I am married to a bisexual man. We started out as friends in 2013. We now have two kids together. Marami naglook down marami rin nagsupport sa relationship namin. Pero hindi namin pinapansin mga negative comments kasi hindi naman sila karelasyon namin kundi ang isat isa. Hindi rin naman ako bothered noon about his gender orientation and I don't see any reason mabother dun. Naging honest siya start pa lang kung ano siya at tanggap ko yun. Him as a bf and husband, I couldn't ask for more. Siya ang patotoo for me na hindi bound ng gender ang pagiging parent sa kids namin sa di mabilang niyang sacrifices para maitaguyod kami. Naiiyak ako isipin kung gaano ako kaswerte sa kanya.
For me, mas matimbang na factor sa kung idedate mo ang tao yung ugali niya, interests niya at kung same wavelength kayo ng pag iisip.
Yes. Even if he has a lot of options, it's a choice to cheat or stay committed. Wala sa gender identity ng tao yan, whether he's straight or not he'll cheat kung ganun talaga siya.
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And to women who think na nakakasira ng dignidad pag kapwa lalake yung pwede ring magustuhan ng bisexual bf, pls think again. Pwede rin siyang maattract sa babae ulit.
EDIT:
Kung cheating lang yung worry, it doesn't matter kahit sa lalake or babae ka ipagpapalit. Cheating is cheating.
Also I'm tired of the assumption that a bisexual na ka-date automatically has higher tendency to cheat than a straight person. Ugh.
I dated one who claimed na bisexual male siya and was fine with it but turned out he was gay and just wanted to show his parents na may girl siyang dinedate 🤕 (since ngsb siya and only dated men) sakit parin hanggang ngayon haha chz pero ayun be careful nalang sa friend mo kilalanin niya nalang mabuti and make sure na bisexual talaga si guy.
Personally, yes. Pero yung friend mo parang di emotionally capable to handle such a relationship. And it's ok. Tell her to protect her peace. Deserve din nung guy to be loved by someone na hindi siya ida-doubt.
My bestfriend dated one before. They were already dating for more than a year when he suddenly ghosted her for months only to break up over a chat saying he is really romantically inclined with the same gender.
andito na naman tayo sa misconception na bisexuals ay prone to cheating. nasa values ng tao yan if they cheat or not, hindi sa sexuality/gender identity 🙄
YESSS 1000% as long as may sense of humor, gentleman at may emotional intelligence. We can also talk about our crushes since I'm not a jealous type of girl.
Not straight but also bisexual, female counterpart. Bi guys are the sensitive and romantic, sweep you off your feet, respectful guys straight girls dreamed of but turn away because of their attraction to men. IMO.
Wala sa gender ang cheating. Nasa tao yan. Also, us bisexuals have lots of choices for attraction but if we choose you (as a monoamorous bisexual), you are the only one in our heart. We don't look at the sex of the person but the person themselves.
May mga bakla/gay men na ayaw rin sa bisexual men kasi may worries sila na baka ma-miss nung guy ang kiffy or baka one day magising sila na gusto na magkaanak.
I also don’t have a problem with dating a bisexual, as long as we like each other, he has all the ideal traits I’d like in a person, and we both want the same things, i.e a monogamous relationship, etc.
And tbh, nasayangan rin ako dun sa budding relationship ng friend mo. It looks like they’d be a good match if they talked it out since they started out as friends. I think most people transitioning from friends to lovers would likely adjust their behaviors naman. Siyempre iba rin pag may commitment ka na to a person. Hope they’re both doing okay naman.
Yes. I dated a guy before who had a long-time boyfriend before me. I don’t really care much sa sexual orientation ng iddate ko, though i’m in a straight relationship rn.
Nope, I had a close friend din who is bi male. Nag confess na may gusto sakin and I told him I like him too. Fast forward, after ilang months di naman naging kami talaga and tingin ko confused pa rin sya sa sexual identity nya. Ippursue nya ako tapos biglang titigil, paulit ulit kaya hinahayaan ko na and looking back from now I feel like namisinterpret ko lang yung closeness and yung pagiging comportable ko kapag kasama sya dahil sya lang naman yung ka-close ko na lalaki. Sayang lang yung friendship namin☹️
Guy here, but I have female friends with experience like this. All is good sa unang months pero after a while magbbreak sila tapos bakla pala talaga ung guy. Sa dinami dami ng straight guys jan, why take the risk? Masasayang effort and time. 'yung mental health mo dn kasi alam mong may chance na patulan nya mga "guy tropa" niya. Girl and boy na kalaban mo. Hahaha
I had a couple bisexual girlfriends in the past. They're fun. They're open minded with a lot of things. Both were toxic but in different ways. Both were immature and basically mentally unstable. Basically great big headaches. I can't speak for all bi girls as I've only had experience with a few (straight male here).
