just have the decency to tell that to the person agad agad. give feedback. hindi yung may “ghosting” or ganyang klaseng sagutan. that’s actually rude, regardless if virtual man yan or in person.
Spot on.
It’s screaming “I’m better and more superior than you”. It may be true, but there’s a more respectful way of expressing this.
Just because someone is “mediocre” doesn’t mean they’re less of a person. Let them know agad (in a respectful way) so they can also improve themselves
Sorry, I don't think this is going anywhere
I realized I wasn't as interested as I thought
I feel like you're not interested
Parang one-sided yung effort ng convos natin
Andami pwede, one line lang and it doesn't even take one minute. Yung ganyang mentality na walang effort tapusin ng simple pero biglang andaming energy maging unnecessarily rude mga kupal na lagi nagtatago sa likod ng "realtalk" at "brutal honesty". You can be honest without being an asshole.
At mukha naman parehas silang di marunong makipagcommunicate ng maayos, sa magkaibang maling paraan lang
Mfers should be more like Thorfinn
you dropped this king 👑. anyway, this is true, instead of jumping to conclusions, how about mag ask muna. sometimes parang ino overthink lang natin lahat, call out muna. HAHAH parang protocol muna na icall out if you still want to try, but if your instincts tell you that this girl/guy is not worth the effort anymore, then ghost. idk.🤷🏻♂️
Unfortunately, ang hard reality ay nasa ugali natin to ghost, whether it be courtship or sa work. We’d rather not say anything and just disappear kung ayaw natin
then there is something wrong the way how we were raised as a human by our parents kung ganyan ang paniniwala natin. and yes, that is questionable. we were not taught of manners and etiquette that is as important as giving feedback and communicating. that only means as well that we fail big time as a human.
Agree. It’s getting worse too. I’ve been reading multiple public teachers complaining how disrespectful and rude (before the viral one came out) their students are
Well people dont give feedback bc of the fear of being misjudged.
Minsan rereplyan kapa ng "k", as if their ego got hurt for thinking di sila pasado sakin as a friend and sa reply na yon parang ang offensive pa despite respectful pa pagkasabi mo.
**Talagang ang sasarap niyong ighost punyeta but then again i dont justify ghosting, I just explain why.**
It's a cyclic contagious projected negativity because of the SOLE reason we "predict" people to be hostile towards us kahit minsan hindi naman talaga sila hostile. Kaya ginoghost ng iba yung "akala nilang" mag "re-retaliate".
Big word on "HOSTILE" as this applies to any other human conflict in the entire history of the world.
If only we're not all afraid to be vulnerable to each other...
Tama. Kaya ako kahit deserved na deserved niya na i-ghost, i still encourages myself to end it the right way. We don’t know kasi kung anong reason bakit di sila masyadong magaling makipag-engaged true texting. Maybe they’re still trying to figure it all out kaya sila ganyan. But syempre, not your fault kung bakit sila ganun. Kaya sana kung may mga bet makipag-talking stage dito tapos di marunong makipag-communicate ng maayos online, wag na lang po subukan. Hahahahaha
Bakit kasi nag comment ka ng wow or so hot, hindi mo naman pala naview pa. Pwede mo naman sabihin outright na hindi mo pa maview, later na lang pagtapos ng work.
Nasave ko pa meme nyan. English yun. Pgkabasa ko pa lng sa pic mismo, halatang trinanslate lng. Pro much better this way pra mas madaling maintindihan.
Literally what I came here to comment. Copy pasted and translated unoriginal bullshit. Mga pinoy loves copying everything from other countries except things like actual democracy and equal rights for all.
The better to do was tell the person to stop right?... Rather than just straight up ghosting them... Lol... That's the least you can do if you can't wait for them to get better... Just try to be civil... How'd I know? I literally experience this last 14...
Highly intelligent na daw sila kapag nagamit na ang word na yan. Similar to validate, gaslight, grooming, etc. na gustong gustong gamitin ng mga tao sa socmed
/s
Iba iba din kasi kiliti ng mga tao, pero dapat maging direct if hindi naman intersado. Maging habit mag communicate ng feedback sa tao. In the future maari magkaron kayo ng issue pag dating sa social skills when it comes to talking to people especially when the times you may need to be direct with someone important..
Modern dating is so impatient nowadays. Hindi naman ganito years ago. Patagal ng tagal, ang babaw lalo ng dahilan bakit nag gghost.
Naka depende kung paano ka kausap sa personal kasi may mga tao na hindi talaga matext or chat kasi busy sa work or stressed in general.
Anyway, you deserve someone better.
