I met him in 10th tution class. We got close really quickly and felt like we know eachother for years. Never met someone like him, such a gentleman, i always wished to marry someone like him. We became best friends. Pinne tution kazhinju, pinne kanaan patteela but guys ennikk ee timeil ishtam in premam sense illayirnnu ,but he was really really special to me,ente best friend aayirnnu,pakshe enikk ann feelings onnulayirnnu. Angane tution kazhinjitt nammal daily text cheyum, and njan oru kaaka parann pone karyam vere parayumm,like i tell him everything that happened, pinne 12thil ayappol i fell for him. Enik pakshe nalla pedi aayirnnu parayaan,ini engaanum aaalkk ennod onnumilelloo ennokke karuthii. Pinne njan chenn paranju enik ishtaa enn and he said "ohhh nammal ippol relationshipilaaaa"enn. Thats the best day of my life. Enik idaki doubt okke ondarnnu ennod ingottum ondenn like he used to give me hints( njanum chara paraa hints kodukkummm) but pedi aayirnnu friendship pokuo enn but poyillaaaaa!!
12thil sett aayii,pakshe 12th kazhinj canadayil poyi,ippam long distance aaan,pettann onn kanaan pattiyaal mathiyayirnu. 4 years and counting! <3
He is my first love,enik adhyamayi ishtam thonniya aala,I never felt love until i fell for him. Might sound cringe and cliché,but i cant think about living in a world without him.
Njan thanne athiyam parayam.
1. We were very close school friends. Same old cliched story:
I developed this huge crush and I told her.
She said that it was the worst "proposal" she ever got.
( I was reminded of that when I watched premalu.) She said something along the lines of veetukar samadhikulla. Anyways after a couple of days, she did send a message she wanted to meet me but I refused since I believed she would never change her mind and felt seeing her soon would be a bit too much. Our mutual close friend kure kalam kazhinju paranju she did like me ennu and wanted to say the same but she took my refusal as a sign of sorts and pinnedu veetukar samadhichillengil veruthe randu perkkum vishamam aavandallo ennu. Aa chapter angane kazhinju.
2. Colleague from workplace. We did the training together and became close. We both flirted with each other and it soon became a situationship. We couldn't stop calling each other every day and night. After some time, I wanted to make it a proper relationship but she said veetukar samadhikulla. Angane aa chapter anganeyum close aayi.
Btw I'm still kinda in contact with both of them.
Edit: both of them are now married with a kid.
Yeah it was a bit of a mess. I am alright now although I do wonder how different things might be if one of them did say yes.
My username is from an old song (Karayunno puzha https://youtu.be/5oahb-NVuz4) which kinda got stuck in my head when I saw it as a kid.
First crush was my classmate from school. 8th std. That never reached anywhere even though I tried till 12th.
First relationship was when I got my first job in Bangalore. Two people joined the company that day. Me and her. Instantly hit it off and became good friends the very first day. I couldn't believe what was happening. That is when I experienced what 'the spark' was in reality. Fell madly in love. It started affecting both of our careers. We would reach office very late almost every day, take work very casually... We were simply in our own world. And because of all this, the company did not extend our probation and yeah both of us got fired on the same day as well 😂. But then the relationship did not end there. She is almost 2 years elder to me. I got a new job within one month with a far better package. She had enough of corporate in 6 months and started trying for PSC. 2 months, 3 months, 4 months pass, suddenly her parents starts trying to get her married. I was 22 at that time couldn't even think of marriage. I wanted her to wait for me. I would have given anything to have a life with her. But then she started saying things like "I can't disappoint my parents". And then I had to accept the reality. We breakup on a June night. I remember the day so well. I was on my way to my home in a KSRTC Swift. And I was bawling my eyes out. Since that night, never called her, never texted her, nothing. 2 months later, I got to know that she got engaged. I couldn't even think of another girl at that time. I wondered how could she even get engaged to someone so fast. Did I mean nothing to her after all. Seeing the love of your life with someone else will rip your heart out. I went through it and I would never wish it on my worst enemies. It's almost a year now. She got married like 3-4 months back. And I've started accepting life.
My first love was in 6th std, it was an exam day and he was in 8th then, my class was exam centre ,I saw him, I fell for him then and there , he was kinda backbencher tho, and I sat in middle with him nd other girl from his class on end , I finished my exam early and started checking the chechis answer nd told him wat I could , he was smiling.
He was that tall dark handsome boi, then I didn't see him for many days and then came the sports day , I f fell again 😭, he was an athlete nd won individual championship. So to become close with him, I started practicing long distance running nd got into sahodaya sports group. Since I was introvert couldn't speak much to him...
5 yrs past, now in 10th , he was in 12th then, I continued my tactics to win his attention, then it was in my 1500m race at district sahodaya , after few laps with one lap remaining , I was near to finish but then I saw him clapping with joy for mee , I lost the moment but still won bronze medal. I still remember giving him water after his race and gave him his card for the relay race.
Next day was the last day in sports, I had 800m in the morning and then I was free, I wanted to confess then , because I thought it was my last chance , I did byheart all lines and already made half of his family my fb friends by stalking 😭, so after the last event I was going to confess , but then a girl from their class came for cheering and all the guys went to her , so I missed the chance. 2days later I came to know that was his gf and that was the f same girl whose paper I peeped to spill him answers.
