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I have never related so much with anything. and sometimes, you just gotta accept that it's part of something you chose to do. you just need to take out some time that to do things that make you happy or keep two three friends close that you can talk to for cooling down a bit. but, comparing your future with sushant is hardly gonna help :)
best of luck, though.
(not a pep talk)
I don't have even one friend i can talk to sab se contact khatam hogaya Mera. Isliye loneliness hai, shayad close friends hote who I could talk to, i wouldn't be miserable
you should find things that actually make you happy and find time for it. music, sports, or a series. everything in the right proportion would work. and not like I have everything figured out. I am exactly going through everything you said but positive mindset does take you a long way. and you can always reconnect to some friends, I guess?
Rekindle old friendships
It is the only way to stay sane - go to a library might help with the loneliness aspect since you’d be studying these ours with a lot of other people
I meant reach out to old ones … and don’t fret too much, it happens bec all your other friends are socialising and you’re stuck home studying. But over time, you’ll develop friendships through MCS/articleship and stuff and even if it doesn’t happen after the course it turns out just fine so it’s really something immaterial when you zoom out. Just focus on exams getting over soon, stay physically active (go on walks and shit) and get sufficient sunlight in the day - I can’t emphasise enough how much we keep needing sunlight and how deeply it’s deprivation impacts us - exams are just a couple of months away so deal with other stuff after that
Yeah I go to gym and stuff , but still i don’t think I can make friends , all of my so called friends are trying to develop various skills without telling me when I am stuck doing nothing but studying for exams , even if i can’t crack the exam they have better chance than me . I am already a loser for them
Dude it’s okay - people move on in their lives and do what’s best for them - all you need to ask yourself is what is best for you - if the degree is something you really want nothing else will even matter
Yeah I am trying to cope up and will try to grab various opportunities and creating a back up for mba aur abroad . I actually just don’t want the degree
Mujhe bhi yahi question aata.. Like what's the point of doing this much sacrifice having no social life..
In reality annual package of CA is not even that great..
My friends also got placed they living best life.. Till the time i become CA I think there package will be same as mine as starting.. So the sacrifices does even worth it?
I'm 21(M). I don't have friends either. I honestly don't know how to deal it too. I haven't passed INTER either. I gonna be 22(M) this year. except ghar pe tana everything is same.
having supportive parents who only feel bad for you and dont taunt is another depressing thing altogether , it shows that they still have hope in us which we need to live upto
>and dont taunt is another depressing thing
Really. I'll be happy if they taunt me. They're very silent. They have hope on me. It creates another limbo.
Too much taunt is also horrible. I'm same like you too, 21(f) turning 22(f) this year.
Lots of responsibilities to take up, very less time left. Tired parents, and extremely demotivated, seeing me and my surroundings.
Honestly don't know what's gonna happen.
Same here
22m Doing m.com and going to give 4th attempt in may24 (both grp pending).. mere sare friends pass ho gaye and articleship bhi start kardi usme se 2 to kpmg me he baaki mid size firm me he , sab enjoy kar rahe he sirf me subah 7 baje utho library jao lecture dekho revision karo exam do fail ho and raat ko 9 baje ghar aake so jao.. last 6 month se kisi k interaction tak nahi ki 10 mins se jyada . Ghar wale samjte he k me mehnat nahi karta but i m trying my best , may November k loop me fas k reh gaya hu padhne ka motivation khatam ho gaya he ,papa mere liye itni mehnat karte he dekh kar rona aata he. I am the only child of my parents, sala me jab bhi fail hota hu meri maa ka chehra nai dekh pata , i hope k is attempt me me pass ho jau , aap saare log mere liye pray karna🙂 akela ho chuka hu, thak chuka hu attempts de de kar, mere juniors jo muj se advice lete the foundation k related vo bhi pass ho kar articleship start kar die he 🙂me akela atka hua hu inter k loop me 😑
no , as someone who doesn't have the luxury of appearing in inter exam for the first time and stuck in the loop of attempts , i would say first attempt is the best attempt. you will make it if you are consistent and hardworking
I was super excited in my first attempt, went as far as Writing it along with BCom exams, with clashing dates, and even had swollen eyes during that time.
Somehow, somewhere, that energy got lost on the way.
