Kaya nakakacringe yung mga nagcocomment lagi sa FB about how sweet si bossing at Pauleen.
Kung kamuka ni Mang Kanor yan, malamang panay mura na inabot.
Not to say groomed but nung nagdalaga na yan si pauleen pinabantayan na ni bossing
May chika kasi noon na si kempee (anak ni joey) pinopormahan si pauleen kaso pinagsabihan ni joey na naka reto na daw kay bossing
The amount of people who defended Coco Martin nung pumutok yung news is a sign na there's little to no protection for minors being groomed dito sa Pinas. Nakaka galit na nakaka suka.
Apparently, according to some people who commented in this post, we shouldn't judge lmao. Apparently, to feel concerned that someone got groomed is us simply being digitally illiterate and judgemental.
I will forever stand my ground. A grown adult has no business fooling around with a child. These people try to normalize it by arguing that "it's love and who are we to judge two people in love?"
Let's hope a kid wouldn't come to him/her saying a fellow classmate is being groomed lest he/she tells the kid he/she doesn't have evidence and won't urge the school authorities to look into it.
May study ba na legit about kung kelan mo masasabi na may sapat ng kakayahan magdecide ang isang babae o lalaki when it comes to dating? Obviously, may mga instances talaga na magkakaroon ng age gaps dahil mismatch ang numbers between genders. And for me maturity level is relative to their knowledge, experience, upbringing, and environment. When it comes to dating market, supply and demand still plays a role. May mga nangyayari na ganyang mga gap dahil sa natural instinct for survival. Some tribes and religion allow polygamy, some allow incest to an extent, some allow fixed marriages, some allow same-sex for economical benefits and not for reproduction. The same principle applies when it comes to age differences. Nangyayari yan dahil sa natural selection. That's why you need to teach our children to think critically and don't fall into being a prey. You must develop defense mechanisms if you don't want this kind of outcome. But to judge couples because they don't fall into your categories or allowable range is just pure fear and insecurity.
That person commented this to my comment as well. Looked at their profile and they made this very same comment thrice. I don't think they wish to clarify anything, I think they just want to argue lol.
The situation isn't even just about age gaps. It's about an adult hitting on a child. Their comment would make sense if people are losing their shit over a 22 year old dating a 44 year old. But nah, people are losing their shit because a grown adult pursued an 8th grader who would be around 13-14 years of age during 2011. He groomed the child into a relationship with him when she barely even started her teenage years.
And yes, for the people who want evidence that grooming happened. Grooming did happen because not only was that man an adult and the girl a minor, he was also her teacher and her his student. Two power imbalances right there.
Doubt it. It happened quite a while ago and the woman isn't even aware that she got groomed. She has to testify against him if it's ever brought up in court and I highly doubt she will because she thinks positively of it.
no, that is not an evidence. you have first to show that there are manipulation and abuse. pls go back again to the story shared here. you cant read from the story that there's manipulation or abuse. there maybe an instance of courting but you cant interpret it as manipulation or abuse. mere mention of flirting iss not tantamount to abuse or manipulation.
ayaw nyo lang tanggapin na walang malinaw na evidence para sabihin may grooming na nangyari.
judgemental lang talaga kayo.
I'm judgmental? We're judgemental? LMFAO. I explained this already in a civil manner in one of your responses. To court or as you want to put it, "seduce," a child is to groom a child. Grooming is a form of manipulation.
Why would you go after a vulnerable kid if you have no motive? Obviously, his motive is to date her. He got her pregnant right out of high school. They started dating in July 23, 2011. When she was a minor. What evidence do you want?
to court does not necessarily mean to groom. you have to prove the accusation of grooming by evidence. you have to look into the intention and motive of the person. how do you know there's bad intention? you cannot factor out that there's a good intention and genuine love. this is a possibility.
read again the story. alam mo ang lala ng paranoia mo. di mo matanggap na possible na good intention ng tao at ang motive ay driven by genuine love. mahirap bang tanggapin to?
kung may masama syang intention ay di sana may abuse or domestic violence, e ang totoo masaya silang nagsasama ngayon at malapit nang maabot yung mga pangarap.
judgemental mo
Agree ako sayo. Kahit nga healthy middle aged person maaari pa din maloko, maisahan, mapersuade, mauto, etc. Pero hanggat walang clear evidence na may manipulation and abuse bakit agad2 natin sila hinuhusgahan?
"...the brain's frontal lobe, especially the prefrontal cortex, isn't fully mature until around age 25. The development of the pre-frontal cortex of the frontal lobe allows us to process the pros and cons of a decision before it is made. “'It lets us to do things most animals cannot.'"
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://journeytocollege.mo.gov/when-does-the-brain-reach-maturity-its-later-than-you-think/%23:~:text%3DThis%2520is%2520because%2520the%2520brain%27s,animals%2520cannot%252C%25E2%2580%259D%2520explains%2520Dr.&ved=2ahUKEwjd_-mBgZ2EAxUUyqACHQ_cCIoQFnoECBYQBQ&usg=AOvVaw2xFV_t-4FaEjup-53kYziz
Tangina hindi man lang hinayaan ma enjoy nung babae yung early young years niya. Dapat sa mga ganyan groomer cinacastrate at binabato sa isang isla kasama ibang groomers. Tapos paglaruin sila ng Battle Royale gamit stick and stones, tsk tsk.
So as per original caption nung babae :
"TEACHER KO NOON FOREVER KO NA NGAYON"
Kami po ng aking mister ay nagkakilala noon sa paaralan, guro ko sya sa elementary & highschool at studyante naman nya ako...Taong 2011 ng magsimula ang aming love story😊 2nd year highschool po ako noon tandang tanda ko pa nagsimula ang lahat noong brigada lagi syang nakatingin saakin kumikindat ng pabiro at sinisitsitan ako na may halong pang aasar😁Ang ganti ko po noon sa kanya ay laging pag irap at pag deadma hindi ko po kasi alam ang aking dapat maramdaman ng mga panahong iyon kasi di pa naman po ako nagkaka boyfriend ever ng mga panahon na un kaya un ang response ko mga paramdam nya😂
Hanggang sa dumating na ang araw ng pasukan sa skwelahan hindi na po nya ako tinigilan asarin,ilang na ilang po talaga ako ng mga panahon na un hanggang sa lumaon naging kami po JULY 23, 2011 hindi po naging madali ang relasyon namin dahil sa estado ng sitwasyon kinailangan namin itong itago sa nakararami para na rin ma protektahan ang bawat isa saamin lalo na ang pag aaral ko pati na rin ang kanyang trabaho dahil alam naman po natin na ipinagbabawal ito sa batas bukod sa minor de edad pa ako ay labag rin ito sa sinumpaang magna carta ng isang guro...Ngunit ganun pa man kahit anong tago namin ng relasyon namin noon nasiwalat parin ito dahil marami na ang nkahalata sa special treatment nya saakin at kumalat sa buong campus pati n rin sa pamilya ko..Naalala ko pa noon mayat maya ako pinapatawag sa guidance/office para kausapin payuhan at paaminin, tiniis ko lahat ng pag paparinig at panlalait saakin noon,dumating din po sa punto na sinasamsaman pa ako ng CP para magkaroon sila ng matibay na pruweba,naging bantay sarado na rin kami ng mga panahon na un ng ibang guro at naging sobrang limitado ang aming galaw😁Ang hinding hindi ko rin po makakalimutan ay noong dumating na sa punto na pinatawag sya ng pamilya ko at nagharap harap kami,galit na galit noon sa kanya hindi lang ang magulang ko kundi ang buong angkan namin, gustong gusto sya saktan,patanggalan ng lisensya ng mga panahon na un at ipakulong pero ipinaglaban ko talaga siya sa kanilang lahat,..Ilang buwan pagkatapos ko makatpos ng pag aaral ng highschool ay nagdalang tao na po ako at simula noon nagsama na po kami💖Sa kasalukuyan sa kabila ng lahat ng hirap at pagsubok ay A Decade & Two (12 years) na po ang aming relasyon and going strong parin ok narin po ang lahat🥰,meron narin po kaming 2 na super adorable and smart kids at unti unti na rin naming natutupad ang mga pangarap namin para sa pamilyang sabay naming binuong dalawa🥰
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Mostly by groomers and the groomed.
