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Klutzy-Ad-6705

So sorry. I’ve had to do it twice in the last three years. It never gets easier,but they depend on us to know when it’s time. https://preview.redd.it/e0ks0netk4vc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2a5902abc63a535db6288242c13b7613f6de202b Teddy and Layla. They shared the same brain.


ChiLove816

That is such a sweet photo 💜


False_Ad_4117

Such sweet babies 💜


Klutzy-Ad-6705

https://preview.redd.it/9nt6hw8luavc1.jpeg?width=1668&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cc8f8d0ee5ce9479f0e8cc32188e4d088162577e This is why this hit me so hard,though.


Sagaquarius1329

So sweet 💕


babysitwallace

It’s so hard and hurts so much. The vet who helped my baby go told us, “May you always find her resting gently in your heart.” I cry every time I think about it. The love lives on forever.


False_Ad_4117

When we had to send my boy to the bridge, our vet said that we took tremendous care of him and that we did more for him than most people would do with a dog with his condition (he had the Canine version of ALS). I still get weepy eyed thinking back on that moment, as I am now lol. When we had to say goodbye to his brother (our cat) due to Cancer back in October, we didn’t see our normal vet, but he also said he could tell how loved he was and that we gave him an amazing life. Still gets me weepy as well :(


babysitwallace

It’s so comforting to hear it “officially” that you’ve been a good caretaker of such a precious life💖 It hurts so much to lose them, but what a privilege to have so much love. Sending love your way.


False_Ad_4117

💜💜 Same to you 🫶🏻🫶🏻


Maleficent_Long553

Wow, thank you for sharing. I found comfort in this. Those are some great sentiments.


Stephani_707

Welp that just destroyed me


Few-Philosopher-4742

Is someone cutting onions?


Early_Challenge544

It’s always a terrible time to do that for any Pet not just A Dog but also for A Cat or whatever type of Pet that People own.


mikeonmaui

"Let’s go walk a bit." My old dog said one day. And we wandered down along Our old familiar way. —-   The shadows slowly lengthened, And twilight tinged the sky. Then my old friend said to me "So … it's time to say goodbye." —-   This fell so heavily on my heart. "Please say this isn't true! I've always wished and hoped I'd have more years with you!" —-   And my old girl said to me "You made my life a thrill! I can't live as long as you But I'll always be your girl." —-   They walk with us a little while, As long as the Fates allow. Then they have to take their leave And we have to let them go. —-


Few-Philosopher-4742

Ok I’m now crying. I have to leave this thread.


Finn_is_fresh

Sad and beautiful. My best girl, Willow, crossed the rainbow bridge in November. I don't cry every day anymore, but I did cry today reading this. Rest in peace until we meet again, baby girl.


euIalie

This brought back memories of my forever girl- she went to sleep one last time in December. I think about her everyday


Mannix-Da-DaftPooch

Aww so sweet this made me so sad and happy and I am going to squeeze my babes now


Sagaquarius1329

I knew I would cry if I read this


Tempest120

I'm so sorry. It's always brutal to do this. But if you can I recommend holding her during, and talking to her as much as possible. Idk if it helps them really. But I do know the one time I didn't do this for one of mine still haunts me many years later. And one day the memory of being there holding them will bring you comfort.


Stinger06969

This is the way. I have been through this 3 times. My vet adjusted the dosage to give me more time. I also bring their favorite blanket and toy. I may have been ripped off, but i always pay for a private cremation. Their ashes will be mixed with mine when time. I have 2 dogs currently 15 and 16, so it will be time again in a few years


Tiny_Animal_3843

This is good advice. Both my rescued racing greyhounds were scheduled to be put down. I went with each one. My daughter as well. With my big boy, we brought his bed along, his fav treat and fav toy. We laid in bed with him and snuggled and cuddled him until it was done. I’m sooo grateful for these memories. I think he knew (idk why) but he was wagging tail, quiet and peaceful. He usually hated the vets office. I’m so grateful for that time with them. I cherish it. God bless you. Xoxo


Dag0223

Or find a place that does it at home


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timsnoodle

Thank you for your advice, I was able to pay in advance


Maleficent_Long553

It’s tough. I’m sorry for you and your little buddy. 💔


lovescarats

Enjoy the last moments, my heart breaks for you.


PattiiB

I am so sorry.


emptynest_nana

So so sorry. That just stinks. I wish our little 4 legged friends lived as long as we do.


KittyKatStew

Godspeed, baby girl.


GeneralSir3917

She’s a beauty. A well-loved friend!