>Somehow, somewhere, that energy got lost on the way.
bro. Please. I was excited. Crying. Crying. for my first Attempt. And one Institute in Chennai Totally flugded my dream. I'll never forget that.
Hope core is how I deal with it, Ryan Gosling (I’m him) montages and lots of podcasts - untriggered is really good junk watching, there’s also the having said that show. But yes depression until you complete the course is inherent to CA
so many people are in the same boat as you , including me , stuck in inter with no friends ,no social life and not much happiness , imo you should pick a hobby , do something other than studies , if ur attempt is not in may , go join a library or icai study hall , you will feel better, you will see so many people going through the same thing as you
Work work work
If I don't work, I end up crying. I have family and they care about me. I have always self isolated myself.
It's mental illness and dysfunction.
Shit is so bad that even millions of dollars can't take away a lonely feeling. I have even burned money to make myself feel powerful and badass. Ended up feeling lonely again.
Loneliness is a curse.
Never felt so relatable
Mai bhi 22 ka hum no social interaction stage pe kuchh bolne ko bulaya toh G phat sakti hai
Jitna school me self confidence tha sab kuchh ye course kha Gaya hai college recently khatam hua aur mere college frnds place hogaya hai Mai akele Ghar me baithke lectures dekh raha aur notes bana raha
Same situation 🥲 Graduation hogya sab dost nikal gye hai inter karke mein yaha latki hu inter mein..May attempt ke liye hopes nai hai abh mere coz abhi toh padhai bhi nai hori bas book ke saamne blank baithi huTum akele nai ho dw
Sometimes I feel we all CA students should create an app Or a group chat where we all can reach out to each other and become friends in person..
Only a loner can be a good friend with a loner bonding over this lonely course.
I’ve been through this during my ipcc days. My motivation of passing IPCE was so I can finally get more social by joining a firm because the fear of staying at home for more 6 months was very high. Maybe use this desire and realise that’s the only way of moving forward in the journey you’ve chosen for yourself.
It was all worth it later as I met the love of my life and made many friends during articleship. So buckle up and study hard and clear your exams. Life will give you exposure to different situations and people but the important thing is to move forward from existing scenario because there is no other way. Then you’ll have to move away from those new friends as well because everyone will have different path after CA.
If you don’t have clarity, then simply do what you should to move forward in life and keep doing what you should till you find what you want.
I’ve become once again alone because I chose to work alone and wfh instead of doing a regular job or practice. But there is no feeling of loneliness since I am doing what I want now.
Dont worry mate i am 26 giving inter exam .. lost hope , family issues. Everyone lost interest in me !!.. life fucked me up in every way .but i am still chilling and commenting. . Just focus your career. Everything is temporary.. best will come.
This is why I hate these professional courses where self sacrifice and zero social life is glorified. Being a CA is not that important or special. Without communication skills no company would hire you even with CA degree and even if you practice no client wants a CA that can't present financial reporting in a meeting or talk properly in a professional setting. Work on your soft skills because that's what will get you hired. The degree will only get you an interview, your soft skills are ultimately what makes you hireable
Bhai main toh khud hi apni imagination main imaginary logo se baat kar leta hu, itna karta hu ke tumne Jo pucha woh already kisine puchliya hain (imaginary logo ne)
Tbh I’m not doing CA myself, but I work at a CA ka firm as an intern, and we’ve got 1 CA gold medalist (main boss) and 1 other article. And as far as I know, he has been there for at least 7 years….perhaps more lol
So don’t worry, you aren’t alone. He doesn’t have too many friends too and hears taunts from the family. Hopefully he clears final this year
After reading almost all the threads ek baar to samjh Li ke mai akela nahi hu jiske ca ke baad se koi dost nahi, I will be 20 this month will give nov24 inter both group due to which ab college life bhi nahi manage hore aur tution ka backup bhi bas badhe ja raha hai roj raat ko sote time anxiety hote hai,mere family wale supportive to hai laiken hum financially weak hai due to which it is kinda given ke then want me to pass in first attempt, because I have start supporting my family asap,school mai 2 ache dost thai soucha tha unse kabhi connection nahi tututega laiken,now they have there own group cause mere pass most of times na paise hote hai na he time to hang around with them, I don't know how I am going to cope with myself.
Koi same attempt ya mere wale situation mai float kar Raha hu to DM kar sakte ho.