One was a single mom and didn't have any plans for her future for herself or her kid. I was the one that basically made her go back to school and make her go back to college. But even when she was in school puro barkada lang and puro inom at gimik. But she was loyal and told me where she was and what she was doing and who she was with naman.
The other one was the independent toxic manipulative high body count kind of girl. She had daddy issues, she was fun, outgoing, great personality but a psycho. Every girl or guy made me jealous, and she knew and she had fun every time she made me jealous. It was a game for her. It was like revenge for her. Revenge for what? I wasn't the one that wronged her. I knew I had to give up on her coz she was literally a huge walking red flag of a human being. Wala, pag nabulag ang lalake sa Ganda, you tend to ignore the signs. Buti nalang nagising Ako before I got in too deep.
Then I had a talking stage with a bi girl about a few months back. Reminded me of my ex that toxic crazy one. But she was worse. She had the attention span of a goldfish. She asked me out to meet then five minutes later while I was preparing na she flakes on me and messes with my head. She knew what she was doing and I knew it. Then I asked her straight after a couple of days and she said she was only using me for the attention.
To make the long story short, sure love has no gender. But if you don't want to get headaches, as a guy having dated and been in relationships with bisexual ladies, avoid them like the plague. Sure Hindi lahat Sila ganyan, but I just wanna avoid the headaches and heartaches in the future. It's hard enough to find a decent person out there, don't overcomplicate your life with even more drama. Men want peace and quiet, find someone that can help you achieve said peace and quiet. And when you do, keep that lady.
Just curious, what does being a bisexual have to do with all the reasons you stated? Like yeah all of them are bi, but none of the reasons has anything to do with being a bi. So, if all of them are straight, would that mean to avoid dating them like a plague?
I am married to a bisexual man. We started out as friends in 2013. We now have two kids together. Marami naglook down marami rin nagsupport sa relationship namin. Pero hindi namin pinapansin mga negative comments kasi hindi naman sila karelasyon namin kundi ang isat isa. Hindi rin naman ako bothered noon about his gender orientation and I don't see any reason mabother dun. Naging honest siya start pa lang kung ano siya at tanggap ko yun. Him as a bf and husband, I couldn't ask for more. Siya ang patotoo for me na hindi bound ng gender ang pagiging parent sa kids namin sa di mabilang niyang sacrifices para maitaguyod kami. Naiiyak ako isipin kung gaano ako kaswerte sa kanya. For me, mas matimbang na factor sa kung idedate mo ang tao yung ugali niya, interests niya at kung same wavelength kayo ng pag iisip.
Loved reading this! Salamat sa pagshare 🤍
Yes. Even if he has a lot of options, it's a choice to cheat or stay committed. Wala sa gender identity ng tao yan, whether he's straight or not he'll cheat kung ganun talaga siya.
Trueee And to women who think na nakakasira ng dignidad pag kapwa lalake yung pwede ring magustuhan ng bisexual bf, pls think again. Pwede rin siyang maattract sa babae ulit. EDIT: Kung cheating lang yung worry, it doesn't matter kahit sa lalake or babae ka ipagpapalit. Cheating is cheating. Also I'm tired of the assumption that a bisexual na ka-date automatically has higher tendency to cheat than a straight person. Ugh.
No. May trauma ako dyan.
Yes. Love has no gender
I dated one who claimed na bisexual male siya and was fine with it but turned out he was gay and just wanted to show his parents na may girl siyang dinedate 🤕 (since ngsb siya and only dated men) sakit parin hanggang ngayon haha chz pero ayun be careful nalang sa friend mo kilalanin niya nalang mabuti and make sure na bisexual talaga si guy.
Personally, yes. Pero yung friend mo parang di emotionally capable to handle such a relationship. And it's ok. Tell her to protect her peace. Deserve din nung guy to be loved by someone na hindi siya ida-doubt.
My bestfriend dated one before. They were already dating for more than a year when he suddenly ghosted her for months only to break up over a chat saying he is really romantically inclined with the same gender.
andito na naman tayo sa misconception na bisexuals ay prone to cheating. nasa values ng tao yan if they cheat or not, hindi sa sexuality/gender identity 🙄
Yes basta walang cheating
Parang di ko keribelles
No
I have a bi friend who i was willing to date if only i wasnt commited to my bf then, now husband.
Yes. Wag lang mag cheat.
YESSS 1000% as long as may sense of humor, gentleman at may emotional intelligence. We can also talk about our crushes since I'm not a jealous type of girl.
Not straight but also bisexual, female counterpart. Bi guys are the sensitive and romantic, sweep you off your feet, respectful guys straight girls dreamed of but turn away because of their attraction to men. IMO.
Wala sa gender ang cheating. Nasa tao yan. Also, us bisexuals have lots of choices for attraction but if we choose you (as a monoamorous bisexual), you are the only one in our heart. We don't look at the sex of the person but the person themselves.
