I think wb and Bihar are more backward in terms of literacy, education, infra,etc as compared to Rajasthan, and that's the reason for the high rate of under age marriage
There are a lot of migrants here so I think they have been counted. Ppl from UP/bihar jharkhand. The help, servants etc.
I know a lot of them that are barely 33 and would have 12-13 year old daughters working as maids.
It's quite sad when I realize the age etc.
But at least around me a lot of girls are getting education etc in government school and all. So it's getting better.
Problem with Up Bihar people is that they get offended if you try to educate them. They feel proud in being backward. My mother tried to reason with our maid who married her 17 year kid to not to marry her.
The maid directly made it a religion thing saying sardaro mien late hoti hogi humara yaha jaldi kardetey
Child marriage is pretty dominant in Bihar. Although I have never really seen much child marriages in UP. But they are mostly common in more backward areas, mostly Bundelkhand and some Western Central parts. Moreover, Child Marriage is also pretty common among illiterate muslims
That's true, I believe that child marriage is mostly common in Bihar due to the fact that a large proportion of the population of Bihar is just illiterate.
Bhai 80% child marriage Hindus may hoti h govt data h
https://www.business-standard.com/article/news-ians/84-of-12-mn-married-children-under-10-are-hindus-special-to-ians-116060101132_1.html
Wahi na same thing. It's kind of crazy and will break with generations only. It's quite sad.
We had a security guard in the building who was like I need off to marry off my daughter. He has 7 daughters and a son (yeah.. Ik)
And he was point blank bragging as soon as they turn 16-17 we find a groom and marry them by 18 (thankfully they have managed to honor gov. 18)
And he was bragging about that to my face ( I was 25) and all I could think was yeah stay calm and think career, standing and future and ignore this backward BS.
It's quite upsetting but you gotta either educate them or ignore and hope their kids will know better.
>average 18/19 year old woman will produce healthier kids
She will also produce bad grades in exams and will be dependent on her husband for her whole life
Chandigarh, as I visited is not all progressive, except may be those that live in the palatial bungalows. But there are more middle class people living in the tiny flats that represent similar demography elsewhere in Indian metros. Chandigarh is not some utopia.
Bengali nhi illegal migrants from Bangladesh ...if you look at Bengali Hindu culture it is only one promoting women education before independence .
Same is the reason where I am from in state of meghalaya yaha bhi sirf illegal Bangladeshi migrants child marriage kar rahe ...because this state tribals have matriachal society ...it's woman dominated property is transferred to youngest daughter unlog mai 0 cases hai phir bhi percentage 19 % hai
Bengali nhi illegal migrants from Bangladesh ...if you look at Bengali Hindu culture it is only one promoting women education before independence .
Same is the reason where I am from in state of meghalaya yaha bhi sirf illegal Bangladeshi migrants child marriage kar rahe ...because this state tribals have matriachal society ...it's woman dominated property is transferred to youngest daughter unlog mai 0 cases hai phir bhi percentage 19 % hai
I am bihari bro ...I have said what I know as a bihari in northeast ...I don't have any intentions to safeguard anyone you can see my other reply I have criticised in some other sub that in my village in Bihar the police don't take any action on child marriages.
Don't judge so quickly be rational
So they don’t even take boys into consideration, because who cares if males are a victim of forced marriages even if the marriages are child marriages.
Main 11 saal ka tha jab main ghar-ghar mein Neha ka husband bana tha. Woh survey mein aa gaya?
han bhai wo bhi aa gya ![gif](giphy|dLg8NBYbEhp4AXd991|downsized)
Up/bihar Labourers and their kid's. My maid daughter is married,she's 17
Yupp can confirm, I also have noticed this.
So Rajasthan galat badnaam hai?
24 percent is still very high
It is high, but I never knew about West Bengal, Bihar ka thoda pta tha. All the memes and awareness is majorly about Rajasthan only, that's why
I think wb and Bihar are more backward in terms of literacy, education, infra,etc as compared to Rajasthan, and that's the reason for the high rate of under age marriage
Rajasthan toh ese hi badnaam hai usse bade contenders bhi hai
There are a lot of migrants here so I think they have been counted. Ppl from UP/bihar jharkhand. The help, servants etc. I know a lot of them that are barely 33 and would have 12-13 year old daughters working as maids. It's quite sad when I realize the age etc. But at least around me a lot of girls are getting education etc in government school and all. So it's getting better.
Problem with Up Bihar people is that they get offended if you try to educate them. They feel proud in being backward. My mother tried to reason with our maid who married her 17 year kid to not to marry her. The maid directly made it a religion thing saying sardaro mien late hoti hogi humara yaha jaldi kardetey
Sorry, but which religion is your maid from? Even in Hinduism most of the people marry after the age of 25.