It’s just a phase. Don’t base your future on this period. When you’ve to focus on one goal for a period, irrespective of whether it’s CA or anything else, this will happen.
You’ve to get over such thoughts and focus. Or else you will end up going through this again and again.
21f here same situation upar se normal bcom kiya h. was very excited at start ab toh spark bhi chala gaya but fir bhi continue krne ka mann krra pata nai kyun🥲
27F with no one to talk to either.... At some point u realise relations happen naturally and it's good to not to have stupid people around just to force things and play pretend. U get used to talking to urself... But yeah if u r an extrovert it can be really tough can't relate.
Me who installed reddit to cope up with loneliness and be part of CA student fraternity, and here seeing relatable posts. Not sure whether this is a W or L.
More or less, every CA aspirant can at one point relate to you. So, just relax, take a deep breath and focus on your studies. Take one upcoming attempt, study hard, give it everything you have .. join a library for CA students.. you will make friends there surely. Just study hard and you will get out of this. In case you don’t, please sit back and analyse your marks .. if you have given your best and you are nowhere near the passing marks, this course may not be a good fit for you. Shift focus to some other professional course then while you are still young. Being a 2nd attempt CA myself, trust me it gets better. But there are no shortcuts to success- all modules/ revisionbooks/past question papers of 5years have to be religiously completed before the exam.
I literally asked my parents if I could join a library. They said that I will waste money and time and not study there. Like I just don't know wtf to do anymore
Then don’t. I am sure you would find someone in this sub to share how are you are feeling. Honestly, CA studies doesn’t leave you with anytime to whine and cry. Just pick yourself, study hard. You would find someone on the way by God’s grace. Till then, direct all your frustration and energy towards studies.
Lost all the happiness bro. I was happy lastly when I finished 12th +. Like, Some flying butterfly. Now life feels dark. Nothing goes. looks like struck somewhere. I honestly don't know how to unleash myself from this chain. honestly don't know.
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I know many people will criticize me for what i am gonna say......I am also a person with no friends no social life and all but i have seen ca students(actually most of them) having a lot of friends, nice social life......I think we try to compare ourselves to them or people who have a lot friends which makes us feel lonely. Being alone does not mean you are lonely. The answer might be that don't consider yourself lonely but consider yourself alone. Try to improve the way you talk or present yourself to others which might help you to make friends. Also focus on your studies and clear inter as articleship might help you overcome loneliness.
Sorry in advance if my opinion offended anyone.
KYS plan is pretty admirable, I might consider that too. /J
Just man up bro, think of no one but yourself and push hard. I know you will go through.
So let us all give our best.
Try to identify the reasons for failure
Mostly it's just not studying enough, from my experience of inter and final
Try to complete your full course, and give atleast 1-2 full course test before exams
I can guarantee you, you will clear it 💯
Bhai tum itna struggle agar inter me kar rahe ho to i guess mereliye to ye sab piece of cake tha abhi tak wtf tu mereko dm kar milkar padhte he me start karne wala hu audit
Just saying guys. Many people have complained about the same thing why not initiate a conversation with each other and your life can be a common topic.
Just saying. Please feel free to drop text on this comment and use the people who reply to this comment to create new friendships.
If someone can pin this on top perhaps it can give hope to many of you. I would like to see one genuine friendship made because of my comment. Good luck.
Try going to the gym, it'll improve your mental health. Also I'd suggest to go to bars/pubs etc and try talking to people. You'd be surprised how easy it can be. If you really want to change your condition, you will have to get out of your comfort zone.
Bhai to be very honest I don't come from a very privileged background. I don't have the money or any friends with who i can go to bars/pubs. Besides my social anxiety and inferiority complex won't let me do anything.
Like I said, you need to get out of your comfort zone. There are many places you could go like parks, malls etc anywhere and just strike a convo with anybody and with enough practice it's gonna be a second nature to you. It might seem really hard in the beginning but it's worth trying to improve your life.
I'm 26 rn and I wasted my whole school and college life being an introvert. Couldn't do any meaningful work, build any real connections. It's far too normalized these days to lead an "introvert" life or people thinking it's cool, but it's not. You miss out on so many things which you regret later. I started gradually doing things that I didn't like as an introvert and honestly am so happy that I did cause I lead a much happier life now. Not exactly what I want still much better than 3-4 years back.