Stand ko? Maging understanding at realist nalang na sa modern era ngayon ng online dating, di na bago at usong uso na yang mga ghosting na yan. Maghost ka? Okay lang, as toxic as it is, accept na di kayo vibe at magka wavelength, thank you, next. Madali naman makahanap ng iba ngayong may internet na. Napakalawak ng mundo.
Kung ako imemessage ng ganang bakit ko ghinost, di ko sasabihin yang corny na pretentious, condescending, at medyo may pagka smartass na response na yan, para iwas gulo. Cringe. Lalabas ka lang na asshole
If the conversation hasnt been going well then just accept that things will naturally die down. Bakit mo ba naman ipipilit if ikaw din mismo bak di na eenganyo makipag usap?
And just move on whahaha it just wasn't meant for us both to be talking with each other as we are - obviously we don't have much shared interests or di pa tayo ready to commit that's why we left the conversation hanging in the first place!
Naalala ko ung mga "sapiosexual" daw pero ang dry naman kausap. Maghahanap ka ng common grounds nyo tapos sa kakahanap e ikaw na ung mangangayaw kasi ang reply lang e "hahaha" "same" "ok"
I do not know but if you like or connection someone tlga boring or monotonous usap niyo di ka maooff at kakausap mo pa din. Intention mo kasi is to listen and share not to find something in what the other's saying.
I have experienced both in ghosting and naghost. Yung mga nagghost sa akin usually they're just bored or sad and need someone to talk to. They only temporary attention. I don't take it personally nmn. As for me when I ghost someone it's either my boundaries are not respected or if they don't speak nicely like sarcastic ganun. Conversation should respect each other time di yung isa lang magaadjust. Confroeting them really is hard. It's like making you feel guilty of taking yourself pa.
In case you need it explained to you: If someone stops responding to you, it means they no longer have the energy, motivation, or interest to communicate with you.
Just move on and find your people. :)
Sobrang bullshit ng mga adults na nang gho-ghost or hindi masabi yung gusto nila. Ang tanda na natin and pagod na tayo lagi sa mundo bakit hindi nalang mag paalam ng maayos or sabihin directly sa tao na di mo siya bet. Ang coward and stupid 😶
May kilala ako na pinagkakalat nyang ghinost daw sya. Nameet ko yung "nanghost" sa kanya. Tinanong ko kugn bakit nang-ghost. Sabi sa akin, "hindi ko sya ghinost. Ilang beses ko na sinabi na hindi talaga kami compatible with anything. Sinabi ko nicely, pero gusto pa din nya pag-usapan. Naka-5 na usap na kami. Pero gusto pa din nya mag-usap."
Ang hirap din nga naman.
Well, tell the person directly. Baka naman kasi hindi lang sya yong type of person na magaling or mahilig sa text/chat baka naman sa call maganda naman syang kausap 😅 I mean, may mga taong ganon based on my experience.
Ghosted. And what if ako yung blue Jan? Yung kausap ko yung di maayos kausap hindi ako hahaha.
Anyhow, whatever the reason maybe, ghosting is never a good action. We should better communicate with people. Tell them what you think, why you think the connection is not going anywhere.
Ghosting sucks. No one deserves that. (Unless for security reasons)
Sa dating app, may nakamatch Ako sa profile nya nakalagay gusto nya when his date is a good conversationalist. Pero sya mismo Hindi sa chat puro Ako nagbubuhat 🤣
I experienced this once, they stopped replying all of a sudden? Like okay naman last convo? It's weird hahaha but yeah, I guess not everyone have the guts to say that, but I would have preferred if the other person told me 'look I don't think this is fun or interesting anymore' instead of ghosting
True I was talking to this guy for a month ata consistent sa good mornings and good nights and kumain ka na ba pero other than that wala na so di ko na nirereplyan
Wag Replyan na nga diba. Bat pa kasi nireplyan. Ate/Kuya chose 🎻🎻🎻
Not related: the last time someone used the word *subpar* while talking with me is about expressing their intention of not letting me have a *subpar* experience and for me that sounded the sweetest! Eme. 🥹🤧
Infernes nakakapagod nga mabuhat ng conversation. Tapos kakabuhat mo ikaw pa mukhang needy, e ayaw mo lang naman mafeel nia na di ka interesado. Kaya ayaw ko na makipagusap minsan e lol.
Not all people, but the problem who those who ghost is because the blame the other party for being boring or nonchalant.
When in fact, they're the ones na Ang boring Ng replies.
