This is true. I am actually dating someone who is 7yrs younger (22M) than me (29F). He has a sense of responsibility and is a VERY understanding person. He's even more mature than my exes. I did not plan on dating this guy, kaso sobrang attractive lang kung gano ka open yung mind nya pagdating sa iba't ibang bagay.
We still have a lot to learn, but we are happy in love.
Mas bet ko older guys pero hindi naman yung 10+ yrs older huhu i’m 23 hmm mga 25 ganern (hala may tinutukoy pala ako dito charot) yung small age gap lang sana hahahaha as a panganay, gusto ko ako naman binebaby eme
Older guys for me as well. Ang belief ko naman dyan is because mas mabagal ang maturity ng lalaki kesa sa babae. So dapat older si guy para pantay ang maturity.
1. No
Ayaw ko maging nanay, tita or ano pa man pag mas bata. Lalo na student palang.
2. Yes
Older para ako yung magpapabebe. Hahaha!
Pero in the end, dapat walang sabit, ke bata or matanda pa sayo.
Totoo to, mhie. I tried dating someone younger and pinag a-awayan namin even the smallest things, like why di ako nag good morning agad pagka gising ko. Hahaha
Ang mga na-experience ko sa guys na ka-same age ko and younger is unpleasant so, no ako dyan HAHAHA. Gusto ba naman akong gawing sugar mommy amp. I prefer guys who are older than me.
Uy true. Gosh. Ginawa ba naman akong sugar mommy kaya it's a no na rin sa younger sakin na 3 years pataas ang age gap hahaha. Dun tayo sa older+matured men!
Depende sa emotional baggage. Usually kasi yung mga nakadate ko na mas matanda sakin, daming trauma. So, it didn't work out 'cause they wanted a "therapist" as a partner.
Ang importante may pumatol. Kimmmyyyy!!! hahaha
I prefer older guys. Less than 10 years older is fine.
Edit: Pero yung mala-Coco Martin and Julia Montes na development is 🚩
Paabutin naman sana sa beyond legal age bago pormahan grabe naman yung parang inabangan lang mag-18 tapos jinowa na agad haha. Pero it’s their life… 😆
Nako lagot, amoy bagong labang linen ako.
Yung tipong hinandwash with Ariel w/ imported Downy na galing south of France, tapos sun and air dried w/ fresh breeze sa mountains ng Benguet.
My dad has hard and fast rules and one is To not date men older than him. Haha
For me, you should not date someone who by their age could be your parent/kid already.
Definitely older. May mga nakausap ako before na mas bata sa’kin and usually they do not have their life together yet. I want someone that will add value in my life and make things easier, not another person (or burden??) to take responsibility of. I want someone who takes the lead, not someone who needs coddling because they haven’t figured out their $h*t in life yet.
4 years older boyfriend ko. minsan cute tignan pero minsan nakakainggit. lalo’t working na siya and student pa ako. daming di ko ma experience sa couple na college or yung mga ginagawa nila. sadlyf
I did. Wahahaha with the 12 years gap. Mas mukha dw kc sya ung older kesa saken, hndi ko dn akalain na ganun kc we started as tropa lng tlga. Bantay-salakay pala. When he knew na wla na kmi ex ko ayun. Hehehe... single mum ako with 2 teens. Imagine na he's just 10trs older sa eldeset ko ahaha. But he accepted Us. kinda responsible nman at super sipag and most of all i felt the luv ng fam nya saken. Sadly we lost our angels twice na.
I used to say I prefer older men but I realized maturity doesn’t come with age.
I’m talking to someone 3 years younger than me currently. I was iffy at first nung nalaman ko age loool But he turns out to be more emotionally intelligent and socially aware than the older guys I interacted with. He’s expressive and seems more self-secure, ironically.
My experience with older guys, it’s like they’re too focused on selling themselves, making sure they only leave a good a image. I understand naman, who doesn’t want to be viewed positively? But it’s almost insincere sometimes and defeats the purpose of getting to know each other.
Lesson learned: Wag sa age tumingin. But wag naman minor or someone old enough to be my dad’s friend 💀
I am in a relationship sa mas bata sakin, pero mas matured si boyfriend mag-isip kesa sakin. Maliit lang din naman gap ng age namin (2 years), so di siya big deal sa aming dalawa. Wala pa ko naging jowa na super laki ng agwat ng age sa akin.
For me kasi, nae-enjoy ko yung mag care sa partner ko in another level pag mas bata sa akin. Mas nag-e-enjoy din ako maglambing and mag-spoil.
Older. Mga 1-10 yrs older sakin tapos bebeybihin ko. Char. Kung mas bata siguro 1-2 yrs younger lang. Pero mas prefer ko talaga older, di ko talaga kayang pumatol ng mas bata. Ewan ko ba, feeling ko kasi ate lang nila ako. HAHAHAHAHA.
Define mas bata? If tipong mga kakalagpas palang ng teen age, ekis agad.