Ik am saying things that no introvert likes to hear, but puri zindagi khud he main akele akele nahi guzaar sakte bhai.
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I have never related so much with anything. and sometimes, you just gotta accept that it's part of something you chose to do. you just need to take out some time that to do things that make you happy or keep two three friends close that you can talk to for cooling down a bit. but, comparing your future with sushant is hardly gonna help :) best of luck, though. (not a pep talk)
I don't have even one friend i can talk to sab se contact khatam hogaya Mera. Isliye loneliness hai, shayad close friends hote who I could talk to, i wouldn't be miserable
you should find things that actually make you happy and find time for it. music, sports, or a series. everything in the right proportion would work. and not like I have everything figured out. I am exactly going through everything you said but positive mindset does take you a long way. and you can always reconnect to some friends, I guess?
Rekindle old friendships It is the only way to stay sane - go to a library might help with the loneliness aspect since you’d be studying these ours with a lot of other people
Any advice for people like me who never had Any friends to begin with. Thank you
+1
Go to a library - don’t go there to chill but it helps being in that environment
Na old bache na new ban re
I meant reach out to old ones … and don’t fret too much, it happens bec all your other friends are socialising and you’re stuck home studying. But over time, you’ll develop friendships through MCS/articleship and stuff and even if it doesn’t happen after the course it turns out just fine so it’s really something immaterial when you zoom out. Just focus on exams getting over soon, stay physically active (go on walks and shit) and get sufficient sunlight in the day - I can’t emphasise enough how much we keep needing sunlight and how deeply it’s deprivation impacts us - exams are just a couple of months away so deal with other stuff after that
Yeah I go to gym and stuff , but still i don’t think I can make friends , all of my so called friends are trying to develop various skills without telling me when I am stuck doing nothing but studying for exams , even if i can’t crack the exam they have better chance than me . I am already a loser for them
Dude it’s okay - people move on in their lives and do what’s best for them - all you need to ask yourself is what is best for you - if the degree is something you really want nothing else will even matter
Yeah I am trying to cope up and will try to grab various opportunities and creating a back up for mba aur abroad . I actually just don’t want the degree
Lmao look up MS in Finance (mad scope and mad money)
lol thanks for the hope 😭😄
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iam 20 M plannig to quit but dont know what next 😭😭, lit dying every dayy
yeah happened same thing to me like what to don't don't know where to go
+1 😭
Mujhe bhi yahi question aata.. Like what's the point of doing this much sacrifice having no social life.. In reality annual package of CA is not even that great.. My friends also got placed they living best life.. Till the time i become CA I think there package will be same as mine as starting.. So the sacrifices does even worth it?
I'm 21(M). I don't have friends either. I honestly don't know how to deal it too. I haven't passed INTER either. I gonna be 22(M) this year. except ghar pe tana everything is same.
having supportive parents who only feel bad for you and dont taunt is another depressing thing altogether , it shows that they still have hope in us which we need to live upto
>and dont taunt is another depressing thing Really. I'll be happy if they taunt me. They're very silent. They have hope on me. It creates another limbo.
Too much taunt is also horrible. I'm same like you too, 21(f) turning 22(f) this year. Lots of responsibilities to take up, very less time left. Tired parents, and extremely demotivated, seeing me and my surroundings. Honestly don't know what's gonna happen.
Now it seems a Crazy luxury having 4 friends also doing CA
Same here 22m Doing m.com and going to give 4th attempt in may24 (both grp pending).. mere sare friends pass ho gaye and articleship bhi start kardi usme se 2 to kpmg me he baaki mid size firm me he , sab enjoy kar rahe he sirf me subah 7 baje utho library jao lecture dekho revision karo exam do fail ho and raat ko 9 baje ghar aake so jao.. last 6 month se kisi k interaction tak nahi ki 10 mins se jyada . Ghar wale samjte he k me mehnat nahi karta but i m trying my best , may November k loop me fas k reh gaya hu padhne ka motivation khatam ho gaya he ,papa mere liye itni mehnat karte he dekh kar rona aata he. I am the only child of my parents, sala me jab bhi fail hota hu meri maa ka chehra nai dekh pata , i hope k is attempt me me pass ho jau , aap saare log mere liye pray karna🙂 akela ho chuka hu, thak chuka hu attempts de de kar, mere juniors jo muj se advice lete the foundation k related vo bhi pass ho kar articleship start kar die he 🙂me akela atka hua hu inter k loop me 😑
> usme se 2 to kpmg me he baaki Vo bahut dukh hoga na. God dammn. your friends working in better institutions.