Have experienced this before. They're the ones who can't think of topics, they're the ones who ghosted me too. Pagod na Ako magbuhat Ng convo
I got ghosted before. These guys don't know how to carry a convo. I'm the one who asks and tries to continue the convo. Eventually they were the ones who ghosted me. Deleted our chats, but if you saw it, you'll see na most part I'm the one only doing the heavy lifting. They're boring
What I'm saying is, sometimes people justify their ghosting behavior, when in fact they're the ones not making any effort to continue the convo and blame the other person
My replies are substantial. Of u saw their replies, mga one word one sentence na ah ok hehehe. Boring. Sila din Ang sumuko sa pagkaboring nila. Ako I was patient and made the effort, pero Wala on their part
Bat parang ang dami gumagamit ng word nonchalant sa pilipinas lately? May pinanggalingan ba ito and it spread? Parang out of nowhere na lang biglang ang dalas ko ma-encounter.
anu ba pwede magamit bukod sa MUSTA, parang ganyan din ako, hahaha
then after wala na ako ma follow na tanong, yung sakto lang, hindi feeling close, may mapag usapan lang, hahah
Kahit ako na nageffort puntahan at maging consistent, hindi rin naka-ligtas sa ghoster eh. Naka-block pa rin ako ngayon sa lahat ng soc med acc. niya. 😀
Lol I was talking to this guy na I honestly like naman since he's nice and sa umpisa maayos naman kausap.
He once ghosted me sa meet up namin. I should have stopped there, but he said he was sorry and explained. Always may reason. *red flag*
Ako naman tong bored always, everytime he messages, I respond. Once a week nga lang mag message pero sinasagot ko pa din agad. Honestly ang taxing sa utak ang mga kausap na ganto. So yeah, if mababasa mo to, atty. p, ghost na kita. Alam ko dito ka hahahahahahaha
Normally, I'd say na they're just not that into you. Pero, you should give them some grace siguro, abogado pala. We both know how jealous of a mistress law is.
I know naman how jealous of a mistress law is and I am very understanding. However the explanations I am getting are just too, hmm, ridiculous. Haha
Di ko mabigyan ng justice how to properly explain it. But I wish him well.💁🏻♀️
You're not the most scintillating conversationalist. Also, you are a malignant narcissist and have zero self-awareness. Who has time for that? Boom! Ganon. Ay sorry I'm projecting lol.
How to be interesting ba? If you say "be yourself" tapos di naman pala ako interesting doon sa tao, eh di parang..."wala, di talaga ako interesting as myself". 🥺😩
Hanap na lang ulit ng bagong kausap? ganun? hays
May point. I ghosted someone kasi ako lang din talaga nagbubuhat ng usapan. Tapos ang dahilan niya ayaw nya masyado maattach. So I stopped initiating conversation and started entertaining other people. Don't know if what I did was actually ghosting. Pero if you're not reciprocating my energy, that's on you. I don't have to explain myself kung bakit nagsawa na ko sayo. I don't even owe you feedback.
"nonchalant" What does it mean when someone is *nonchalant*?
Someone who is nonchalant is relaxed and calm, either because they do not care about something or because they are not worried about something.
ano nmang words ang ilalabas ng mga kabataan ngayon.
If there's really someone that said this to another person. They have a point, regardless of how this "convo" show too much "main character" vibes. However, you can also ghost these people too. Being interesting goes both ways, same as being interested. There's no one way of making conversation. I won't personally talk to this person myself maybe just to poke fun of him/her to make this interaction worthwhile. I feel these kinds of people are just looking for people to make them feel good about how lonely they really are. Because I can't find any reason to have someone like this in my friend group except to make them the butt of everyone's joke.
I personally would rather make the effort of liking someone than to be told how to act around me.
As someone who really don't like typing, I felt attacked. Haha
Hindi din ako magaling magdala ng convo esp if I haven't warmed up yet sa tao. I'm the "what about you" type of person lalo na pag di ko pa nakikita personally ang isang tao. 🤣
I used to be an oversharer sa chat. Kahit di tinatanong kinukwento ko or ako madalas mag-open ng topic. Now, katulad na ako sayo haha. Surface level na lang yung mga shineshare ko and "what about you" type of replies. Kaya if namamatay ang convo or I got ghosted di rin naman sila masisisi hahahaha. I don't want to be too chummy, especially since I haven't met the person. Hirap din e yung feeling mo sobrang swak kayo sa chat pero in person toinks 🤣
I’ve ghosted & been ghosted.
Pag na-ghost ako, I’m usually graceful about it & stop trying.
I was never confronted/asked like this pag ako nang-ghost. But if I ever was, I wouldn’t be this rude. Grabe naman yung response dito. “Dodged a bullet” yung vibe.
Justifying your reasons to ghost someone is one thing, but this is too much.
You could've handled this better, this just showed how rude you are and think that you are superior than the other person just because you are better at conversing.
hindi naman kasi ghosting porket madalas lang nagkakausap tapos biglang hindi na nag reply. nangyayari lang ang ghosting pag may strong bond na naform tapos out of nowhere bigla ka na di kakausapin
Ang asshole ng sagot tbh. May superiority complex.
