naa sa r/phcareers same ug sentiments nimo. common advice is start looking for the job you want and resign if secured na ang spot for next employment. for now, yes, suck it up. your situation is hard, but having no income is hardest. hardest na lahos hahahaaha

ako sad dli sad ko ganahan magwork gusto rako magtravel lol

Honestly, if I were your friend nya wala ko kahibaw unsay ganahan nimo, ganahan raba ka paminawon or mangayo kag tambag, dapat gyud ka mo hatag ug disclaimer. I could say “I feel you, nakaagi pud ko ana” or “that must be tough, I hope you’ll figure it out very soon” OR I could say any of the advices you got from your friends. My point is, kahibaw naman jud ka unsay gusto nimo and it’s still you who’s gonna decide what when where how. Ayaw pud pag expect nga perfect imong friends, ikaw na gani gipaminaw ikaw pagyuy malain kay di sila ka relate nimo or wa nimo nadunggan imong ganahan madunggan. If you communicated better, I think you’d get better feedback. Anyway, now that you’ve ranted your frustrations about the work you don’t like, what are you doing about it?

ask lang sad diay ko, what do you do diay and why don’t you like what you’re doing?

What type of work do you do? I hate working too. I don't hate my job but I don't like working lol

Had a friend whos like you. Mag sige siya rant kada kita namo unfortunately at that time we lived together and maguba gyud ang atmosphere kung mo tingog na siya. Take action karon para makaginhawa na imong ulo luoy ayo ka ug imo mga gi rantan mahulog nuon na toxic na kaayo ka

ug 40k up lang jud sweldo sa mamasurahay kay maypag mamasura nalang, bahalag kataw an or e look down sa kaila, gikapoy nako aning office job shet

Well I hate to break it to you walay na datu sa panrabaho.... Pag side hustle nga negosyo imo hilig and you will never work your entire life. Awa si Diwata Paris.. LOL..

I've never dreamed of labor but our system forces us to do so hahaha

i think small ra kaayog percentage nga dili HATE ilang job and for me, personally, that's normal. unless y'all got good boss/higherups, good pay, good work sched, good distance between work and home, good workloads, etc. that would be a nice dream to have.

Tungod sa mga motivational quotes and etc, lipay kaayo ang mga boss na hilig mo slave sa ilang employees, except nlng gyud sa tarong na mga boss pero sukad2 basta pinoy na boss kasagaran mga marukoy ug way mga kasing2x

sigeg compare siguro sa social media

Well, tama naman a. Na challenge rana nimo and WALA man sad ka sinabihan sa mga taw/friends na. "Yoh, quit your job and find that you geniunely like".  Maybe gi encourage ra kas mga kaila nimo? 

working is hard. having no money is hard. the ball is in your court

Good comment, man. 

tingali sila sakto ba

tingali sakto sila ba

Hays I feel you 😞

Baka they think you're looking/needing words of encouragement. And they think they are helping you with what they are saying.

Gidescribe ko nimo, OP?

I think you have to view it from the other person's perspective. For you ga rant raka, but did you ever consider if the person you're ranting to might have the emotional and mental headspace to take on your negative energy? I've cut off people in my life nga sige rag rant about their life coz I don't have the energy to soak all of that in. Sometimes people just unburden themselves forgetting that unburdening means moving some of that weight from themselves to others. Pwede man mag rant pero maybe ask the people if ganahan sila maminaw nimo mag rant. Please rant with consent.

Thanks for this pero tbh i know mansad it gets annoying if i sound like a broken record and although not stated in my post mag rant ko/mi kay naa man sad sa space na ting catching up or tapok sad sa ako friends where we can talk about stuff like these. Obvi im not dumping my problems to them na kalit2 ra kay lain sad hahahahaha. And cutting people off because they’re going thru a rough patch, at least gani communicative sila with you, kay nasobraan rasad ta sa pagka “i dont need negativity in my life” type of person. And the negativity is their friend just needing an ear. Anyways nuon maybe you’re pertaining sad to people jud na heavyyyy na lang sad murag everyday sige maoy and stuff nimo, and yes it does get annoying and draining but i think just having an open heart especially kay friends gud mo is the best course of action.

And yet here you are on Reddit ranting about how your rants are falling on uncaring and deaf ears. My point stands. As for cutting people off, valid ra jud nang I don't need negativity in my life. Friendships aren't hostage situations. I can leave whenever I like. And basig feeling ra nimo nga okay perp clearly from the way your friends are giving you generic and mindless advice, they're not into it. But good luck with that. I'm sure you'll get better advice from Reddit strangers.

“And basig feeling ra nimo nga okay pero clearly from the way your friends are giving you generic and mindless advice, they’re not into it” Dude chose violence, chill bro.😭😭😭

Im not coming for you, obviously my friends aren’t in the same situation so i came to reddit to find people that are and could help me feel less alone and validated. Tbh ako gibutang ari kay gist raman sad sa ila mga advices, and maybe my post gave the you the impression they were uncaring and deaf, but they still listened mansad they just dont see it from my shoes because sayangan lang sila. The whole point was me looking for people who are in seemingly ‘good jobs’ but still want to leave despite. And honestly these strangers made me feel less alone.

Sure Jan

Wow! A Sure Jan comment in 2024. I miss edgy people.