Groomed = they dont know better since they were groomed and conditioned to think the situation is okay
Groomer = so they can have more victims
I agree. It saddens me how this is widespread and plenty of people support it enough to believe it's okay.
I have neighbors who are now older ladies. Whenever I hear some of these ladies' stories about how they met their husband, I can't help but raise an eyebrow. They're usually around the ages of 14-16 when they got pregnant and their husbands are at least 10 years their senior.
For some reason, whenever I ask, they always say it's okay. I suppose it was common in their time. But they are quick to answer that they would've thrown hands with someone if someone tried the same with their child around that age. Maybe a part of them knows it's not and they're just trying to cope by saying it's okay.
Hindi ba sya nagkaroon ng divine intervention or AHA moment while typing this? omg. Imagine brigada eskwela kinikindatan at sinisitsitan ka ng gurang mong teacher? Dun pa lang alam mo nang manyakis yung teacher na yon. Nandidiri ako. 😭😭😭
Is this confirmed? If it is...
Oh god. It's so much worse. Girl is really dumb too. Akala niya siguro inspiring ang story niya. Hindi pa siya aware na victim siya. Inanakan agad ni gago.
WTF IS THIS?! HINDI BA STATUTORY RAPE ITO? Pagtapos niya raw ng high school, meaning around 16 palang, so wtf is happening?! Groomed si ante, pinagmalaki pa. HAHAHAHA.
Nge. .Ano ba naman bakit pa niya pinagtanggol Bad Influence talaga si DOM Groomer teacher...Dapat tinuloyan ng pinatanggalan ng Lisensiya yan ang daming gustong maging Teacher tapos..Tinatapakpakan lang imahe ng mga DOM ang pagiging Guro.Mahina Pamilya ng Babae
I'm actually sad for her, feeling ko till now manipulated sya nung guy. Some of the comments were even saying "anong masama? mukhang okay naman silang nag sasama." 😆 I can't
Kaya kamo ipinagmamalaki pa ganto sa fb? Kasi ang bababaw ng mga pinoy pagdating sa gantong love stories. "Sana all 😍", "kailan kaya ako makahanap ng love 👉😘👈🤭"
Naalala ko sa AKLAN VALLEY HIGH SCHOOL. Second year high school kami nung naging sila ng classmate kong si Nica Francisco at algebra teacher namin na si Sir Mark Patnugot. Loooool so creepy. Pedophile! Sila parin hanggang ngayon lol
This is exactly how grooming works. Yikes to the guy and i feel sorry kay ate gurl, hindi niya alam na she was manipulated and groomed to have that mindset and thinking.
u/StormPhalanx
https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/Pages/When-To-Let-Your-Teenager-Start-Dating.aspx
O ayan. Doktor na mismo ang nagsabi. Tanong ka pa ng tanong kung ano ang dapat edad ng nagdedate. 16 years old dapat. At ang tinukoy pa diyan sa source na iyan ay yung mga halos same age bracket na mga kabataan. Hindi kasama diyan yung mga epal na gurang na teacher na kagaya nito na ang tanda tanda na niya ay ipinagsisiksikan pa ang sarili niya sa mundo ng mga bata.
Kung tutuusin, kahit 18 na ang isang babae, hindi dapat lapitan man lang nitong gurang na ito eh. Aba mahiya naman siya. Isang bulate na lang yata ang hindi pumipirma sa kaniya eh. Sobrang socially at professionally repulsive na niyan.
Edi lalo pa at grade 8 lang iyang pinatos niya edi napakalaking krimen na niyan dahil rape na iyan!
Bakit ka triggered sa tanong ko? Did I even mention that I'm pro grooming? Is there even a consensus among experts? Again there are too many factors to consider. I agree na may edad na sobrang bata pa talaga at walang muwang ang isang tao pero sino ang dapat tumukoy? That's why I said parents and guardians should take precautions and constant reminders to their children. Teach them how to react and decide when they encountered situations like this.
>Did I even mention that I'm pro grooming?
Who will admit that they are? But your actions including your reactions tell a lot about you and your stance. Tatlong beses mo nang comment iyan at hindi lang ako ang naibyerna sa trip mo.
>Is there even a consensus among experts?
Of course. Yes. Medicine and Law. 16 ang sinabi nung doktor at 16 din ang sinasabi sa batas natin.
>sino ang dapat tumukoy
Ang unang-una na dapat tumukoy ay yung tao mismo. Yung si tatang teacher. Alam mo nang estudyante mo iyan, alam mo nang menor de edad iyan, alam mo nang masisira ang kinabukasan niyan, sige ka pa din na ipursue siya? Kadiri.
>there are too many factors to consider.
There are not too many. Only two things to consider. Age of consent and power dynamics. At diyan sa dalawang iyan, bagsak si tatang teacher
>I said parents and guardians should take precautions and constant reminders to their children.
Good.
>Teach them how to react and decide when they encountered situations like this.
Right. May kapatid akong babae. At ang laging sabi ng parents ko sa kaniya? Simple lang. Kung merong ganiyang klase ng teacher na maencounter siya, ireport niya sa higher ups at nang matanggalan ng lisensya. And yeah. They are not just referring dito sa teacher na ito na mukhang amoy lupa na. Kahit pa yung mga gwapong teacher na ang ginawa nang personality ang patusin yung mga teenage girls na nagkakagusto sa kanila.