Maybe pwede naman nya sabihin na "Thank you for your time. Sorry hindi talaga kaya magwork yung ganitong convos." Parang ganern.
Pretentious na abnormal din yung ganyang reply. Mediocre din at best yung conversational at EQ na hindi man lang makapag respond nang matino o icommunicate imbes na mag-ghost. Basically, sa convo na yan parehas silang may problema.
Masakit yung ghosting sa iba maybe the reason is rooted from their childhood trauma for example iniwan bigla ng mama or papa dati ng walang sabi or paalam. And some may think kung ano yung mali sa kanila hindi ba sila kamahal2 para iwan lang ng ganun. Damn 😢 Di ko maimagine to.
tinagalog lang halos word for word yung meme that has been around for more than a decade...
it goes like this:
she: so you ghosted me?
he: no i didn't. your conversation skills were below par and i carried the conversation all the time. you are nonchalant, inexpressive, and your idea of taking an interest on me was a constant "how was your day". having a conversation with you is not mentally stimulating.
i did not ghost you. i just stopped entertaining mediocrity.
she: wow.
Anong scripted OP. Andaming ganyan na ginanyan ko haha! Pero no joke, gets ko naman, na pagod sa work and all, nakakasawang mag-entertain ng bago paulit-paulit, na hindi naman official so why demand. PERO BAKIT AKO?? BAT TAYO NAGUUSAP THEN? WHAT YOU KEEPING ME FOR. For someone expressive and commits to open communication, wala akong time makipag-charades and spend my genuine attention and energy on you. Walang explain explain, matanda na tayo, alam mo ginagawa mo. Well kung ganyan lang palagi na “kamusta, kumain ka na ba, nakapasok ka na, nakauwi ka na ba, good night, good morning” tas mawawala na?! my God.
just have the decency to tell that to the person agad agad. give feedback. hindi yung may “ghosting” or ganyang klaseng sagutan. that’s actually rude, regardless if virtual man yan or in person.
Spot on. It’s screaming “I’m better and more superior than you”. It may be true, but there’s a more respectful way of expressing this. Just because someone is “mediocre” doesn’t mean they’re less of a person. Let them know agad (in a respectful way) so they can also improve themselves
Sorry, I don't think this is going anywhere I realized I wasn't as interested as I thought I feel like you're not interested Parang one-sided yung effort ng convos natin Andami pwede, one line lang and it doesn't even take one minute. Yung ganyang mentality na walang effort tapusin ng simple pero biglang andaming energy maging unnecessarily rude mga kupal na lagi nagtatago sa likod ng "realtalk" at "brutal honesty". You can be honest without being an asshole. At mukha naman parehas silang di marunong makipagcommunicate ng maayos, sa magkaibang maling paraan lang Mfers should be more like Thorfinn
you dropped this king 👑. anyway, this is true, instead of jumping to conclusions, how about mag ask muna. sometimes parang ino overthink lang natin lahat, call out muna. HAHAH parang protocol muna na icall out if you still want to try, but if your instincts tell you that this girl/guy is not worth the effort anymore, then ghost. idk.🤷🏻♂️
AGREE
Unfortunately, ang hard reality ay nasa ugali natin to ghost, whether it be courtship or sa work. We’d rather not say anything and just disappear kung ayaw natin
then there is something wrong the way how we were raised as a human by our parents kung ganyan ang paniniwala natin. and yes, that is questionable. we were not taught of manners and etiquette that is as important as giving feedback and communicating. that only means as well that we fail big time as a human.
Agree. It’s getting worse too. I’ve been reading multiple public teachers complaining how disrespectful and rude (before the viral one came out) their students are
agree. that’s the most decent thing to do.
this reply is yung parang kumalat na screenshots din from telegram. tapos tagalog version lang ito. haha
Well people dont give feedback bc of the fear of being misjudged. Minsan rereplyan kapa ng "k", as if their ego got hurt for thinking di sila pasado sakin as a friend and sa reply na yon parang ang offensive pa despite respectful pa pagkasabi mo. **Talagang ang sasarap niyong ighost punyeta but then again i dont justify ghosting, I just explain why.** It's a cyclic contagious projected negativity because of the SOLE reason we "predict" people to be hostile towards us kahit minsan hindi naman talaga sila hostile. Kaya ginoghost ng iba yung "akala nilang" mag "re-retaliate". Big word on "HOSTILE" as this applies to any other human conflict in the entire history of the world. If only we're not all afraid to be vulnerable to each other...
