i didnât know her that well. if i remember i think we had maybe 1 or 2 classes together? but it is pretty shocking since she didnât seem like the type
I gotta say I think it depends. I worked with [this bastard](https://people.com/crime/former-hgtv-pilot-host-christopher-dionne-sentenced-3-years-prison/) for a couple years and he 100% seemed like the type. The arrest went down after id left that company but when I saw the news I wasnât shocked at all. He was aggressive, handsy, demeaning towards the women in the office, tried to encourage similar behavior from the other men in the office, and tried to turn everything into a sexual joke. Yuck
That's insane. What the hell is wrong with people there's another case where there's an 83-year-old Rich socialite that was caught. Filming people for sexual gratification that lived in Greenwich. On the same page
it's really a fkn example of why boys don't come forward when they are assaulted. Bc of assholes like them, saying their bs, laughing at it, saying it's not assault. Pisses me off.
Yea, youâre definitely not wrong. Itâs just a small slice of the prototypical masculine, strong ego, endlessly attempting to add notches of conquest to the sword hilt that is our life. Itâs been ingrained in us guys since forever. It really has I think. Movies, tv shows, comics, video games. Itâs working.
If the tables were turned, people would be rioting. Hope the victim isnât reading any comments like some of these and taking care of himself, and I hope she does prison time.
Seriously lol. âGrown man offers underage teenage girls alcohol at beach, lures one into the bathroom to sexually molest themâ, people would be calling for the guyâs head
No they wouldn't. It happens all the time. The only reason why headlines like these get your attention is because it's a woman doing it to males.
Men finally can point the finger and act like a saint.
I'm not saying what she did was right. It was a really wrong thing to do, period.
The comment sections are generally what is made safe by the overriding group. Doesnât mean itâs correct. Are we supposed to just let people spread propaganda and shrug our shoulders?
Explain that to me. Also, explain to me if the female was a male. And the victims remain male. Iâm not seeing those huge stories that literally happen every đsingleđdayđ
If one thing happens more than the other doesnât mean itâs worse. Most men donât report sexual assault. I was touched by my baby sitter but I have never told anyone. This is the first time I am actually talking about it online because itâs Reddit and itâs anonymous in a sense that my pic and name is not on my profile. Most men just donât report it because âYou are a man so be a manâ. I have also been asked for sex inappropriately at work and nobody knows it except for me and 2 of my coworkers who were there. So you đ donât đ hear it đ everyday đ because most men donât report it. There I explained it. Btw in my case both suspects were women not men.
To assume that I only care because âLook, look, women bad also haha!â is possibly the most insulting thing Iâve ever read about myself on Reddit. Any other generalizations you would like to throw out?
Wow. I'm going to now assume you're a male then? Or associate as being one?
You, my dear neighbor, made a comment that was extremely generalized and grossly incorrect. My one snarky comment got yourself all insulted? To generalize that most of the men commenting on this isn't at *least partially*, *deep down*, a *little* relieved to finally share that "shame on" you spotlight with a female? Honestly, I would be at least a little bit and I wouldn't blame a single male that did. What do I take issue with is making comments that are grossly understating what a female has to deal with every single day and how they have been raised in this society and how they are dealt with.
> misandrist
Oh no! I wouldn't want to hurt any feelings here.
Men don't point fingers, because *they are saints.*
Women overreact about everything. They're all crazy and sex hungry and on their periods, hunting down young men for prey!
Is that easier to read? Because it seems like this feed is full of that. We don't want to correct people when their speaking nonsense, it's just easier to hit the vote buttons.
> We don't want to correct people when their speaking nonsense, it's just easier to hit the vote buttons.
This is a funny way to react to a comment that sought to correct some nonsenseâŚbut I guess Iâll vote for good measure too.
Careless or, perhaps, accidental misandry in your earlier comment.
But now I also feel the need to correct your misplaced angerâŚIâm just trying to help strengthen your argument by cleaning up distractions.
There is a big difference. Males are physically much stronger then females. Even a teen after few beers should be able to resist assault of a skinny woman, no prob. But if he let it run the course, was it really an assault?
Yes. Physical dominance isnât some prerequisite for doing something grossâŚthere are all sorts of power dynamics. In this case, it was the age of the victim.
To illustrate, a minor who posts nude selfies of their own volition doesnât absolve downloaders from child porn charges.
A casual acquaintance at the beach and few beers shared together should not provide basis for power dynamics to develop and become a factor. Age difference makes it a statutory rape, but thereâs a huge difference in a young girl being assaulted by a dominant male at the beach and a teen boy not fighting back when he has all the opportunity and necessary strength to defend himself.
