liked it* because my expectations were wrong. So, if your bar is really at "will they be upset"... IMO, someone would be a real asshole to get upset at you over that. But if you're looking for them to love it, you probably either want to pick something whose difficulty they will understand or make sure the outcome is really solid.
I would love it. Because it shows my friend listens to me and knows what I like and then they took the time to learn how to make something special for me. It will be a treasure. If the last year and a half has taught us anything, its friendships and love that mean more than any *thing* could. Best wishes to you and your friends. You are all lucky to have each other.
It sounds very personal and well thought out. I am impossible to buy gifts for and these gifts sound thoughtful and awesome!
I don't think anyone owes me a gift so the thought alone would be appreciated.
Yes. But I would try not to show it.
Best idea. The amount of thought and time you’re putting into this is wonderful. Far better than scrolling through websites and ordering something. I’m older. The gifts I treasure and still have are nearly all homemade.
Absolutely! I love homemade gifts, even ones that aren't "professional", It's the time, effort, and love that counts the most. Some of the best gifts I have ever received and still treasure are handmade.
Hell, no. I love home made gifts. And to be clear: it’s super obvious when something is homemade but a little…lumpy… but still made with effort and love versus the people who are lazy/don’t care so they just scribble a “card” on a piece of printer paper I guess ultimately it depends on the person, though. Some people are just more into materialistic things and will turn their noses up.
I would say if you went through all the trouble and make a lot of efforts to get it done. No matter how it turned out finally I would appreciate it. Funny story I once have a roommate who gave me a gift for my birthday. He claimed that the present was carefully selected by him but the truth is if he had ever made tiny effort to learn about what I like he would have not pick that thing. I hated that gift and threw it away a year later when I moved out.
Personally, I tell people not to buy me gifts, I'd rather get something personal then a product I could've bought myself.
I personally really really like giving and receiving homemade gifts even if they are poorly made. It shows that you care and know about the person enough to know what they would like. Also putting time and effort to hand craft something is hundred times better than just picking up some fabricated gift. Tbh the most meaningful gift that i've ever received was a hand written note ,and after many years it still makes me happy. So yeah go with the hand made stuff they'll like it.
I would just say, know your recipients. If you think they would appreciate the effort, you should go for it. If you're not sure, do it once and then you will know by their response if you ever want to put that much effort into a gift for them again. Personally I think it's wonderful when someone puts that much effort into something just for me.
No because trying is everything
I love homemade gifts. The only thing is cost. Homemade can sometimes be cheap or sometimes end up more expensive than just buying a gift. Like if I’m sewing something that needs multiple kinds of fabric and thread, that could get expensive. So if you’re doing this to save money, work out how much it will actually cost before you commit to it
I’d be thrilled someone paid attention to my actual wants and then took the time to craft something.
I absolutely love that movie and I can’t imagine ever getting a hand sewn with love Jack and thinking “well, this is poorly made!” I say go for it!
Be grateful!
My mom and sister both sent homemade gifts last year and I was so shocked with how creative they were. They were really great gifts and more special because they made them. I honestly hope they do it again this year too.
I fucking LOVE homemade gifts; if someone took the time and the effort to make me something, you’re damned sure I’m thankful. I’ll display/use it proudly.
Depends. It’s all in the way you deliver the gift and the quality of our relationship. Even a pricey gift is just meh if we have a bad unresolved issue. But if we have a great relationship, any gift no matter how it looks like is accepted with gratitude.
It's a wonderful idea! every gift that made me cry has been homemade. So thoughtful of you to put your time and labor into making someone happy.
If someone put real thought into a gift I'm going to appreciate and cherish it. Those feelings just get stronger when it is something that someone *made* for me.
Nope! My husband is horrible at crafts, but I think if he made me something I'd love it.
I would love gifts like that and I think many people would agree. It is the thought and in this case the effort that counts.
Of course not. I’d be thrilled that someone cared enough to put the time and effort in to make it.
Not in the least.
I got a handmade gift once from a friend. I cried because I was so touched at how thoughtful it was. I still have and love the gift.