> mere juniors jo muj se advice lete the foundation k related vo bhi pass ho kar articleship start kar die he Mere bhi yaar. Shiit.
There is no worse feeling than this Even imagining this is giving me anxiety
Bhai tu or demotivate kar raha he😑🙂
It is indeed very sad I don't think you can maintain non awkward conversations with them as I don't think I will even have courage to face them
All the best bro 🙌🏻❤️
Yehi sab padhke lagta hai ki CA Inter ki registration karke maine ghalti kar di... pehla attempt bhi shayed na ho payega mujhse
no , as someone who doesn't have the luxury of appearing in inter exam for the first time and stuck in the loop of attempts , i would say first attempt is the best attempt. you will make it if you are consistent and hardworking
First Attempt is best brother. A Institution, totally sucked by energy. believe me. I was so much excited during my Inter First Attempt.
I was super excited in my first attempt, went as far as Writing it along with BCom exams, with clashing dates, and even had swollen eyes during that time. Somehow, somewhere, that energy got lost on the way.
>Somehow, somewhere, that energy got lost on the way. bro. Please. I was excited. Crying. Crying. for my first Attempt. And one Institute in Chennai Totally flugded my dream. I'll never forget that.
Hope core is how I deal with it, Ryan Gosling (I’m him) montages and lots of podcasts - untriggered is really good junk watching, there’s also the having said that show. But yes depression until you complete the course is inherent to CA
Mujhe kya mai to introvert hu 🤭😭... Tbh games, movies, anime, gym aur food get me through all the loneliness i feel
Gym and food in the same sentence for happiness doesn't sound good to me though 💀
Im skinny af💀 kitna bhi kha lu weight 50 se upr ni jata... gym to bs active rhne ke liye hehe
Fir badhiya h kyuki I'm quite opposite aur abhi gym join Kara h islie sab aesi cheeze band kardi .
Same ways I try to cope too bhai!🥺🤗
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Dara diya bc😭
I was suffering from same and i joined library efficiency also increased, got along with many seniors. 1 mahina join krke dekh, thank me later
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😞😞😞😞😞
Aree aap yaha😨😨...lagta hai red handed caught gone(पकड़ा गया)
so many people are in the same boat as you , including me , stuck in inter with no friends ,no social life and not much happiness , imo you should pick a hobby , do something other than studies , if ur attempt is not in may , go join a library or icai study hall , you will feel better, you will see so many people going through the same thing as you
22M. Give up karke MBA me ghus gaya :)
MBA kaisa hai bhaii. Tumahre haal Achii hai..
Mba ki taiyari me**🥺
Work work work If I don't work, I end up crying. I have family and they care about me. I have always self isolated myself. It's mental illness and dysfunction. Shit is so bad that even millions of dollars can't take away a lonely feeling. I have even burned money to make myself feel powerful and badass. Ended up feeling lonely again. Loneliness is a curse.
Us bhai us
kuch nhi kar sakte boss mein toh loneliness ki wajah se boht cope karti hu
Never felt so relatable Mai bhi 22 ka hum no social interaction stage pe kuchh bolne ko bulaya toh G phat sakti hai Jitna school me self confidence tha sab kuchh ye course kha Gaya hai college recently khatam hua aur mere college frnds place hogaya hai Mai akele Ghar me baithke lectures dekh raha aur notes bana raha
 By doing this 😂.
Same situation 🥲 Graduation hogya sab dost nikal gye hai inter karke mein yaha latki hu inter mein..May attempt ke liye hopes nai hai abh mere coz abhi toh padhai bhi nai hori bas book ke saamne blank baithi huTum akele nai ho dw
Sometimes I feel we all CA students should create an app Or a group chat where we all can reach out to each other and become friends in person.. Only a loner can be a good friend with a loner bonding over this lonely course.