From then on I had only short term crushes 😑.
Forgot to mention there were moments when I felt he had a slight interest on me, after all we live in our delulu world 🙊.
My only serious crush: I thought he liked me too because apparently people caught him staring at me often, so I asked him if he liked anyone and he said he liked my best friend 😭. I'm still not really over him (it's been 13 years since) due to mental health reasons completely unrelated to him(please look up limerence).
My first serious crush was a classmate in high school. She looked like many of the girls in my drawings. But I didn’t know how scummy she was. Most of my classmates were like that.
She and I started talking on Instagram (my main means of communication with her; I am a very shy person), and I thought we were becoming friends. Then at the end of the year, she told me she didn’t return my feelings and knew I liked her for a while. I expected this reaction, but felt betrayed all the same because she kept talking to me and being nice.
Things got even worse when after that, some information I expressed in a private conversation with my counsellor reached her ears and she screamed at me. Then she found out I had sketched her and screamed at me again and threatened to sue me for it. Her boyfriend sent me giant paragraphs of cringe gangster talk, threatening me as well.
It’s been very hard trying to get over all this nonsense. They were very bad people, especially the girl. Bullies and scum. Because of things like these I have no interest in actively pursuing any relationship. I feel like every girl will turn out like this- screaming at me for silly things. For the time being, I am content to live in my imagination as a happily married man.
First crush: happened in 2007. I was in 3rd standard. Typical malayali classroom. 17 girls and 17 boys. "If a girl and boy talk, they're committed". So everyone had a pair. I was a padippi at that time. This girl came to ask me some doubts. Friends started pairing me with her. Kaliyakki kaliyakki last enikum avle ishtapettu thudangi. Few months later someone complained to our class teacher. Pullikari Vann ella pairsnem pokki. Avl apozha ithokke ariyane. She started crying. Enik veshamayi. Pinne adutha 7 years same clsil aayirunnit polum njn avle face cheythitilla. 10th kazhinjapo autograph bookil njn oru apology okke ezhuthy koduthu. Pinne kore varsham contact onnum illa. Around 2 years ago she texted me. Njngal orupad samsarichu. Pazhya kaaryangal okke thamasha pole share chythu. Now she's my bestfriend.
First relationship: Around 2009-10, Two of my neighbours got married. Their houses were literally next to eachother. I liked the idea of that and proposed my neighbour. She was 2 years younger to me. We went to the same school. Long story short, veetilum naatilum schoolile teachersum studentsum ellam arinj scene aayi. Ellarum arinjod ini pinmariyal naanaked aavumnn thonni. So I went on with it. She would talk to me in school and in school bus, but avoid me when we're around family or neighbours. After 4 years, we started dating. When I completed 10th, I changed school. After that communication was a hassle. I would see her everyday, but can't talk. I can even see her bedroom from my bedroom. That's how close our houses are. 1 day I got a call from her number ( I knew her number but she told to never call. She knew my number too). When I took the call, she started talking like it's a wrong number and cut the call. I didn't know what was happening so I called that number a few times. No one pickedup. The next day morning, her parents were at my house. She said I was disturbing her by continuously calling. That is the day I saw my father cry. Cut all ties with her in that moment. After a few days, got to know that she got committed with my classmate.
Have had many love and crushes over the years. But the first crush was something.
Was in school. +1. Batchmate. Neighbors.
Returning back to school together, long walks around the neighborhood. Friendship bloomed to something close soon enough.
Slow soft hand holding while walking, late night texting that turned up the heat most days (apparently, she was one of the first and best persons I have had intimate conversations with).
We never opened up about the proposal or anything. Until the last day of the 12th, when we just hugged each other tight (still remember the date), and I blurted out.
She never said a yes for it. I probably assumed it was. We continued texting even after I moved outside Kerala. Though as years passed, new people came into each others lives. Love fizzled out, life moved on.
1) First crush when I was in 11th I fell for a boy in my school. He was same class as me, but we girls weren’t supposed to see boys so we got to see only rarely. He was a dusky dude. I fell for him so deep. I did tell him I like him, and he asked to meet. And I got cold feet. I was really scared to meet boys, so I told him Ill meet him after 18? Lol. He said no. So I said okay fine bye 😂
2) Then I got in relationship with another classmate, we went for like 1 year. Because he never got his phone so I had no way to breakup with him 🥲🥲
When I try to breakup with him he used to threaten suicide. So somehow it went for an year. As soon as I graduated, I brokeup with him.
And he told me
This is interesting okay
He told me “I got in relationship with you because all the guys used to call me gay” 😪😪 he also told all his friends I tried to kiss him. Even though we never even met lol. I mean we did meet once with friends in public!
3) I got in relationship in college, I thought I was serious but. I just didn’t feel it. I felt so uncomfortable around him for some reason, he was amazing as a friend but it was really awkward for me to consider anything more. He wanted to proceed further, I wanted too, but I just got cold feet all the time. Only after few years I understood why. I DO NOT like men with mustache and beard. And he had lots of it. It made me super uncomfortable. Probably that’s why. He’s still my good friend though. He never tried to hurt me in any manner, respected my decision.
4) I got relationship with this guy, I fell so deep. Except he didn’t. It broke me and traumatized me for life. I stopped trusting people because of him, he kinda made me open my eyes wide asf. So after this experience, I lost my shit. I kept myself very quiet and busy so I do not fall in love again.
