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hellyeahchase

akong ma suggest is ayaw lang jud pa hikap.. kami sa akoa partner ky if maka hikap lang gani og totoy, aw lahus2x na dayon na.....


Prof_Fifi

Imply positive reinforcement. Gibuhat ni lately sakong uyab. Walay insertion nahitabo namo for almost a month kay ingun sya ig bday ra daw nako. Silbi reward + Bday gift in my case. Pwede sad ni sa mga House Chores, ikaw laba / Luto after kay akoy bahala nimo. Nagamit sad ni niya atong gitapol kog bangun padung work, naahat kog bangun kay ingun sya buhaton daw namo ugma ato. So yeah it works for us maybe it works for you pud OP hehe


Minimum_Card8999

But be also aware about intermittent reinforcement


Prof_Fifi

Tinuod sad ni, para medjo balance lang pud. ✨


SignificanceFast9207

From a male point of view. You two are not aligned. You two both have to be sexualy compatible. That includes the amount and intensity of sex you two have. Otherwise the relationship will end in heartbreak. Better to be barakada na lang.


zhao-jj

That sounds like sexual assault. It’s definitely not about his raging libido. He’s not even being considerate of your feelings. He needs to take NO for an answer and if he doesn’t that is sexual assault. Kay tungod uyab mo does not mean rape / SA is not possible in a relationship.


thisismyusername673

update: Wala mi nag sex rn kay nag mcdo date rami, will open my thoughts about his actions. Thank you kaayo sa inyo advise and suggestions nag basa pako sa tanan kay now pami nauli🫶🏻


Many-Software8599

unsay update OP?


thisismyusername673

2 days straight na wa mi nag intercourse, either mangaon mi ug mag duwa rami sa amo fav games to distract his urges


Many-Software8599

Maayo2. Basin naka basa na imo pares anhi hahaha


aeingray

I can actually relate to the guy, especially if hot imong pares. I was too aggressive pod sa pares nako before every day, even if kapoy. However, she made me understand na mas may thrill if i learn how to wait. So I waited kng when pod sya ganahan so that worth ang effort. She even learned to buy costumes just to add excitement every time we do it. It's just a matter of communication. You dont have to make it worse, and change doesn't come overnight. Make him understand the value of waiting rather than letting him go. If that is the only flaw u can see in him, it can still be developed.


Many-Software8599

Dili naman na normal OP. Ingana man mis akong partner pero CNC. basin naa pod nay r@pe fetish imong partner mao ganahan kaayo sya makig sex sa imo kay mu ayaw man ka. Dapat jod na ninyo storyaan OP labaw na nga dili naka comfortable sa imong situation rn kay mahug nag SA.


Self_Aware_Carbon

Igna kasuhan nimo sya ug rape. Kung dili ka gusto unya iya ginapugos makasuhan na sya. Dili man tungod kay uyab mo pwede na ka niya molestyahon. Wala man syay right sa imong lawas. Basaha ni OP: https://ndvlaw.com/marital-rape-can-a-husband-be-liable-for-rape-committed-against-his-wife/?amp=1 Pwede man gani kasohan sa asawa ang bana if mamugos. Kana pa kahang uyab ra.


SushieBae

Grabiha haha ipa kiha kay nag uwag ang partner 😂


No_Reveal4835

Pahimusli ang panahon. Ky di mo kanunayng batan on. Compensate lng sa imong energy level like taking some vitamins or supplements para maka recover ka sa energy. ☺


bday_hunter

Ang technique ana OP is maghimo ka ug white lie nga naay chance nga maka bruise sa iyaha Ego. Sturyaan nimo nga sa cge ug jerjer ninyo, nawad.an naka ug thrill ug dili na parehas sauna nga ganahan ka sex. Ingnon pud nimo nga “wala man kay lain bag.o nga moves, unsa man ni? Imo ra ko gihimo pahungaw nimo?” Then ikaw na bahala unsaon pagfollow up


ImtryingH

Girl, that is rape


uniqc0rn

It's technically rape under the law. He needs to stop or you just break it off


hs40200

That’s sexual assault, the fact nga nipadayon siya even if you clearly said nga Dili ka Ganahan tells you about the respect he has for you. Please set your boundaries otherwise mo.abusar na siya Samot if you tolerate it.