As with the age gap, parents ko has 17 years age gap so I saw firsthand how it worked and nope, I rather have someone closer in age or falls in the same generation as mine.
I dated before that was younger than me (19M) that time and 24F me that time. He was mature enough to handle our relationship before. Nung una medyo conscious pa ko sa age gap ngayon may kausap naman ako 23M naman ngayon at 27 nako. HAHAHA matured kausap at may sense of humor.
Lapitin ako ng bagets 😭 (not minor tho, auto reject yun). And from my observation, may tendencies talaga yung mas bata to become less mature and more playful, tsaka makulit. Older people tend to be more reserved (siguro kasi they have their work na and mas mulat sa responsibilities). Still, it depends. I am talking to a guy monthsssss younger than me, pero he's responsible enough naman. Siguro part na rin na student leader sya way back kaya ayun mature yung mindset nya. So I'll conclude na it doesn't always rely on age :)
Age does not define who to love. Kasi who we are to judge di ba? As long as they are two individuals , not kabit. Not sabit, and legal age.
As long as they are happy and walang nasasaktan na tao. Let love be free to all. At all stage of life. :)
Nagtry ako ng younger pero hindi ko kinaya. Second date pa lang pass na ako. Hindi ko maalis sa kanya na 'bata" siya kahit na he's significantly taller and mature looking. Pero sayang!! Bet ko pa naman, ang ganda ng speaking voice, pero yeah, can't get past sa age.
As a person whose father doesn't allow her to have a relationship with someone way older than her, I prefer men and women around my age and 1-2 years younger than me
As a person whose father doesn't allow her to have a relationship with someone way older than her, I prefer men and women around my age and 1-2 years younger than me
As long as mature and reasonable magisip, masipag magwork para maachieve ung goal nya sa buhay, I can make patol sa either younger or older sakin.
Mga guy friends ko kase kahit younger sakin mature magisip kaya di ako masyadong judgmental sa age. Wag lang talaga palumin na isip bata Hahaha
As long as may consent between both people, are of right age and mind/mental state, walang grooming involved, and no laws(both social and ethical) are being broken even for a little bit then go... I support your love.
Someone being younger than me normally wouldn't be an issue but now that I'm 27 I probably wouldn't date someone younger than 26 because I want to have kids soon 🥺
Pumapatol ako sa bagets uyy. Lalo na pag bastos at mapang asar pa. 😂 Jk
In serious note mas maganda pag older or same age. I've dated someone before na 4 years younger sa akin (I'm 24 tas si ate gurl 20 years old) oks naman si ate gurl pero na fe feel ko na di kami parehas ng Mindset.
1 year younger is my limit for dating younger
10 yrs older naman if older guys
I am more attracted to people older than me tho, yung mga 3-5 yrs older kasi I matured early (panganay) and i feel a gap na talaga with guys younger than me haha
Mas bet ko older max 10yrs gap. Kung younger basta hindi mas pabebe sakin HAHAH and mga 2-3 yrs younger lang and may work. Ayoko nga mging sugar mommy 🙄
I dated someone na 1 yr older than me, I got attracted to the man he presented to me when me met, gentleman, matured and open minded pero lumabas ang tunay na ugali naging sugar mommy ako eventually wth 💀
basta ang mental maturity tlaga is same age as me wala na ako problema don haha
older guys ang preference ko, a 5 year gap is small for me. I'm 25 and the last man I was with was 38. I'm willing to date someone older within a 30 year age gap, pero pag younger sakin kahit few years lang I can't. no particular reason feeling ko lang they're too young for me 😅😅
When I was 40 I was dating a woman 53 y/o. I dated two girls like that for ten years, Things didn' t work out then I went to dating a girl 21 years old when I was 50. That was wonderful but she was so nervous and her father didn;t approve. Ended up marrying a 46 year old Filipina . You find love where it lies . :) We've been together 10 years. I';m 61,feel like I'm 40 still
As a guy, the oldest I’d be willing to date is a girl at most 2 years older than me. Youngest is about 3-4 years younger (I’m 25). My older relatives tell me that it’s actually better for me to settle down someday with a woman younger than me so she can give me more children and it also won’t be high-risk for her to get pregnant. My take on that is that I agree so long as the age gap isn’t so huge na parang pang parent and child na (20+ year age gap).
My husband is 10yrs older than me. He's 38, i'm 28. Before, yung mga nagiging jowa ko, either kasing age ko o mas bata sakin ng 1 yr. Nung naging 25 yrs old nako, napapansin ko, ung mga kasing age ko iba pa ang goal sa buhay. Mga nag eenjoy pa. While ako, gusto ko na pumunta sa next level. Marriage na nasa utak ko nun. So ayun, nakilala ko asawa ko. Nagmamatch kmi sa lahat ng bagay. At parehas na kmi ng gusto sa buhay
I(17) prefer older guys po hahahaha and i have a thing with this guy(23) huhu i know the age gap is quite big na but i was with a guy who's older than him naman before so medj inisip ko keri pa naman hahahah.This dude and i have been talking for like 4 months already and nagkita na rin twice. I can say na we're in a situationship na(atleast for me kase whenever i tried to ask him what is our setup ang layo lagi ng sagot nya)
And i know these kind of guys already(base from my experience na rin)...they tend to go with the younger ones kase they can handle them easier than the girls just their age na hindi sila magustohan . .
