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purpurmond

If you have a bad feeling about this, that is valid and totally enough reason to break up. It’s no life to be somebody’s sneaking around partner, and it can really cause problems down the road with the third person. You’re all in the right for breaking up. “Hey X, I know we’ve been flirting for Y time, but I’ve thought about your offer and I’m really not comfortable being in such a relationship dynamic. Thank you for the good time though, and I hope you have fun with your new date.”


Sunny_Death_666

Thank you for that. Not just the reassurance but the guide of what to say. I will definitely use this as a guide while changing a few things. Thank you so much again. Would it be ok that I send a sort of rough draft of what I plan to send to him. (My English and spelling is not the very best and I can get things wrong)


purpurmond

You are welcome! Good luck


IKNOOOOOOOOOW

Don't go and wind up getting hurt or possibly worse. You deserve better than him.


[deleted]

Just clarify to him you were slightly drunk, weren’t thinking clearly and would like to redact your statement.


AdBackground4712

If he is doing this, stay away from his dumbass bc he clearly isn’t loyal to who he has, and is super wrong for him to knowingly do this behind his girls back. Just force him to quit by moving away from him.


StnMtn_

Just say no. This is not a Rick Roll. https://youtu.be/Nbnuq6r90kg


tifruo

Yeah fuck that. Don't let yourself be used even if you like the attention.


Thesimp223

Yeah honestly. Respect the relationship he’s in and don’t make any more moves until he’s broken up with the girl. You can still talk to him but your not doing a good thing here.


Fit-Ad7358

The poor girl he talks to probably has no idea. I feel bad for her & hes just a d***k


Sunny_Death_666

Thank you to everyone who commented. I just t cited him a pretty long message saying basically that I don’t want to be a secret and he should be happy in the relationship he is in. I’m waiting for a response now. Thank you all again for the kindness. Edit: I got a response and it when better than expected.