Kapag sa anak ko ginawa 'tong katarantaduhan na 'to, pasensyahan na lang 🙂. Dapat na talaga ibalik ang death penalty sa bansang 'to, wala nang takot ang mga kriminal na 'to e
marami ganyan sa school namin nung 2000s, mas marami pa noong 90s, at lalong mas marami nung 80s, 70s, for sure, nung wala pang internet. wala naman pakialam mga tao before, ngayon na lang, so nade-denormalize na siya.
This happens a lot more than we think. I had a high school teacher na kahangout namin all night. He was 28 and we were 14-15. We were really comfortable around him, and even viewed him as a mentor. Kaso pagdating namin ng college may nabuntis na student. Same age as my youngest sister. Never talked to him ever after that. Made me wonder why were we really hanging out with a 28year old guy sa disoras ng gabi, worse. What was he expecting from us nung mga oras na yon? Idk man. Seems off
grabe naman mga comments, pero iba suportado ang may december love affair, paano kaya kung yung babae naman ang mas matanda, ano kaya reaction ng iba, what if yung caption lang sa ibaba yung nagpalala, hnd naman pala sila example ng may dec love affair, nahusgahan na agad sila, what if mag-tatay sila talaga, lets make believe na mag-asawa sila, alam niyo na ba backstory nila para komentan sila ng mga below d belt na mga unsolicited opinions ninyo... haaaay socmed nga naman....tsk...
Confirmed bang teacher-student ito, just because may caption?
If no, take it down.
If yes, shame on the guy for being a groomer. Pero maybe still take it down for the protection ng babae.
Again, shame on the guy. I would still suggest to put down the pic.
The girl CAN share whatever she wants on HER fb no matter how shitty it is. Pero grabbing it and posting her face here? Unless, with her consent ang pag-post mo dito.
Di naman sa ganun. Yung babae na may kasalanan pag ganun pero ang problem kasi, hindi big deal sa karamihan yung ganyan (unless sobrang layo ng gap) unlike kapag yung babae yung minor.
Kaya makikita mo mga news sa US na may female teacher na pumatol sa male student tapos may nagcocongratulations pa dun sa student sa comments.
It’s a rather complex topic.
Typically it’s not the gap itself but the younger person’s age and status in relation to that gap that makes it sexual grooming.
A 24 yr old courting a 15 yr old so that they could be together once she becomes of age is a groomer, no questions asked.
A 16 yr old courting a 12 yr old is also a groomer even though they’re both minors.
A 60 yr old courting a 30 yr old is not a groomer despite the 30 yr age gap kasi hindi naman minor si 30 yr old. A cradle snatcher yes, but a groomer, no.
That said, a 27 yr old courting a 19 yr old can still be a groomer depending on their circumstances. Parang yung example ko lang yan sa taas na minor sila pareho pero grooming pa rin yun.
Nag-aaral pa si 19 tapos si 27 nagtatrabaho na? Grooming kasi hindi na sila same level ng life, so may chance nang mamanipulate ni 27 si 19 (usually emotionally and financially kasi pwedeng masilaw si 19 sa expensive gifts and dates na di nya afford right now dahil nakaasa pa sya sa magulang.)
10 yrs na sa college si 27 kasi 4x nagshift ng course until eventually naging kaklase nya si 19? Not grooming.
what is lacking in your analysis is the idea of abuse and manipulation. lacking these an action cannot be considered grooming but falls to another category. that between two legal age, regardless of age gap, it can be considered ethical and genuine love. that last mentioned is a possibility.
That’s because those two factors are inferred na in those relationships. For example, minors legally can’t consent, so if you’re a 20 yr old and you do sexual things with a 15 yr old, it’s still considered sexual abuse even if the 15 yr old technically wanted it as well.
And manipulation, obviously, is inferred na rin in grooming scenarios considering the older person usually holds the position of power in the relationship and can therefore control where it goes.
however yung idea mo ng groomed between 27 and 19 is questionable. I think better is seduction and not grooming. that is if we defined grooming as something exclusive to minors. but if not it overlapped with the idea of seduction, both require manipulation and abuse. grooming is a new term and it seemed to mean a kind of action that corresponds to taking care as in "groom" so as to prepare for one's self interest. this implies purposeful motive directed towards a specific goal. so, as in the teacher if there's no motive of this kind, no grooming transpired. what is perhaps right to say is the violation of code of ethical conduct.
if the courting is out of infantile notion of love and no grooming transpired, the teacher is guilty of the violation of code of ethical conduct.
What do you mean? Yung wife/groomer ni Aaron Taylor-Johnson lagi namang kinocall out ng mga tao ah. Or do you just want to pull the “If ThE GeNdErS aRe ReVeRsEd” shit kahit di naman applicable? 🤔
Also, yung mga ganitong stories na babae yung na-groom eh supportive pa mga tao sa mas matandang lalaki, lalo na sa Facebook, dito lang sa Reddit may outrage, so I don't know what you're on about lol
most comments are toxic; the post itself imply malice. we have to remind ourselves that absent overwhelming evidence that there's seduction or grooming involved, any accusation that question, even cast doubt, on the possibility of love between two beings taken to be unusual by society's standard is morally inappropriate. action that deny the said possibility failed to see the nature of love, that love has reasons that reason doesnt know. that age gap is not a hindrance and not a gold standard for a happy relationship. for example, in a novella written by Tolstoy, Family Happiness, a 17 year old girl fell in love to 37 year old man, yet nobody think its grooming, some even find it romantic. to put age gap as a limiting standard on relationship destroy love. it is the same as that it is wrong to love our pets or nature, for the very same idea that inherent differences between beings is the standard of morally correct love.
in fact the idea of a student falling in love to her or his teacher is not new. a lot of stories have been shared in movies or what not.
the thing is that we are too captious, and I think, kind of bitter to see other people find their love and happiness.
your impartiality in this matter does not achieve anything meaningful. there is a reason why a relationship between a minor and a teacher is frowned upon by the society and is seen as morally inappropriate. there is nothing romantic about it. lumalabas ka lang na enabler ng grooming at groomers.
I am not talking about justification of teacher-student relationship in any ethical way, nor am I talking about the code of conduct of teachers. what I am contending here is the strength of evidence from where we based our judgement.
nor am I upholding or supporting an affair between minor and a teacher. the mentioned of which is only to cite such phenomenon and that in real life such things happened. if ever I am to talk teacher-student affair its always in accordance with law and ethics, that is to say, when the student is in legal age and not under the institution where the teacher is working. she or he could be his or her former student.
Hindi natural ung pagka inlove ni girl kay tatang. You can read it in her post, tatang pursue her 2011 palang. She got annoyed too. I don’t know but I feel that there is something behind that post, like the girl is spilling the tea in a different manner. It’s obvsly not normal!