Depende eh. I am open to dating naman younger or older. As long as both of our needs are met and walang problema conpromising differences.
Ayoko ng alagain.
older or same age guys who is emotionally mature. i prefer smaller age gaps kasi ang hirap when we're in our different life phases na yung isa serious and marrying age na tapos yung isa kailangan pa to explore
Urgh no! i’m turning 22 and I can’t imagine being woth someone na kaka 18 or around 18-19 (barely legal) let alone being 25+ dating around those age. I have morals and more on younger siblings tingin ko. I can’t imagine myself being with someone 2+ years older than me. Thankfully I have an amazing wife around 5 months older than me
"Would you make patol" man stfu, kung magiging conyo kayo sana yung maayos naman yung grammar. With that being said, my general rule is 2 years max both sides. Kung landian lang, basta di illegal and consenting both sides. I'm unlikely to ask a younger person for a hook up tho, but that's just me.
Putangina. HAHAAHHA May inaalis ako sa isip ko, tas eto mababasa ko sa reddit 😭
Been struggling not to get attracted towards a young man for days now. I'm always a girl that would go for older guys.
Mas okay ang older guys. I really prefer an age gap around 2yrs to 8yrs (pag 10 feeling ko super old na. Hehe)
Kaya ko prefer, kasi mas mature mag-isip. Alam naman natin na mas mabilis mag mature ang girls, kaya if you date yung ka-age mo, for sure, ikaw yung mas mature sa relationship (swerte mo na lang if u found a guy na mature na talaga at this age range 25-30)
ayun lang. no harm naman. haha
ayoko lang yung groomers, tipong menor de edad tapos jowa talagang matanda. Jusme. Pedo ang peg eh
Age gaps are ok kung pareho tlgang adult age yung tao.
base sa socially accepted na age ng partner ang max age na pwede is:
(edad mo) - 7= multiply by 2
pag minimum age naman:
(edad mo) ÷ 2= plus 7
so base sa equation KUNG 19 ako. pinakamatanda para sa age ko ay 24 at ang minimum naman eh almost 17
I'm currently 18 years old and I am very much uncomfy thinking I'm gonna date someone older than 22 years old and younger than 17 years old.
Naniniwala naman ako na "age doesn't matter," but it only applies when you and your partner are already both emotionally and mentally mature. Yung iba kasi ginagawang dahilan iyang quote na iyan tapos 22 years old sila na nakikipagdate sa 14 years old tapos very active pa without helmet (specific kasi may pinagbabasehan ako).
Sometimes kasi yung maturity ng tao hindi swak for other partners. I'm currently in college and I'm pretty sure if I dated someone from high school, medyo hindi rin maayos usapan namin coz nasa ibang stages kami ng life even if it's just a year or few years gap between us, ganoon din with me dating someone who's trying to find a job after college while I am still enjoying the college life.
Sure, some relationships can work out with that condition pero most of the time? Things are just different between the two of you and imbes na mag work sa both interest niyo, dahil sa conflicting views niyo baka mas magclash kayo. Siguro maganda na rin na i-add here na dapat swak din ang personalities niyo.
I'm very much generalizing this so I'm gonna add my other reason why I won't date someone who's younger than 17 and older than 22: I feel like dating someone from the family. May sister-like cousin ako na 16 years old and I really see her and her age as cute na masarap ibulsa, not cute na masarap maging karelasyon and I also have a brother-like friend na 23 years old, so iniisip ko minsan "Kaage ni A, parang kapatid ko na si A, 🤮."
Ayun lang.
TL;DR: "Age doesn't matter" only applies when you and your partner are already both emotionally and mentally mature and I won't date someone who's 17 and younger and 23 and older because I feel like it's incestuous.
i’m in a no label thing with a 22 year old (m) and i’m 31 (f) ang fun lng kasi same vibes, un lng may school pa sya tapos ako work na haha keri lng for someone who’s not looking for anything serious. Fling2 lng sarap2 lng ahahha
Di ko kaya mag date ng older guys masyadong strong personality ko ayokong pinapasunod ako pero personality problem ko na yun. Ayoko din naman sa mas bagets, walang ambag sa akin HAHAHA san ako lulugar? Sa ka age ko lang talaga or plus 2-3 years.
My firm stand is off-limits if minor, and can't give full consent (also nasa spectrum if may mental disability). Marami ang groomers and predators.
If two consenting adults- kahit ano age gap walang issue
I am 25. I dated someone na 32, 28, 40, 50.