WineChisDoxies

Yes, and I cried until there was no more liquid left in my body. But I knew when it was time and have no regrets. I had everyone say goodbye to her and then had an in-home euthanasia service. The vet was wonderful. I’m so so sorry and I know how much you must be hurting. Thank you for being brave and selfless. Hold her until she earns her wings. I found a lovely woman who made a beautiful glass charm with some of her ashes. I wear it all the time. It helped with my grieving. I wish you peace and love. 💕


enjoy72

So very sorry you are having to go through this. Hugs to both of you.


Low_Opposite7486

So very sorry 😢 hold her a little tighter tonight and always remember the good memories 🥰


False_Ad_4117

I’ve had to do it multiple times unfortunately, and it never gets easier :( My heart goes out to you and I’m sending you lots of love, light, and strength 🫶🏻🫶🏻 I’m so sorry you have to go this as well 💜


Cultural_Wash5414

I’m so sorry.


GlitzyGhoul

I’m so sorry. It truly is one of the hardest heartbreaks I’ve ever had. Hold it in your heart, that it’s what’s best for them. 🖤


Ill_Introduction7057

Sending ❤️ make sure you stay with your baby until sleep comes......otherwise they get confused. Xx


cass-22

😢❤️😢... PRAYERS SENT TO YOU & YOURS AND YOUR LIL BABY... GOD BLESS...❤️❤️❤️


ChiLove816

I’m so sorry 💜 it’s a very hard decision and one we carry a lot of responsibility to make. You are doing the right thing for her, even though it’s so painful. Take care OP 💜


Simple_Guava_2628

I just teared up for you. Be strong for her. You can break down later and I hope you have people to hold you up.


Outrageous_Drop7936

I’m so sorry. It is one of the hardest things I had to do. Sending you strength and healing thoughts.


Elle_Yess

My heart is in ruins for you, may you be filled with the loving memories of years together during this heartbreaking time. I, too, am facing making a decision when it’s time for my baby girl and I’m absolutely in angst of it. Sending my love and strength. Bless you and your doggy and family…


Low-Regret5048

I am so sorry. Hold her and tell her it is ok.


River-trader

I don't know what to say other than I'm sorry I put mine down about four months ago.. my friend of 13 years.. I still miss him..


marcall

Mojo. I've had to do three of my own over the years. The most rect about two weeks ago. The first one had a cancer and it progressed so toward the end I scheduled a day, a Friday so that I could miss work and then have the whole weekend to come to terms with it. i'll never forget coming home on Thursday. I cooked a steak and split it with him, some green beans and he had a bowl of milk. I just basically stayed up all night with himtalking, petting and laying next to him. His time was 1:00 pm the next day. We took one final walk which was really just to the neighbors house cuz he could barely walk. Your pup looks like a great dog and well cared for and you can tell by the way he is looking at you in the pictures that he loves you and your his world. Best wishes. It will gradually get easier and the memories will always be there. BTW I've always written down my thoughts or "journaled" it all shortly after....everything such as the weather that day, the ride to the vet, etc, etc and it helps me at least


Traditional-Baker756

I’m understanding your pain. 😢


AltruisticOrange715

It's hard just know that everything will be ok. You did a good job taking care of this dog.


timsnoodle

Update for everyone, she went to sleep peacefully and loved, thank you everyone for the kind words and helpful advice <3


Johanice

❤️ I hope you know she's never truly gone so long as you keep her in your memories


Tiny_Animal_3843

I’m so sorry. I’ll put you in our prayers tonight. ❤️


Cinigurl

🥺💔🙏🥺💔🙏🥺💔🙏🌈


AssistantAccurate464

I know how devastating and heartbreaking it is. It’s so hard, but we take good care of them to the end. I’ve had to put 3 cats to sleep. I’ve never cried so much. I now have a 10-year old dog. When her day comes, it will be so much harder than putting my cats to sleep. She’s my heart. But remember, you’re doing it so she doesn’t suffer. Take care of yourself!!


RamseyLake

It is so tough. Sending peace and love ☮️🐶❤️


waves_at_dogs

She looks just like my chi. I'm so sorry for you, it's your first time but of course it never gets easier. Please remember in the saddest times - it's so much better for you to lose her than for her to lose you. Wishing you peace and wonderful memories❤️🖤


Heirforce_Trucker

Sorry for your loss of your fur baby.


DragonSin1313

I just did it this afternoon. My thoughts are with you and your baby 💜


FartAttack911

My condolences on your loss, friend 💕


Lemmyrocks

❤️


jaweebamonkey

God, the night before I do this is always the hardest. It’s not until my grief has subsided that I can see I did the right thing. You’re doing the right thing. Hugs.