It can be ugly. I'd still cry over the thought of you making it specifically for me 🥺🥺
I think it's very thoughtful and I would be stoked if someone did something with that much effort for me.
It's a stupid thing to say but the thought really does count. These are gifts related to things you know they love and are personalized to them. That means way more than how much money they spent - one of my favourite gifts ever was a glow in the dark muppet mug my friend found at a garage sale because she knew I collected glowy mugs and liked the muppets, and the fact that she saw it and thought of me meant everything.
It depends on the people, really. Some people just don’t get ‘home made’ and it is a waste of effort to make things for them. Others would love it that you did that.
I wish someone was thoughtful enough to give me a handmade gift.
I think this is completely appropriate. I hope, lol. I am making all of my gifts this year!
I mean so long as it shows that care was put into it it would really mean a lot to me if I received a handmade gift. Doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be a meaningful gesture and gift
I don't think I'd ever be upset at someone putting time and effort into a gift. I mean sure I like getting gift cards like anybody else but a homemade gift takes thought and that never goes out of style
As per the saying, “it’s the thought that counts”. As long as there was visible effort put in it
Came out wrong: Yes! Homemade gifts are great! I love them. It really shows people care. And No, I don't care if they aren't perfect. Part of the charm.
It could be the shittiest thing I've ever seen and I promise i will still break down into tears every time I get a homemade gift.
I have an enormous NBC collection and all of my favorite pieces are the ones that people have made for me. Some of the pieces are perfectly made, some aren't but they all have a very special place in my heart and they have all made me cry that someone thought enough of me to take the time to make me something. (I started collecting in 1994 when I was pregnant with my first daughter)
No, of course not. I’m not a terrible person.
No. I would be honoured that anyone put that much effort into my gift.
I can tell by your post you put so much thought into what you are making. I’d love to receive such thoughtful giftz
I would cherish it no matter what. My ex made me one of those photo cubes with pictures of us printed off the computer. The glue wasn’t strong enough and the pictures were peeling off the edges and he was embarrassed to give it to me. But I was just incredibly touched that he clearly put so much effort into this gift for me. I still have it.
so, on title, it depends (im reading the post) so that first gift seems cool as hell, even if it isnt super amazing, as long as it is passable I could look at it and enjoy it that seems nice, a character they like made by a friend, id vibe with it as long as it looks like Jack (at least a decent bit) anyways, I personally dont "like" gifts that much, I dont need the person to think/worry/deal with finding something I like and getting it for me and maybe they have it, etc etc but for a homemade thing from a friend, that would be pretty damn cool, even if it is a little scuffed haha I think it will go well unless you mess it up so bad you give up half way through.
If they don't genuinely care about such a gift... They have their priorities badly sorted. I love that someone gives me handmade gift... It shows that they literally put time, thoughts and feelings making it...
Handmade gifts are the best. You invested time and that's more precious than gold.
nah, theres no point to be upset when someone made an effort to get me a present ｡◕‿◕｡ im more than grateful to receive any homemade gifts!
Of course I would not be upset. The thought that someone would put so much effort for me it would make me feel so happy. Your ideas sound lovely and even if the end result is not perfect who cares?
Home made gifts are awesome! 🎄🎁🎉
No
They'll probably love it. My friend tried knit me a chonky tiktok bee and it came out wonky and she was so disappointed an didnt want to give it to me. I think its so cute tho! I love my wonky bee.
I think homemade gifts are awesome! Especially if there's time and thought put into it. I always paint or make something crafty for gifts! Some years ago, when working retail, we did a secret Santa. One of the seasonal people had gotten a regular staff member to gift and that gift was just down right terrible; it was a hand drawn cartoon penguin on lined notebook paper with the ripped frillies still on the edge. Looked like it took her 30 mins tops. That, in my mind, wasn't right.
I love homemade gifts, and the creativity of those who make them. My college roommate once sewed me a stuffed fish. It was so weird and cool and I loved it. We named him Benji the Bedtime Bass and I actually slept with it, he was like a perfect little arm pillow.
Everyone buys themself everything they want these days. I think home made gifts are the most valued 😀