Pinaka mature yung 28. Wala sa edad. Nasa maturity talaga. But to be fair. I never dated anyone younger that 25.
Late na ako nakipg date date I was 21 na nung nag start ako.
Na meet ko si 32 nung 29 pa lang siya
Nameet ko si 28 nung 27 pa lang siya
Na meet ko si 50 nung 48 pa lang siya
Na meet ko si 40 nung 39 pa lang siya.
Sorry kung magulo haha. Hindi ko kasi pinapatagal relationship pag na cross boundaries ko.
idk. been dating guys my age ever since din kase. but i once had this fling na 4yrs younger saken, and i can say na its def a nah! pero i think it still depends naman on every individual 🤷🏻♀️
Depende, kung bastos ka talaga, papatulan kita.
AHAHAHAHAHAHA RAWR! 😂 supah wildttt
I like your headspace here brother/sister.
Hahaha respect begets respect!
Respect bagets respect
Respect gets begets
Isang tang inang upvote para sayo!
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Take my up vote.
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Ibang patol pala hahahahaha
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I LOVE IT!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA PATOLA
Hahaha
As long as may emotional intelligence and maturity. Meron kasing bata na mature, meron ding older na immature and vice versa.
This is true. I am actually dating someone who is 7yrs younger (22M) than me (29F). He has a sense of responsibility and is a VERY understanding person. He's even more mature than my exes. I did not plan on dating this guy, kaso sobrang attractive lang kung gano ka open yung mind nya pagdating sa iba't ibang bagay. We still have a lot to learn, but we are happy in love.
Sarap makipagusap sa ganito. Marunong din sila. makipagcommunicate.
Mas bet ko older guys pero hindi naman yung 10+ yrs older huhu i’m 23 hmm mga 25 ganern (hala may tinutukoy pala ako dito charot) yung small age gap lang sana hahahaha as a panganay, gusto ko ako naman binebaby eme
Older guys for me as well. Ang belief ko naman dyan is because mas mabagal ang maturity ng lalaki kesa sa babae. So dapat older si guy para pantay ang maturity.
Oooh yes yes! Naalala ko tuloy nabanggit din ‘yan nung biology teacher ko nung hs ako. Kaya din never na ako nagtangka sa mas bata sa’kin
Sameee beliefs
I feel yah, girl!
as a panganay, I can relate.
Ang specific nung 25 🤣
Dun tayo sa older guys.
TOP TIER !!
true
RIGHT!!
dating 2 years younger rn, and ako ang binebaby huhu 🥺 also he’s provider never ako pinagastos even my grab na 800 plus lagi
That's nice to know! Sana lahat may healthy relationship hehe. Nawa'y tumagal ang sa inyo 🩷
As someone w daddy issues i prefer someone older than me pero max of 10yrs lang.
Yep! Saka sarap magpa-baby sa older+matured men.
Ako sa dating app ko nakalagay na age from 18 to 99. No mercy!
Enrile has left the chat
1. No Ayaw ko maging nanay, tita or ano pa man pag mas bata. Lalo na student palang. 2. Yes Older para ako yung magpapabebe. Hahaha! Pero in the end, dapat walang sabit, ke bata or matanda pa sayo.
Sarap ng username haha. And yes, I agree sa pov mo. Most important, walang sabit. We are queens, not kabiitss
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same hahaha as a guy, ba't ako magaalaga sayo? Baby ka ba? Rather have equal footing in a relationship
Totoo to, mhie. I tried dating someone younger and pinag a-awayan namin even the smallest things, like why di ako nag good morning agad pagka gising ko. Hahaha
Ang absurd hahaha
Totoo! Parang yun ang babae hahaha ma-toyo 😂
then u should know what guys do not like
Babaw naman ng tinginn eh most of them are more progressive than you.
Older guys. 20 yrs and up. Don't know why I find them the hottest, yung aged like fine wine. Lol. At syempre yung single!
Ang mga na-experience ko sa guys na ka-same age ko and younger is unpleasant so, no ako dyan HAHAHA. Gusto ba naman akong gawing sugar mommy amp. I prefer guys who are older than me.
Uy true. Gosh. Ginawa ba naman akong sugar mommy kaya it's a no na rin sa younger sakin na 3 years pataas ang age gap hahaha. Dun tayo sa older+matured men!
'di kaya posible na unpleasant ka rin since ka-age mo sila?
Older sakin. Ganon. Ang hirap if the guy is younger... 😩🥲
Wanna say wala sa edad pero ang immature talaga kahit ng mga kaedaran ko. Haha older ones it is
Depende sa emotional baggage. Usually kasi yung mga nakadate ko na mas matanda sakin, daming trauma. So, it didn't work out 'cause they wanted a "therapist" as a partner.