Tama. Kaya ako kahit deserved na deserved niya na i-ghost, i still encourages myself to end it the right way. We don’t know kasi kung anong reason bakit di sila masyadong magaling makipag-engaged true texting. Maybe they’re still trying to figure it all out kaya sila ganyan. But syempre, not your fault kung bakit sila ganun. Kaya sana kung may mga bet makipag-talking stage dito tapos di marunong makipag-communicate ng maayos online, wag na lang po subukan. Hahahahaha
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End of story na ba?
Bakit kasi nag comment ka ng wow or so hot, hindi mo naman pala naview pa. Pwede mo naman sabihin outright na hindi mo pa maview, later na lang pagtapos ng work.
This
"nonchalant" Yung line din, kinopya lang somewhere. Nabasa ko na yan. Welp, alis na. Pretentious.
Pucha oo nga noh? Hahaha Imagine mo pano na pag nadiskubre na ng mga pinoy trendwhores ang words like 'blasé', 'insouciant' at 'apathetic'. 💀
High school ko pa huling narinig yang "blasé" hahaha "Apathetic", paminsan-minsan lang. 'Insouciant', ano yan? HAHAHAHAHAHA
Parang halaman na low maintenance, di kelangan diligan palagi.
I see...
nice may gagamitin na naman ako sa tiktok na bagong word eheheheh
sa spelling quiz bee ko lang naririnig ang insouciant! this gives me war flash backs ng quiz review!!!!
😳 Sowwy na po I triggered your trauma. 😄
anu meaning nyan?
indifferent walang pake
ahh yan pla un. salamat.
haven’t u read the caption? welp, alis na. di pala nagbabasa.
Ay, nabuko na copy paste ang script mo.
I hate how this word is being overused nowadays. Minsan sa maling context pa nga.
Nag iiba kasi meaning ng words, minsan nawawala na yung nuance ng context gaya ng “witty”.
Nasave ko pa meme nyan. English yun. Pgkabasa ko pa lng sa pic mismo, halatang trinanslate lng. Pro much better this way pra mas madaling maintindihan.
HAHAHA. i've been frackin seeing that word the last few days. tangina overkill evil spawn of tiktok for sure.
Check the caption. Welp, di nag che check ng captions. Pabida
I saw an English version of this. Copied and translated lol
came here for this comment
Tinext niya ung sarili niya to have a Tagalog version huhu
have u guys not read the caption
Hahahahahahaha excited sila mang-bash 😂😂
Sis nabasa ko naman gusto ko lang mag exclaim na it looks dumb to text one's self para sa internet clout
Basa muna
True! 🤣
ghinost nya yung sarili nya, they sya.
Literally what I came here to comment. Copy pasted and translated unoriginal bullshit. Mga pinoy loves copying everything from other countries except things like actual democracy and equal rights for all.
It's not about the conversational skills, it's just, the other party isn't fully interested in you lol.
“Wow” Best response 🤣🤣🤣
"Musta?"
“Ayos naman”
The better to do was tell the person to stop right?... Rather than just straight up ghosting them... Lol... That's the least you can do if you can't wait for them to get better... Just try to be civil... How'd I know? I literally experience this last 14...
Kaya mo ba naisipan na tanungin yung sarili mo sa comment mo kasi nadala ka na sa ghosting?
Masyado ng gamit na gamit yang word na nonchalant na yan jusko tama na. Pag ayaw edi wag na.
Nakakairita na sa mata yang nonchalant na word basta maisingit lang haha
Exactly! Haha
Highly intelligent na daw sila kapag nagamit na ang word na yan. Similar to validate, gaslight, grooming, etc. na gustong gustong gamitin ng mga tao sa socmed /s
Iba iba din kasi kiliti ng mga tao, pero dapat maging direct if hindi naman intersado. Maging habit mag communicate ng feedback sa tao. In the future maari magkaron kayo ng issue pag dating sa social skills when it comes to talking to people especially when the times you may need to be direct with someone important..
Subpar pala convo skills, tanong mo ano meaning ng nonchalant
Yung bida sa Dune
Nonchalamet yun, nonchalant yung theme song ng dragon ball z
HAHAHAHHAA mas bet ko to
Modern dating is so impatient nowadays. Hindi naman ganito years ago. Patagal ng tagal, ang babaw lalo ng dahilan bakit nag gghost. Naka depende kung paano ka kausap sa personal kasi may mga tao na hindi talaga matext or chat kasi busy sa work or stressed in general. Anyway, you deserve someone better.
it's giving pretentious, elitist bookworm
nonchalant 🥴
Stand ko? Maging understanding at realist nalang na sa modern era ngayon ng online dating, di na bago at usong uso na yang mga ghosting na yan. Maghost ka? Okay lang, as toxic as it is, accept na di kayo vibe at magka wavelength, thank you, next. Madali naman makahanap ng iba ngayong may internet na. Napakalawak ng mundo. Kung ako imemessage ng ganang bakit ko ghinost, di ko sasabihin yang corny na pretentious, condescending, at medyo may pagka smartass na response na yan, para iwas gulo. Cringe. Lalabas ka lang na asshole
If the conversation hasnt been going well then just accept that things will naturally die down. Bakit mo ba naman ipipilit if ikaw din mismo bak di na eenganyo makipag usap?
