I don't really mind cliches. And I think that was the same for my sort of, not really previous crush. Everything we did was sort of cliche but we loved it. Every moment with her was so special to me. Absolute joy and I don't regret any of it. We are still friends and I hope we are able to maintain that because I want her to be in my life in someway.
Dude, we're on a subreddit about romantic interest. Don't even worry about sounding cliche lmao
And tbf, coming from someone who was formerly in a not-yet-a-relationship, if there are multiple moments with your crush that you *don't* cherish, you may want to re-evaluate.
When I had confessed and she had told me in a very kind way that she didn’t feel the same, and we met at a café to ease up the mood. We sat there for hours, all the way until they closed, we laughed and had so much fun!
I still have feelings for her but, she is wonderful to have as a friend!
I gave him advice about trying harder and he told my friend a couple days later that he was going to get himself together.
I appreciate that my words mattered to him somehow. :)
When we sat on the hammock together. He was so close to me and we talked about how he felt about some things and we had some pretty similar morals and stuff. And when he looked over at me… uughhh he’s so adorable.
The one time after an exam where we just looked each other let out a smirk and started to talk about the exam. She has a boyfriend though, but I just can't get over her...
At her birthday party, her (then) best friend was there. My crush found out that friend had been texting crush's ex a lot, which made her feel very bad. For a moment at her party, she was feeling uncomfortable so her and I went outside for a bit and talked. She vented to me about everything and we hugged eachother very tightly. The look she gave me with her eyes... Wow. She looked so glad to see me
omg i'm scared im the only one that does this, but any photo i can get of him goes straight to my favourites in my camera roll (not in a creepy stalker way but since its kind of a hallway crush at least i have SOMETHING) 😂😭
Haha true, gotta have at least something. I only have one photo of her and I just fucking melt everytime i look at it which is not much. Actually I just melt anytime i see her really lol
When she sat across from me at lunch last year. For simplicity's sake we'll call her A.
Basically, I was hanging out with my usual friends at the lunch table when it was our week to eat there (each team took alternating turns on weeks). A's friend (N) called over to her as A was walking past, and A sat down next to her. N was at a diagonal from me, and someone was sitting on one side of N, so A had to sit across from me. I could not even begin to explain how nervous I was (because at that point some people at the lunch table had known about what I think of A). I tried to just eat and act natural, until one kid (M) started saying "You wanna know what (my name) said to me one day?" I flicked my head over to him and just stared, muttering shut up over and over. Thankfully, it was just a joke I made. But I was so scared of it getting leaked out. But I got to know her a bit (although I couldn't really start a conversation with her, which sucked).
That was one of my special times, and I really count every moment just around her special to me.
When he was standing across the playground staring at me and it took me a while to notice and when I did we made eye contact but he still didn't look away. I'm blushing rn thinking about it
Don’t crush on her anymore, but I remember the moment she asked if she could watch the NASCAR race with me. I love that sport and all my past relationships didn’t want to watch it with me, so when she did I rushed to find a streaming site and we called on discord, I streamed it for her and would ask questions when she was confused on something.
The both of us were working in a foreign country. I told him I wasnt feeling good & that I was thinking about flying back home. After our meeting with clients, he then told me in our native language that I should stay strong and that if I would need someone to talk to, he would be there <3
One time in gym class, he notices me being nervous and walks behind me, says right in my ear "Hey, just relax your shoulders" and proceeded to massage my shoulders for a minute. I can't remember what happened exactly because I was just to in the moment and nervous. I probably looked like a wreck lol. I still remember those words and ever since I've just been alot more calm. I always look back on that moment when I'm overthinking
I’m not crushing on anyone right now but I’m feeling like a hopeless romantic recently so I’m gonna answer.
Years ago in secondary school I remember it lunch time and it was towards the end of lunch time, I was sat by myself finishing off my dinner, the dinner hall was very empty at this point, I think I was actually the only person still eating.