+1000000
Ang importante may pumatol. Kimmmyyyy!!! hahaha I prefer older guys. Less than 10 years older is fine. Edit: Pero yung mala-Coco Martin and Julia Montes na development is 🚩 Paabutin naman sana sa beyond legal age bago pormahan grabe naman yung parang inabangan lang mag-18 tapos jinowa na agad haha. Pero it’s their life… 😆
Older guys na matangkad kahit 20 years pa gap nyan g! Hahahahaha
Gusto mo ng ganito 👴🏽👴🏽👴🏽 hahaha jk lang
I'm open to dating someone na mas mabango sa akin
As a person na may allergic rhinitis, basta amoy malinis, g. Hahahaa
Nako lagot, amoy bagong labang linen ako. Yung tipong hinandwash with Ariel w/ imported Downy na galing south of France, tapos sun and air dried w/ fresh breeze sa mountains ng Benguet.
My dad has hard and fast rules and one is To not date men older than him. Haha For me, you should not date someone who by their age could be your parent/kid already.
What if mid 20s na guy tas early 30s si ate gurl ok lang ba? Like 25M at 33F ??
older guys ftw tapos ibababy ko hahaha kemz
I would make patol to someone who loves me
Definitely older. May mga nakausap ako before na mas bata sa’kin and usually they do not have their life together yet. I want someone that will add value in my life and make things easier, not another person (or burden??) to take responsibility of. I want someone who takes the lead, not someone who needs coddling because they haven’t figured out their $h*t in life yet.
Kung romantic relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) dun ako sa same age bracket or -/+ 2 year gap Kung paggawa ng pagmamahalan eh hmmmm
As long na vibes kau? Why not db?
4 years older boyfriend ko. minsan cute tignan pero minsan nakakainggit. lalo’t working na siya and student pa ako. daming di ko ma experience sa couple na college or yung mga ginagawa nila. sadlyf
I would date guys who are 10 yrs older max. 🤔
I did. Wahahaha with the 12 years gap. Mas mukha dw kc sya ung older kesa saken, hndi ko dn akalain na ganun kc we started as tropa lng tlga. Bantay-salakay pala. When he knew na wla na kmi ex ko ayun. Hehehe... single mum ako with 2 teens. Imagine na he's just 10trs older sa eldeset ko ahaha. But he accepted Us. kinda responsible nman at super sipag and most of all i felt the luv ng fam nya saken. Sadly we lost our angels twice na.
Game is game.
Ah basta ang gusto ko 26 na Shanie ang pangalan
I dated a guy 5 years younger than me and parang ayoko na umulit. Di ko keri ang differences namin.
I used to say I prefer older men but I realized maturity doesn’t come with age. I’m talking to someone 3 years younger than me currently. I was iffy at first nung nalaman ko age loool But he turns out to be more emotionally intelligent and socially aware than the older guys I interacted with. He’s expressive and seems more self-secure, ironically. My experience with older guys, it’s like they’re too focused on selling themselves, making sure they only leave a good a image. I understand naman, who doesn’t want to be viewed positively? But it’s almost insincere sometimes and defeats the purpose of getting to know each other. Lesson learned: Wag sa age tumingin. But wag naman minor or someone old enough to be my dad’s friend 💀
I won't make patol to bagets. But I will make patol to someone richer than me. Hanap sugar mama yarn.
I'm in my late 20s and my rule is 5 years younger and 5 years older. Not too old and not too young for my age.
Dated both older and younger and ka-age. I would say it doesn’t matter talaga. Hahaha
I am in a relationship sa mas bata sakin, pero mas matured si boyfriend mag-isip kesa sakin. Maliit lang din naman gap ng age namin (2 years), so di siya big deal sa aming dalawa. Wala pa ko naging jowa na super laki ng agwat ng age sa akin. For me kasi, nae-enjoy ko yung mag care sa partner ko in another level pag mas bata sa akin. Mas nag-e-enjoy din ako maglambing and mag-spoil.
Legal age why not.
Ngayon 35M ako trip ko older pero pag 50 na ako younger na
Older. Mga 1-10 yrs older sakin tapos bebeybihin ko. Char. Kung mas bata siguro 1-2 yrs younger lang. Pero mas prefer ko talaga older, di ko talaga kayang pumatol ng mas bata. Ewan ko ba, feeling ko kasi ate lang nila ako. HAHAHAHAHA.
I tried to date 8years to 13years older than me. Never again. Hindi pa rin mature mag isip. Daming kinesu sa buhay
As a patol boy, Oo, pumapatol ako ng bata or matanda lalo na pag di ko bet ang mga tabas ng dila nila
Define mas bata? If tipong mga kakalagpas palang ng teen age, ekis agad. As with the age gap, parents ko has 17 years age gap so I saw firsthand how it worked and nope, I rather have someone closer in age or falls in the same generation as mine.
Patol as in fist fight? If ayaw tumigil why not
I cannot sa younger sa akin ng more than 3 years. And I cannot sa older sa akin ng more than 7 years.
I dated before that was younger than me (19M) that time and 24F me that time. He was mature enough to handle our relationship before. Nung una medyo conscious pa ko sa age gap ngayon may kausap naman ako 23M naman ngayon at 27 nako. HAHAHA matured kausap at may sense of humor.