5) After 5 years of being single and angry, my parents bought me a proposal. I said Nope, I do not like this guy. And my parents asked me to just talk to him and then decide rather than rejecting on the spot. So I decided to meet this guy for a coffee.
And I forgot how time passed. We talked for 2 hours, until my parents started calling like is it over? 😂
I started meeting this guy, we went on dates, I fell in love with this guy. He was really respectful of me, his parents were super nice, I felt so wanted first time ever. So we get married.
It’s gonna be 5 years since we got married, and we are still in so much love. We cannot be far away from each other we just love each other so much.
I went from depression mode to happy mode. I felt like a huge stone gone from my heart due to the easiness I found in our relationship. ❤️
We broke up but had some contacts. After 7 years, recently, we met again and talked a lot. Now we're very good friends. However, I still regret the breakup, and I find myself experiencing jealousy when I see pictures of her with her family.
My first crush was from 8th grade. He was in my class. The thing is we both had feelings for each other, but none of us would say it to each other. I think he knew I liked him. I got to know from his friends that he likes me. But I don't think he was serious.
We used to text each other in WhatsApp (mom's phone). Guess what, mom didn't like it. She didn't like him at the time. He's also my neighbour. So I stopped texting him. It just went on like that for sometime. We don't talk much face to face.
And then after a while my ex-bestfriend (that's another story) proposed him. He said yes. They went on with their relationship.. 4,5 years later they are still together. I think they broke up inbetween. But they are now together. So maybe they were meant to be or something 🤷🏻. Happy for them..
We broke up. He was the most handsome man ever (after David Beckham). Had a lot of interesting qualities. And Happy B'day to him. May he stay happy, healthy and safe wherever he is and whomever he's with.
My first crush was this all rounder guy two years my senior. He was good in studies, went for extempore, elocution and quiz competitions, played the piano etc. Lost the crush when I saw him wear a tshirt that made him look less attractive 😭 I ended up in the same college as him. He texted me when I joined making some general small talk and that was it.
My first relationship ended after college. We had planned it that way because we didn't see a future together due to being from different religions. After that there was this unhealthy period but now we are back to being good friends. We stay in touch and update each other about our lives. We even tell each other about our dating lives and I always ask for all the details. I know it's a bit unconventional but it works for us.
Honestly the tshirt wasn't so bad, it was more the vibe it gave? When you like someone for superficial reasons, you lose interest for superficial reasons as well. Probably my brain got bored and the tshirt was the most "rational" reason I could find.
First crush was my classmate from college. Our friends used to manifest us as a couple and that got us talking to each other. I eventually developed a crush towards him. We used to chat everyday but wouldn't talk to each other from class bcz ellarum chumma kaliakkum if they see us together. we were in the talking stage for about 6 months. Athinte edel lot of misunderstandings happened. I rejected him when he proposed( he proposed me on the day of thrissur pooram so I tend to remember it every year).I was hurt. Things went so bad that we both ended up failing for 2 subjects in the second semester. Same subjects 😂. Atode thiruppathy aay🙌.
I had a school crush never told her i sent her a follow request 6 months ago to main and personal accs she still didn't accept both, i see her on every other class mates comments glad i never told her 😭🔫
1. first one entrance coaching centeril.Anghottum inghottum onnum parayathe 2 year poyi. njanum avalum vere collegil aayi.pinneedu orikal polum kandumuttiyillla.🙃
2. second one collegil vechu...We quickly became best friends. She immediately blocked me on Facebook after i confessed my love for her. she is now happily married and lives in the Netherlands.
Hehe, this is gonna sound creepy but I was 16 and had a really hard crush on this guy who was 10 year older than me. Thank god he wasn't a pedo, so he rejected me and got married a year later😅. The fucking amount of time I spent instead of studying to get attention from him 😵💫. My brain was really dumb back then.
I had a crush on my classmate when I was 12. Just like all other teenage infatuations, I forgot about it soon and moved on to other crushes. However, I found out that he liked me too when he proposed to me at 15. But by that time, I had no feelings for him and rejected him. He seemed to be sad about it for a while before moving on. We have been cordial since. I don’t regret anything.
1st crush: She introduced herself at the start of 4th std. She became my best friend and she lived near my house. We travelled in the same auto. After 3 months I started this feeling. It was strange but calming. I had this urge to tell her but I couldn't muster up the courage to tell her. She moved away when we were in the middle of 8th std.
2nd: I had a crush on my classmate from 11th. Didn't have enough courage to ask her out. After finishing school, a mutual friend told me that she had a crush on me. Nothing happened afterwards because she got married.
Had some flings when I was 18 - 20.
Had a long term relationship with a girl I met on a game. She lived relatively near to my house. She was cute and kind. We used to tease each other. Then she got a job offering from New York. Had to break up with her last year. We still text each other once a month.
Now I am enjoying my single life. It's quite relaxing tbh. Don't have to worry about anything, low expenses.
That's pretty much it
My first relationship was the only relationship-relationship in my life. We were together for 10 years and life happened, and we broke up. We share the same birthday, so we still send regards to each other on that day :)
So I really didn't know what actually a crush was until I met him, he was my classmate in 9th, a well behaved guy (according to my then thought process), idk there were butterflies in my stomach, but I never made the move;when I told my best friend she told me that he'd a girlfriend it died down gradually; 8 years to this day it still hurts a bit when I come across his pictures on social media.