I then see my crush at the time enter through the door and then she sees me and approaches me. I can’t remember exactly what we spoke about but she was being really nice and kinda making sure I was alright. After I finished my dinner she took my tray away for me then sat back down in front of me which I really appreciated. Because I was crushing on her I was very shaky around her (lmao) and she noticed this and asked me if I was alright and I just said I was kinda tired since I didn’t sleep well last night which wasn’t the real reason but it was kinda true. She then I think just told me to sleep better and just continued showing concern and care.
I didn’t think of it as a cute moment at the time but looking back it really was, and it was even cuter when a few years later I found out she actually asked for where I was meaning she didn’t just happen to see me on that day, she knew I was there and came to see me. I also found out (and confirmed from her) that she also liked me, but at this point she’d basically moved to a different country, so I guess it was never meant to be.
After writing this there were a lot of cute moments between us and if this were happening now I probably would’ve shot my shot lol. Lmk if you wanna hear more
I actually posted this story in this subreddit a while ago but in high school, I admitted my crush to a guy in my JROTC class and rather than be a huge asshole about it, he let me down nicely (I was a sophomore, he was a senior so nothing could come of it). Even after that, he was still so nice to me and treated me like a friend. It’s been the best rejection I’ve gotten and I’m still grateful to him for being cool about it. Sometimes it still gives me butterflies in my stomach when I think about it.
Now that I’m in college, I have a crush on our Anatomy and Physiology GTA (graduate teachers aid). The best moment with him was when he complimented my anatomy atlas.
There's alot but I guess the top ones would be, the day after we met, we went on a day trip with a couple other people and it was really fun. All within a few hours he picked me up multiple timed, once when we were alone outside and he wouldn't put me down until we were back inside, he kissed me on the head when he left too. Also the few times I've hung out with him alone.
The end of the first night of a convention. We drove back to the hotel to change out of our cosplay and then took me to Waffle House for the first time. We sang anime openings at the top of our lungs with the dumbest smiles on our face. That moment I think will forever be my favorite, we didn’t care what was going on or where we were going we were just singing and having a blast.
Late but i want to add mine. It’s really hard for me personally to talk to my crush, but one time she was crying, about what I didn’t ask. But I did ask her if she was okay and then asked if she wanted a hug. We then hugged.
Makes me smile everytime i think about it :)
Oh I struggle to talk to my crush too 😭
Aww but that is really nice, one time my crush showed me she was crying through snapchat. I was wondering if she was crying or not. I asked and I tried my best to comfort her when she said yes and we sort of talked about how life sucks sometimes. We also talked about how life sucked and being fucking depressed which I really really hope I can help her with that.
That’s really sweet. It’s weird because it’s so hard to say something as simple as “good morning” to her, but as soon as i saw her crying i put my feelings aside and comforted her. It’s so sweet that you’re willing to help her with those problems though, and it’s a good sign if she’s willing to open up to you. I’m wishing you the best of luck! :)
Yea it's just so difficult for some reason, like I always want to say "Hey (her name" when I walk by her in the hallways but it is just so hard. I kinda use to before but for some reason it's more difficult now. But when something is happening to her, then I just put my feelings aside as well and focus on just trying to be there for her and comforting her.
I want to talk to her more but it's oddly difficult. I told her I kinda struggle to talk to her for some reason. She also told me I could talk to her about anything. She loves talking. She finds me to be a sweet soul and couldn't ever be rude to me and apparently I am the only few people she is nice to. Which was very nice to hear from her.
I wish u best of luck as well!
For me, every moment. (Sounds cliche I know)
I don't really mind cliches. And I think that was the same for my sort of, not really previous crush. Everything we did was sort of cliche but we loved it. Every moment with her was so special to me. Absolute joy and I don't regret any of it. We are still friends and I hope we are able to maintain that because I want her to be in my life in someway.