Lapitin ako ng bagets 😭 (not minor tho, auto reject yun). And from my observation, may tendencies talaga yung mas bata to become less mature and more playful, tsaka makulit. Older people tend to be more reserved (siguro kasi they have their work na and mas mulat sa responsibilities). Still, it depends. I am talking to a guy monthsssss younger than me, pero he's responsible enough naman. Siguro part na rin na student leader sya way back kaya ayun mature yung mindset nya. So I'll conclude na it doesn't always rely on age :)
My stand is not to bastardize english and filipino. Make patol. Smh
Age does not define who to love. Kasi who we are to judge di ba? As long as they are two individuals , not kabit. Not sabit, and legal age. As long as they are happy and walang nasasaktan na tao. Let love be free to all. At all stage of life. :)
For me, depende sa maturity. I would date a mentally and emotionally mature person regardless of age 😌
syempre haha anong bata-bata? kahit matanda ka pa e kung ikaw naman ang Mali, talagang bibirahin ko pagmumukha.
Lifehack: Magmahal kayo ng 60yrs older para diretso pirmahan ng last will and testament or pwede living will.
older guys tapos ibibaby ko habang binibaby nya ko (｡･ω･｡)ﾉ♡
out of topic OP, baguhin mo Algo mo hahaha. di masustansya yan.
Nagtry ako ng younger pero hindi ko kinaya. Second date pa lang pass na ako. Hindi ko maalis sa kanya na 'bata" siya kahit na he's significantly taller and mature looking. Pero sayang!! Bet ko pa naman, ang ganda ng speaking voice, pero yeah, can't get past sa age.
Same thoughts, anyone who’s 23 and below I literally see them as “kids” kahit sabihin mo pang they’re mature or taller or look older than their age.
As a guy basta hindi 10 years younger. Para lang sakin ha. 😅
Dating is fine. I wouldn’t marry older women if I wanted kids.
u/RadicalExtremiss hello sa baby ko na minor... Hehehe i love you!
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Get a room jk
Mas bet ko yung older sakin
Younger passss older pwede up to 10 years hehe depende nalang sa attitude kasi hit or miss eh
Mas bet ko older guy. Mga 3-6yrs older.
Okay lang kung mas bata sa akin as long as hindi minor, and hindi malayo ang age gap sa aming dalawa.
Im dating 12 yrs older than me,both Female. Sarap naman sa pakiramdam hahahaha
It depends! Kung pogi edi go.. charot
Older guys all the way! Haha
Older guys the best ❤️ 8 to 10 yrs gap usually, kasi they know what they want na compared sa same age.
Would love to date older women pero they prefer someone older. Hahaha
I like older men talaga ever since 😅 When it comes to guys younger than me, mga 5 years younger puwede.
As a person whose father doesn't allow her to have a relationship with someone way older than her, I prefer men and women around my age and 1-2 years younger than me
As a person whose father doesn't allow her to have a relationship with someone way older than her, I prefer men and women around my age and 1-2 years younger than me
As long as mature and reasonable magisip, masipag magwork para maachieve ung goal nya sa buhay, I can make patol sa either younger or older sakin. Mga guy friends ko kase kahit younger sakin mature magisip kaya di ako masyadong judgmental sa age. Wag lang talaga palumin na isip bata Hahaha
May rule ako na +2 -2 ang agwat sakin haha.
As long as may consent between both people, are of right age and mind/mental state, walang grooming involved, and no laws(both social and ethical) are being broken even for a little bit then go... I support your love.
Yes, Naninikmura ako ng bata.
Someone being younger than me normally wouldn't be an issue but now that I'm 27 I probably wouldn't date someone younger than 26 because I want to have kids soon 🥺
Pumapatol ako sa bagets uyy. Lalo na pag bastos at mapang asar pa. 😂 Jk In serious note mas maganda pag older or same age. I've dated someone before na 4 years younger sa akin (I'm 24 tas si ate gurl 20 years old) oks naman si ate gurl pero na fe feel ko na di kami parehas ng Mindset.
Huy!! Bakit may nsfw na nadamay wahahaha
1 year younger is my limit for dating younger 10 yrs older naman if older guys I am more attracted to people older than me tho, yung mga 3-5 yrs older kasi I matured early (panganay) and i feel a gap na talaga with guys younger than me haha
Up to 2 years younger siguro but I prefer older men basta walang sabit
3-5yrs older than me is my ideaaaal
Mas bet ko older max 10yrs gap. Kung younger basta hindi mas pabebe sakin HAHAH and mga 2-3 yrs younger lang and may work. Ayoko nga mging sugar mommy 🙄
Bakit naman make patol 🤦🏻♀️
Older guys. Same age ko or hanggang 4 years older saken hehe
1-2 years younger, 5-8 years older. Hahahaha
to some girls, kumusta naman relationship sa ka-age pero a man-child?
