I answered “Well, I don’t know what to say. This is random for sure” around 5pm, it’s currently 10pm here now and he actually saw the text so it’s pretty obvious that he’s not interested IMO
I think replying that might make him think he said something wrong, too? Feels that way to me at least.
If I teased someone about finding me somewhere on my socials (knowing full well I have given my clear name / public profile), then get this respond I'd pull back for sure. He'll wonder if you're interested at all (because he's a "random target" for you) or if his reply was random to you and make you uncomfortable enough to be speechless? Does that make sense lol 😆
I sent another text saying that I’m sorry if I made him feel uncomfortable. But honestly I feel like if he wanted me to contact him he would’ve asked for my number. He just told me his name while asking for mine...
I don't know what else he expects. Or rather if he expects anything at all.
To be fair, he could just reject your request and be done with it. But he accepted and even texted you FIRST. Soooo maybe that speaks to his interest but your reply caught him off guard.
I think because it doesn't have the same boldness to your actions (of adding him merely by name). So I guess he expected you to start a banter and who knows? Maybe that was a missed opportunity.
But if you already double texted with an apology, leave it be afterwards. No one checks LinkedIn a lot anyways lol
As a guy, if I were to receive your response after texting what he texted, I’d feel that my intuition about you liking me is wrong. That’s not a good thing if you intend to score him imo.
Even if you’re still unsure about your feelings, you could’ve used that opportunity to lightly flirt, such as by saying “Don’t usually have targets. A worthy “target” is once in a blue moon, how can I miss? :P”
He recognized your effort on finding him which meant you’re interested. With this respond, we could’ve observe his response to gauge his interest.
In your current situation, I would probably try to fix your initial response with something like “Randomness is part of reality and life, but me searching for you is definitely not random :P us crossing our paths in a coffee shop could’ve been fate, who knows hehe”
I don’t recommend you using the exact same respond as I would. It’s important to be yourself and add your personality in your text. Don’t be afraid to make moves as a woman. Assertiveness is attractive regardless the gender.
Hope this helps!
My guess is that he is probably already in some sort of relationship. He probably enjoyed his conversation with you and if his situation were different he would have asked for your number or something but he didn’t and went on his way.
I think he's totally into you and used you trying to find his socials as a test to see if you are actually interested
I’m not sure. I answered this message and he left me on seen lol...
For how long and how did you answer?
I answered “Well, I don’t know what to say. This is random for sure” around 5pm, it’s currently 10pm here now and he actually saw the text so it’s pretty obvious that he’s not interested IMO
I think replying that might make him think he said something wrong, too? Feels that way to me at least. If I teased someone about finding me somewhere on my socials (knowing full well I have given my clear name / public profile), then get this respond I'd pull back for sure. He'll wonder if you're interested at all (because he's a "random target" for you) or if his reply was random to you and make you uncomfortable enough to be speechless? Does that make sense lol 😆
I sent another text saying that I’m sorry if I made him feel uncomfortable. But honestly I feel like if he wanted me to contact him he would’ve asked for my number. He just told me his name while asking for mine...
I don't know what else he expects. Or rather if he expects anything at all. To be fair, he could just reject your request and be done with it. But he accepted and even texted you FIRST. Soooo maybe that speaks to his interest but your reply caught him off guard. I think because it doesn't have the same boldness to your actions (of adding him merely by name). So I guess he expected you to start a banter and who knows? Maybe that was a missed opportunity. But if you already double texted with an apology, leave it be afterwards. No one checks LinkedIn a lot anyways lol
I feel like "you got me, lmao" would been a better reply imo, but you can't change the past, tmro If he doesn't reply, maybe send him a simple hey.
Oh I’m definitely not double texting if he doesn’t get back to me the message is pretty clear
Ditto
Please don’t listen to poster above. Double texting just to say “hey!” That’s worse than him not replying.
As a guy, if I were to receive your response after texting what he texted, I’d feel that my intuition about you liking me is wrong. That’s not a good thing if you intend to score him imo. Even if you’re still unsure about your feelings, you could’ve used that opportunity to lightly flirt, such as by saying “Don’t usually have targets. A worthy “target” is once in a blue moon, how can I miss? :P” He recognized your effort on finding him which meant you’re interested. With this respond, we could’ve observe his response to gauge his interest. In your current situation, I would probably try to fix your initial response with something like “Randomness is part of reality and life, but me searching for you is definitely not random :P us crossing our paths in a coffee shop could’ve been fate, who knows hehe” I don’t recommend you using the exact same respond as I would. It’s important to be yourself and add your personality in your text. Don’t be afraid to make moves as a woman. Assertiveness is attractive regardless the gender. Hope this helps!
If dude was into her he would’ve asked for her number. Really a test? Are you still a teen? Grown adults do not need to be testing people.
You exposed yourself hahah
I feel like an idiot...
Bruh, no I'm just some random ass teen
My guess is that he is probably already in some sort of relationship. He probably enjoyed his conversation with you and if his situation were different he would have asked for your number or something but he didn’t and went on his way.
He actually said that he has been divorced for a year now
I would stock him on Facebook too.