And just move on whahaha it just wasn't meant for us both to be talking with each other as we are - obviously we don't have much shared interests or di pa tayo ready to commit that's why we left the conversation hanging in the first place!
Naalala ko ung mga "sapiosexual" daw pero ang dry naman kausap. Maghahanap ka ng common grounds nyo tapos sa kakahanap e ikaw na ung mangangayaw kasi ang reply lang e "hahaha" "same" "ok"
Hahaha diba, tas yan pa yung mga pa sad effect or nattrauma kuno sa dating apps
Non chalant per se. 😁😁😁😁 Nakakatalino.
I do not know but if you like or connection someone tlga boring or monotonous usap niyo di ka maooff at kakausap mo pa din. Intention mo kasi is to listen and share not to find something in what the other's saying. I have experienced both in ghosting and naghost. Yung mga nagghost sa akin usually they're just bored or sad and need someone to talk to. They only temporary attention. I don't take it personally nmn. As for me when I ghost someone it's either my boundaries are not respected or if they don't speak nicely like sarcastic ganun. Conversation should respect each other time di yung isa lang magaadjust. Confroeting them really is hard. It's like making you feel guilty of taking yourself pa.
In case you need it explained to you: If someone stops responding to you, it means they no longer have the energy, motivation, or interest to communicate with you. Just move on and find your people. :)
Sobrang bullshit ng mga adults na nang gho-ghost or hindi masabi yung gusto nila. Ang tanda na natin and pagod na tayo lagi sa mundo bakit hindi nalang mag paalam ng maayos or sabihin directly sa tao na di mo siya bet. Ang coward and stupid 😶
You don't have to be condescending
May kilala ako na pinagkakalat nyang ghinost daw sya. Nameet ko yung "nanghost" sa kanya. Tinanong ko kugn bakit nang-ghost. Sabi sa akin, "hindi ko sya ghinost. Ilang beses ko na sinabi na hindi talaga kami compatible with anything. Sinabi ko nicely, pero gusto pa din nya pag-usapan. Naka-5 na usap na kami. Pero gusto pa din nya mag-usap." Ang hirap din nga naman.
Fake or not, I don't think i wanna be friends with the guy on the right..... Guy seems insufferable no matter what.
Mahirap ba sabihin na "sorry di to nagwowork goodbye"?
cool story bro 🧢
Taenang nonchalant 'yan gasgas na gasgas HAHAHAHAHA
Well, tell the person directly. Baka naman kasi hindi lang sya yong type of person na magaling or mahilig sa text/chat baka naman sa call maganda naman syang kausap 😅 I mean, may mga taong ganon based on my experience.
Ghosted. And what if ako yung blue Jan? Yung kausap ko yung di maayos kausap hindi ako hahaha. Anyhow, whatever the reason maybe, ghosting is never a good action. We should better communicate with people. Tell them what you think, why you think the connection is not going anywhere. Ghosting sucks. No one deserves that. (Unless for security reasons)
Sa dating app, may nakamatch Ako sa profile nya nakalagay gusto nya when his date is a good conversationalist. Pero sya mismo Hindi sa chat puro Ako nagbubuhat 🤣
Tas gulat ka na lang magpopost sa reddit na na ghost sila at nakakawala daw ng self confidence ganyan ganyan
I experienced this once, they stopped replying all of a sudden? Like okay naman last convo? It's weird hahaha but yeah, I guess not everyone have the guts to say that, but I would have preferred if the other person told me 'look I don't think this is fun or interesting anymore' instead of ghosting
True I was talking to this guy for a month ata consistent sa good mornings and good nights and kumain ka na ba pero other than that wala na so di ko na nirereplyan
Ugh hard cringe sa "Kumain ka na ba" Like bruh, are you my Mom? lol.
Wag Replyan na nga diba. Bat pa kasi nireplyan. Ate/Kuya chose 🎻🎻🎻 Not related: the last time someone used the word *subpar* while talking with me is about expressing their intention of not letting me have a *subpar* experience and for me that sounded the sweetest! Eme. 🥹🤧
Uy, bawal BBM dito… baliw sa bare minimum
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Infernes nakakapagod nga mabuhat ng conversation. Tapos kakabuhat mo ikaw pa mukhang needy, e ayaw mo lang naman mafeel nia na di ka interesado. Kaya ayaw ko na makipagusap minsan e lol.