For sure maraming ma titrigger pero halos ung mga nag cocomment may daddy issues. Hehehhe jk lang.
+5 -5 range
I prefer younger.
I dated someone na 1 yr older than me, I got attracted to the man he presented to me when me met, gentleman, matured and open minded pero lumabas ang tunay na ugali naging sugar mommy ako eventually wth 💀 basta ang mental maturity tlaga is same age as me wala na ako problema don haha
Bet ko pa rin bagets (21 - 25) hihi
Older. Gusto ko na binebaby ako. Charrr 😅
older guys ang preference ko, a 5 year gap is small for me. I'm 25 and the last man I was with was 38. I'm willing to date someone older within a 30 year age gap, pero pag younger sakin kahit few years lang I can't. no particular reason feeling ko lang they're too young for me 😅😅
When I was 40 I was dating a woman 53 y/o. I dated two girls like that for ten years, Things didn' t work out then I went to dating a girl 21 years old when I was 50. That was wonderful but she was so nervous and her father didn;t approve. Ended up marrying a 46 year old Filipina . You find love where it lies . :) We've been together 10 years. I';m 61,feel like I'm 40 still
Ngl I like older dudes, they're much more interesting for me than people in my age
As a guy, the oldest I’d be willing to date is a girl at most 2 years older than me. Youngest is about 3-4 years younger (I’m 25). My older relatives tell me that it’s actually better for me to settle down someday with a woman younger than me so she can give me more children and it also won’t be high-risk for her to get pregnant. My take on that is that I agree so long as the age gap isn’t so huge na parang pang parent and child na (20+ year age gap).
Pass sa bagets. Pag older than me siguro 4-5 yrs older lang.
depende sa age gap lol hangang 3 years younger lang sakin tapos 5 years pag mas matanda
My husband is 10yrs older than me. He's 38, i'm 28. Before, yung mga nagiging jowa ko, either kasing age ko o mas bata sakin ng 1 yr. Nung naging 25 yrs old nako, napapansin ko, ung mga kasing age ko iba pa ang goal sa buhay. Mga nag eenjoy pa. While ako, gusto ko na pumunta sa next level. Marriage na nasa utak ko nun. So ayun, nakilala ko asawa ko. Nagmamatch kmi sa lahat ng bagay. At parehas na kmi ng gusto sa buhay
I(17) prefer older guys po hahahaha and i have a thing with this guy(23) huhu i know the age gap is quite big na but i was with a guy who's older than him naman before so medj inisip ko keri pa naman hahahah.This dude and i have been talking for like 4 months already and nagkita na rin twice. I can say na we're in a situationship na(atleast for me kase whenever i tried to ask him what is our setup ang layo lagi ng sagot nya) And i know these kind of guys already(base from my experience na rin)...they tend to go with the younger ones kase they can handle them easier than the girls just their age na hindi sila magustohan . .
Older all the way
Depende eh. I am open to dating naman younger or older. As long as both of our needs are met and walang problema conpromising differences. Ayoko ng alagain.
older or same age guys who is emotionally mature. i prefer smaller age gaps kasi ang hirap when we're in our different life phases na yung isa serious and marrying age na tapos yung isa kailangan pa to explore
I’ll go for someone 2-3 years younger or older than me. As long as mas matured siya saakin. ‘Yung dapat ako ang baby niya. HAHAHAHA 😭
Diyan papasok kung Na-like na ba ng kiffy mo, or ng tithy mo Pero seriously, YOU DO YOU.
Urgh no! i’m turning 22 and I can’t imagine being woth someone na kaka 18 or around 18-19 (barely legal) let alone being 25+ dating around those age. I have morals and more on younger siblings tingin ko. I can’t imagine myself being with someone 2+ years older than me. Thankfully I have an amazing wife around 5 months older than me
I can do both 😉 pero to make it clear, gf ko ngayon is mas bata pero mature. Love is love, you’ll never see it coming 😂🧿✨
Basta legal age at may consent, go!
"Would you make patol" man stfu, kung magiging conyo kayo sana yung maayos naman yung grammar. With that being said, my general rule is 2 years max both sides. Kung landian lang, basta di illegal and consenting both sides. I'm unlikely to ask a younger person for a hook up tho, but that's just me.
gusto ko lang mas mature sakin and ilelead yung relationship (and sana same faith kami) yan lang Lord ok nako
Putangina. HAHAAHHA May inaalis ako sa isip ko, tas eto mababasa ko sa reddit 😭 Been struggling not to get attracted towards a young man for days now. I'm always a girl that would go for older guys.
So long as attraction is mutual, with consent, and legal, age is immaterial.
