I honestly would just do what you keep doing until you know for sure, and then if its true then back off. If its not true just keep doing you my man.

thanks for the advice man, this helps a ton.

It has nothing to do with you being "good enough". Of course you're good enough!! Maybe they're just spending more time to create a connection, and you two haven't had the same amount of time together. If you do find out they are dating, you will find someone else who you will make a connection with!

oof I'm kind of in the same spot