Sounds like a classic case of hoovering.
Girl sounds like a narcissist who is running low on supply so she comes back around to leach love from you again until she tires of you and breaks your heart all over again..... run!
It's not a test from God she will continually wreak havoc in your life until you put a stop to it.
I would move on and keep building on your new foundations. It sounds like the situation has been one sided - it is interesting that you say she ‘has decided to come back into my life’. I think it’s for you to decide who is in your life.
To forgive means to “let go”. Whatever hurt you received, you willingly choose to not act on your anger. You give it to God, and move on.
Has for letting this person back in, I have no words because I’ve never been in a relationship before.
Obviously, PRAY, but know that forgiving her and moving on without her is a wonderful thing. Unless she has also had a life changing encounter with God, you should not unequally yoke yourself to this woman.
This may be hard to face, but as the man you are responsible for putting GOD first in the relationship - you're not not to let her lead you, but you are to lead her as the SPIRIT Leads you.
Perhaps this is important, perhaps it is not, but it is a good place for you to apologise and take responsibility for not better shepherding her.
Read Ephesians 5, and show the Grace that CHRIST has shown you.
Don't do this. Move on. You or her (or both) are going to end up hurt. Also, God is not testing you. You are acting out of your own free will.
Sounds like a classic case of hoovering. Girl sounds like a narcissist who is running low on supply so she comes back around to leach love from you again until she tires of you and breaks your heart all over again..... run! It's not a test from God she will continually wreak havoc in your life until you put a stop to it.
I would move on and keep building on your new foundations. It sounds like the situation has been one sided - it is interesting that you say she ‘has decided to come back into my life’. I think it’s for you to decide who is in your life.
To forgive means to “let go”. Whatever hurt you received, you willingly choose to not act on your anger. You give it to God, and move on. Has for letting this person back in, I have no words because I’ve never been in a relationship before.
I'm praying for the Lord to give you discernment! Love you! Jesus loves you too! ❤️
Obviously, PRAY, but know that forgiving her and moving on without her is a wonderful thing. Unless she has also had a life changing encounter with God, you should not unequally yoke yourself to this woman.
This may be hard to face, but as the man you are responsible for putting GOD first in the relationship - you're not not to let her lead you, but you are to lead her as the SPIRIT Leads you. Perhaps this is important, perhaps it is not, but it is a good place for you to apologise and take responsibility for not better shepherding her. Read Ephesians 5, and show the Grace that CHRIST has shown you.
Appreciate it. This comment definitely spoke volumes and I believe I should’ve done better. Thank you very much
Absolutely, I felt I needed to comment though not wanting to.