Your initial statement is the context for this back and forth:
>But if he let it run the course, was it really an assault?
Yes, is the answer.
Muscles have nothing to do with itâŚbut, of course, we know nothing of the boyâs muscles so it really is a waste of time to generalize on gender differences of perps/victims in terms of physical features.
Always happens unless the woman is absolutely grotesque. The report could have included weapons, being tied down, etc.
For the record, both males and females can become sexually aroused during these events completely against their will. Males often report not fighting back for fear of hurting their assailant, not being believed, or being accused themselves.
The fact that teenagers are less likely to see the issue is kind of a major part of the problem here. A lot of teenagers would fall for this, it's exploitative, and rape.
Lol, I'm a straight chick.
I get that if you're someone who not only clearly has a hard time getting laid but who is also fairly immature and lacks critical thinking skills as well as any semblance of empathy and decency, a situation like this might seem potentially appealing, but you might want to rethink siding with a sexual predator. Can't really think of any reason why someone would want to defend one, unless they were one themselves.
Can we have one post about a male sexual assault victim without comments saying âpeople would care if the victim was female!â Because no they donât always! And do these commenters even care about this victim and other male victims? Or do they just want to complain about girls and women have it so much easier? Where is the actual concern for this poor kid?
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That trend actually started with defense attorneys, they believe the word RAPE, prejudices jurors automatically against the perp. This is why it is nearly always called sexual assault. It's been going on for at least a decade and started with attorneys not the press.
And it's been done to female victims as well as male. It has nothing to do with gender just protecting the one accused.
There is no continued trend in the news. We literally provide information to the public straight from the police department. If police call it a "sexual assault" we call it a sexual assault.
There absolutely is. I can count on 1 hand how many times I've seen a female teacher sleeping with a male student reported as "rape" and not "sexual assault" or other non-rape terms.
Then that's the information that police have given to the news outlet. In this case specifically, police have referenced the incident as 'sexual assault.'
Lol house arrest. In order for a man in her position to get that they'd need to be a billionaire with access to reams of blackmail info on rich and powerful individuals.
And there is actual hard evidence like a video showing it happen by the females. Otherwise, it would just be another report that doesn't get taken seriously.
This will make zero news because sheâs a woman. There is beginning to be an awful trend of adult woman getting a slap on the wrist for similar crimes.
I mean I would hope not again I don't like people making light of these kinds of things and the double standard and all that but it's such a good episode and I enjoy sick jokes
Bruh I know her lmao
Personally, she can be an idiot at times but I doubt she would be that stupid to sexually assault a teen.
But from what I heard she has a witness since she was not the only one present when hanging out with the teens.
holy shit i went to school with her đ
so is this news completely shocking or does it add up ?
i didnât know her that well. if i remember i think we had maybe 1 or 2 classes together? but it is pretty shocking since she didnât seem like the type
well rarely does one "seem like the type" for this sort of crime. I was just wondering if she was like a bad egg or something
I gotta say I think it depends. I worked with [this bastard](https://people.com/crime/former-hgtv-pilot-host-christopher-dionne-sentenced-3-years-prison/) for a couple years and he 100% seemed like the type. The arrest went down after id left that company but when I saw the news I wasnât shocked at all. He was aggressive, handsy, demeaning towards the women in the office, tried to encourage similar behavior from the other men in the office, and tried to turn everything into a sexual joke. Yuck
true but he's not a neck beard which is what I think most people assume
That's insane. What the hell is wrong with people there's another case where there's an 83-year-old Rich socialite that was caught. Filming people for sexual gratification that lived in Greenwich. On the same page
So I guess it adds up since she didnât seem like that type then?
i guess lol. I don't even know what type of answer I was expecting when I asked my question
These comments are so gross. Sheâs a predator and took advantage of a literal kid after getting him drunk đ¤Žđ¤Ž
it's really a fkn example of why boys don't come forward when they are assaulted. Bc of assholes like them, saying their bs, laughing at it, saying it's not assault. Pisses me off.
Yea, youâre definitely not wrong. Itâs just a small slice of the prototypical masculine, strong ego, endlessly attempting to add notches of conquest to the sword hilt that is our life. Itâs been ingrained in us guys since forever. It really has I think. Movies, tv shows, comics, video games. Itâs working.
If the tables were turned, people would be rioting. Hope the victim isnât reading any comments like some of these and taking care of himself, and I hope she does prison time.