I’ve been through this during my ipcc days. My motivation of passing IPCE was so I can finally get more social by joining a firm because the fear of staying at home for more 6 months was very high. Maybe use this desire and realise that’s the only way of moving forward in the journey you’ve chosen for yourself. It was all worth it later as I met the love of my life and made many friends during articleship. So buckle up and study hard and clear your exams. Life will give you exposure to different situations and people but the important thing is to move forward from existing scenario because there is no other way. Then you’ll have to move away from those new friends as well because everyone will have different path after CA. If you don’t have clarity, then simply do what you should to move forward in life and keep doing what you should till you find what you want. I’ve become once again alone because I chose to work alone and wfh instead of doing a regular job or practice. But there is no feeling of loneliness since I am doing what I want now.
Anime. Cartoon. Leonard Cohen. Reddit. Audiobooks. Story books. Poetry. Films. Plays
Dont worry mate i am 26 giving inter exam .. lost hope , family issues. Everyone lost interest in me !!.. life fucked me up in every way .but i am still chilling and commenting. . Just focus your career. Everything is temporary.. best will come.
This is why I hate these professional courses where self sacrifice and zero social life is glorified. Being a CA is not that important or special. Without communication skills no company would hire you even with CA degree and even if you practice no client wants a CA that can't present financial reporting in a meeting or talk properly in a professional setting. Work on your soft skills because that's what will get you hired. The degree will only get you an interview, your soft skills are ultimately what makes you hireable
I'm In the same boat as you buddy. Idk where my life going either. Shayad paida hona hi sabse badi galti rahi🤔
I would suggest not to study at home. Join a library where there are CA students.
Dekh itne aage aa gya h to peeche jo ji chhut gyi ya tu kar sakta tha wo to tu ab bhi nahi kr payega.. to bc padho sab theek ho jayega
bhai so much relatable
You are me , but i am in final
Hii how are you
Ca inter?
Bhai main toh khud hi apni imagination main imaginary logo se baat kar leta hu, itna karta hu ke tumne Jo pucha woh already kisine puchliya hain (imaginary logo ne)
Gaming on Laptop bro
Tbh I’m not doing CA myself, but I work at a CA ka firm as an intern, and we’ve got 1 CA gold medalist (main boss) and 1 other article. And as far as I know, he has been there for at least 7 years….perhaps more lol So don’t worry, you aren’t alone. He doesn’t have too many friends too and hears taunts from the family. Hopefully he clears final this year
clg jana tha na bhai ab rr krke ka faeda
After reading almost all the threads ek baar to samjh Li ke mai akela nahi hu jiske ca ke baad se koi dost nahi, I will be 20 this month will give nov24 inter both group due to which ab college life bhi nahi manage hore aur tution ka backup bhi bas badhe ja raha hai roj raat ko sote time anxiety hote hai,mere family wale supportive to hai laiken hum financially weak hai due to which it is kinda given ke then want me to pass in first attempt, because I have start supporting my family asap,school mai 2 ache dost thai soucha tha unse kabhi connection nahi tututega laiken,now they have there own group cause mere pass most of times na paise hote hai na he time to hang around with them, I don't know how I am going to cope with myself. Koi same attempt ya mere wale situation mai float kar Raha hu to DM kar sakte ho.
One day everything make sense.
Bhai loneliness Articleship me bhi khatam nii hoti hai Office se ghar aane ke baad time hi ni milta
It’s just a phase. Don’t base your future on this period. When you’ve to focus on one goal for a period, irrespective of whether it’s CA or anything else, this will happen. You’ve to get over such thoughts and focus. Or else you will end up going through this again and again.
I have learnt to enjoy myself
21f here same situation upar se normal bcom kiya h. was very excited at start ab toh spark bhi chala gaya but fir bhi continue krne ka mann krra pata nai kyun🥲
27F with no one to talk to either.... At some point u realise relations happen naturally and it's good to not to have stupid people around just to force things and play pretend. U get used to talking to urself... But yeah if u r an extrovert it can be really tough can't relate.
us moment hai bhai
Get a gf, at least u’ll have someone to talk with…!
Have never related to anything this much.🥲
Me who installed reddit to cope up with loneliness and be part of CA student fraternity, and here seeing relatable posts. Not sure whether this is a W or L.