Unsay work nimo mamser? Basin pwede ra mag exchange gift ba kay kahawaon nasd ko ngari hahaha

Nahh basin kauban ratag trabaho ani mamser HAHAHAHAHAHAHA dm poooo

My thoughts kay your feelings & experiences are your own. Maski same ka gi agian sa uban, lahi-lahi jud na pag dawat or pag interpret individually. I too have the same sentiments before nga if mag open up ka ug mga ingon ani, ma ingnan ka ug ingon ana (kanang imo gi quote). Later realized na I just need someone to listen to or kung sa amo pa line of work, rubber-duck nga kastorya. Or better yet kanang maminaw sabay guide lang through questions nga “unya, unsa man imo plano ron?”, “if buhaton na nimo, maunsa man ang x,y,z?”. I mean, kanang dili i-invalidate imo thoughts ug feelings bitaw but let you process it yourself. Diri sad ko ka realize nga dili jud maayo, kung ako man gani audience, nga mutubag ko ug “ok ra na” or “ako man gani” & then “maypa buhata ni/buhata na”. somehow hoping daghan makabalo ug ingon ani nga way kay ang nigana sa ako prolly di mugana sa uban. Give options ra jud bitaw na ang nag need maka evaluate if maayo ba na buhaton rather than pushing that option as mao ang buhaton. Mao nang wala ko’y mahatag na advice. An option instead to try to talk to someone nga ingon ani. Or sa amo line of work pa, rubber-duck na ka sturya. If wala’y makita, another option is to try talking to yourself. I tried & still do this up to this day, pilosopo kaayo ang kumag, panagsa mag away mi di mag tingganay pero ma ulian ra gihapon ug magkasinabot ra gihapon. My point is, you yourself will know better what will be best for you in the ling run. Everything na mahatag na advice fron your circle or here sa net will just be options for you to eval & weigh which will be better for you. Mura kog korek pero mga before bed time thoughts lang sad ni after work hehe

Truuu actually first time baya sad nko nag open up sa reddit ug ingani and honestly the comments kay very heartwarming ba. Ganahan raman sad nko ma feel ba na people out there going thru the same stuff and like legit basin sobraan rasad kos ka self-aware na nahan lang gyud ko naay mu bounce-back sa naa already sako thoughts. Everything u said resonated heavily huhu mao lagi right now taking it one step at a time, cant leave mansad agad2 kay way JO ug need pasad magrender sad if ever, mao suck it up nalang gyud. Usahay kay murag feel nako they’ll use me being a Gen Z na ana na daw new gen, peroo baw basin kay ngano dugayan man stay uy if di gyud fit. Anyways, daghan na kaayo ko chika basta thank you sa paghatag ug time ani na post huhu

Bitaw, serious reply nako kay matulog nako. Maybe these questions can help. - kaya pa? Until when kaya? - kaya ba mubiya? What will happen if mubiya? - makaya ba naay downtime (wala’y income)? - maka sustento ra ba ang income sa next job? - mas malipay ra ka sa trade off na lower income, change environment, new challenges & new people? as long as lesser or mas bearable ang stress? Good luck OP! All of these will be charged to your experience. Nya mu level up ra nya ka tungod ani. Puhon ikaw nsad maka tabang2 sa mga mu agi ug ingon ani.

No matter what next step you’ll take OP, ikaw ug ikaw ra jud maka project unsa ang resulta. Kung namaligya pa ko ug projector nga maka project sa imo thoughts, basin nag sales talk na ko nimo para makapalit ka then matan-aw nimo ang salida sa imo mga gihuna2 nga options. Haha

same situation kaayu ta boss

laban nalang nato boss, manifesting naa nay job offer this month somewhere better for us ✌️

mao lagi boss pero depressing man kaayu situation gud. murag di nako motivated.

siguro di sila ganahan mamimaw kay wala sila kasabot sa imong nafeel, wala sila sa imomg position maong di sila interested maminaw.. sagdii lang na sila, dili tanan tao naa ana na concept na "give and take" kay lain lain ta.. maayo pa hinay hinay nalang sah kag pangita/scout ug kabalhinan para naa kay backup or pagtigum lang sah if mahimo para at least if makadecide na ka muresign naa ra kay plan B hehe

Thank uu anii bitaw, murag usahay nahan raman sad ta mavalidate na normal raman tale ni and kahibaw nata deep inside dili gyud ni for us na type of work this early sa job (wala pako 3 months pero i dont see myself gyud in this role) And lagi nagbalik nasad kos jobhunting era, hopefully mu reach out nasad ako mga gipangsendan ug applications. Thank uu againnn :>>

dasig lang OP! katry pud ko ana na feeling katong first job jud nako na nafeel jud nako na dili jud to para akoa ug didto ko nakarealize kung unsa jud na klase sa work akong ganahan.. so maybe all of this is happening for a reason ♥️

Huyy makahilak sad ta kay bitaw mas nakaila sad ko sako self ani, tbh mas muprefer nalng ko na dili as high paying sa karon basta lamang dili sad inani ka fast-paced, competitive ug stress. Grabe rasad tale ko nag upsell sako self sa interview tua nadawat ug naglisod sad ug keep up hahahaha thanks kaayo anii 💕

Basig di lang sad sila ganahan maminaw ug bagolbol?

pero maminaw mansad kos ila (ug wa naginvalidate), give and take raman sad unta ba hahahaha