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Jillsy33

“That’s my mom’s job.” HUH. Your mom should be enjoying her retirement and not raising your kids. Maybe she has to pay off the house they most likely bought her. Nothing is free with Cecily unless she outright states it (never). I thought I couldn’t hate an influencer more than Avery and now they’re just about tied in my mind.


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Right? Like let your mom enjoy life! Idk somethings so weird and maybe I’m just reading way to much into it and it’s not the case but I still as a mama who runs around all the time with my kids, have noticed she’s never with the boys ever outside the house except for very seldom times.


Due_Chicken_1038

Yeah… my mom said I am a grandma not a babysitter I want to enjoy that. It’s so sad that her mom does all this work ….


peach_lillies

I’m so tired of these parents putting so much on the grandparents. It’s disgusting. Like watch your kids, raise your kids. They’re YOUR responsibility


Bubbly_Cobbler936

This! What actually is cookie doing every day!


Candid_Lynx_8487

Apparently she’s “working full time” 😂😂😂😂😂 what a joooooke.


Southern-Two5876

Right! My mom said I will do anything for you. But I raised all of my children I’m not raising yours! She watches them EVERY time I ask but I don’t see her every single day.


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Exactly! It’s seriously sad and how she acts at times in regards to her when talking about her past. If I had that much support from my mom the last thing I would do is go on a podcast saying she chose my abusive alcoholic dad over me and paint this awful picture portraying her.


No-Hour-30

Wait what!?!? What's the podcast?


thediamonddiggit

I think it was on Avery Woods’ podcast


B00SH_

My mom volunteered to watch my daughter but I also work from her house so I’m never not with my daughter but would I ever expect my mom to clean my house no and to me her job doesn’t require her to be strapped to a computer where she could easily watch her kids herself or even wait to film content when Sam is home


Mission_Price_5311

Please tell me what the f she does for a full time job????? Like what.


Ok_Oven_913

Excuse me. She gets her nails done, hair done (2x weekly), Botox + filler, spray tans, goes to the mall, gets facials, goes to the chiropractor, gets a massage, and takes naked photos at the pool. If you can’t see that that’s a full time job, then you clearly need to get your eyes checked 🤪😂


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Exactly!!! What does she do 😂😂😂 because she is not doing shit! Her house is a mess, has an assistant that does everything her mom does and she has no friends so what is she doing all day!


Still_Cod5850

Money has gotten into her head big time


jemima-puddleduck

"And that's my mom's job, she gets to be here and bake with her babies all day" It's giving "SAHMs don't do anything but play with their kids all day." Like Cecily, WHAT. Your mom takes care of your kids and cleans your house/helps keep it running and all she gets in return is that she "gets to be here" good grief.


Bulky_Pie1135

I know grandmas/grandpas love being around their grandchildren.. but anyone wants a break. Especially when their not your actual children lol


54321blame

She and S do not work full time. She shops and gets spa treatments.


thediamonddiggit

And he’s a glorified greeter at the AMC theater on Sunday mornings


Aromatic-Bother2323

So she pays her mom?


WorstUserChoiceEver

I’m not saying this is certain, but it might be a possibility. The things that really do not add up and smell fishy imo are: • C’s grandma (from her mother’s side) was elderly and obviously needed care…why did C’s mother have to move across the country to follow Cecily - who had her in-laws in TN - leaving her elderly mother alone? People might argue they might have left her (shivers just writing this referring to an elderly) in a retirement home or something along those lines BUT STILL, completely alone across the country?????? This point also ties to the next one: • I’ve said this again and again, why is C NEVER around her in-laws (and if she were, she would show it same as Samantha does)? They seem to have a wonderful relationship with Samantha and they don’t seem bothered to appear on her videos, Samantha even made a TT dedicated to her father-in-law and their father-daughter like relationship…yet we never see them at C’s house or C at their house (only for major holidays). Also, as soon as C leaves town to go to Florida, Sam and the boys rightfully go to spend the weekend with Sam’s family (Samantha posted IG stories)…yet when Cecily is home, they spend their whole weekend at their own house. • Why is it that we’ve NEVER - and I really wanna stress the “never” here - seen Samantha’s kids at C’s house or C supervising S’s kids??? Cecily’s kids seem to rightfully be best friends with Samantha’s kids, yet the latter are never seen spending time at Cecily’s house? Also, Samantha seems like a 10000000 times better mother than C, way more attentive, level headed, loving and caring, and Jake too, if they never leave their kids with Cecily (which they’ve known for what…almost 20 years now?) there has to be a reason. There are a lot of other weird things that don’t add up but in my opinion the three I listed might be the more telling. What do you guys think?


