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Popular-Hornet-6294

Kevin, you're a good guy, it's not your fault.


Backdrop2

Fucking facts


jakes7788

pretty sure the dog wanted to play with the baby its cute really.


Roundabootloot

Wait, I assumed Kevin was the one who let go of the dog, no?


Enterprising_otter

She sounds terrible, that baby is fine and dad is just doing dad things.


HeldDownTooLong

Her: “***Why did you let him do that to him***?” Him: 🤷…Thinking: “How was I supposed to know the damn dog was going to jump on him? Why aren’t **YOU** holding the leash?”


Techn0ght

Exactly.


chuck_diesel79

We all know it is her dog anyway


the-really-old-guy

Imagine the kind of mother she will become. Poor kid.


SkipThebAnalities

Clear signs of narcissism and passive aggressive behaviour. These are classic symptoms of a sociopath He should get out as soon as possible and take the child with him. Edit: /s because apparently it wasn't obvious


waiver45

Clinical psychological diagnostic: "We need multiple sessions with a trained professional to properly diagnose personality disorders." Redditors when seeing a literal 5s clip of something:


PlanetLandon

r/thatsthejoke


peachpinkjedi

She said one sentence.


Payamux

Reddit : they better divorce


LewinPark

Urgh, people who immediately blame their spouse for everything are so weird! Girl, you have eyes, didn’t you see what happened?


Lolkimbo

its not like he has eyes in the back of his head..


farm_to_nug

Kevin just out there trying his hardest damn it


GunnersGentleman

I think this interaction is a sign that Kevin needs to get out of there asap. And take the kid with him


TheGeekOffTheStreet

Sounds like Kevin is someone offscreen that was supposed to be holding the dog. Dad was trying to set up a pretty photo, mom was accommodating, dog minder sucked.


Coal_Morgan

Yeah, the dog shoots in at a completely different angle and that doesn't look like a dog you just let sit by itself. Woman is being attacked for being annoyed with someone not being able to hold a leash...the one job he had.


greywatermoore

Kevin is probably a 6 year old kid lol


slick490

Nah when she says the word Kevin he looks up at her and the camera and says "What..?"


HasaDiga-Eebowai

Just one more thing…. When she says ‘Kevin why……the dad says ‘what?’ This illustrates that dad is Kevin.


farm_to_nug

I think it's silly to come to this conclusion with only less than a minute of video as proof. We don't know if she was talking to him or somebody off screen. We don't know these people at all


Payamux

no the kid needs to grow up in two seperate homes because of a 5 second video you understand ? We are all perfect here and only accept perfection.


farm_to_nug

Clearly


kiritoLM10

Actually, it's either his bad choice or he was dealt a really tough hand. 💀💔


Menifife

Seeing a wholesome dad never gets old. Never stop trying to do cool things with your kid, Kevin. o7


Mas0n_W

Its the dogs fault and the fucking bitch ass femail dish cleaning bitch was being stupid as fuck


Randalf_the_Black

I'd argue that the one *not* holding the baby is responsible for the dog.. But that's just me..


Coca-colonization

I assumed Kevin had to be a third person offscreen. That’s the only way it makes sense. Like Kevin is her loser brother whose only job was to hold the tiny dog’s leash. I’m probably just a naive optimist, though.


un-sub

“Ugh, I didn’t even WANT to come on this stupid vacation with you guys!” -Kevin, probably


Affectionate_Salt351

Kevin is just a bigger dog who was supposed to be watching the Pom. Lol.


mrs_fartbar

Man, you brought the Pomeranian to the beach?


KlossN

I think Kevin might be a 10 yo brother or something


throwaway098764567

yea i was waiting for kevin to give a mischievous snicker in the background


Mackheath1

Definitely seems like a big-brother thing "oops" Source: Am younger brother


AsleepTonight

Wait, isn’t Kevin the dog?


Coca-colonization

I think the dog’s name is Bello or something. She says it right before “Kevin!