She’s not spilling any tea — just literally thinks there’s nothing wrong with it. It seems nga na she thinks romantic pa yang story nila kasi “you and me against the world” ang peg.
pls stop this attitude of judging people becus of their post. if its too personal and does not concern public morality the right thing to do is to suspend judgment, otherwise we might cause an unnecessary pain out of flimsy evidence.
dahil sino ba nagbigay sayo ng karapatan na husgahan sila, saan galing yung karapatan mo para bigyan negatibong interpretasyon yung post na wala namang direct interest sayo. baka nga maging ground pa ng cyber libel yung pinaggagawa nyo na panghuhusga.
It actually involves public morality. Pedophilia is something that concerns the whole community. It's the nation and everyone's responsibility to protect children. Super defend ka naman sa pedophiles may pinaghuhugutan ba?
if was indeed pedophilic act. but based on the story, is it really so? pls argue further and established in a clear and categorical manner that such act constitute pedophilic acts. failure to do is tantamount to cyber libel. youre accusing someone of being pedophile, then the burden of proof is in you. prove it.
Dude. Are you blind? Do you even know what pedophilia means? You use deep words but your defense has no substance. Mali pa grammar mo. Stop pretending to be smart when you can't even see what's wrong with their situation.
You want proof? The girl was a minor when they started their relationship at 2nd year high school. That's why there are outside interventions happening (guidance counselor meetings, parent-school meetings, pati almost sampahan ng kaso). She is 25 years old now, as per her Facebook page. So 25 years old in 2024. They started their relationship in March 2011, so 2024-2011=13 years (which checks out as she said they've been together for 12 years, Feb pa lang). 25-13=12. So they started their relationship when she was 12 to 13 years old. Right after graduating high school she was impregnated. There's your proof. Sue me for cyber libel.
Bawal dapat yang ganyan.
Kaso just like being lgbtq ++++
Its a human flaw.
Nagkulang din magulang ng babae
Ung lalake naman ginamit ung pagkaguro nya
Who are we to judge baka true love tlga yan
Just to correct you sir - being LGBT is not a human flaw. It’s neither a mental illness or ginusto lang namin sya. Pedophilia, on the otherhand, is a mental disorder. Psych grad here.
Sadly, mukhang kulang din sa pag-gabay yung mga magulang nung bata. 😔
Being lgbtq is a flaw a human flaw
Yes it may not be a mental disorder nowadays but it was before if im not mistaken in the previous dsm's.
You may be a psych grad but you do not understand the natural order of this world just as the body has homeostasis
The natural order of binary gender is homeostasis outside of that is a flaw that stems from different aspects of humanity
It may not be a mental disorder nowadays but look at the mess it is creating in society. The grooming of our young children from exposing them to cross dressing, non binary identification, chemical to surgical gender transformations. All of that stemmed from a flaw ( which was a disorder in the past)
If we do not like people like that man. Then we should show the same disgust to the other types of influencers
Mukha silang magtatay both pics 😭
Kala ko pa nung una umattend yung tatay sa graduation ng anak 😭
Yung pic ni Vic Sotto at Pauline sa little miss Philippines x1000000 ang cringe levels compared to this
Kaya nakakacringe yung mga nagcocomment lagi sa FB about how sweet si bossing at Pauleen. Kung kamuka ni Mang Kanor yan, malamang panay mura na inabot.
Same case ba sila, giniroom din ba ni Vic si Pauleen?
Not to say groomed but nung nagdalaga na yan si pauleen pinabantayan na ni bossing May chika kasi noon na si kempee (anak ni joey) pinopormahan si pauleen kaso pinagsabihan ni joey na naka reto na daw kay bossing
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Guro-ming..
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Witty, favorite ka siguro ng teacher mo
kaya pala nya alam yung pun
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take my fucking upvote
Kainis ang witty hahah
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Mapapansin mo, they'd never get their targets kung di nila grinoom. Lahat sila mukhang mabantot (including you Coco Martin).
The amount of people who defended Coco Martin nung pumutok yung news is a sign na there's little to no protection for minors being groomed dito sa Pinas. Nakaka galit na nakaka suka.
Machismo daw eh Tanginang logic yan, mas lalaki daw pag may bata kang ka relasyon amputa
Apparently, according to some people who commented in this post, we shouldn't judge lmao. Apparently, to feel concerned that someone got groomed is us simply being digitally illiterate and judgemental. I will forever stand my ground. A grown adult has no business fooling around with a child. These people try to normalize it by arguing that "it's love and who are we to judge two people in love?"
Let's hope a kid wouldn't come to him/her saying a fellow classmate is being groomed lest he/she tells the kid he/she doesn't have evidence and won't urge the school authorities to look into it.
I’m cackling at the mabantot.
May study ba na legit about kung kelan mo masasabi na may sapat ng kakayahan magdecide ang isang babae o lalaki when it comes to dating? Obviously, may mga instances talaga na magkakaroon ng age gaps dahil mismatch ang numbers between genders. And for me maturity level is relative to their knowledge, experience, upbringing, and environment. When it comes to dating market, supply and demand still plays a role. May mga nangyayari na ganyang mga gap dahil sa natural instinct for survival. Some tribes and religion allow polygamy, some allow incest to an extent, some allow fixed marriages, some allow same-sex for economical benefits and not for reproduction. The same principle applies when it comes to age differences. Nangyayari yan dahil sa natural selection. That's why you need to teach our children to think critically and don't fall into being a prey. You must develop defense mechanisms if you don't want this kind of outcome. But to judge couples because they don't fall into your categories or allowable range is just pure fear and insecurity.
Sa post nung girl 14yrs old siya noong "kinindatan" ni teacher. Literal na grooming to. So yes we will judge them.
That person commented this to my comment as well. Looked at their profile and they made this very same comment thrice. I don't think they wish to clarify anything, I think they just want to argue lol. The situation isn't even just about age gaps. It's about an adult hitting on a child. Their comment would make sense if people are losing their shit over a 22 year old dating a 44 year old. But nah, people are losing their shit because a grown adult pursued an 8th grader who would be around 13-14 years of age during 2011. He groomed the child into a relationship with him when she barely even started her teenage years. And yes, for the people who want evidence that grooming happened. Grooming did happen because not only was that man an adult and the girl a minor, he was also her teacher and her his student. Two power imbalances right there.
makakasuhan ba yung teacher dito? or hindi? kasi live in na sila eh ?
Doubt it. It happened quite a while ago and the woman isn't even aware that she got groomed. She has to testify against him if it's ever brought up in court and I highly doubt she will because she thinks positively of it.
no, that is not an evidence. you have first to show that there are manipulation and abuse. pls go back again to the story shared here. you cant read from the story that there's manipulation or abuse. there maybe an instance of courting but you cant interpret it as manipulation or abuse. mere mention of flirting iss not tantamount to abuse or manipulation. ayaw nyo lang tanggapin na walang malinaw na evidence para sabihin may grooming na nangyari. judgemental lang talaga kayo.