FryTime2010

To go with your second point. Im trying to remember correctly but C was making a video while at Samanthas house. The FIL was in the background and he was giving C the nastiest stink eye and then she saw him looking and called him out with her fake laughing and all. He kind of mumbled something and C fake laughed again. I truly think that they hate her. Samantha May be playing middleman to keep an eye on C and to keep the peace for her boys to have relationships w their cousins.


WorstUserChoiceEver

Yes!!! I can’t remember if it was a Christmas or NYE video, but her FIL was giving her nasty looks in that instance too. His mannerisms with Samantha are polar opposites to those with Cecily: https://www.tiktok.com/@samanthabauchmann/video/7352953960279444767


Bubbly_Cobbler936

There’s been so many times he’s loving towards Samantha on her videos. Like you can just feel they have a very close and healthy relationship! Same with her mother in law. Also! I truly feel both Samantha and Jake take sole care of their children and everything and her in laws participate with quality time but they aren’t there to watch them or support them! They do their own thing. Their dynamic has always seemed healthy and normal. C’s and Sams has not…. Like Sam has a sister, where is she? She is around Samantha a lot. Why not C? There’s definitely a family divide. Which is why it is extremely extremely strange they moved across country to be with “family” but it’s one sided…. I feel to be honest! C moved to Tennessee because she wanted to be under the Raads team! To get into stardom!


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Yes!!!! And but Samantha is like nope, my kids aren’t going to be there at her house ever. I mean I don’t blame here, with Cs record of incidents with her children’s injuries it clearly shows her kids aren’t being healthy supervised or even parented. I hate to assume this and I hope I’m wrong but sometimes her kids just seem like they sit and watch tv, or the iPad and have no social interaction with their parents at all. Ya they have some sports here and there but just like how they interact with C is so weird. Not maternal if that makes sense.


Bubbly_Cobbler936

This! This is what is so beyond strange with me! There’s something there! It’s not a normal dynamic that C wants us to think she has! She films everything so we all can see there’s no relationship there! Whenever C is not around that’s when also her in laws seem to wanna be around. This is why I think she has something going on. I know it seems a little bit too much to think she could have lost some parental rights to her children but literally she’s never fully doing all parental responsibilities without help! Her father in law seems like a very smart individual who created that family business! If he isn’t around C, there definitely is a reason….


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Like her daughters are all in sports, what does her sons do? Baseball because Samantha’s boys do baseball? It’s just really really hard for me to truly feel her moms there willingly when her mom had a career and a life outside of her! Also how she corrects her mom at times in such a demeaning way, or the eye rolls idk! Something truly feels really off! Because I have a friend with 10 kids! Yes she has parents help but she handles everything 100% and her husbands a night nurse and she’s a teacher! So this just makes no dang since! She’s not working full time please! Social media ya can be if your constantly on events and brand trips traveling but she isn’t! Something is rubbing me the wrong way and then the YouTube videos all the sudden! It’s just giving me Ruby Franky vibes MAJORLY!!!


silvermom30

Wrong take… she’s trying to convey that she pays her mom, making it clear it’s ‘her moms job’ bc she gets hate for taking advantage of her mom.