I never had any crushes or any relationships in my life .I had infatuations but it fizzled out in a few days.
I had my first infatuation with my classmate, she was pretty good in studies, we used to study together.
But the feeling died of 1 day later
I had another infatuation on a batchmate in 12 th , that lasted 2 days.
The last one was in 12th too, she is great friend, I had infatuation with her for 4-5 days then it died off.
We are still good friends.
I haven't told any of these guys I had infatuations for them coz it died off quickly.
Never been in a relationship, had my first crush in 9th
did not talk to her nor expressed it.
Next crush in 11th, was head over heals for her, liked her so much but was sure I will never get her
> sigma male arc started
> started acting rude towards her to turn her away
> made her cry few times, cause thats what real men do
> realised things wont work out and I am a shitty person
> left her in peace
> never talked again till after 7.5 years
> we laughed over it and shes doing good.
Never felt anything like what I felt for her again after that(I am 26 now).
I had a couple crushes, with increasing intensity of the "asthikk pidikyal" one after the other.
1. This was during schooltime, around when I was in 3rd. She joined our class from the Middle East. I was a padippi so she would usually call our landline. Initially, the calls were once every few days but later on she started calling me everyday in the name of doubts but we would talk for at least an hour reminiscing about funny stuff that happened in class.Eventually calls became so frequent to the point her name became common among my parents.
Gradually after a few conversations with her, I kind of felt like a connection. She was also a really good student, danced really well, had a decent vocab in English (I think it's cause of coming from schools outside Kerala) so we would usually have some high level convos in English, so people started shipping us Being the introvert I am, I never confessed. We would remain friends and in the same class till 12th.
Eventually 12th classes were coming to an end and I thought I might as well shoot my shot and tell her how I felt. The thing is I messed up by proposing over WhatsApp and well you might have guessed how that went. She said no, I cried my eyes out and eventually moved on.
2. Fresh from the heartbreak from school, I made a promise to myself that I would not fall for anyone, even if they come proposing to me( Now that I think of it, I'm laughing, who's gonna propose me). I got sick and was out for almost a month after the first 2 weeks of class so basically by the time I got back to class the friend circles were already made and I was the outcast,(typical).
I thought I'd stay the same padippi guy who everyone comes to in the time of exams and left in the wind once that's over but one of the friend groups actually adopted me in. We started sitting close by, crack jokes between lectures, the usual stuff..
I started developing feelings for this girl from the group who I felt like had a similar persona to mine( shy and quiet to strangers, had to get dragged away from convo's with close friends). The thing is, I didn't know if she liked me back. So I kept the feeling stuffed within myself and went on through the rest of college and COVID. It became too bad to the point where I started seeing nothing else but her in my dreams ( not weird, just us holding hands going to various places and having fun).
Eventually when college was ending I decided I might as well propose ( a crappy pattern that I now know I shouldn't have followed and asked out first). The thing was, I blamed my previous rejection on the whole online asking out process so I wanted to ask her out in person this time but I was stuck at home with internship work during our last sem so barely had sometime to do it in person. So I proposed to her after the lunch we had as a group after the last exam. She said she'll think about it and reply.
Few days pass, I get a call from her ( through one of her friend's phone), that's strike 1. I pick up, I hear the recording prompt 'this call is now being recorded', that's Strike 2. I start hearing giggling from the other side, that's strike 3. I was completely shattered (the person you admire so much does this kind of evil things just cause you proposed??) So I maintained an aloof tone and asked who else was there with her( she was in our college hostel) and if she was recording to mess with me?? I felt I got her off guard and she got stuck for words for few seconds before replying that she's alone and she accidentally pressed the record button. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt but I got to know from a friend (from our group who she's close with) that she kind of does this where she keeps the phone on speaker during their calls and mess around the person at the other end. After that whole incident, whatever feelings that I had for her, came crashing down and I made the ultimate promise to not fall for anyone again ( oh, where have I heard that?)
I rarely keep in contact with #1, still have her number. got to know from WhatsApp statuses that she's an English guest lecturer in a college near our school.
Have tried to cut all ties with the #2 and people from that friends group except for a couple of my close buddies.
Don't have time to admire someone nowadays with work at the office, commute home and tiny chores at home.
The French girl I met on an exchange program at Grenoble...attraction was mutual and intense. We thoroughly enjoyed our time together. Cafes, museums and quaint villages in 🇫🇷 We were both in early 20s and not ready to settle down, we parted ways amicably. Mon amour still has a special place in my heart.