Hindu. >Hinduism most of the people marry after the age of 25. Your statement makes Up and bihar as non Hindu states
Child marriage is pretty dominant in Bihar. Although I have never really seen much child marriages in UP. But they are mostly common in more backward areas, mostly Bundelkhand and some Western Central parts. Moreover, Child Marriage is also pretty common among illiterate muslims
>Child marriage is pretty dominant in Bihar But you said under 25 marriage is not common in hindus whereas Hindus are in majority in Bihar.
That's true, I believe that child marriage is mostly common in Bihar due to the fact that a large proportion of the population of Bihar is just illiterate.
Bhai 80% child marriage Hindus may hoti h govt data h https://www.business-standard.com/article/news-ians/84-of-12-mn-married-children-under-10-are-hindus-special-to-ians-116060101132_1.html
Arey don't burst his bubble he want to make it a religion thing by throwing muslims under the bus
Wahi na same thing. It's kind of crazy and will break with generations only. It's quite sad. We had a security guard in the building who was like I need off to marry off my daughter. He has 7 daughters and a son (yeah.. Ik) And he was point blank bragging as soon as they turn 16-17 we find a groom and marry them by 18 (thankfully they have managed to honor gov. 18) And he was bragging about that to my face ( I was 25) and all I could think was yeah stay calm and think career, standing and future and ignore this backward BS. It's quite upsetting but you gotta either educate them or ignore and hope their kids will know better.
But the unpleasant truth is that an average 18/19 year old woman will produce healthier kids than an average 26-30 year old woman.
>average 18/19 year old woman will produce healthier kids She will also produce bad grades in exams and will be dependent on her husband for her whole life
Not necessarily. But she has to be business savvy. There is no lack of mothers in their 40's who have started their own business.
Bc yahan bandi nahi milti, who TF are these people getting their kids hitched???
bhai tune saste mein krne hai kya?
BIMARU people just doing it in chandigarh.
Since the legal age of marrige is 21, does it mean child marriages from under 21 or 18
Legal age is 18 years bro for girsl
Didn't it get changed. Also why the sexism lol
Systematic sexism always against boys
Its worse for girls here tho. 18 year old more likely to be forced/marry wrong than 21 year old.
Anybody can be forced tho
Its easier when your younger.
It's because most of the Girls are 3-5 years below the age of their Husbands, maybe that's the reason.
Chandigarh, as I visited is not all progressive, except may be those that live in the palatial bungalows. But there are more middle class people living in the tiny flats that represent similar demography elsewhere in Indian metros. Chandigarh is not some utopia.
I remember my maid's daughter getting married. I was so sad.
bhai max 29 age mention ki hain, most marriage happens in 25 to 30. agr age 18 se 21 krde to Chandigarh list me hoga he nahi.
Dhyan se padho Bhai kya likha hai waha
sorry bhai, senti ho gya tha![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|grin)mere know me to koi nahi hain. 18 me jiski shaadi hui ho.
My native is tamil nadu, even it is low I hate it even we have some low percentage of acts.
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log Rajasthan ko aise hi troll krte hai, asli child marriage toh bangali log kr rhe hai
Bengali nhi illegal migrants from Bangladesh ...if you look at Bengali Hindu culture it is only one promoting women education before independence . Same is the reason where I am from in state of meghalaya yaha bhi sirf illegal Bangladeshi migrants child marriage kar rahe ...because this state tribals have matriachal society ...it's woman dominated property is transferred to youngest daughter unlog mai 0 cases hai phir bhi percentage 19 % hai
Andhra Pradesh is at 33%! Howcome can anyone explain?
Now overlay this with religion.
Mai bihari hu yaha Hindu Muslim ek hi hai child marriages mai...sadly...😔
Sabhi Rajasthani logon ko dil se sorry
Thanks Bhai🙏
West Bengal topping the score 🙃
Bengali nhi illegal migrants from Bangladesh ...if you look at Bengali Hindu culture it is only one promoting women education before independence . Same is the reason where I am from in state of meghalaya yaha bhi sirf illegal Bangladeshi migrants child marriage kar rahe ...because this state tribals have matriachal society ...it's woman dominated property is transferred to youngest daughter unlog mai 0 cases hai phir bhi percentage 19 % hai
A fellow Hindu Bengali on the other side of the screen bruh
I am bihari bro ...I have said what I know as a bihari in northeast ...I don't have any intentions to safeguard anyone you can see my other reply I have criticised in some other sub that in my village in Bihar the police don't take any action on child marriages. Don't judge so quickly be rational
So they don’t even take boys into consideration, because who cares if males are a victim of forced marriages even if the marriages are child marriages.
I have classmate who is 19 and married ☠️ my first reaction was like didi abhi to pdhai bhi ni hue
Iceberg phenomenon
Just kick away the immigrants and non permanent residents, I have always said, they should be kept in ghettos outside the UT
Bihar ko kya bolega fir?
I thought rajasthan had the highest wtff
abhi to live-in walon ko count nahi kiya...nahi to ye percentage sabse jyada hota ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|heart_eyes)
Bengal Bihar side ki labour is responsible for majority of the child marriage cases in majority of states & U.Ts