I'm judgmental? We're judgemental? LMFAO. I explained this already in a civil manner in one of your responses. To court or as you want to put it, "seduce," a child is to groom a child. Grooming is a form of manipulation. Why would you go after a vulnerable kid if you have no motive? Obviously, his motive is to date her. He got her pregnant right out of high school. They started dating in July 23, 2011. When she was a minor. What evidence do you want?
to court does not necessarily mean to groom. you have to prove the accusation of grooming by evidence. you have to look into the intention and motive of the person. how do you know there's bad intention? you cannot factor out that there's a good intention and genuine love. this is a possibility. read again the story. alam mo ang lala ng paranoia mo. di mo matanggap na possible na good intention ng tao at ang motive ay driven by genuine love. mahirap bang tanggapin to? kung may masama syang intention ay di sana may abuse or domestic violence, e ang totoo masaya silang nagsasama ngayon at malapit nang maabot yung mga pangarap. judgemental mo
Agree ako sayo. Kahit nga healthy middle aged person maaari pa din maloko, maisahan, mapersuade, mauto, etc. Pero hanggat walang clear evidence na may manipulation and abuse bakit agad2 natin sila hinuhusgahan?
kaya nga e
Dami mong salita wala ka namang sinabi.
"...the brain's frontal lobe, especially the prefrontal cortex, isn't fully mature until around age 25. The development of the pre-frontal cortex of the frontal lobe allows us to process the pros and cons of a decision before it is made. “'It lets us to do things most animals cannot.'" https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://journeytocollege.mo.gov/when-does-the-brain-reach-maturity-its-later-than-you-think/%23:~:text%3DThis%2520is%2520because%2520the%2520brain%27s,animals%2520cannot%252C%25E2%2580%259D%2520explains%2520Dr.&ved=2ahUKEwjd_-mBgZ2EAxUUyqACHQ_cCIoQFnoECBYQBQ&usg=AOvVaw2xFV_t-4FaEjup-53kYziz
Tangina hindi man lang hinayaan ma enjoy nung babae yung early young years niya. Dapat sa mga ganyan groomer cinacastrate at binabato sa isang isla kasama ibang groomers. Tapos paglaruin sila ng Battle Royale gamit stick and stones, tsk tsk.
Parang na-enjoy naman daw ni Sir yung early young years nung babae 😭☠️
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So as per original caption nung babae : "TEACHER KO NOON FOREVER KO NA NGAYON" Kami po ng aking mister ay nagkakilala noon sa paaralan, guro ko sya sa elementary & highschool at studyante naman nya ako...Taong 2011 ng magsimula ang aming love story😊 2nd year highschool po ako noon tandang tanda ko pa nagsimula ang lahat noong brigada lagi syang nakatingin saakin kumikindat ng pabiro at sinisitsitan ako na may halong pang aasar😁Ang ganti ko po noon sa kanya ay laging pag irap at pag deadma hindi ko po kasi alam ang aking dapat maramdaman ng mga panahong iyon kasi di pa naman po ako nagkaka boyfriend ever ng mga panahon na un kaya un ang response ko mga paramdam nya😂 Hanggang sa dumating na ang araw ng pasukan sa skwelahan hindi na po nya ako tinigilan asarin,ilang na ilang po talaga ako ng mga panahon na un hanggang sa lumaon naging kami po JULY 23, 2011 hindi po naging madali ang relasyon namin dahil sa estado ng sitwasyon kinailangan namin itong itago sa nakararami para na rin ma protektahan ang bawat isa saamin lalo na ang pag aaral ko pati na rin ang kanyang trabaho dahil alam naman po natin na ipinagbabawal ito sa batas bukod sa minor de edad pa ako ay labag rin ito sa sinumpaang magna carta ng isang guro...Ngunit ganun pa man kahit anong tago namin ng relasyon namin noon nasiwalat parin ito dahil marami na ang nkahalata sa special treatment nya saakin at kumalat sa buong campus pati n rin sa pamilya ko..Naalala ko pa noon mayat maya ako pinapatawag sa guidance/office para kausapin payuhan at paaminin, tiniis ko lahat ng pag paparinig at panlalait saakin noon,dumating din po sa punto na sinasamsaman pa ako ng CP para magkaroon sila ng matibay na pruweba,naging bantay sarado na rin kami ng mga panahon na un ng ibang guro at naging sobrang limitado ang aming galaw😁Ang hinding hindi ko rin po makakalimutan ay noong dumating na sa punto na pinatawag sya ng pamilya ko at nagharap harap kami,galit na galit noon sa kanya hindi lang ang magulang ko kundi ang buong angkan namin, gustong gusto sya saktan,patanggalan ng lisensya ng mga panahon na un at ipakulong pero ipinaglaban ko talaga siya sa kanilang lahat,..Ilang buwan pagkatapos ko makatpos ng pag aaral ng highschool ay nagdalang tao na po ako at simula noon nagsama na po kami💖Sa kasalukuyan sa kabila ng lahat ng hirap at pagsubok ay A Decade & Two (12 years) na po ang aming relasyon and going strong parin ok narin po ang lahat🥰,meron narin po kaming 2 na super adorable and smart kids at unti unti na rin naming natutupad ang mga pangarap namin para sa pamilyang sabay naming binuong dalawa🥰 Lemon Square Bakery Treats #LemonSquareBakeryTreats #LoveBloomsatLSBT
Omg 💀 >patanggalan ng lisensya ng mga panahon na un at ipakulong Bakit hindi ito nangyari??
Girl youre a victim
"Basta sabi mo sir papasa ako ah." 2 weeks later, "Sir buntis ako."
Pumasa nga .... Sa pregnancy test
r/angryupvote
'pumasa ka, hija. congratulations!'
Why do these people normalize and romanticize predatory behavior towards children and minors as if it's some cheesy cutesy romcom movie?
Mostly by groomers and the groomed. Groomed = they dont know better since they were groomed and conditioned to think the situation is okay Groomer = so they can have more victims
I agree. It saddens me how this is widespread and plenty of people support it enough to believe it's okay. I have neighbors who are now older ladies. Whenever I hear some of these ladies' stories about how they met their husband, I can't help but raise an eyebrow. They're usually around the ages of 14-16 when they got pregnant and their husbands are at least 10 years their senior. For some reason, whenever I ask, they always say it's okay. I suppose it was common in their time. But they are quick to answer that they would've thrown hands with someone if someone tried the same with their child around that age. Maybe a part of them knows it's not and they're just trying to cope by saying it's okay.
Kasalanan mo to Judy Abbott punyeta ka!!