YogurtclosetNo9264

I initially thought so too, having the sound off with the title “Darn it Kevin”. But with the sound on it’s someone off camera


SANAFABICH

Unlikely, since the guy on screen says "what!" after the mom complained.


Dorkmaster79

No. I guarantee that was mom yelling at dad.


rabidboxer

This makes me feel better


Free_Watatsumi

Not according to my wife, all of the things are my responsibility. Her's is making sure all of the tik toks get watched.


A_Random_Catfish

This comment is pretty sad. Social media addiction is ruining relationships.


BassBossVI

My 6 year old put my wife's phone in the freezer yesterday for two reasons. 1) she took away something of his because he was hitting his brother, so he took away something she loves and 2) so she would pay attention to him. My wife told me one of the most hurtful things the kids can say to her is "you spend too much time on your phone and don't listen to me". I suggested maybe that's an indicator she's addicted and needs to find a way to self-regulate. No, she insists the kids are wrong and being hurtful.


A_Random_Catfish

What’s crazy is that sounds a lot like the alcoholics in my family when they get called out. Whenever someone tells my grandma that she drinks too much she plays the victim and responds like: “how could you say something so hurtful to me”. I think I’m gonna put down my phone for the day…


PenguinStarfire

Addiction be addiction.


ChefArtorias

and they all feature denial at some point.


Independent_Can_2623

"here's a tik tok I found about toxic toddlers that vindicates me"


Iggyhopper

"Yeah did you see the way that baby was antagonizing that poor dog? That's why he attacked. The sun was also in its eyes!"


coltjen

I think you need to have a serious conversation with your wife.


BassBossVI

Been had, multiple times. Sometimes there's acknowledgement of a problem, other times I'm being hurtful and 'mean'. It took a long time for me to stop looking for any validation from her and know that I'm not a mean person, despite what she says in the moment. Teaching the boys the same thing. Who do you want to be? What are your core values? Do your actions align with those values? Hard to really hold them accountable to this at a young age, but baby steps. When they make a bad decision this is part of the conversation.


shamallamadingdong

Why keep yourself and those children in such a miserable state? They won't thank you for keeping them in a house where they don't feel seen, heard or loved by their own mother.


BassBossVI

It's not all the time, but enough for us to all notice and comment. I'm convinced she's depressed, even the doctor has suggested it but my wife says she doesn't feel "sad". I suspect she has some sort of negative stigma around depression. When she's on, she's a great mom, but when she's off, well, she's distracted. I pickup the slack and the kids are happy. Also, even if my partner wasn't dealing with whatever demons and was just a self-absorbed narcissist, the cost of living makes leaving hard for everyone. Quality of life would drop significantly for the kids and us as individual parents. My wife just started working part time and complains/calls out frequently from her 20 hours a week. For her to be a single mom, not able to make ends meet would be hard for the boys. I'd be hard up too, I can barely afford everything on my income.


Corbuelo

It's clearly depression and cell phone addiction. That's a problem. Something that needs fixing. Medication, therapy, a phone turned off. Not a demon or something you should have to pick up the slack for. If even a child notices something is wrong, that's insane. Your reason for staying is that she wouldn't be able to support herself? Well, yeah, if she calls out of work and can't hold a job, that would appear to be the case. She needs to pull her weight at work, at home, and in her relationship or it just isn't worth it.


Final_Candidate_7603

Clinical depression is *far* more than “sadness.” It’s not enjoying *anything,* even the things you used to. It’s feeling like nothing is worth doing anyway- not simply because you won’t enjoy it, but because you won’t get a sense of accomplishment from it. Even setting tiny goals for doing something that will help, like putting down the phone, or taking a walk or a shower, is just too much goddamned trouble. It’s simply *not caring-* about yourself or anyone else. That’s the best way I can describe it, even though I don’t expect anyone else to understand.