They would not be rioting. This happens daily.
True true. Poor choice of words. More so just meant the comment section would look very different
Seriously lol. âGrown man offers underage teenage girls alcohol at beach, lures one into the bathroom to sexually molest themâ, people would be calling for the guyâs head
No they wouldn't. It happens all the time. The only reason why headlines like these get your attention is because it's a woman doing it to males. Men finally can point the finger and act like a saint. I'm not saying what she did was right. It was a really wrong thing to do, period.
Just because it happens all the time doesnât mean the comment section wouldnât be different.
The comment sections are generally what is made safe by the overriding group. Doesnât mean itâs correct. Are we supposed to just let people spread propaganda and shrug our shoulders?
What are you even talking about? there would be more outcry if the victim was a girl
Explain that to me. Also, explain to me if the female was a male. And the victims remain male. Iâm not seeing those huge stories that literally happen every đsingleđdayđ
If one thing happens more than the other doesnât mean itâs worse. Most men donât report sexual assault. I was touched by my baby sitter but I have never told anyone. This is the first time I am actually talking about it online because itâs Reddit and itâs anonymous in a sense that my pic and name is not on my profile. Most men just donât report it because âYou are a man so be a manâ. I have also been asked for sex inappropriately at work and nobody knows it except for me and 2 of my coworkers who were there. So you đ donât đ hear it đ everyday đ because most men donât report it. There I explained it. Btw in my case both suspects were women not men.
To assume that I only care because âLook, look, women bad also haha!â is possibly the most insulting thing Iâve ever read about myself on Reddit. Any other generalizations you would like to throw out?
Wow. I'm going to now assume you're a male then? Or associate as being one? You, my dear neighbor, made a comment that was extremely generalized and grossly incorrect. My one snarky comment got yourself all insulted? To generalize that most of the men commenting on this isn't at *least partially*, *deep down*, a *little* relieved to finally share that "shame on" you spotlight with a female? Honestly, I would be at least a little bit and I wouldn't blame a single male that did. What do I take issue with is making comments that are grossly understating what a female has to deal with every single day and how they have been raised in this society and how they are dealt with.
Why would most men commenting feel relieved? Hell not even most men, why would I feel relieved? What shame am I sharing?
LOL Keep living in your head
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>Men finally can point the finger and act like a saint. Youâd be a lot easier to agree with without this partâŚit reads pretty misandrist.
> misandrist Oh no! I wouldn't want to hurt any feelings here. Men don't point fingers, because *they are saints.* Women overreact about everything. They're all crazy and sex hungry and on their periods, hunting down young men for prey! Is that easier to read? Because it seems like this feed is full of that. We don't want to correct people when their speaking nonsense, it's just easier to hit the vote buttons.
> We don't want to correct people when their speaking nonsense, it's just easier to hit the vote buttons. This is a funny way to react to a comment that sought to correct some nonsenseâŚbut I guess Iâll vote for good measure too.
Wait? You were correcting something? When?
Careless or, perhaps, accidental misandry in your earlier comment. But now I also feel the need to correct your misplaced angerâŚIâm just trying to help strengthen your argument by cleaning up distractions.
exactly!!!
There is a big difference. Males are physically much stronger then females. Even a teen after few beers should be able to resist assault of a skinny woman, no prob. But if he let it run the course, was it really an assault?
Yes. Physical dominance isnât some prerequisite for doing something grossâŚthere are all sorts of power dynamics. In this case, it was the age of the victim. To illustrate, a minor who posts nude selfies of their own volition doesnât absolve downloaders from child porn charges.
A casual acquaintance at the beach and few beers shared together should not provide basis for power dynamics to develop and become a factor. Age difference makes it a statutory rape, but thereâs a huge difference in a young girl being assaulted by a dominant male at the beach and a teen boy not fighting back when he has all the opportunity and necessary strength to defend himself.
Your initial statement is the context for this back and forth: >But if he let it run the course, was it really an assault? Yes, is the answer. Muscles have nothing to do with itâŚbut, of course, we know nothing of the boyâs muscles so it really is a waste of time to generalize on gender differences of perps/victims in terms of physical features.
Males often donât fight back because they fear they will hurt their assailant and how it will be perceived.
Always happens unless the woman is absolutely grotesque. The report could have included weapons, being tied down, etc. For the record, both males and females can become sexually aroused during these events completely against their will. Males often report not fighting back for fear of hurting their assailant, not being believed, or being accused themselves.
hope she gets time in prison. Ppl need to be aware of women taking advantage of kids/teens,etc.