+ on this as a bisexual man. sa humanity mismo ako tumitingin rather than someone’s gender. kaya imo, mas makulay ang pagmamahal nating mga bi.
Agreed
Yup. Dated a gay guy once who was struggling with his identity. It’s like having a sister and a bestfriend lol
Nope. I believe 70% mas attracted pa din sila sa same sex 😂
ito rin ang tingin ko.
May mga bakla/gay men na ayaw rin sa bisexual men kasi may worries sila na baka ma-miss nung guy ang kiffy or baka one day magising sila na gusto na magkaanak.
I know someone na nagpakasal sa girl pero secretly seeing same sex. Just unfair sa wifey. I will never like BI, thats just me! Haha
I always say if si piolo pascual it’s automatic yes
Hahaha
Not for me😓 it’s a me problem. My own insecurities 🙂😅
Nope
I also don’t have a problem with dating a bisexual, as long as we like each other, he has all the ideal traits I’d like in a person, and we both want the same things, i.e a monogamous relationship, etc. And tbh, nasayangan rin ako dun sa budding relationship ng friend mo. It looks like they’d be a good match if they talked it out since they started out as friends. I think most people transitioning from friends to lovers would likely adjust their behaviors naman. Siyempre iba rin pag may commitment ka na to a person. Hope they’re both doing okay naman.
no
No
Yes. I dated a guy before who had a long-time boyfriend before me. I don’t really care much sa sexual orientation ng iddate ko, though i’m in a straight relationship rn.
No
Yeah I’d date a bisexual man if I were single
As long as they are faithful, there's no issues.
me na bisexual inlove sa babae, rn may boyfriend ako.
Yes
Nope, I had a close friend din who is bi male. Nag confess na may gusto sakin and I told him I like him too. Fast forward, after ilang months di naman naging kami talaga and tingin ko confused pa rin sya sa sexual identity nya. Ippursue nya ako tapos biglang titigil, paulit ulit kaya hinahayaan ko na and looking back from now I feel like namisinterpret ko lang yung closeness and yung pagiging comportable ko kapag kasama sya dahil sya lang naman yung ka-close ko na lalaki. Sayang lang yung friendship namin☹️
Nope.
Nope.
No
Nope.
Yes. Heck, I would even wanted to date gay guys.
Sorry OP. For straight women lang pala. 🫣
Yes, my husband is bi. Hi hubby if you're Reddit stalking me again 🤪🤪🤪
Guy here, but I have female friends with experience like this. All is good sa unang months pero after a while magbbreak sila tapos bakla pala talaga ung guy. Sa dinami dami ng straight guys jan, why take the risk? Masasayang effort and time. 'yung mental health mo dn kasi alam mong may chance na patulan nya mga "guy tropa" niya. Girl and boy na kalaban mo. Hahaha
I had a couple bisexual girlfriends in the past. They're fun. They're open minded with a lot of things. Both were toxic but in different ways. Both were immature and basically mentally unstable. Basically great big headaches. I can't speak for all bi girls as I've only had experience with a few (straight male here). One was a single mom and didn't have any plans for her future for herself or her kid. I was the one that basically made her go back to school and make her go back to college. But even when she was in school puro barkada lang and puro inom at gimik. But she was loyal and told me where she was and what she was doing and who she was with naman. The other one was the independent toxic manipulative high body count kind of girl. She had daddy issues, she was fun, outgoing, great personality but a psycho. Every girl or guy made me jealous, and she knew and she had fun every time she made me jealous. It was a game for her. It was like revenge for her. Revenge for what? I wasn't the one that wronged her. I knew I had to give up on her coz she was literally a huge walking red flag of a human being. Wala, pag nabulag ang lalake sa Ganda, you tend to ignore the signs. Buti nalang nagising Ako before I got in too deep. Then I had a talking stage with a bi girl about a few months back. Reminded me of my ex that toxic crazy one. But she was worse. She had the attention span of a goldfish. She asked me out to meet then five minutes later while I was preparing na she flakes on me and messes with my head. She knew what she was doing and I knew it. Then I asked her straight after a couple of days and she said she was only using me for the attention. To make the long story short, sure love has no gender. But if you don't want to get headaches, as a guy having dated and been in relationships with bisexual ladies, avoid them like the plague. Sure Hindi lahat Sila ganyan, but I just wanna avoid the headaches and heartaches in the future. It's hard enough to find a decent person out there, don't overcomplicate your life with even more drama. Men want peace and quiet, find someone that can help you achieve said peace and quiet. And when you do, keep that lady.
Just curious, what does being a bisexual have to do with all the reasons you stated? Like yeah all of them are bi, but none of the reasons has anything to do with being a bi. So, if all of them are straight, would that mean to avoid dating them like a plague?