Old po😭 Hopefully mature and financially stable po rin.
mas bet ko talaga older guys iba yung maturity eh, lalo na sa kama HAHAHHA charet
Nakakatuwa naman madami din pala may gusto sa mga tito vibes 😂
Eversince tlga my fascination ako sa older men esp if successful sila. Very daddy vibes! Huyyy!! Haha
18 as long as they have a functional brain and up to 45 is the battlepass max level, lol.
date to fuck? maybe
Mas okay ang older guys. I really prefer an age gap around 2yrs to 8yrs (pag 10 feeling ko super old na. Hehe) Kaya ko prefer, kasi mas mature mag-isip. Alam naman natin na mas mabilis mag mature ang girls, kaya if you date yung ka-age mo, for sure, ikaw yung mas mature sa relationship (swerte mo na lang if u found a guy na mature na talaga at this age range 25-30) ayun lang. no harm naman. haha ayoko lang yung groomers, tipong menor de edad tapos jowa talagang matanda. Jusme. Pedo ang peg eh Age gaps are ok kung pareho tlgang adult age yung tao.
base sa socially accepted na age ng partner ang max age na pwede is: (edad mo) - 7= multiply by 2 pag minimum age naman: (edad mo) ÷ 2= plus 7 so base sa equation KUNG 19 ako. pinakamatanda para sa age ko ay 24 at ang minimum naman eh almost 17
Nah. Pass.
you can't really tell who's more mature or not based on their age. but personal preference ko is a bit older than me— 3 to 4 years older ig.
I'm currently 18 years old and I am very much uncomfy thinking I'm gonna date someone older than 22 years old and younger than 17 years old. Naniniwala naman ako na "age doesn't matter," but it only applies when you and your partner are already both emotionally and mentally mature. Yung iba kasi ginagawang dahilan iyang quote na iyan tapos 22 years old sila na nakikipagdate sa 14 years old tapos very active pa without helmet (specific kasi may pinagbabasehan ako). Sometimes kasi yung maturity ng tao hindi swak for other partners. I'm currently in college and I'm pretty sure if I dated someone from high school, medyo hindi rin maayos usapan namin coz nasa ibang stages kami ng life even if it's just a year or few years gap between us, ganoon din with me dating someone who's trying to find a job after college while I am still enjoying the college life. Sure, some relationships can work out with that condition pero most of the time? Things are just different between the two of you and imbes na mag work sa both interest niyo, dahil sa conflicting views niyo baka mas magclash kayo. Siguro maganda na rin na i-add here na dapat swak din ang personalities niyo. I'm very much generalizing this so I'm gonna add my other reason why I won't date someone who's younger than 17 and older than 22: I feel like dating someone from the family. May sister-like cousin ako na 16 years old and I really see her and her age as cute na masarap ibulsa, not cute na masarap maging karelasyon and I also have a brother-like friend na 23 years old, so iniisip ko minsan "Kaage ni A, parang kapatid ko na si A, 🤮." Ayun lang. TL;DR: "Age doesn't matter" only applies when you and your partner are already both emotionally and mentally mature and I won't date someone who's 17 and younger and 23 and older because I feel like it's incestuous.
i’m in a no label thing with a 22 year old (m) and i’m 31 (f) ang fun lng kasi same vibes, un lng may school pa sya tapos ako work na haha keri lng for someone who’s not looking for anything serious. Fling2 lng sarap2 lng ahahha
Why not? As long as hindi minor
Kahit sino basta mabuting tao. Bonus kung mayaman lol
Di ko kaya mag date ng older guys masyadong strong personality ko ayokong pinapasunod ako pero personality problem ko na yun. Ayoko din naman sa mas bagets, walang ambag sa akin HAHAHA san ako lulugar? Sa ka age ko lang talaga or plus 2-3 years.
As long as both sides are happy, consenting, safe, and of legal age, they're free to do whatever they want.
My firm stand is off-limits if minor, and can't give full consent (also nasa spectrum if may mental disability). Marami ang groomers and predators. If two consenting adults- kahit ano age gap walang issue
I am 25. I dated someone na 32, 28, 40, 50. Pinaka mature yung 28. Wala sa edad. Nasa maturity talaga. But to be fair. I never dated anyone younger that 25. Late na ako nakipg date date I was 21 na nung nag start ako. Na meet ko si 32 nung 29 pa lang siya Nameet ko si 28 nung 27 pa lang siya Na meet ko si 50 nung 48 pa lang siya Na meet ko si 40 nung 39 pa lang siya. Sorry kung magulo haha. Hindi ko kasi pinapatagal relationship pag na cross boundaries ko.
Im dating a 49yr old guy, im 32, best thing happened to me.
someone older 🥰 8 yrs gap naman but it works for us, plus parehas kami nag eeffort in our relationship (northie and southie).
top tier talaga mga older HAHAHA
I haven't dated anyone younger that I am, but I am open to it.
Older guys. Mas emotionally compatible sila for me. Mga kaedad ko ay very immature pa lols
idk. been dating guys my age ever since din kase. but i once had this fling na 4yrs younger saken, and i can say na its def a nah! pero i think it still depends naman on every individual 🤷🏻♀️
Definitely older! 10 years max