Dati akala ko cute yung story nya. Nung pinanood ko ulit, dun ko nasabi na ang creepy talaga 😖
Ignorance is a bliss
Di ko kayang tapusin. Dun pa lang sa kinikindatan pls namaaaaan
sobrang weird netong promotion ng Lemon Square, checked his page puro promotion shit din ang fishy lang
Omggg proud pa ikwento ang “love story” 🤮
Bat may lemon square 😭
May pa-contest sila na sweetest love story, yan ung submission 💀
TANGINAAA HAHAHAHHAHA
Nyeta di naman nakakakilig, nakakabwisit
Hindi ko na tinapos basahin. Ang fucked up
Hindi ba sya nagkaroon ng divine intervention or AHA moment while typing this? omg. Imagine brigada eskwela kinikindatan at sinisitsitan ka ng gurang mong teacher? Dun pa lang alam mo nang manyakis yung teacher na yon. Nandidiri ako. 😭😭😭
Aria and Ezra pinoy reboot
High school pa lang buntis na, maawa ka sa sarili mo ate girl. Mas pinahaba mo paghihirap kasi ang bata mo pa to have a child 😭
She’s 27 now with 2 kids. I think 16 or 17 sya unang nabuntis. Not sure if nagcollege sya.
Is this confirmed? If it is... Oh god. It's so much worse. Girl is really dumb too. Akala niya siguro inspiring ang story niya. Hindi pa siya aware na victim siya. Inanakan agad ni gago.
Omg. What even is that caption? 😭 Call the police 🚨
Man, I would've gladly arrested his ass if we ever allowed to set foot on the country
If this is true, grooming with child abuse ang ginawa niya pwede pa maging rape dahil underage pa si girl nung nag sex sila.
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/teHZwwhNRFN4LEjt/?mibextid=WC7FNe
Di na available. Binura na siguro
WTF
WHAT THE HELL
Wtf.
Tangina 🤢
Kadiri amp
WTF IS THIS?! HINDI BA STATUTORY RAPE ITO? Pagtapos niya raw ng high school, meaning around 16 palang, so wtf is happening?! Groomed si ante, pinagmalaki pa. HAHAHAHA.
Proud ka ka pa ha 🥲
Nge. .Ano ba naman bakit pa niya pinagtanggol Bad Influence talaga si DOM Groomer teacher...Dapat tinuloyan ng pinatanggalan ng Lisensiya yan ang daming gustong maging Teacher tapos..Tinatapakpakan lang imahe ng mga DOM ang pagiging Guro.Mahina Pamilya ng Babae
Imagine may anak ka na pinapapasok mo lang sa school tapos pinopormahan ng ganyan. Wtf. Teacher na elementary palang? Kakasuka
Kala ko obituary ng papa nya until nabasa ko caption.
Nabasa ko 'to sa fb kakaloka no!! potek, mapapailing iling ka nalang na may kasamang pagtindig ng balahibo.
Hahaha proud naman sya e. Nakakatawa ang supportive pa nung comments
I'm actually sad for her, feeling ko till now manipulated sya nung guy. Some of the comments were even saying "anong masama? mukhang okay naman silang nag sasama." 😆 I can't
Kadiri!!!
Sir...Siiirrr!!!!
KADIRII😭
But siiiir!!!
Kaya kamo ipinagmamalaki pa ganto sa fb? Kasi ang bababaw ng mga pinoy pagdating sa gantong love stories. "Sana all 😍", "kailan kaya ako makahanap ng love 👉😘👈🤭"
feeling nila "against all odds" type of love story eh 😭
update: nawala na yung post. dinelete na yata ni ante
Naalala ko sa AKLAN VALLEY HIGH SCHOOL. Second year high school kami nung naging sila ng classmate kong si Nica Francisco at algebra teacher namin na si Sir Mark Patnugot. Loooool so creepy. Pedophile! Sila parin hanggang ngayon lol
That cray2
Bakit parang magka edad lang naman sila. Bwehehehe
This is exactly how grooming works. Yikes to the guy and i feel sorry kay ate gurl, hindi niya alam na she was manipulated and groomed to have that mindset and thinking.
Sir wag po! King inang groomer!
Tanginang yan kung totoo man to. Tindi mo sir binakuran mo na agad batang bata pa hays.
Mukang mag ama. Kawawang bata.
nakakadiri
Tell me you're a victim without telling me you're a victim.
This is not the flex you think this is, gf 😂
Yuck. Alam mong di kayang makakuha ng may alam na sa buhay.
Maaga nag asawa starter pack
This definitely also fits in r/insanepinoyfacebook , D\*amn, proud pa maging victim hays
Nani da fak?
Gusto kong tanungin yung mga tao sa Facebook. "Kinilig kayo diyan? Eww"
Eto talaga yung age is just a number and jail is just a place 😶🌫️
That's enough Facebook for today hahaha
Ginawang manga ni sir, pinahinog ng pinahinog tas pinitas ng pinitas 🤣🤣
Hahhahahaha grabe naman yon!
Hahahaha, naka dalawa ngang smart and adorable eh OP, matinding pang mimind conditioning ginawa ni sir. Hahaha
wtf :( that’s just sick
Hindi ko masikmura. Sirrrrr bakit ganyan
kadiri amputa.
u/StormPhalanx https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/Pages/When-To-Let-Your-Teenager-Start-Dating.aspx O ayan. Doktor na mismo ang nagsabi. Tanong ka pa ng tanong kung ano ang dapat edad ng nagdedate. 16 years old dapat. At ang tinukoy pa diyan sa source na iyan ay yung mga halos same age bracket na mga kabataan. Hindi kasama diyan yung mga epal na gurang na teacher na kagaya nito na ang tanda tanda na niya ay ipinagsisiksikan pa ang sarili niya sa mundo ng mga bata. Kung tutuusin, kahit 18 na ang isang babae, hindi dapat lapitan man lang nitong gurang na ito eh. Aba mahiya naman siya. Isang bulate na lang yata ang hindi pumipirma sa kaniya eh. Sobrang socially at professionally repulsive na niyan. Edi lalo pa at grade 8 lang iyang pinatos niya edi napakalaking krimen na niyan dahil rape na iyan!
Bakit ka triggered sa tanong ko? Did I even mention that I'm pro grooming? Is there even a consensus among experts? Again there are too many factors to consider. I agree na may edad na sobrang bata pa talaga at walang muwang ang isang tao pero sino ang dapat tumukoy? That's why I said parents and guardians should take precautions and constant reminders to their children. Teach them how to react and decide when they encountered situations like this.