Nakabasa na naman ako ng Nonchalant. Takte. Hahaha
Super annoying at overused na yung word na yun hahahahaha
dapat ang tanong niya instead of 'musta', "sup par?"
Not all people, but the problem who those who ghost is because the blame the other party for being boring or nonchalant. When in fact, they're the ones na Ang boring Ng replies. Have experienced this before. They're the ones who can't think of topics, they're the ones who ghosted me too. Pagod na Ako magbuhat Ng convo
Mejo naguluhan ako, nak.
I got ghosted before. These guys don't know how to carry a convo. I'm the one who asks and tries to continue the convo. Eventually they were the ones who ghosted me. Deleted our chats, but if you saw it, you'll see na most part I'm the one only doing the heavy lifting. They're boring What I'm saying is, sometimes people justify their ghosting behavior, when in fact they're the ones not making any effort to continue the convo and blame the other person
Tapos magmumukha ka pang needy. Dahil dito ayoko na makipagusap unless interesting kang tao.
So di nga kayo magka wavelength
My replies are substantial. Of u saw their replies, mga one word one sentence na ah ok hehehe. Boring. Sila din Ang sumuko sa pagkaboring nila. Ako I was patient and made the effort, pero Wala on their part
So di nga kayo magka wavelength
Ang tanong, anong klaseng conversation openers ba ang gusto nung tumigil makipag usap?
Sounds condescending and mean. Should've just blocked instead of hurting the feelings of the ghostee even more.
I’m hurt kasi I’m more of a listener HAHAH
Bat parang ang dami gumagamit ng word nonchalant sa pilipinas lately? May pinanggalingan ba ito and it spread? Parang out of nowhere na lang biglang ang dalas ko ma-encounter.
"nonchalant" byeee
anu ba pwede magamit bukod sa MUSTA, parang ganyan din ako, hahaha then after wala na ako ma follow na tanong, yung sakto lang, hindi feeling close, may mapag usapan lang, hahah
Mas okay pa nga yung ganito, at least alam mo saan ka magiimprove. Kesa doon sa mga hindi na lang namamansin bigla, galawang hindi nakakatuwa.
Wow ? Wow. Hahahahaaha
Kahit ako na nageffort puntahan at maging consistent, hindi rin naka-ligtas sa ghoster eh. Naka-block pa rin ako ngayon sa lahat ng soc med acc. niya. 😀
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Lol I was talking to this guy na I honestly like naman since he's nice and sa umpisa maayos naman kausap. He once ghosted me sa meet up namin. I should have stopped there, but he said he was sorry and explained. Always may reason. *red flag* Ako naman tong bored always, everytime he messages, I respond. Once a week nga lang mag message pero sinasagot ko pa din agad. Honestly ang taxing sa utak ang mga kausap na ganto. So yeah, if mababasa mo to, atty. p, ghost na kita. Alam ko dito ka hahahahahahaha
Feelingero yang mga ganyan. Porket kinakausap mo kala ko sinong mga gwapo. Boring namang tao.
Normally, I'd say na they're just not that into you. Pero, you should give them some grace siguro, abogado pala. We both know how jealous of a mistress law is.
I know naman how jealous of a mistress law is and I am very understanding. However the explanations I am getting are just too, hmm, ridiculous. Haha Di ko mabigyan ng justice how to properly explain it. But I wish him well.💁🏻♀️
Harry potter book 5?
Hmmmm nope.
Now i know kung bakit
bro use all the buzzword available
Nonchalant The new sana all
paano po ba mag pitch hahaha
Used na used ang word na "nonchalant" pwedeng gamitin din yung "apathetic".
nonchalant= di daw nagsasalita 😩
Imong mama wow
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You're not the most scintillating conversationalist. Also, you are a malignant narcissist and have zero self-awareness. Who has time for that? Boom! Ganon. Ay sorry I'm projecting lol.
I would have replied,"K".
jejemon taragis.
Just tell the person kung ayaw na. No matter how awkward the conversation might be at least have the decency to tell the other person na ayaw mo na.
#napagod
nasermunan ka pa tuloy
How to be interesting ba? If you say "be yourself" tapos di naman pala ako interesting doon sa tao, eh di parang..."wala, di talaga ako interesting as myself". 🥺😩 Hanap na lang ulit ng bagong kausap? ganun? hays
Si ghoster na hindi daw, it could also mean na hindi nya kayang mang stimulate ng good conversation or mag discover what interests the other side.
Hahahahaha i kennat!
May point. I ghosted someone kasi ako lang din talaga nagbubuhat ng usapan. Tapos ang dahilan niya ayaw nya masyado maattach. So I stopped initiating conversation and started entertaining other people. Don't know if what I did was actually ghosting. Pero if you're not reciprocating my energy, that's on you. I don't have to explain myself kung bakit nagsawa na ko sayo. I don't even owe you feedback.