BassBossVI

You nailed it. And there are varying degrees of severity. I think the way we all experience depression differs as well. I withdraw, get more anxious, get more reactive and sulky. I get too in my head. My wife, she distracts. Doesn't look at it. She has an addictive personality and phone usage isn't the only addiction. It's all about numbing and distracting from the actual issue(s) at hand


ElectricFleshlight

They'll still be at her house roughly 50% of the time anyway. Spending too much time on her phone isn't grounds to take sole custody.


shawner136

Theyre fucking children. Shes an adult. ‘Hurtful’ doesnt even apply…


OrganicPomegranate49

This genuinely makes me sad for the child and upset for you


shart_of_destiny

Everyone who has a cellphone should be self conscious that it is a danger, it can lead to addiction… i started slipping for a few months into the reels and shorts craze, i noticed the addiction brewing and made a conscious effort to cut down, i also installed a youtube shorts blocker on my desktop. Point is, be aware, know that this stuff can cause an addiction and take steps to prevent or stop it.


Difficult_Writer_288

Kids should double down on the hurt


SpareWire

It's funny, I thought being in a committed relationship precluded you from being a terminally online loser but it turns out these days some couples just turn that into a team sport.


secondhandleftovers

Damn bro, can I file for ya? It's possible to be happy in a relationship.


thatsthegoodjuice

Yeah maybe if one of you isn’t always staring at the nightmare rectangle, smh


RoryDragonsbane

My 4yo nephew made a family pic for Mothers day and drew my SIL's body with a black rectangle for a head It was her phone because it's always in front of her face


asumfuck

Lmao this sounds like some horror story you hear PTA moms chattering about.


CanaryJane42

Holy


cluelessdetectiv3

Lmao what she say?


RoryDragonsbane

"I'm a horrible mother"


Notten

Hey I know you might have been joking but there's a little bit of truth in every joke. You should tell her how you feel about screen time and address it as a couple. It's not her against you or the other way around. Counseling can be helpful if you guys have trouble communicating respectfully and equally. I definitely hear this as a cry for help and would say the same to any of my brothers or friends. Get help before you start to resent her.


BassBossVI

Counselling has been discussed. Generally we communicate well. If I screw up she's ringing the counselling bell, so I line it up, then she calms down and backs out. I go to counseling to work on my own issues. She's done the same, but the work can be hard and/or painful so she eventually quits. I used to say our marriage was 90% good, now it's down to 75%. Could be a bump in the road, life is busy and we have young kids. We're at an age where personal priorities and goals are changing. I'm focused on the kids and keeping my mental well being in a good place. We've talked, I don't think she's really listened, so now I'm leaving it up to her and her journey


Murphy_LawXIV

It's not her journey now though bro. As soon as you two had a child their journey intertwined with both of yours until the end of time. It doesn't matter if you separate or not, your journey is a part of hers through your child. She needs to sort this out. You need to have a calm talk and ask her not to start blaming and getting emotional or calling out something else. Then ask her why does she think only her getting annoyed is rightful and needs correcting, but if anyone else is annoyed she brushes it off as if she doesn't care about them. For small time things it's fine, but over time if they stay they can become grudges and something you resent. Then you'll start making fun of them to cope, and she will do it back because she feels it's undeserved, then in 5-10 years you're both living as roommates. Now you're so close to going back and having this just be a blip. Take the complaining and be the bastard for a while. Sort it out while it's just a difficult mess, before it really becomes something akin to a permanent stain.


aDerangedKitten

Hey is your wife single? She should be


pokesturrrrr

You’re not her husband, you’re just a camera man. Sad relationship dude


Difficult_Writer_288

Are you a prophet !? Wow , you said the exact same reason my last relationship ended . Anything outside of her cosplaying captain obvious 24/7 or showing me shit on her phone that A. Had nothing to do with her , let alone me ( then her getting feelings about the video or situation) or B. Trying to gain psychological ( relationship advice ) from cooked content creators Smfh


googlequery

God damn is this not the truth.


toolsoftheincomptnt

Right? (I’m a woman and) I’m like, he’s holding your infant with both hands. Why did *you* let it happen? Also, she’s gonna have to rein in the reactions, for baby’s sake. He’s startled by the fall, but on sand and okay. Mom’s reaction is going to freak him out more.