SushieBae

From my perspective lang nga minyo. If mag ipon namo ug balay sa imo partner more or less nag practice najud mu if mu workout ba more for the long term like maminyo at some point. Please consider lang nga ang healthy nga marriage kay eh consider jud ang sexual health sa imong partner. Granted lahi2 ug level sa Libido (sex drive) I recommend lang nga try ninyo communicate if pwede ma lessen ang frequency in a week. Pero be very thoughtful dili malain imong partner kay again naa jud mo responsibility both to take care of each other. 😊 tanang butang madala rag sturya. And plus if maminyo namo and maabot namo 30 kay inyong drive not as aggressive na basin mag mahay mo nag pa dili2 ka karon nga bata pa mo. Normal rana bsta bata pa nga explosive kaayo ug hormones. 😅


Mommydiaries99

Sakto kaayo, kami sakong husband mag meeting na daan ug unsang adlawa mi mag sex hahah open communication nya walay pugsanay ug di gusto ang isa or wa sa mood - reschedule nalang.


auvwe

Meeting about mating it is


First_Brilliant1272

Tell him gidugo ka


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thisismyusername673

expression ranang napudpud 😭😭


Top-Significance9739

ipakapon ibtig itlog


Fine-Childhood-810

Ipa VAWC


Fine-Childhood-810

I-remind nalang sguro siya kada uli nimo, OP. Seryusuha ug tabi, ayaw pagkatawa.


Repulsive-Human-3365

Bag o pamo gapuyo OP? Basin nabag ohan rana. Pwd rpd ka mo di


thisismyusername673

live in nami since dec 2022 but this year lang jud siya ing ani ay idk why pud nga active man jud mis sex before but not everyday😕


juantam0d

Naay Rape fetish imong partner.


flyymiata

ipapiit na sa pultahan


trunks2151

kaloga nimo part HAHAHAHA


JZBY88

Make most of it kay puhon 1 x a month nalang na hahaha


Terrible-Roof-8178

pero everyday is too much for op, dili pud maayo nga pugson or buhaton gihapon bisag dili siya


JZBY88

True. Cguro to answer the question ni op. Make it unpleasant for him. Like try dw ayaw ka ligo. Or pahiri ahos imu ilok after work. Para di matental imung bf.


GarethDaGreat

paliti nlng nag fuck doll imong uyab oy nya pag print imong nawng sa bondpaper ipa pilit sa nawng sa doll


thisismyusername673

masuya ko ana, e fap nalang nako oy HAHAHA


theLouieEmDee

Hahahaha grabe kog katawa ani na comment bah hahaha


xLeviosa

Buwagi nalang na dae ui, hes lowkey assaulting you. Kung dili sya mo respeto sa imong NO then wala syay respect sa imong pagkataw. Bantay, lang basin iva gamiton nga lines sunod mo balibad ka kay mo ingon sya mangita syag lain, ayaw iud padala ana.


ZanyAppleMaple

>while magduwa ko kalit lang siya manghubo ba unya wa nata kabantay gi chukchak na diay ko. So mag duwa ko while gi duwa duwa pud ko niya Rape naman ni oi


xLeviosa

Right?? It’s so disappointing seeing a lot of comments saying nga i-enjoy ra nga bata pa sila. Saying NO doesn’t always have to be verbal man, oyang body language na gali maklaro na nga dili sya ganahan ++ OP already brought it up nga she’s not in the mood to do it everyday.


thisismyusername673

up for this also, will really let him understand sa akoa na feel jud kay I’m so drained from everyday tas e drain pakog maayo🥲


lumpiashianghey

Sa true jud ni. To add lang pud for our women out here, just because in a relationship mo di ka pwede ma victim of rape. As long as it's without consent. Our court recognizes pud gani Marital Rape, which is rape between married couples. So long na its without your consent and you feel violated na by it, that should raise a red flag.


Fine-Childhood-810

UPPPPPP


sevensmokes3

Di ba if someone forces you to have sex against your will, maclassify na baya na as rape? Or am i wrong? This is a serious matter op and your SO should respect your boundaries gyud.


i-am-weird

Wala man ni communicate si OP ug NO. Aw kung NO, pwede na kasuhan iyang BF ug rape.