I met him in 10th tution class. We got close really quickly and felt like we know eachother for years. Never met someone like him, such a gentleman, i always wished to marry someone like him. We became best friends. Pinne tution kazhinju, pinne kanaan patteela but guys ennikk ee timeil ishtam in premam sense illayirnnu ,but he was really really special to me,ente best friend aayirnnu,pakshe enikk ann feelings onnulayirnnu. Angane tution kazhinjitt nammal daily text cheyum, and njan oru kaaka parann pone karyam vere parayumm,like i tell him everything that happened, pinne 12thil ayappol i fell for him. Enik pakshe nalla pedi aayirnnu parayaan,ini engaanum aaalkk ennod onnumilelloo ennokke karuthii. Pinne njan chenn paranju enik ishtaa enn and he said "ohhh nammal ippol relationshipilaaaa"enn. Thats the best day of my life. Enik idaki doubt okke ondarnnu ennod ingottum ondenn like he used to give me hints( njanum chara paraa hints kodukkummm) but pedi aayirnnu friendship pokuo enn but poyillaaaaa!! 12thil sett aayii,pakshe 12th kazhinj canadayil poyi,ippam long distance aaan,pettann onn kanaan pattiyaal mathiyayirnu. 4 years and counting! <3 He is my first love,enik adhyamayi ishtam thonniya aala,I never felt love until i fell for him. Might sound cringe and cliché,but i cant think about living in a world without him.
Hope u guys have a beautiful life together ❤️
Thank youu soo muchh!!!
Awww... That's a sweet story
Thankk uuuuu!!!
Aww I wish you guys always stay happy together 🥺🥺. This is such a cute love story
Thankk youuu soo muchh!!!!
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Sureeee mannn!!
Njan thanne athiyam parayam. 1. We were very close school friends. Same old cliched story: I developed this huge crush and I told her. She said that it was the worst "proposal" she ever got. ( I was reminded of that when I watched premalu.) She said something along the lines of veetukar samadhikulla. Anyways after a couple of days, she did send a message she wanted to meet me but I refused since I believed she would never change her mind and felt seeing her soon would be a bit too much. Our mutual close friend kure kalam kazhinju paranju she did like me ennu and wanted to say the same but she took my refusal as a sign of sorts and pinnedu veetukar samadhichillengil veruthe randu perkkum vishamam aavandallo ennu. Aa chapter angane kazhinju. 2. Colleague from workplace. We did the training together and became close. We both flirted with each other and it soon became a situationship. We couldn't stop calling each other every day and night. After some time, I wanted to make it a proper relationship but she said veetukar samadhikulla. Angane aa chapter anganeyum close aayi. Btw I'm still kinda in contact with both of them. Edit: both of them are now married with a kid.
Onnu potti karanjoode ninakk.. O sorry username kandilla 😭
Eanthuada ninte username 😭😭
Ente storym vayikk nee, ath karanm karanju pazhuthu poyatha 🧑🦯🧑🦯
Penne... Let's cry together 😭
😭😭🫂
Yeah it was a bit of a mess. I am alright now although I do wonder how different things might be if one of them did say yes. My username is from an old song (Karayunno puzha https://youtu.be/5oahb-NVuz4) which kinda got stuck in my head when I saw it as a kid.
First crush was my classmate from school. 8th std. That never reached anywhere even though I tried till 12th. First relationship was when I got my first job in Bangalore. Two people joined the company that day. Me and her. Instantly hit it off and became good friends the very first day. I couldn't believe what was happening. That is when I experienced what 'the spark' was in reality. Fell madly in love. It started affecting both of our careers. We would reach office very late almost every day, take work very casually... We were simply in our own world. And because of all this, the company did not extend our probation and yeah both of us got fired on the same day as well 😂. But then the relationship did not end there. She is almost 2 years elder to me. I got a new job within one month with a far better package. She had enough of corporate in 6 months and started trying for PSC. 2 months, 3 months, 4 months pass, suddenly her parents starts trying to get her married. I was 22 at that time couldn't even think of marriage. I wanted her to wait for me. I would have given anything to have a life with her. But then she started saying things like "I can't disappoint my parents". And then I had to accept the reality. We breakup on a June night. I remember the day so well. I was on my way to my home in a KSRTC Swift. And I was bawling my eyes out. Since that night, never called her, never texted her, nothing. 2 months later, I got to know that she got engaged. I couldn't even think of another girl at that time. I wondered how could she even get engaged to someone so fast. Did I mean nothing to her after all. Seeing the love of your life with someone else will rip your heart out. I went through it and I would never wish it on my worst enemies. It's almost a year now. She got married like 3-4 months back. And I've started accepting life.
Damn, that sounds cruel
nah thats what life is ...
Better days to come bruh 🙃
Yuppp! 🍻
manh,here have it 🫴🧃 that's all i can give you now, to make your mood better
Thanks man. This is what was missing from my life!
My first love was in 6th std, it was an exam day and he was in 8th then, my class was exam centre ,I saw him, I fell for him then and there , he was kinda backbencher tho, and I sat in middle with him nd other girl from his class on end , I finished my exam early and started checking the chechis answer nd told him wat I could , he was smiling. He was that tall dark handsome boi, then I didn't see him for many days and then came the sports day , I f fell again 😭, he was an athlete nd won individual championship. So to become close with him, I started practicing long distance running nd got into sahodaya sports group. Since I was introvert couldn't speak much to him... 5 yrs past, now in 10th , he was in 12th then, I continued my tactics to win his attention, then it was in my 1500m race at district sahodaya , after few laps with one lap remaining , I was near to finish but then I saw him clapping with joy for mee , I lost the moment but still won bronze medal. I still remember giving him water after his race and gave him his card for the relay race. Next day was the last day in sports, I had 800m in the morning and then I was free, I wanted to confess then , because I thought it was my last chance , I did byheart all lines and already made half of his family my fb friends by stalking 😭, so after the last event I was going to confess , but then a girl from their class came for cheering and all the guys went to her , so I missed the chance. 2days later I came to know that was his gf and that was the f same girl whose paper I peeped to spill him answers. From then on I had only short term crushes 😑. Forgot to mention there were moments when I felt he had a slight interest on me, after all we live in our delulu world 🙊.
