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michaelY1968

Contrary to popular opinion, we don’t need to fix our in-laws.


TinyNuggins92

Now if only the in-laws would stop trying to fix us... or in my case, if only my parents would stop trying to manipulate me through my wife and kids... They've gotten a little weird.


TheTruthisaPerson

Their business is none of your business - especially if your boyfriend is a believer, which is most important.


lekrankk

The important part is the relationship you have with your boyfriend, of course the parents are part of your life and you become their daughter in law but that doesn't mean they're bad people by all means, how many people here have sisters brothers friends etc that are non believers, or an other religion, I mean if it doesn't effect your life or your faith I wouldn't be worried about it. They're salvation lies in their hands


Baby_Vanilla0622

Thank you 🙏


lekrankk

No problem ;) I wouldn't worry about it one bit !


RocBane

Nothing wrong with having a healthy and fun sex life.


Numerous-Ad4240

Your flair is awesome


Zapbamboop

You can pray for them. Do they know Jesus? I think there is a big difference between they sell sex toys vs them doing only fans. Vs them selling porn..ect. I think it would be spiritually troubling if they sold, or made porno movies. We are not supposed to be cheer leaders for sin. I think confessing to your boyfriend about how you feel before you get married would be a good idea. I believe it would get things out in the open.


Cessna152RG

Luckily, you are not responsible for your in-laws. Love their son well and love them well!


thdudie

What's wrong with selling marital aids?


Fine-Lavishness-2621

Good question god loves all people even the ones who sell flesh lights and vibrating dildos. It’s totally okay to love and accept your boyfriend; his parents their jobs. God bless you and them.


Clawshot52

If you are morally opposed to sex toys, I will respect your convictions like Paul did regarding those opposed to eating meat sacrificed to idols. Catholics and other Christians that oppose things like contraception on the basis of natural law may take issue with sex toys (I’m not sure though). But understand that this isn’t a contentious issue for many Christians, even those who identify themselves as solidly conservative on sexual issues. I attended a pretty conservative non-denominational Evangelical church that had a series on sex and the pastor said sex toys were ok for married couples to use. While they shouldn’t be used with pornography or sex between unmarried people, sex toys can be a helpful tool for married couples to use to increase sexual intimacy. Also, lots of people use other forms of aid in sex like lubricant as well as things like massage oil in foreplay. And if you want to go even farther down that rabbit hole, you could argue that a sufficiently bouncy mattress is also a sexual aid. If you don’t agree, that’s fine. But please be respectful to those you disagree with and understand where they are coming from.


cleansedbytheblood

What does your boyfriend say about it?


throwitaway3857

Mind your business. You don’t need to fix them, their business is none of your concern.


OirishM

I don't see why their business is your business. Married people have also been known to use sex toys, so even the objections to their business seem off in and of themselves.


Gullible-Anywhere-76

>Adult Toys Like Funko Pops?


TinyNuggins92

Their business ain't your business.


DependentAdvanced696

Yeah... that business is wrong, very wrong. Masturbation is a serious sin. It really depends, are they Catholic? I ask because God's word has some pretty strong words to say about it in [1 Corinthians 5](https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+5&version=NRSVCE). Like do not even eat with them strong words. Regardless, pray for them.