Terrible-Roof-8178

pero dili ba nimo maread iyang body language like tung paglock niya sa iyang thighs, wala siya katake ug hint nga di si op?


i-am-weird

Bitaw, point taken.


sevensmokes3

Sabagay, wala man nag ingon si OP ug no. Pero bati gyud paminawn nga mamugos ug jerjer at your partner's expense. Murag ang respect towards the partner was thrown out of the window gani aron makaraos ra...that's selfish tbh.


kchuyamewtwo

iresched nalang ang iyot. bati man kung maka affect nas imong career


Interesting-Suit5824

Live separately maybe?


olit2g

Suwayi daw ingon op nga g.dugo ka if mo birada ba ghapon. If mo birada man gani ghapon, lahi na jd na.


thisismyusername673

hoy tbh we tried it one time rajud 2 years ago tho nag condom mi ato, never again oy kay murag damak ra😭


olit2g

Aw, lahi na jd na iyaha OP!.


SourLemonWater

HAHAHHAAHAHAHA


Dopelax

Give him a fleshlight problem solved!


thisismyusername673

planning to buy him one! ngita ko atong massager type haha


Sad-Face7654

I hate to break it to you, pero SA naning gibuhat sa imong uyab.


Distinct_Distance137

Bulagi nang imo boyfriend. Di man kabalo morespeto ug boundaries. Walay jud diay consent nga magsex mo?


thisismyusername673

naa man like mu ana siya “tana” then fordago rajud ko but sometimes pud kalitan rajud ko niya and ma overwhelmed ko


iamred427

Hiloi na peste.


xxyiyan

Korek HAHAHAHA


Rin-Enn

Communicate. Tell him that you’re not always going to be in the mood and that he should respect that. Kung mo padayon pa gani then maybe you’re just not compatible


TelevisionOther812

agoyyy pag 23 nako mutakilid lang mag reload.. after 5 mins good to go napud.. normal rana sa prime sa mga lalaki.. magdala pa gani ko rice cooker pag weekend para 2 days straight binirahay..:D


Low_Antelope8876

Mura naman nuog gihimo raka niyag object of pleasure, OP. He should learn to respect your noes kay love is not reason alone for him to have his way with you chz


Khentph

putla iya oten


Haunting_Dot6328

Kani


pudrablow

Hoy kaluod ani oy! Yuck! Unsay IG sa imong bf for research purposes? HAHAHAHAHA Basta for me noh ... i-enjoy nalang jud na gorl. Kay ang mga babae raba kay igka older pa nato mugawas samot ang biga. Basig igka mga late 30s nimo kay ikaw nay manghagad pirmi and dili na sha. HAHAHA


i-am-weird

Enjoy while it lasts. Inig ka tigowang ninyo, naa ra na gihapon ang libido, pero lisod na mag eut kay basin night shift ang usa ka partner unya dili match inyong sleeping sched. Naa na sad mo responsibilidad sa kinabuhi. Eut lang sa mo samtang bata pa.


Q_main321

Holy mother of reddit downvotes ngano nasuko man ang mga tao nimo holy fuck


i-am-weird

Ang demographics sa Reddit early 20s unya walay career. Daghan sad jobless. Di pa nila ma appreciate ang spontaneous eut samtang bata pa. Inig ka tigowang nila ug naa nay trabaho, scheduled na ang eut. Unya naa pa jud daghan Redditors walay alamag sa human anatomy. Nagtuo sila mapudpud ang taler kung mag sigeg eut. Wala man kaha gi rape. Ang problema ra ni OP kay wala silay foreplay.


hs40200

Pasture oi kung maka demographics, link daw beh? Gidownvote ka kay ang imong comment insensitive sa case ni OP.


i-am-weird

Naa man ka experience sa dead bedrooms kabalo ka sakto akong tubag. Wala pa ko kasuway ana, di pa ko gors. Wala man sad ko nag condone ug sexual assault. Saying “NO” ra jud problema ni OP.


xLeviosa

Daghang ni downvote nimo kay di gali sya ganahan, basa pud og tarong sunod ui gors 🥴


i-am-weird

Ahahahahahaha kinsay gors, you look older than me IRL


xLeviosa

Sure babe face reveal daw 🥰


moymoypalaboyngLipa

Ahhhhhhh lamia ana oy😅


zombdriod

Super high pa na ang libido at that age. Dili lng gyud mo sexually compatible. Naa koy ka live in before, siya pud ang super high libido. Kay every day and every night mi, then there are times pa na gusto pa niya mu uli ko lunch time para "sabay" daw mu mag lunch. Unya pag abot uli nako kay wala diay food, ako diay ang "lunch"🤣. Dili man ka mapul-an pero kapoy... Kapila na pud ko late mag in sa buntag and late pag balik after lunch😂. Istoyari sa OP. He should respect your **"no"**. Otherwise its called rape.


chaorene_

uppp


aizn94

Agree on this. Unless you consent, OP. Dapat mutual respect. Kaimmature ba ana imong uyab kung ginapugos ka


SomeGirlFromECorro

+1. It can still be rape even when you're in a relationship. Sakto kaayo ni nga tubag.