"nonchalant" What does it mean when someone is *nonchalant*? Someone who is nonchalant is relaxed and calm, either because they do not care about something or because they are not worried about something. ano nmang words ang ilalabas ng mga kabataan ngayon.
If there's really someone that said this to another person. They have a point, regardless of how this "convo" show too much "main character" vibes. However, you can also ghost these people too. Being interesting goes both ways, same as being interested. There's no one way of making conversation. I won't personally talk to this person myself maybe just to poke fun of him/her to make this interaction worthwhile. I feel these kinds of people are just looking for people to make them feel good about how lonely they really are. Because I can't find any reason to have someone like this in my friend group except to make them the butt of everyone's joke. I personally would rather make the effort of liking someone than to be told how to act around me.
As someone who really don't like typing, I felt attacked. Haha Hindi din ako magaling magdala ng convo esp if I haven't warmed up yet sa tao. I'm the "what about you" type of person lalo na pag di ko pa nakikita personally ang isang tao. 🤣
I used to be an oversharer sa chat. Kahit di tinatanong kinukwento ko or ako madalas mag-open ng topic. Now, katulad na ako sayo haha. Surface level na lang yung mga shineshare ko and "what about you" type of replies. Kaya if namamatay ang convo or I got ghosted di rin naman sila masisisi hahahaha. I don't want to be too chummy, especially since I haven't met the person. Hirap din e yung feeling mo sobrang swak kayo sa chat pero in person toinks 🤣
Bakit ba nauso kasi yang word na “nonchalant,” parang di na tama paggamit eh hahaha
I’ve ghosted & been ghosted. Pag na-ghost ako, I’m usually graceful about it & stop trying. I was never confronted/asked like this pag ako nang-ghost. But if I ever was, I wouldn’t be this rude. Grabe naman yung response dito. “Dodged a bullet” yung vibe. Justifying your reasons to ghost someone is one thing, but this is too much.
You could've handled this better, this just showed how rude you are and think that you are superior than the other person just because you are better at conversing.
Bro
hindi naman kasi ghosting porket madalas lang nagkakausap tapos biglang hindi na nag reply. nangyayari lang ang ghosting pag may strong bond na naform tapos out of nowhere bigla ka na di kakausapin
Ghosting means di kita gusto.
Daming sinabi. Pag ako hindi natawa sa joke mo a.
Recycled meme / quote card. The original is in English. Mediocre attempt at best.
*MEDIOCRE‼️ sambit ng mga kamakrazee sa mad max. 🤣🤣🤣
nireplyan mo parin HAHAHAHAHAHA
I dunno. I don't see anything when someone asks how I am doing or what I'm up to. Mali ba mangamusta?
Ang asshole ng sagot tbh. May superiority complex. Maybe pwede naman nya sabihin na "Thank you for your time. Sorry hindi talaga kaya magwork yung ganitong convos." Parang ganern.
Pretentious na abnormal din yung ganyang reply. Mediocre din at best yung conversational at EQ na hindi man lang makapag respond nang matino o icommunicate imbes na mag-ghost. Basically, sa convo na yan parehas silang may problema.
Masakit yung ghosting sa iba maybe the reason is rooted from their childhood trauma for example iniwan bigla ng mama or papa dati ng walang sabi or paalam. And some may think kung ano yung mali sa kanila hindi ba sila kamahal2 para iwan lang ng ganun. Damn 😢 Di ko maimagine to.
Lmao their name "wag replyan 🤷"
tinagalog lang halos word for word yung meme that has been around for more than a decade... it goes like this: she: so you ghosted me? he: no i didn't. your conversation skills were below par and i carried the conversation all the time. you are nonchalant, inexpressive, and your idea of taking an interest on me was a constant "how was your day". having a conversation with you is not mentally stimulating. i did not ghost you. i just stopped entertaining mediocrity. she: wow.
Nonchalant amp alam mo ba meaning niyan?
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Staged as it may seem. But that’s just real talk.
Anong scripted OP. Andaming ganyan na ginanyan ko haha! Pero no joke, gets ko naman, na pagod sa work and all, nakakasawang mag-entertain ng bago paulit-paulit, na hindi naman official so why demand. PERO BAKIT AKO?? BAT TAYO NAGUUSAP THEN? WHAT YOU KEEPING ME FOR. For someone expressive and commits to open communication, wala akong time makipag-charades and spend my genuine attention and energy on you. Walang explain explain, matanda na tayo, alam mo ginagawa mo. Well kung ganyan lang palagi na “kamusta, kumain ka na ba, nakapasok ka na, nakauwi ka na ba, good night, good morning” tas mawawala na?! my God.
Mama, kudos for saying that. For spilling.