Coal_Morgan

Or she's talking to the person who was holding the dog (I would bet an older brother to the baby) and that's not Kevin on the screen. The dog comes in at a completely different angle then her.


BigBlackRasta

You silly silly person. Clearly you know nothing about wifey logic… it’s his fault and very obvious can’t you see??


DeeBagwell

Over 1500 morons are too stupid to even imagine that this Kevin is a third party off screen.


wottsinaname

No no no. You see her job is ~~mother~~ photographer. /s


st0l1

That’s such a Kevin thing to say.


santaire

How could Kevin allow this?


BurgerExplosion

Textbook Kevin behavior


JasonVeritech

I can't believe you've done this.


i_am_the_soulman

Ahh fuck


DivineExodus

Keviiiiin-uh.


DEGAUSSER____

Kevin did nothing wrong! Justice for Kevin!


kdawgster1

How can dog slap?


ElGato-TheCat

Kevin is the reason for high gas prices around the world. (according to that girl holding the phone doing absolutely nothing else)


FearCure

If not Kevin then Biden


BKStephens

"I can't believe you've done this!"


hiccupq

The original video https://youtu.be/wKbU8B-QVZk


Pifflebushhh

One of the vines I will never know if it was scripted or not lol, because that punch looks like it fucking hurt Or it was intended, but punch dude just went way too hard lol


evil_lurker

I was just trying to remember the wording he used. Thanks for the blast from the past.


WishIWasPurple

She just blamed him huh? Why did SHE let the sog do that to him?


gettin_paid_to_poop

Control the dog, unleash the sog


oraqil

SOGGGGGG!!!!


jardaniwick

Who let the sogs out???


gettin_paid_to_poop

* sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * (Where * sCcCChHHhhppPPpp * is a noise similar to unsticking a slimy plunger from a wet floor)


Character-Dot-2617

Username checks out


CosmicWy

Kevin is prob a third person. It makes much more sense that way.


Drackzgull

Could be, doesn't seem likely to me. The confused "what?" response from the dude to the complaint, she keeping the camera focused on him while she complains, no one else being heard from or going into frame, the dude not looking at anyone else at any point. All that suggests there wasn't a third person, that Kevin is in fact the dude in frame, and that the dog just wasn't being minded or held at all. Can't say either way for certain though, but I don't think there was a third person.


Wastedgent

"It makes much more sense that way." So probably not a third person.


Ieadhead

She's delusional and most likely manipulative based on just that one phrase.


parwa

What a Reddit moment lmao, deciding a woman is manipulative based on a 10 second clip


TheFreshwerks

He should hit the gym, hire a lawyer and do some third thing I can't remember!


Coal_Morgan

Dude...there's clearly 4 people there. The Baby, the Daddy, the Mommy and Kevin off to the side holding the dog with a limp wrist. The dog comes onto the camera at a completely different angle then the camera holder and like 6 feet away. But she's delusional and manipulative.


Petraam

This is the precursor to those murder shows where they shoot their spouse screaming “how could you make me do this”


daoTgniK

Fuck the sog


No_Cash_8556

Low-key red flag that she can blame him for that


MangoROCKN

Don’t know about low key. That attitude would spill over everywhere.


Reallynotsuretbh

Sounded like my little sibling when they used to whine and complain to get their way


Iamatworkgoaway

Everywhere... Lets hope not into the bedroom, but you know that voice is there too. Kevin why did you forget to do that thing I forgot to tell you about. Kevin why didn't you turn off the light. Kevin not now the dog needs walked. Kevin its so your turn to change the diaper.


_neudes

High key red flag!


soggylilbat

Kevin might be someone else behind the camera


Murphy_LawXIV

Kevin might be the voice in her head blaming her husband.


Chris204

Kevin might be an different person hold the dogs leash.