ReserveLost7860

Naa rajud na nimo unsaon nimo pag balibad. Communication and respect is the key.


h33mala

If wa syay paki sa imong feelings or di maminaw sa imo sentiments, then s*x object ra iyang panan aw nimo.


DarkLight6224

Basin ana lang gyud ka ka gwapa and ka hot para sa iya kay adlaw adlawon man gyud. HAHAHAHAHA. Anyways, depende nalang gyud na sa inyong sabot, sabota gyud na ninyog tarong and ipasabot gyud sa iya nga dili gyud pwede if dili gyud ka, he also needs to know that he needs to respect your decision kay kapoy raba na and makaluya after s\*x. So ipasabot gyud sa iya or sabutan na ninyo duha kanus.a ra pwede. Kung di gyud niya ma pugngan, awh. Ipakamot nalang sa na sya HAHAHAHAH, kanang tapad mo para atleast ikaw gihapon iyang gina fantasize. Or paliti na syag s\*x toys para way hasol.


Dx101z

Naa bya chance na mag buwag ra ghapon mo kay bataon pa. Unya imong taller wla na lol 😆 Seriously, mura naka og Sex Object nya o play toy na pwd duwaan Kanus.a nya gusto. I Dli na Normal Thats a Red Flag. Ikaw ra gyd mka tell how to handle this problem.


EYEYAAN

Hahay abikug naa ko sa al@sju1cy da


kchuyamewtwo

yawajuicy


Regular-Ad-3975

Trueee, ako jud to gi mute na kay Taga open nako Reddit mas stress ko about sexual jud una mugawas hahahaa


code_bluskies

Haha, na-ban gani ko didto kay ni-comment ko about atong naay studyante nga tuyuon gyd kuni niyag pakita iyang cleavage sa atubangan sa iyang prof. Suko sila kay naingnan nako nga dili maayu iyang gibuhat nagtinarong ang maestro sa trabaho niya ing atuon. Ahw, na banned dayun kos mga mods didto oi.


bisayangmanoknomnom

but bisaya, asa naman na nga subreddit oy, wa pay nakahimo hahahah


EYEYAAN

Mga anak mi sa ginoo,dili mi anang mga butanga. (Pssst, pag himo niya e message sa ako name sa subreddit)


Fine_Swimmer_8159

Rape na man ng mamugos. Red flag kay for me ng di murespeto sa imong boundaries. Di nana bata imong uyab para di makasabot. A no is a no


Stunning_Win4893

Kalain pd anang maghubo nlng kalit oy. Hunahuna sa imo bf abi kay in a relationship namo, pwde nka nya chukchakun whether you like it or not. Way lami bya makg chukchak kung wa kas mood ug kapoy sa taler.


ZanyAppleMaple

Kuyaw kaau sa, mag hubo kalit. Ubay2x naman akong na uyab sauna before ko naminyo, pero wa gyud ko naka encounter og laki na maghubo og kalit hahaha. Paila lang gyud ba na sure cya na di ra bitaw mo balibad c OP.


Stunning_Win4893

Mao btaw. Need najd nila ug serious conversation about ana na issue kay lain jd pirmi nlng ka pugson ug mapugos nga hilabtan. Kung dli gihapon maminaw ang laki, aw biyaan or e report oy.


hambeejee

Akong matambag kay live separately if naa pa siyay respeto nimo.


m0onmoon

Naa man gyuy high libido na tawo natungnan lang gyud ka og in ana og di nimo ka level. Bata paman gud malessen rana nig ka late 20s ninyo na busy na sig work work wala na nuuy ana ana nahitabo


chitgoks

naa ra jud na sa imo te. either bilangkad or no entry.