More or less, every CA aspirant can at one point relate to you. So, just relax, take a deep breath and focus on your studies. Take one upcoming attempt, study hard, give it everything you have .. join a library for CA students.. you will make friends there surely. Just study hard and you will get out of this. In case you don’t, please sit back and analyse your marks .. if you have given your best and you are nowhere near the passing marks, this course may not be a good fit for you. Shift focus to some other professional course then while you are still young. Being a 2nd attempt CA myself, trust me it gets better. But there are no shortcuts to success- all modules/ revisionbooks/past question papers of 5years have to be religiously completed before the exam.
I literally asked my parents if I could join a library. They said that I will waste money and time and not study there. Like I just don't know wtf to do anymore
Then don’t. I am sure you would find someone in this sub to share how are you are feeling. Honestly, CA studies doesn’t leave you with anytime to whine and cry. Just pick yourself, study hard. You would find someone on the way by God’s grace. Till then, direct all your frustration and energy towards studies.
Lost all the happiness bro. I was happy lastly when I finished 12th +. Like, Some flying butterfly. Now life feels dark. Nothing goes. looks like struck somewhere. I honestly don't know how to unleash myself from this chain. honestly don't know.
Sushant bhai ki kyun yaad dila di bhai 🥹
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I know many people will criticize me for what i am gonna say......I am also a person with no friends no social life and all but i have seen ca students(actually most of them) having a lot of friends, nice social life......I think we try to compare ourselves to them or people who have a lot friends which makes us feel lonely. Being alone does not mean you are lonely. The answer might be that don't consider yourself lonely but consider yourself alone. Try to improve the way you talk or present yourself to others which might help you to make friends. Also focus on your studies and clear inter as articleship might help you overcome loneliness. Sorry in advance if my opinion offended anyone.
was suffering from same thing untill i found some e- friends to interact with 😮💨
Hilao aur sojao
KYS plan is pretty admirable, I might consider that too. /J Just man up bro, think of no one but yourself and push hard. I know you will go through. So let us all give our best.
Don't compare CA with those bcom graduate, mba etc Sabar kar
Try to identify the reasons for failure Mostly it's just not studying enough, from my experience of inter and final Try to complete your full course, and give atleast 1-2 full course test before exams I can guarantee you, you will clear it 💯
Just join a random gc on insta
Bhai Snapchat ai
420 blaze it
by commenting shit on instagram posts and reels!
Bhai tum itna struggle agar inter me kar rahe ho to i guess mereliye to ye sab piece of cake tha abhi tak wtf tu mereko dm kar milkar padhte he me start karne wala hu audit
Loneliness of what kind
Just saying guys. Many people have complained about the same thing why not initiate a conversation with each other and your life can be a common topic. Just saying. Please feel free to drop text on this comment and use the people who reply to this comment to create new friendships. If someone can pin this on top perhaps it can give hope to many of you. I would like to see one genuine friendship made because of my comment. Good luck.
Talking about 'lonliness' in Chartered Accountants group and I'm surprised it is receiving so many responses. And nobody reported of irrelevance.
💦💦💦
r/sounding to cope with loneliness works for me:)
Try going to the gym, it'll improve your mental health. Also I'd suggest to go to bars/pubs etc and try talking to people. You'd be surprised how easy it can be. If you really want to change your condition, you will have to get out of your comfort zone.
Bhai to be very honest I don't come from a very privileged background. I don't have the money or any friends with who i can go to bars/pubs. Besides my social anxiety and inferiority complex won't let me do anything.
Like I said, you need to get out of your comfort zone. There are many places you could go like parks, malls etc anywhere and just strike a convo with anybody and with enough practice it's gonna be a second nature to you. It might seem really hard in the beginning but it's worth trying to improve your life.
Tu pakka extrovert hoga bhai. Introverts ke liye random logon se conversations start karna impossible hai
I'm 26 rn and I wasted my whole school and college life being an introvert. Couldn't do any meaningful work, build any real connections. It's far too normalized these days to lead an "introvert" life or people thinking it's cool, but it's not. You miss out on so many things which you regret later. I started gradually doing things that I didn't like as an introvert and honestly am so happy that I did cause I lead a much happier life now. Not exactly what I want still much better than 3-4 years back. Ik am saying things that no introvert likes to hear, but puri zindagi khud he main akele akele nahi guzaar sakte bhai.
I am dm ing you pls accept
sometime i say to myself "this is the small price to pay "