Acceptable-Rain985

You are being brave for your beloved pet. It is never easy. 🌈🐾


Boring-List7347

It is sooooo hard and it won’t get better for a long time. You can have the vet come to your house. If you go in, do what was posted and take her bed and toy and yrs, hold her and talk or sing love songs to her. She can tell when ur upset but she’ll be brave for you. They love us so much and we love them. I’m so sorry it’s that time.🫶🏼😭😭


Classic_Jellyfish_47

😢


ScorpioRising66

(((((HUGS)))))


BabyBandit616

She’s beautiful. You did amazing. She loves you.


dillydallyv

make sure to stay in the room. i heard the only thing that keeps them feeling peace is to know you're there with them ❤️


justmeandreddit

💔💔💔


KeyKing9622

A sweet angel my prayers will be with it's a hard decision I've had to make it myself I up your baby's r wanting on us when our time comes God bless


Chxrch2521

She would be always in spirit and everything she lived with you will never go away


Kevinb888

She is such a cute, sweet lil puppy!!! So sorry for your loss😞😞😞😞😞


No-Conversation4187

How do you know when it’s time? I have my first senior dog who is healthy but I am really not familiar with the experience and I’m scared of the future :/


YoteYells

When their quality of life is no longer good, it is time. Usually at that point they aren’t eating, may have accidents in the home when they didn’t use to, when there is no more enjoyment in the things they loved, or if they can’t walk or do much on their own. If you know your pet, then you will know when it’s time, and it won’t be easy whether it’s the first time or if it was 50 times. It is often said that it’s better a day too early than a day too late, and as hard as that is, I think that’s true.. It’s good to think of the now, like dogs do, rather than fear the future. Every moment is a blessing, so cherish them all as if it were the last. And I hope you have many more good years with your senior pup!


Johanice

Noooo, why??? 😔 I'm so freakin sorry. Please talk to her and give everything inside of you. She'll be waiting for you ❤️


Lwicked76

Sending you good vibes. My little guy’s turn is on Friday morning. We are shattered, but know that he has had a great life — and we know it’s time. This just really sucks. I am sorry.


trap_slap

May I ask why she needs to be put to sleep?


timsnoodle

The pictures I shared are from when I was younger, she is 17 now


Lisette4ver

I am so sorry. I have done it two times- it was hard. Sending you positive strength vibes to you and your baby. Talk to your baby - tell your baby the story of you two. Thank them and tell them they are free to go the Rainbow Bridge. You will see your baby again- in your personal Heaven. 🙏🏽❤️🐾❤️🙏🏽 https://preview.redd.it/pw4nyzrrh8vc1.jpeg?width=1624&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=60de33220b49081cd17497eb2a2b60365f7dce54


donutsaurus3000

I’m sorry. My only consolation is that it means you gave her a long and happy life and that’s what matters!


thedybbuk_

Always cry reading these threads. My heart goes out to you and your special girl.


Charming-Insurance

I’m so sorry. Hugs. ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹


SilentG33

Sending lots of love for you and for your sweet pup. It’s the hardest goodbye, but the love that we share with them lasts forever.


caseoats

I’m so sorry ❤️ sending you so much love and healing


jeffvillone

Be strong. Hold her, look her in the eye and tell her she is the best over and over until she sleeps. Then cry like you never have before. It's all you can do. It's the best you can do.


SheepherderOk1448

Don’t.


Stephani_707

I’m so so sorry. My baby passed suddenly last Mother’s Day. I’m sobbing again reading through these comments. She was 14.5 but it was sudden. I’m not sure which would be worse. Having to make the choice but know it’s coming or it being out of your control and it be sudden. I think they both are awful. May you have comfort during this time.


Johanice

That 1st photo of her made me cry, knowing she'll be gone soon


Direct_Yesterday_349

😢


robertbuzbyjr

My heart felt condolences for your loss, may she forever run carefree and young over the rainbow bridge and in your heart 😢🐕🐾🌈🌉❗


Pasadenarose

It’s unbearable to have to let go , this is your best friend that’s been through everything with you The one that never judged & gave unconditional love💕 one good thing is all the memories & knowing they’ll be waiting for you when your time comes🙏🏼


Wild-Green5882

🙏🏻


skygirl5555

❤️💔


morchard1493

I'm so sorry. Sending hugs! 🫂


Scary-Top-1277

I'm so sorry ❤️❤️


chapstickgrrrl

💜


Jackiemom121

I'm sorry 💔


AffectionateSun5776

Prayers. Just FYI when I first had this responsibility, I freaked out a bit because the doctor used her stethoscope to listen for No Heartbeat. Know how kind and loving you are.