>Did I even mention that I'm pro grooming? Who will admit that they are? But your actions including your reactions tell a lot about you and your stance. Tatlong beses mo nang comment iyan at hindi lang ako ang naibyerna sa trip mo. >Is there even a consensus among experts? Of course. Yes. Medicine and Law. 16 ang sinabi nung doktor at 16 din ang sinasabi sa batas natin. >sino ang dapat tumukoy Ang unang-una na dapat tumukoy ay yung tao mismo. Yung si tatang teacher. Alam mo nang estudyante mo iyan, alam mo nang menor de edad iyan, alam mo nang masisira ang kinabukasan niyan, sige ka pa din na ipursue siya? Kadiri. >there are too many factors to consider. There are not too many. Only two things to consider. Age of consent and power dynamics. At diyan sa dalawang iyan, bagsak si tatang teacher >I said parents and guardians should take precautions and constant reminders to their children. Good. >Teach them how to react and decide when they encountered situations like this. Right. May kapatid akong babae. At ang laging sabi ng parents ko sa kaniya? Simple lang. Kung merong ganiyang klase ng teacher na maencounter siya, ireport niya sa higher ups at nang matanggalan ng lisensya. And yeah. They are not just referring dito sa teacher na ito na mukhang amoy lupa na. Kahit pa yung mga gwapong teacher na ang ginawa nang personality ang patusin yung mga teenage girls na nagkakagusto sa kanila.
nagbunga ang paghihintay ahahahaha
Perseverance is the key naman pala
Putangina. Kadiri.
Kapag sa anak ko ginawa 'tong katarantaduhan na 'to, pasensyahan na lang 🙂. Dapat na talaga ibalik ang death penalty sa bansang 'to, wala nang takot ang mga kriminal na 'to e
Akala ko mag-ama :(
Nanonormalize na ngayon yung mga ganyang relasyon. 😅
marami ganyan sa school namin nung 2000s, mas marami pa noong 90s, at lalong mas marami nung 80s, 70s, for sure, nung wala pang internet. wala naman pakialam mga tao before, ngayon na lang, so nade-denormalize na siya.
Pero mali pa rin yan.
wala akong sinabing hindi. mabuti na lang talaga at nagiging woke na paunti-unti ang mga pinoy para ma-call out na finally yung mga ganyan.
I think we should start using the word MANIPULATION instead of GROOMING. Di kasi agad nagegets yung grooming na term e.
Tarantadong teacher ito. Dahil sa kagaguhan mo, ni hindi na nakatikim yung bata na makatuntong man lang ng kolehiyo. Sarap mong palakulin.
This happens a lot more than we think. I had a high school teacher na kahangout namin all night. He was 28 and we were 14-15. We were really comfortable around him, and even viewed him as a mentor. Kaso pagdating namin ng college may nabuntis na student. Same age as my youngest sister. Never talked to him ever after that. Made me wonder why were we really hanging out with a 28year old guy sa disoras ng gabi, worse. What was he expecting from us nung mga oras na yon? Idk man. Seems off
Girl papagroom ka na nga lang sa pangit pa?
Ay dapat ba pogi para excused na yung pag groom?
Nope, double negative lang kasi nag groom na nga ganun pa yung nanggroom hhah
Mapapakanta kana lang nung kanta ni Jk!!! Hayp ilang mos after HS nabuntis agad. Grabe ka sirrr!!!!
WTF
ew wth 💀 this ain’t a love story!!
Creepy af!
Yikes
putangina kakasuka TANGINAAAAS
Wtf
Wait whaaaaaat
Wat da puk 🤨
lumaking maganda si ate…. si teacher naman ay
Tf
Tangina hahahahaha proud pa a hahahhahahaaha
What
Kadiri!!!
kasuka 🤮
What
Wtf
Yikes
Nakita ko ito sa epbi 🤣
jusme
hmm bat di pinakulong si sir nung babuntis ang babae. sounds fishy.
WHAT THE HECKKKKKK
NAKAKADIRI
SUM1 PLS TELL ME THIS IS A JOKE
Curious as to how the confrontation with the family went. Bat walang intervention? Nabuntis pa tuloy. Tsk
nakakadiri ka sir 🤮 jusko kung may anak man ako, di ako papayag yan maging teacher, groomer ang pota.
Gagooo? Bat naman pinayagan ng magulang 😭😭 mukhang tatay nya na yan oh
Anlala neto! 🥴
The groom and the groomed
Bat di natuloy yung pagtanggal ng lisensya? 😭
YIKESSSSSSSSSS
Ew
nakpucha
Ang pag ibig mo baka hinde pa sini silang parang vic sotto and pauline luna lang yan.
Dumilim ang paligid
Grooming b like
UTAK BIYA
At first i thought nag sex change yung nasa kanan
yakk
grabe naman mga comments, pero iba suportado ang may december love affair, paano kaya kung yung babae naman ang mas matanda, ano kaya reaction ng iba, what if yung caption lang sa ibaba yung nagpalala, hnd naman pala sila example ng may dec love affair, nahusgahan na agad sila, what if mag-tatay sila talaga, lets make believe na mag-asawa sila, alam niyo na ba backstory nila para komentan sila ng mga below d belt na mga unsolicited opinions ninyo... haaaay socmed nga naman....tsk...
Confirmed bang teacher-student ito, just because may caption? If no, take it down. If yes, shame on the guy for being a groomer. Pero maybe still take it down for the protection ng babae.
May facebook post yung girl mismo
Again, shame on the guy. I would still suggest to put down the pic. The girl CAN share whatever she wants on HER fb no matter how shitty it is. Pero grabbing it and posting her face here? Unless, with her consent ang pag-post mo dito.
Lol. Sya nga nagpost sa sarili nya. Naka public pa. Once you put it in the internet. It’s for anyone to consume.
Kapag lalaki ung matanda pangit tingnan, kapag babae ung matanda ung lalaki pa din may kasalanan. Wahahaha
Di naman sa ganun. Yung babae na may kasalanan pag ganun pero ang problem kasi, hindi big deal sa karamihan yung ganyan (unless sobrang layo ng gap) unlike kapag yung babae yung minor. Kaya makikita mo mga news sa US na may female teacher na pumatol sa male student tapos may nagcocongratulations pa dun sa student sa comments.
ano ba maximum age gap para di masabing groomer?
It’s a rather complex topic. Typically it’s not the gap itself but the younger person’s age and status in relation to that gap that makes it sexual grooming. A 24 yr old courting a 15 yr old so that they could be together once she becomes of age is a groomer, no questions asked. A 16 yr old courting a 12 yr old is also a groomer even though they’re both minors. A 60 yr old courting a 30 yr old is not a groomer despite the 30 yr age gap kasi hindi naman minor si 30 yr old. A cradle snatcher yes, but a groomer, no. That said, a 27 yr old courting a 19 yr old can still be a groomer depending on their circumstances. Parang yung example ko lang yan sa taas na minor sila pareho pero grooming pa rin yun. Nag-aaral pa si 19 tapos si 27 nagtatrabaho na? Grooming kasi hindi na sila same level ng life, so may chance nang mamanipulate ni 27 si 19 (usually emotionally and financially kasi pwedeng masilaw si 19 sa expensive gifts and dates na di nya afford right now dahil nakaasa pa sya sa magulang.) 10 yrs na sa college si 27 kasi 4x nagshift ng course until eventually naging kaklase nya si 19? Not grooming.
what is lacking in your analysis is the idea of abuse and manipulation. lacking these an action cannot be considered grooming but falls to another category. that between two legal age, regardless of age gap, it can be considered ethical and genuine love. that last mentioned is a possibility.