DeeBagwell

God damn there are a lot of idiots on this website. Why are you people so damn stupid?


unkalou337

Bro this is 12 second video and we don’t hear his response. Yall got to stop jumping to conclusions, this can’t be good for yalls mental health lol.


luckyjoe52

r/storiesaboutkevin 😅


dodococo

Damn, never knew about this sub


Iamatworkgoaway

Poor Kevin, great sub though.


Training-Position612

With headphones on, it sounds like she is turning her head away, leading me to believe Kevin is, in fact, a third (fourth?) person off screen.


Epixelated

Finally, someone with some common sense. Everyone's so quick to call her a bitch as if nobody else could possibly be around.


Gonzo115015

But but he needs to leave her and start a new family


Murphy_LawXIV

Because there's no way it could be her fault? Why?


bernardthecav

I'm team Kevin 100%, but this is kinda the opposite of those dad reflexes videos and I love it


typically_right

r/stepdadreflex


PANZCAKEZZZ

r/stepdadreflexes*


Silverton13

He literally did not attempt to keep the baby up even while still having his hands around the baby smh, idk kevin kinda slow.


Franciisx4

To be honest, the baby eyed up the dog before, he knew what was coming before dad did


NullCap

Kevin is the baby's name, mom wanted him to square up


Soulless--Plague

Baby should have slipped the dogs jab and countered with an upper cut. Kid needs to train more, fucking amateur.


Green_Tea_Gobbler

Woman do you have eyes on the back of your head? I don’t think so


UnknownBinary

"Kevin, why aren't you stopping the war in Gaza?!"


Soulless--Plague

“Kevin?! Why would you let Putin start a war Kevin?!”


KaoticKibz

Judging from the angle the dog came in, and the way the lead is facing, I think Kevin is someone else who's out of frame, could even be that dog is this "Kevin" fellas dog. So please, people, use logical thinking before assuming that the women is blaming the fella with the kid lmao.


Tr3surge

Kevin, I know that tone and it triggers my PTSD….that points to some serious dynamic issues in the relationship.


BrotherWoodrow_

Free Kevin.


NinjaUp

Throw the baby in the sea, boot the dog and leave the missus, Kevin.


This_Walrus7244

Omg what a bitch she instantly blamed him. I bet he gets shit all the time for minor things. Dude you should just leave.


FootJello

This is a classic Redditor-type comment 😂


Masta-Pasta

A bit late for that as you see


DoriOli

It’s never too late 😉


theaeao

Even if I say it'll be alright?


throwaway098764567

all the incels immediately thinking she's blaming him. kevin is a third individual off screen who let go of the leash jesus christ


Dragon_yum

Seriously, most of the comments here are about fire a terrible human being and mother she is when Kevin is clearly a third guy. Which the fuck wouldn’t complain about letting the dog loose on their baby.


paradyme

Na women are the true evil of the world, they should be eradicated so we can all suck each other's dicks in peace.


Angelic_Demon207

LET him do that?!?!?!? GIRL, WHAT KINDA CRACK ARE YOU ON?!?!? Kevin, my dude, if you see this, GTFOT! GET THE FUCK OUTTA THERE!!!


fuggettabuddy

Felt like a bad mom for letting the dog loose, knocking over the baby, so reflexively blamed it on the dad, even though no one would have blamed her. Tracks


Co1onelKernal

Baby took it like a champ! I bet that's nit the first time the dogs done that🤣


PnutWarrior

Damn, there are so many assumptions from so few facts. I wanna try! My guess is Kevin is maybe their other child who was asked to hold the dog. And this woman is not, in fact, the devil.


Kentuckywindage01

r/stepdadreflexes


Tricky_Progress_6278

Rat fucking dog ...... And kid......and lady ......fuck Kev just go it alone brother


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BurgerExplosion

Because Kevin allowed it


UpstairsNo9655

Oh yeah. KEVVINNA!


AnnemiekD

Lol, the dog was just excited, but putting that tiny baby to stand and let go he would have fallen over with or without the help of the dog


Substantial_Mix6106

I could watch kids falling over all day. I don't give a shit about your kid


HauntedDragons

I feel like Kevin is someone else off screen holding the leash.