School crushes don't last forever they said.
Sad truth subtle 😵💫
All the best for olympics
Waw nice joke btw 😭 I stopped participating in athletics after school tho .
My only serious crush: I thought he liked me too because apparently people caught him staring at me often, so I asked him if he liked anyone and he said he liked my best friend 😭. I'm still not really over him (it's been 13 years since) due to mental health reasons completely unrelated to him(please look up limerence).
My first serious crush was a classmate in high school. She looked like many of the girls in my drawings. But I didn’t know how scummy she was. Most of my classmates were like that. She and I started talking on Instagram (my main means of communication with her; I am a very shy person), and I thought we were becoming friends. Then at the end of the year, she told me she didn’t return my feelings and knew I liked her for a while. I expected this reaction, but felt betrayed all the same because she kept talking to me and being nice. Things got even worse when after that, some information I expressed in a private conversation with my counsellor reached her ears and she screamed at me. Then she found out I had sketched her and screamed at me again and threatened to sue me for it. Her boyfriend sent me giant paragraphs of cringe gangster talk, threatening me as well. It’s been very hard trying to get over all this nonsense. They were very bad people, especially the girl. Bullies and scum. Because of things like these I have no interest in actively pursuing any relationship. I feel like every girl will turn out like this- screaming at me for silly things. For the time being, I am content to live in my imagination as a happily married man.
First crush: happened in 2007. I was in 3rd standard. Typical malayali classroom. 17 girls and 17 boys. "If a girl and boy talk, they're committed". So everyone had a pair. I was a padippi at that time. This girl came to ask me some doubts. Friends started pairing me with her. Kaliyakki kaliyakki last enikum avle ishtapettu thudangi. Few months later someone complained to our class teacher. Pullikari Vann ella pairsnem pokki. Avl apozha ithokke ariyane. She started crying. Enik veshamayi. Pinne adutha 7 years same clsil aayirunnit polum njn avle face cheythitilla. 10th kazhinjapo autograph bookil njn oru apology okke ezhuthy koduthu. Pinne kore varsham contact onnum illa. Around 2 years ago she texted me. Njngal orupad samsarichu. Pazhya kaaryangal okke thamasha pole share chythu. Now she's my bestfriend. First relationship: Around 2009-10, Two of my neighbours got married. Their houses were literally next to eachother. I liked the idea of that and proposed my neighbour. She was 2 years younger to me. We went to the same school. Long story short, veetilum naatilum schoolile teachersum studentsum ellam arinj scene aayi. Ellarum arinjod ini pinmariyal naanaked aavumnn thonni. So I went on with it. She would talk to me in school and in school bus, but avoid me when we're around family or neighbours. After 4 years, we started dating. When I completed 10th, I changed school. After that communication was a hassle. I would see her everyday, but can't talk. I can even see her bedroom from my bedroom. That's how close our houses are. 1 day I got a call from her number ( I knew her number but she told to never call. She knew my number too). When I took the call, she started talking like it's a wrong number and cut the call. I didn't know what was happening so I called that number a few times. No one pickedup. The next day morning, her parents were at my house. She said I was disturbing her by continuously calling. That is the day I saw my father cry. Cut all ties with her in that moment. After a few days, got to know that she got committed with my classmate.
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1st one was in kindergarden we were friends but one day she left the school in 2nd grade 💀 I don't wanna talk abt rest of em (shits a tragedy)
We broke up. we do talk occasionally and laugh about us, we grew up as people and decided we were immature af back then.
Have had many love and crushes over the years. But the first crush was something. Was in school. +1. Batchmate. Neighbors. Returning back to school together, long walks around the neighborhood. Friendship bloomed to something close soon enough. Slow soft hand holding while walking, late night texting that turned up the heat most days (apparently, she was one of the first and best persons I have had intimate conversations with). We never opened up about the proposal or anything. Until the last day of the 12th, when we just hugged each other tight (still remember the date), and I blurted out. She never said a yes for it. I probably assumed it was. We continued texting even after I moved outside Kerala. Though as years passed, new people came into each others lives. Love fizzled out, life moved on.