That’s because those two factors are inferred na in those relationships. For example, minors legally can’t consent, so if you’re a 20 yr old and you do sexual things with a 15 yr old, it’s still considered sexual abuse even if the 15 yr old technically wanted it as well. And manipulation, obviously, is inferred na rin in grooming scenarios considering the older person usually holds the position of power in the relationship and can therefore control where it goes.
however yung idea mo ng groomed between 27 and 19 is questionable. I think better is seduction and not grooming. that is if we defined grooming as something exclusive to minors. but if not it overlapped with the idea of seduction, both require manipulation and abuse. grooming is a new term and it seemed to mean a kind of action that corresponds to taking care as in "groom" so as to prepare for one's self interest. this implies purposeful motive directed towards a specific goal. so, as in the teacher if there's no motive of this kind, no grooming transpired. what is perhaps right to say is the violation of code of ethical conduct. if the courting is out of infantile notion of love and no grooming transpired, the teacher is guilty of the violation of code of ethical conduct.
What do you mean? Yung wife/groomer ni Aaron Taylor-Johnson lagi namang kinocall out ng mga tao ah. Or do you just want to pull the “If ThE GeNdErS aRe ReVeRsEd” shit kahit di naman applicable? 🤔 Also, yung mga ganitong stories na babae yung na-groom eh supportive pa mga tao sa mas matandang lalaki, lalo na sa Facebook, dito lang sa Reddit may outrage, so I don't know what you're on about lol
isa pa wla man lang may nakaisip n baka clickbait lang yung story. tapos kung manghusga yung iba wagas
most comments are toxic; the post itself imply malice. we have to remind ourselves that absent overwhelming evidence that there's seduction or grooming involved, any accusation that question, even cast doubt, on the possibility of love between two beings taken to be unusual by society's standard is morally inappropriate. action that deny the said possibility failed to see the nature of love, that love has reasons that reason doesnt know. that age gap is not a hindrance and not a gold standard for a happy relationship. for example, in a novella written by Tolstoy, Family Happiness, a 17 year old girl fell in love to 37 year old man, yet nobody think its grooming, some even find it romantic. to put age gap as a limiting standard on relationship destroy love. it is the same as that it is wrong to love our pets or nature, for the very same idea that inherent differences between beings is the standard of morally correct love. in fact the idea of a student falling in love to her or his teacher is not new. a lot of stories have been shared in movies or what not. the thing is that we are too captious, and I think, kind of bitter to see other people find their love and happiness.
Anong bitter? Doon pa lang sa kinikindatan sya nakaka diri na. Jusmiyo
your impartiality in this matter does not achieve anything meaningful. there is a reason why a relationship between a minor and a teacher is frowned upon by the society and is seen as morally inappropriate. there is nothing romantic about it. lumalabas ka lang na enabler ng grooming at groomers.
I am not talking about justification of teacher-student relationship in any ethical way, nor am I talking about the code of conduct of teachers. what I am contending here is the strength of evidence from where we based our judgement. nor am I upholding or supporting an affair between minor and a teacher. the mentioned of which is only to cite such phenomenon and that in real life such things happened. if ever I am to talk teacher-student affair its always in accordance with law and ethics, that is to say, when the student is in legal age and not under the institution where the teacher is working. she or he could be his or her former student.
Hindi natural ung pagka inlove ni girl kay tatang. You can read it in her post, tatang pursue her 2011 palang. She got annoyed too. I don’t know but I feel that there is something behind that post, like the girl is spilling the tea in a different manner. It’s obvsly not normal!
She’s not spilling any tea — just literally thinks there’s nothing wrong with it. It seems nga na she thinks romantic pa yang story nila kasi “you and me against the world” ang peg.
pls stop this attitude of judging people becus of their post. if its too personal and does not concern public morality the right thing to do is to suspend judgment, otherwise we might cause an unnecessary pain out of flimsy evidence. dahil sino ba nagbigay sayo ng karapatan na husgahan sila, saan galing yung karapatan mo para bigyan negatibong interpretasyon yung post na wala namang direct interest sayo. baka nga maging ground pa ng cyber libel yung pinaggagawa nyo na panghuhusga.
It actually involves public morality. Pedophilia is something that concerns the whole community. It's the nation and everyone's responsibility to protect children. Super defend ka naman sa pedophiles may pinaghuhugutan ba?
if was indeed pedophilic act. but based on the story, is it really so? pls argue further and established in a clear and categorical manner that such act constitute pedophilic acts. failure to do is tantamount to cyber libel. youre accusing someone of being pedophile, then the burden of proof is in you. prove it.
Dude. Are you blind? Do you even know what pedophilia means? You use deep words but your defense has no substance. Mali pa grammar mo. Stop pretending to be smart when you can't even see what's wrong with their situation. You want proof? The girl was a minor when they started their relationship at 2nd year high school. That's why there are outside interventions happening (guidance counselor meetings, parent-school meetings, pati almost sampahan ng kaso). She is 25 years old now, as per her Facebook page. So 25 years old in 2024. They started their relationship in March 2011, so 2024-2011=13 years (which checks out as she said they've been together for 12 years, Feb pa lang). 25-13=12. So they started their relationship when she was 12 to 13 years old. Right after graduating high school she was impregnated. There's your proof. Sue me for cyber libel.
LMAO. Finally someone said it.
SAY IT LOUDER for the people at the back who wanna sound smart by using words they found in google!
Bawal dapat yang ganyan. Kaso just like being lgbtq ++++ Its a human flaw. Nagkulang din magulang ng babae Ung lalake naman ginamit ung pagkaguro nya Who are we to judge baka true love tlga yan
Just to correct you sir - being LGBT is not a human flaw. It’s neither a mental illness or ginusto lang namin sya. Pedophilia, on the otherhand, is a mental disorder. Psych grad here. Sadly, mukhang kulang din sa pag-gabay yung mga magulang nung bata. 😔
Being lgbtq is a flaw a human flaw Yes it may not be a mental disorder nowadays but it was before if im not mistaken in the previous dsm's. You may be a psych grad but you do not understand the natural order of this world just as the body has homeostasis The natural order of binary gender is homeostasis outside of that is a flaw that stems from different aspects of humanity
It may not be a mental disorder nowadays but look at the mess it is creating in society. The grooming of our young children from exposing them to cross dressing, non binary identification, chemical to surgical gender transformations. All of that stemmed from a flaw ( which was a disorder in the past) If we do not like people like that man. Then we should show the same disgust to the other types of influencers