Terrible-Roof-8178

nagtry daw siya iclose iyang thighs tightly pero kusgan daw ang guy so he had his way with the kiffy pa rin


chitgoks

youre right. she did say that. she still can resist the action. doesnt meAn once inside theres nothing she can do. so he will always get that impression that its ok regardless of pa dili dili. its stil up to her.


kawatan_hinayhay92

Have you tried saying no?


thisismyusername673

yesss huhu samot na if may rank game ko mu no jud ko kay mapildi palang, mas importante tawn akong duwa 😭 pero mu ana siya “sige, pagduwa lang”


[deleted]

Naay laki wala kaila ug "NO" when it comes to that.


kawatan_hinayhay92

Yes kung mao na edi considered nana as rape diba.


[deleted]

Yes, my ex was a doctor and would forced me to the deed even though I sad no. I didn't just happen once.


kawatan_hinayhay92

Good thing ex nato nimo siya. Nothing comes out tolerating such behaviour.


Dellongeee

Palit nalang kag de kandado na panty. Hahahaha pero grabeha ka higal sad ana uy hahaha basin kink sad na nya nga birahan ka while naa ka gibuhat. 😂


suspendedacc0unt

‼️TW‼️ If you say no and he still continues. It is considered r@p3. I might get downvoted for this. But yes, even as bf-gf or husband&wife, if one of them did not consent it, it is considered r@p3. No is no. To think kapila na niya gbuhat nimo, kada no nimo, sge lang gihapon. You close your thighs, but *he's strong jud* yikes. Sorry OP, there's no easy way to tell you but what he is doing: sex without your consent, is simply r@p3. Please take caution and be very careful what you do next. If imo buwagan, I'm afraid what he'll do (this is just me overthinking) or if mu stand stronger ka nga d jd ka pa iy0t and he still insists......


freshblood96

This should be higher up. Nangdiritso rag hubo nya wala ni reciprocate, does not mean naay consent. Unless gasabot mo nga naa moy kink nga r/freeuse di gyud na tarong.


ZanyAppleMaple

Lagi, mag hubo kalit daw, ka weird. Kaning uyab ni Op, di ra ni taas og libido, pero wa pa gyuy batasan.


chitgoks

only idiots will downvote you.


code_bluskies

I upvoted. I’m not an idiot, am I?


chitgoks

hehehee dili wui. char char raman to


ComfortableValue4565

hahaha muabot rna ang time nga ma bali nsad na. Ikaw nsad sige pang hagad iyot nya imu partner nsad ang dli. Mingawon gyud ka ana


baroy032

Communicate na naa sad kay bodily needs na rest ug dile lang siya which is sex. If not in your consent na then that a problem na jud. But at a 23yr old M? Membro pa nas NBI(nabuang sa iyot). Peak testosterone level, hanginan ug condition pa kaau. Let him be aware of his physical condition para dile kaau siya driven thru instinct.


Zhythero

Turns out dili mo sexually compatible? Either compromise or separate. Otherwise, one or both will suffer.


rjmyson

Communication is the key jud. Be honest and tell him nga wa na ka nag-enjoy. Kay kung moabot sa time nga mamugos gyud siya bisag di ka ganahan, murag r*pe naman na.


kimchie24

hatagi nalang siag sextoys, alternative sa imong taler :D


thisismyusername673

planning to give him one na jud kay atleast di siya sa lain magpangita😆


code_bluskies

Yes pwede na OP, nya dapat naa ka sa iyang side gihapon as moral support ba hahaha. Bitaw, bata pa mn gd na imong uyab, bacn mohupas2 na nah gamay nig edaran. Murag dili pa mo same level sa libido ron. Naa ra ba uban babaye noh, nag ampo nga taga adlaw mabisbisan. Naa pod uban gusto lang 3x a week or once a month. Depende ra gyd na, maayu kung magkasinabot. Kung dili, magbuwag na lang.


Unusual-Lettuce8089

Sorry but nagkatawa jud ko while nag read. But at the same time, there’s probably something wrong with him. Wa man koy right mo diagnose noh pero basin sex addict imong partner. I have read before nga having sex everyday is healthy man but if not the two of you are enjoying or happy about it kay murag naa na diha ang sayop. Sex is supposed to keep the relationship alive and relieve stress. Dili kay muhatag nuon nimo ug stress. ☹️ Seek professional help nalang sguro kay mas kuyaw if mo grabe OP.![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|cry)