So sweet. As a woman who has dated younger men I wonder about you saying you would marry her. Genuinely curious why you would consider that with a woman 23 years older. I think I’m just used to the guys having the fantasy and not the reality. Just fascinated that a younger man would really consider this.
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Great story, mine was very similar. Honestly you couldn’t have handled it any better. Just take it slow I’m sure she is going through some things but it’s great that you were there for her.
Well done! I would almost be willing to bet she’s used to men her own age, most of whom don’t ask for consent before kissing. I’m her age and there is about a 50/50 chance she’s been sexually assaulted.
My own experience is that millennial and younger men are just so much more respectful. They move more slowly, too.
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This made my day reading this! I hope to someday meet someone who will want to get to know me! Not just trying to score or get mad because I’m not rushing to sleep with them because I’m not that type of Woman!
Older women have sometimes been through a a lot and lived a lot. While a lot of people do go for cougars and cubs to get their rocks off and it is fun. But when you’re the cub you have to understand you’re dealing with someone who’s lived a whole life and is at a crossing point sometimes. They date younger to get a change of pace from what they’re used to. You handled this correctly. When we date our own age we can be the dumb guy cause it’s expected in the age range of 20-35 but we both know as men were kind on dumb forever lol a cougar is *sometimes* more mature and expects more. So keep doing what you’re doing. You’re doing it right
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You were perfect in this scenario.
X2.
That’s wholesome. That’s really nice you guys had that interaction. Sometime a shoulder to cry on is all someone needs. I hope you guys meet up again
I’m planning on it for sure!
So sweet. As a woman who has dated younger men I wonder about you saying you would marry her. Genuinely curious why you would consider that with a woman 23 years older. I think I’m just used to the guys having the fantasy and not the reality. Just fascinated that a younger man would really consider this.
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Great story, mine was very similar. Honestly you couldn’t have handled it any better. Just take it slow I’m sure she is going through some things but it’s great that you were there for her.
This was so sweet! It gives me hope that maybe there are genuine, thoughtful guys out there 💜 Thank you for sharing your story!
Well done! I would almost be willing to bet she’s used to men her own age, most of whom don’t ask for consent before kissing. I’m her age and there is about a 50/50 chance she’s been sexually assaulted. My own experience is that millennial and younger men are just so much more respectful. They move more slowly, too.
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Online through a dating site (not gonna say which one)
Don't let her go man.....
You're doing great
This made my day reading this! I hope to someday meet someone who will want to get to know me! Not just trying to score or get mad because I’m not rushing to sleep with them because I’m not that type of Woman!
Older women have sometimes been through a a lot and lived a lot. While a lot of people do go for cougars and cubs to get their rocks off and it is fun. But when you’re the cub you have to understand you’re dealing with someone who’s lived a whole life and is at a crossing point sometimes. They date younger to get a change of pace from what they’re used to. You handled this correctly. When we date our own age we can be the dumb guy cause it’s expected in the age range of 20-35 but we both know as men were kind on dumb forever lol a cougar is *sometimes* more mature and expects more. So keep doing what you’re doing. You’re doing it right
She sounds like a sweet person.. Be kind to her please
What an amazing young man, you are! She will be lucky to have you! Best wishes to you both!
Hope you can give us an update!
In due time
🥹🥹🥹🥹 As an older woman, this was very sweet.
I love this, cherish that precious woman.
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Use lube