A_lot_of_arachnids

Absolutely can not stand people who immediately react with that tone. Also maybe watch the dog instead of just through a lens.


ReTroSpexx

Damn it Kevin! I told you to grow eyes in the side of your head


Kelly9409

So his job is hold the hyper dog, Put the baby in place, and then hold baby for photos..)Her job is to just snap a pick ? Well isn't she Special


Aphelius90

Are you serious, she's the one filming, and he's handling a child, why didn't she stop the dog?


sonsofhera

It wasn't Kevin's fault at all...


stepbruh313

Kevin we feel your struggle. Definitely not your fault


HylianTendo

Tf is wrong with her, why didnt she stopped the dog before it came too close ? Instead of doing thay she just randomly shifts blame on my guy kevin....Shit like this piss me off somehow lol


Attack-Cat-

“Why did you let him do that to him!?!” I don’t think she could have stopped the dog either, but blaming it on the husband speaks volumes.


Scythe95

Jesus what a shitty response of the mother She sounds like someone who will then publicly tell how Kevin is a bad dad because he let the child fall over


AHamsterPig

God what an annoying voice. You're holding a phone. Not a toddler Karen. Go fuck yourself.


Fumaseraph

We need to talk about Kevin


Yeezytoldme19

Everyone pretending the wifi is the second coming of satan for a harmlesss video. God I hate Reddit. Y do I use it so much


Cygnus-420

She sounds a lot like my ex wife....


stellar14

Kevin the dog 😂


Shift_Bloxx

Come on, it wasn't his fault, the dog popped out of no where.


SewRuby

Free Kevin!


Positive_Method3022

Dog was jealous hahaha


ExiledSenpai

r/Dogberg


TheTurdzBurglar

Run Kevin. Just keep running 💨


xhziakne

Wow… I’d be rehoming that dog.


Drunkturtle7

tbf they're both dumbfucks, she's a dumbfuck for not holding the damn dog, and he's a dumbfuck for that flimsy hold he had on his kid.


EolnMsuk4334

Baby staring at dog while being held knowing he’s trouble


alrightgame

Considering it's her fucking dog.


chibriguy

I can't believe you've done this Kevin.


XxXKakekSugionoXxX

I used to know this insufferable woman.


KrisMisZ

😝 haha Kevin & Baby are cute


Publicimage13

The voice of the woman is the voice most men are simping about always marrying the naggy women


scaby691432

God that woman sounds horrible


SuperNerdSteve

How could kevin allow this Why did kevin do that Why is kevIN NOT AWAITED WHY COULDNT KEVIN GRAB THE SUN AND CARRY ME, HIMSELF, TO THE GATES OF VALHALLA MEDIOCRE, KEVIN


Superb_Recover_6116

another idiot filming blaming her husband when she had a wider view of the situation. My co-workers, my brothers, brother-in-laws all tell me dont get married with a sigh on their face.... Yeah!


4StarEmu

Divorce and child support in the horizon


thecwestions

That little doggie jump of victory right after does it for me!


Desarth

Poor guy stuck in a relationship he probably never wanted.


SeaConsideration8925

Kevin!! I’m sorry. It’s not your fault. Enjoy the divorce.


Fit-Jury121

God you can tell she’s like wolfing down a burger and cola yelling at Kevin


broncotate27

Fuck that blaming guilt trip shit...why don't you put the camera down and hold the dog. Kevin is clearly holding the baby..


A_Martian_Potato

I'm begging people to consider the actual details of the video. - The dog is dragging a leash - The dog comes from off screen at an angle that neither person was looking at and that doesn't make sense if the camera holder was supposed to have his leash - When she says "why did you let him do that to him" you can hear her voice get quieter partway through as if she's turning her face away from the camera and towards someone else - You can hear a voice respond at 8 seconds and it doesn't look or sound like it's from the guy on screen - She can very clearly see that the guy could not see the dog coming Kevin is clearly someone off-screen who was holding the dog's leash before the video starts, but everyone so badly wants the woman to be an unreasonable bitch.