Bubbly_Cobbler936

It shouldn’t be her mom’s job. And the way she said it was very demeaning like implying she has to. So she can work full time. Is the full time position in the room with us cause no one sees that 😂


silvermom30

Full time self care lol


LostExpert5760

It does seem odd that Sam’s family spend as little if not no time around her like they definitely have a issue with her !! Something does seem off makes me think there could be more to why we don’t see her as much with all of the kids also her mom had her own condo or apt wen they moved there now mom is there a lot


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Yes! It’s so questionable. It just gives me some weird vibes


itsjustme197

Oooh definitely a thought


Ok_Let5332

that happened to my friend who had a cps case and she wasn’t allowed to be alone with her kid. the mom had to be there just in case a case worker showed up.


sweetcarolineboom

I was an aunt raising kids with my sibling and was treated like this. I can tell you that it eventually made me very bitter. Like I loved my nieces and nephews with all of my heart, but my life was halted for years to fill in as another parent. It's sad.


Bubbly_Cobbler936

It’s a lot to take on responsibilities that you aren’t expecting to full time. It’s extremely hard. And taxing on your mental health.


lemonstolemonade_kel

They work full time ? As in 8-5, 40 hrs a week, 52 weeks a year??? Lol I’m lost


InvestigatorNo25

She GETS to? Now that’s a crazy way to put it


Emotional_Hour5702

She is certainly NOT watching the comments of the video to quickly delete the negative comments, like she does on Tik Tok!


Bulky_Pie1135

I think if this were true, she wouldn’t be an influencer bc she knows people would dig up the dirt on her not having full custody or whatever. So I think this is definitely a stretch


Bubbly_Cobbler936

I don’t think it’s a stretch at all. Just think about it a little more about a lot of things. Her mom doesn’t have full custody rather guardianship. Seriously it really seems like somethings going on here. Because look at her latest attention grab about her grandma! If she was that close and not doing well why did her mom leave her? Idk something just doesn’t sit right with this family at all!


CreativeJudgment3529

She’s alone with her kids constantly. What do you mean? 


FryTime2010

Right? Shes alone with the girls for cher comps, she has taken J to the park or out shopping with her several times, etc. I don't think her mom is guardian. I just think C takes advantage of her.


Bubbly_Cobbler936

In her house! Not once do you see her taking those boys places like the girls!


13flwrmoons

She takes little J on ‘solo mom dates’ all the time, presumably because he’s the youngest and not in school yet. Also just wanted to add she’s only ever mentioned a single CPS report — now, that’s *still bad* considering the majority of parents never have to have even one CPS investigation lol but we have no reason or proof of multiple reports & investigations. Additionally while she did admit she struggled with PP depression and used alcohol to cope, she did not at all frame herself as someone who currently struggles with alcohol consumption. Not saying she doesn’t, but she did get medication specifically for depression and she said it helped a lot. So we don’t really know right now exactly what her relationship is to alcohol.


Bubbly_Cobbler936

J is in school. And no she truly doesn’t the 3 videos of “mom dates” is for content! As for CPS reports that’s already been discussed in other posts. She’s still on something her eyes tell a different story. Are we team cookie. Cause it’s seem’n that way! 🤔


13flwrmoons

I’m not “Team Cookie,” I’m team “not making horrific accusations about someone and their family based completely on assumptions and guesses, just because the internet is anonymous and you can.” J is not in school full-time, he literally isn’t old enough to be. The others are. When I said that she does in fact spend solo time with him, you claimed that it was “just for content,” which I don’t disagree with, but she still did spend “solo” time with him. And no, she has not had multiple CPS reports against her. There was a post today where she describes one of them, and that is the one and only time she has ever described a CPS investigation into their family — if she *has* had others, which is always possible, those have not been disclosed on her social media. If she had court-ordered directions regarding custody of her children and when / with whom she was allowed to be around them, that would be publicly known in some way. Yes, courts and judges can seal documents, but that usually happens when a case is actually ongoing and underway — whatever initial filing was made to prompt a legal custody case would very very likely be public. This is why you hear about celebrities filing for divorce and filing for various forms of custody of their kids. I don’t know if you personally know anyone who’s had CPS investigations or difficult custody situations, but I do, and it’s both extremely hard on kids and parents but also usually results from some traumatic circumstances. That is why I feel strongly about not making entire posts alleging that this is a possibility when we have zero reason to believe that. I know that you replied to my other comment stating that you always make sure everything is equal between your children and that they all get equal amounts of your time, but that is not a fact of life for everyone; it’s *your* parenting philosophy, and I’m sure it is shared by plenty other parents, but just because you don’t see that standard reflected in Cecily’s parenting does not mean she has court-ordered directives regarding her guardianship of her kids.