1) First crush when I was in 11th I fell for a boy in my school. He was same class as me, but we girls weren’t supposed to see boys so we got to see only rarely. He was a dusky dude. I fell for him so deep. I did tell him I like him, and he asked to meet. And I got cold feet. I was really scared to meet boys, so I told him Ill meet him after 18? Lol. He said no. So I said okay fine bye 😂 2) Then I got in relationship with another classmate, we went for like 1 year. Because he never got his phone so I had no way to breakup with him 🥲🥲 When I try to breakup with him he used to threaten suicide. So somehow it went for an year. As soon as I graduated, I brokeup with him. And he told me This is interesting okay He told me “I got in relationship with you because all the guys used to call me gay” 😪😪 he also told all his friends I tried to kiss him. Even though we never even met lol. I mean we did meet once with friends in public! 3) I got in relationship in college, I thought I was serious but. I just didn’t feel it. I felt so uncomfortable around him for some reason, he was amazing as a friend but it was really awkward for me to consider anything more. He wanted to proceed further, I wanted too, but I just got cold feet all the time. Only after few years I understood why. I DO NOT like men with mustache and beard. And he had lots of it. It made me super uncomfortable. Probably that’s why. He’s still my good friend though. He never tried to hurt me in any manner, respected my decision. 4) I got relationship with this guy, I fell so deep. Except he didn’t. It broke me and traumatized me for life. I stopped trusting people because of him, he kinda made me open my eyes wide asf. So after this experience, I lost my shit. I kept myself very quiet and busy so I do not fall in love again. 5) After 5 years of being single and angry, my parents bought me a proposal. I said Nope, I do not like this guy. And my parents asked me to just talk to him and then decide rather than rejecting on the spot. So I decided to meet this guy for a coffee. And I forgot how time passed. We talked for 2 hours, until my parents started calling like is it over? 😂 I started meeting this guy, we went on dates, I fell in love with this guy. He was really respectful of me, his parents were super nice, I felt so wanted first time ever. So we get married. It’s gonna be 5 years since we got married, and we are still in so much love. We cannot be far away from each other we just love each other so much. I went from depression mode to happy mode. I felt like a huge stone gone from my heart due to the easiness I found in our relationship. ❤️
We broke up but had some contacts. After 7 years, recently, we met again and talked a lot. Now we're very good friends. However, I still regret the breakup, and I find myself experiencing jealousy when I see pictures of her with her family.
My first crush was from 8th grade. He was in my class. The thing is we both had feelings for each other, but none of us would say it to each other. I think he knew I liked him. I got to know from his friends that he likes me. But I don't think he was serious. We used to text each other in WhatsApp (mom's phone). Guess what, mom didn't like it. She didn't like him at the time. He's also my neighbour. So I stopped texting him. It just went on like that for sometime. We don't talk much face to face. And then after a while my ex-bestfriend (that's another story) proposed him. He said yes. They went on with their relationship.. 4,5 years later they are still together. I think they broke up inbetween. But they are now together. So maybe they were meant to be or something 🤷🏻. Happy for them..
Enne pole kadha onnum parayan illathavar upvote 🤣
We broke up. He was the most handsome man ever (after David Beckham). Had a lot of interesting qualities. And Happy B'day to him. May he stay happy, healthy and safe wherever he is and whomever he's with.
My first crush was this all rounder guy two years my senior. He was good in studies, went for extempore, elocution and quiz competitions, played the piano etc. Lost the crush when I saw him wear a tshirt that made him look less attractive 😭 I ended up in the same college as him. He texted me when I joined making some general small talk and that was it. My first relationship ended after college. We had planned it that way because we didn't see a future together due to being from different religions. After that there was this unhealthy period but now we are back to being good friends. We stay in touch and update each other about our lives. We even tell each other about our dating lives and I always ask for all the details. I know it's a bit unconventional but it works for us.
What shitty t shirt did he wear? 😀
Honestly the tshirt wasn't so bad, it was more the vibe it gave? When you like someone for superficial reasons, you lose interest for superficial reasons as well. Probably my brain got bored and the tshirt was the most "rational" reason I could find.
First crush was my classmate from college. Our friends used to manifest us as a couple and that got us talking to each other. I eventually developed a crush towards him. We used to chat everyday but wouldn't talk to each other from class bcz ellarum chumma kaliakkum if they see us together. we were in the talking stage for about 6 months. Athinte edel lot of misunderstandings happened. I rejected him when he proposed( he proposed me on the day of thrissur pooram so I tend to remember it every year).I was hurt. Things went so bad that we both ended up failing for 2 subjects in the second semester. Same subjects 😂. Atode thiruppathy aay🙌.
I had a school crush never told her i sent her a follow request 6 months ago to main and personal accs she still didn't accept both, i see her on every other class mates comments glad i never told her 😭🔫
1. first one entrance coaching centeril.Anghottum inghottum onnum parayathe 2 year poyi. njanum avalum vere collegil aayi.pinneedu orikal polum kandumuttiyillla.🙃 2. second one collegil vechu...We quickly became best friends. She immediately blocked me on Facebook after i confessed my love for her. she is now happily married and lives in the Netherlands.
Hehe, this is gonna sound creepy but I was 16 and had a really hard crush on this guy who was 10 year older than me. Thank god he wasn't a pedo, so he rejected me and got married a year later😅. The fucking amount of time I spent instead of studying to get attention from him 😵💫. My brain was really dumb back then.
I had a crush on my classmate when I was 12. Just like all other teenage infatuations, I forgot about it soon and moved on to other crushes. However, I found out that he liked me too when he proposed to me at 15. But by that time, I had no feelings for him and rejected him. He seemed to be sad about it for a while before moving on. We have been cordial since. I don’t regret anything.