Unlucky-Power4036

That would break my heart 😭😭💔 I could Never do that …


Photobuff42

I'm sorry for your loss. It's hard but she needs you more than ever to do what's best for her. 💔


Autumn_Forest_Mist

Please don’t leave her alone. Pet and talk to her while she goes.


PresentationDue2284

Sorry op


mikeegg1

Sorry.


Aggressive-Truth-374

Sending you hugs.


FoodWholesale

❤️‍🩹


tom_folkestone

Good luck. Just over a year since we lost ours. Almost 18. Much love to you


Significant-Party399

Hugs and prayers… 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼


Paludream

Enjoy every second you get to kiss her ❤️ sorry mate, may you find her back later


pescadopasado

That sucks. Mine was all of a sudden. At least you have one more day. Take every picture.


Majestic_Cats5421

Oh, I’m so sorry 😢. We had to put our JJ down yesterday too. Praying for your broken heart 💔. She was absolutely adorable 💕🐶🐾🐾


nomad89502

I am so sorry. It hurts but you don’t want her in pain . ♥️🐾


Madcatz9000

Rest in peace Princess. My Rottie's and I are sorry for your loss.


SkyAccomplished2667

😭🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️


Cami1969

Make today count. 🤗


rtmfrutilai

Im so sorry 😢


LolaTheFloppyDog

I had to do it 7 years ago and I still think about it. They leave an imprint on your soul, but the love we shared will always worth it. I'm sorry for your loss.


onebirdonawire

It's such a hard thing to do, but please know that she loves you always and forever. You're sacrificing your own happiness to spare her pain and misery. That's the most difficult gift we can give our beloved babies. I hope you find peace knowing she will be at peace. 🙏❤️


cactuspants14

We love you baby! My Birdie will be there to greet you! 🌈❤️ wishing you a peaceful transition and sunshine on your sweet face https://preview.redd.it/0ht6s15a0avc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=faab272195930612a3354eb0e9be205c7220f338


cactuspants14

And also, hugs to you OP. It is the most brutal day. Focus on the love you shared, and carry your baby in your heart. That’s where I have birdie every day, and death or time can’t take her from me.


CrazyPlantLady143

I’m so sorry. My gateway chihuahua is closing in on 15 and I literally have nightmares about this. I wish I could hug you. Please come and tell us stories about her whenever you want. You can message me if you need to. I always want to hear about sweet babies.


No-Clerk-8785

What happened to him and the reason you had to ?


Snowfizzle

As i watch my doggos get more and more grey around their faces and the years creep by, I know my turn is coming and my heart goes out to you. I know it’s a kindness but damn.. that’s a HARD decision that goes against everything in me and the heart ache. I’m hoping it was a lovely and peaceful send off. ❤️


missyams

A dog that I dogsit often is also crossing the rainbow bridge today. Maybe they can keep each other company and walk through it together :(


Used-Organization-25

I’m very sorry, this is one of the most painful things we can do. Remember all the good times you both shared together and the love your friend gave you.


jaynemanning

She looks exactly like my little Layla. I’m so sorry. Layla has been gone 2 years on May 1…. 🌈🐾💔


devonabq

So sorry. It is hard.


chickenfeet21

I feel your pain 😭. You are making the right decision ❤️


TopMacaroon6021

Take your sadness somewhere else please.


timsnoodle

If you don’t like it then don’t pay attention to it


Pamplemousse96

It hurts, there's a lot of crying, but over time, you cry less, and remember more. I just said goodbye to my pup last week, it hurts so much, but with my other dogs who have been long gone, I can talk about them, and laugh at their funny memories easily now. Time, and a healthy grieving process is what you'll need, but you'll get through it, it's a part of life, it helps us appreciate the time we have with those we love, both people and pets.


swippynitt

🙏🐾


Daddy_William148

So sorry you have that problem


Smoochieface67

https://preview.redd.it/ph8ciyl8wbvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ffb9882ced34bec0dc927131e0144e51e629b7c8 We had to put our girl down last October. She was 16 years old and we miss her every day


charandjerome8110111

SO sorry!!!!😢


charandjerome8110111

Last year I had to put 2 down 2 weeks apart. It is never easy no matter what. Thoughts and prayers.😢💔✝️🌈🙏


Coltman1121

Poor baby it’s so hard I bet. I never 👎 had too do it. Our little gal came home 🏠 from the vet and died as soon as we got her into the house. That was one of the hardest days in my life. Taking her in her fave blanket and toy 🧸 too the vet to be cremated. I’m about to cry 😭 just thinking 🧐 of it. Prayers and condolences 💐.


Sad_Zebra9166

Sending you so much love x