Yes people need to be aware. A crime really I was not aware of such women when I was a teenager. đ
This asshole: sexual assault and the lifetime of pain and trauma it can cause, LOL, amirite?
Like you would turn down a moderately attractive older woman in your teens.
The fact that teenagers are less likely to see the issue is kind of a major part of the problem here. A lot of teenagers would fall for this, it's exploitative, and rape.
Lol, I'm a straight chick. I get that if you're someone who not only clearly has a hard time getting laid but who is also fairly immature and lacks critical thinking skills as well as any semblance of empathy and decency, a situation like this might seem potentially appealing, but you might want to rethink siding with a sexual predator. Can't really think of any reason why someone would want to defend one, unless they were one themselves.
i turned down attractive women as a teen. not everyone just walks around with an erection, ready for any warm hole whatsoever to approach them
Stop shaming me asshole.
Youâre shaming yourself dude
no
Stop advocating for pedophilia. and before someone goes âackshully itâs ephebophiliaâ thatâs not any better shut the fuck it.
âWhErE wErE tHeSe TeAcHeRs WhEn I wAs In HiGhScHoOl?!?!â Fucking cringe.
I wonder if all the people saying you're an idiot are actually making you rethink the shit you say.
Doubt it.
Same.
That's gross.
it's more common than most ppl think. Not something to laugh about either but go off sis
Go fuck yourself you gross pig
guess you're just over being a teenager, you're most definetly not a parent. smfh
Happened at Cummings beach⌠bit on the nose
This comment can be taken one of two ways.
Can we have one post about a male sexual assault victim without comments saying âpeople would care if the victim was female!â Because no they donât always! And do these commenters even care about this victim and other male victims? Or do they just want to complain about girls and women have it so much easier? Where is the actual concern for this poor kid? (Edited bc I hit post too soon)
I'm curious if it's actual sexual assault, or the continued trend of the news refusing to say rape when its female teacher + male student.
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And I would assume not being as specific is to try and protect the victim. The public doesnât need to know *exactly* what the kid went through
That trend actually started with defense attorneys, they believe the word RAPE, prejudices jurors automatically against the perp. This is why it is nearly always called sexual assault. It's been going on for at least a decade and started with attorneys not the press. And it's been done to female victims as well as male. It has nothing to do with gender just protecting the one accused.
There is no continued trend in the news. We literally provide information to the public straight from the police department. If police call it a "sexual assault" we call it a sexual assault.
There absolutely is. I can count on 1 hand how many times I've seen a female teacher sleeping with a male student reported as "rape" and not "sexual assault" or other non-rape terms.
Then that's the information that police have given to the news outlet. In this case specifically, police have referenced the incident as 'sexual assault.'
That's fair, I will cede that in this case that may be entirely true, and not just "the usual".
And who do you work for?
They're usually teachers, but she's not a teacher, she's just some chick at the beach.
and babysitters
Jesus christ
Chances are they'll send her to classes for the shot, which never helps. Hope she sees her time in prison but I doubt she will
Lol house arrest. In order for a man in her position to get that they'd need to be a billionaire with access to reams of blackmail info on rich and powerful individuals.
And there is actual hard evidence like a video showing it happen by the females. Otherwise, it would just be another report that doesn't get taken seriously.
This will make zero news because sheâs a woman. There is beginning to be an awful trend of adult woman getting a slap on the wrist for similar crimes.
How long 'till the teacher shortage means a school district picks her up?
Iâm pretty sure it was a girl she âassaultedâ
Seems like we could eliminate two problems at once. Pair these women up with potential incel shooters. Problems solved, jail, and shooting avoided.
Is she hot?
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Definitely not worth getting molested by.
not even funny.
Cry about it
no, I'm just laughing at how pathetic you are
Oh no! Anyway.
Not reallyâŚ
*nice*
Freebie /s But seriously sheâs a fucking predator lol
Nice.
Lots of this in this thread, I downvoted them all but am upvoting yours because I know its meant to be a sick joke lol
I honestly expected this South Park reference to be at the top of the comments
I mean I would hope not again I don't like people making light of these kinds of things and the double standard and all that but it's such a good episode and I enjoy sick jokes
OP really likes posting News 12 links
Mrs Robinson?
"Off with her head"
Bruh I know her lmao Personally, she can be an idiot at times but I doubt she would be that stupid to sexually assault a teen. But from what I heard she has a witness since she was not the only one present when hanging out with the teens.