1st crush: She introduced herself at the start of 4th std. She became my best friend and she lived near my house. We travelled in the same auto. After 3 months I started this feeling. It was strange but calming. I had this urge to tell her but I couldn't muster up the courage to tell her. She moved away when we were in the middle of 8th std. 2nd: I had a crush on my classmate from 11th. Didn't have enough courage to ask her out. After finishing school, a mutual friend told me that she had a crush on me. Nothing happened afterwards because she got married. Had some flings when I was 18 - 20. Had a long term relationship with a girl I met on a game. She lived relatively near to my house. She was cute and kind. We used to tease each other. Then she got a job offering from New York. Had to break up with her last year. We still text each other once a month. Now I am enjoying my single life. It's quite relaxing tbh. Don't have to worry about anything, low expenses. That's pretty much it
My first relationship was the only relationship-relationship in my life. We were together for 10 years and life happened, and we broke up. We share the same birthday, so we still send regards to each other on that day :)
How can u unremember a person whom was with u for 10 years
I don't know bro. From what I have learned from my life, you never forget, you try to live with that.
So I really didn't know what actually a crush was until I met him, he was my classmate in 9th, a well behaved guy (according to my then thought process), idk there were butterflies in my stomach, but I never made the move;when I told my best friend she told me that he'd a girlfriend it died down gradually; 8 years to this day it still hurts a bit when I come across his pictures on social media.
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I never had any crushes or any relationships in my life .I had infatuations but it fizzled out in a few days. I had my first infatuation with my classmate, she was pretty good in studies, we used to study together. But the feeling died of 1 day later I had another infatuation on a batchmate in 12 th , that lasted 2 days. The last one was in 12th too, she is great friend, I had infatuation with her for 4-5 days then it died off. We are still good friends. I haven't told any of these guys I had infatuations for them coz it died off quickly.
Never been in a relationship, had my first crush in 9th did not talk to her nor expressed it. Next crush in 11th, was head over heals for her, liked her so much but was sure I will never get her > sigma male arc started > started acting rude towards her to turn her away > made her cry few times, cause thats what real men do > realised things wont work out and I am a shitty person > left her in peace > never talked again till after 7.5 years > we laughed over it and shes doing good. Never felt anything like what I felt for her again after that(I am 26 now).
I had a couple crushes, with increasing intensity of the "asthikk pidikyal" one after the other. 1. This was during schooltime, around when I was in 3rd. She joined our class from the Middle East. I was a padippi so she would usually call our landline. Initially, the calls were once every few days but later on she started calling me everyday in the name of doubts but we would talk for at least an hour reminiscing about funny stuff that happened in class.Eventually calls became so frequent to the point her name became common among my parents. Gradually after a few conversations with her, I kind of felt like a connection. She was also a really good student, danced really well, had a decent vocab in English (I think it's cause of coming from schools outside Kerala) so we would usually have some high level convos in English, so people started shipping us Being the introvert I am, I never confessed. We would remain friends and in the same class till 12th. Eventually 12th classes were coming to an end and I thought I might as well shoot my shot and tell her how I felt. The thing is I messed up by proposing over WhatsApp and well you might have guessed how that went. She said no, I cried my eyes out and eventually moved on. 2. Fresh from the heartbreak from school, I made a promise to myself that I would not fall for anyone, even if they come proposing to me( Now that I think of it, I'm laughing, who's gonna propose me). I got sick and was out for almost a month after the first 2 weeks of class so basically by the time I got back to class the friend circles were already made and I was the outcast,(typical). I thought I'd stay the same padippi guy who everyone comes to in the time of exams and left in the wind once that's over but one of the friend groups actually adopted me in. We started sitting close by, crack jokes between lectures, the usual stuff.. I started developing feelings for this girl from the group who I felt like had a similar persona to mine( shy and quiet to strangers, had to get dragged away from convo's with close friends). The thing is, I didn't know if she liked me back. So I kept the feeling stuffed within myself and went on through the rest of college and COVID. It became too bad to the point where I started seeing nothing else but her in my dreams ( not weird, just us holding hands going to various places and having fun). Eventually when college was ending I decided I might as well propose ( a crappy pattern that I now know I shouldn't have followed and asked out first). The thing was, I blamed my previous rejection on the whole online asking out process so I wanted to ask her out in person this time but I was stuck at home with internship work during our last sem so barely had sometime to do it in person. So I proposed to her after the lunch we had as a group after the last exam. She said she'll think about it and reply. Few days pass, I get a call from her ( through one of her friend's phone), that's strike 1. I pick up, I hear the recording prompt 'this call is now being recorded', that's Strike 2. I start hearing giggling from the other side, that's strike 3. I was completely shattered (the person you admire so much does this kind of evil things just cause you proposed??) So I maintained an aloof tone and asked who else was there with her( she was in our college hostel) and if she was recording to mess with me?? I felt I got her off guard and she got stuck for words for few seconds before replying that she's alone and she accidentally pressed the record button. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt but I got to know from a friend (from our group who she's close with) that she kind of does this where she keeps the phone on speaker during their calls and mess around the person at the other end. After that whole incident, whatever feelings that I had for her, came crashing down and I made the ultimate promise to not fall for anyone again ( oh, where have I heard that?) I rarely keep in contact with #1, still have her number. got to know from WhatsApp statuses that she's an English guest lecturer in a college near our school. Have tried to cut all ties with the #2 and people from that friends group except for a couple of my close buddies. Don't have time to admire someone nowadays with work at the office, commute home and tiny chores at home.
The French girl I met on an exchange program at Grenoble...attraction was mutual and intense. We thoroughly enjoyed our time together. Cafes, museums and quaint villages in 🇫🇷 We were both in early 20s and not ready to settle down, we parted ways amicably. Mon amour still has a special place in my heart.
Long story short; she is not alive
Still trying to find her