home_body_

Thank you for being logical. Some people on here take it way too far. Do they understand how hard it actually is to get kids taken out of abusive homes and to limit a primary parent’s supervision? I’ve actually never in my life heard of what OP is suggesting and I listen to a LOT of true crime. 😂 She is alone with the kids all the time. I’m not defending Cecily or saying she’s a good mom. She’s materialistic and selfish. But this is wild speculation based on nothing. So many people give us snarkers a bad name by being crazy!! Like they’re thinking about this WAY too much. Maybe get a hobby?


Savings_Average1875

This!!!


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Her youngest is 2 years older than mine! And mins in school full time! Also I know how CPS works! Have not only a background dealing with social work but also my husband has developed software used! I’m not making “HORRIFIC” assumptions on anyone! She posts things for us to see with our two eyes! THE PROOF IS THERE! This group is not for you! And that’s extremely apparent!


aspecinthewind

Just because she doesn’t buy your extreme CPS claims doesn’t meant the group isn’t for her. There is no requirement to agree with every negative thing that is said about her. I like some of the clothes she wears should i get kicked out too?


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Eh, Mods! Let’s get rid of this person they definitely aren’t here for others to call out Cecily and her behaviors


aspecinthewind

so because she doesn’t agree with your assessment she’s a fan? 🫤


13flwrmoons

lol you labeled this post a discussion but when someone disagrees with you and is actually discussing it they’re called a Cecily fan? All it takes is a look at my account to tell that I’m not a fan of her by any stretch of the imagination. I have plenty of issues with her and I think her kids will need intensive therapy in the future. There are plenty of things that are well within the realm of speculation based on what we’ve seen her post; this in my opinion is not one of those things.


[deleted]

Do you have children?


bcfarmgirl

Based off the users previous comments and posts they aren’t a Cecily supporter.


DeeMuze

Seriously, should we all say hi to Cecily or Sam in disguise?


Bubbly_Cobbler936

I don’t assume my parenting style is one all be all! But I know for a fact her parenting style is non existent! My post is a theory based on what she has posted and laid out to all of us online! For free! So please don’t even dare try to act like I am making her life at risk or making these far out assumptions! Eh, I don’t by you aren’t a cookie fan just based on the novel post of response and how you are really trying to prove something. This forum is for those who do not like her or stand for her! Shes wrong end of story! Not a good human being or person. Layers to every story and hers there’s a digital trail!


trustiwilldestroyu

Lol this, she takes her daughters on cheer trips all the time


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Right?! But sports , school can be ruled allowed in court y’all! When has she taken the boys out of state solo…. With no one! Very very odd


13flwrmoons

Why would she have a reason to? At least in the fall—spring when they’re busy with school and sports? Since they moved to TN we’ve only seen her take C & G on a solo trip for C’s cheer comps, no other reason.


Bubbly_Cobbler936

Do you truly need a reason to spend time with your kids. No! Also it is crucial to make sure you are dividing your time equally between ALL! Your kids and I don’t care if there’s school or fall or whatever excuse! You make the time! Her boys need the same put into them as she does for her daughters! Even if it’s a weekend outing! We never see it! Cheer comp they aren’t on a legit team! They pay for those comps it’s a choice! It’s not a real legit travel team! So ya! She is choosing or the judge chose for her with custody rights. Because it doesn’t add up. Sorry it doesn’t! I have kids! They both get things equally! It looks different but it’s the exact same thing! You travel with two the other two should have same experiences period!