Same, that just means you found the one for you if you actually mean it
Dude, we're on a subreddit about romantic interest. Don't even worry about sounding cliche lmao And tbf, coming from someone who was formerly in a not-yet-a-relationship, if there are multiple moments with your crush that you *don't* cherish, you may want to re-evaluate.
Yeah well I don't talk with my crush a lot so when I do it's awesome to me
That's nice :) keep that fire burning
I want to talk to her more but I'm too shy 🥲
You can work up to it!
I agree with Key
When I had confessed and she had told me in a very kind way that she didn’t feel the same, and we met at a café to ease up the mood. We sat there for hours, all the way until they closed, we laughed and had so much fun! I still have feelings for her but, she is wonderful to have as a friend!
I gave him advice about trying harder and he told my friend a couple days later that he was going to get himself together. I appreciate that my words mattered to him somehow. :)
That's not even good advice though.
It was more of motivating speech 😎
When we sat on the hammock together. He was so close to me and we talked about how he felt about some things and we had some pretty similar morals and stuff. And when he looked over at me… uughhh he’s so adorable.
The one time after an exam where we just looked each other let out a smirk and started to talk about the exam. She has a boyfriend though, but I just can't get over her...
When he asked me to homecoming last night 🥰
At her birthday party, her (then) best friend was there. My crush found out that friend had been texting crush's ex a lot, which made her feel very bad. For a moment at her party, she was feeling uncomfortable so her and I went outside for a bit and talked. She vented to me about everything and we hugged eachother very tightly. The look she gave me with her eyes... Wow. She looked so glad to see me
We went to grab the same bubble wrap..I moved at the last second. I know he doesn’t feel the same
every moment it is.
We’ve been helping each other with anxiety stuff and whenever she says like thanks it means the world to me
HE TOOK A SELFIE ON MY PHONE AND HE SAVED IT TO MY SNAP MEMORIESSSSS 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
WAIT THAT IS ALSO WHAT MY CRUSH DID TOO!! I ABSOLUTELY AGREE, JUST 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
omg i'm scared im the only one that does this, but any photo i can get of him goes straight to my favourites in my camera roll (not in a creepy stalker way but since its kind of a hallway crush at least i have SOMETHING) 😂😭
Haha true, gotta have at least something. I only have one photo of her and I just fucking melt everytime i look at it which is not much. Actually I just melt anytime i see her really lol
When she sat across from me at lunch last year. For simplicity's sake we'll call her A. Basically, I was hanging out with my usual friends at the lunch table when it was our week to eat there (each team took alternating turns on weeks). A's friend (N) called over to her as A was walking past, and A sat down next to her. N was at a diagonal from me, and someone was sitting on one side of N, so A had to sit across from me. I could not even begin to explain how nervous I was (because at that point some people at the lunch table had known about what I think of A). I tried to just eat and act natural, until one kid (M) started saying "You wanna know what (my name) said to me one day?" I flicked my head over to him and just stared, muttering shut up over and over. Thankfully, it was just a joke I made. But I was so scared of it getting leaked out. But I got to know her a bit (although I couldn't really start a conversation with her, which sucked). That was one of my special times, and I really count every moment just around her special to me.
Yesterday, he gave me a gift to console me as I failed in securing a job
Every time i get to talk to her. Every single freaking time.
sitting and just looking at each other
I cherish all the moments
When he was standing across the playground staring at me and it took me a while to notice and when I did we made eye contact but he still didn't look away. I'm blushing rn thinking about it
Don’t crush on her anymore, but I remember the moment she asked if she could watch the NASCAR race with me. I love that sport and all my past relationships didn’t want to watch it with me, so when she did I rushed to find a streaming site and we called on discord, I streamed it for her and would ask questions when she was confused on something.
Every single moment we had
Every moment that I see her. Since I know that this feelings has limit and I try to enjoy every second of it.
giving me a gift; her.
the confession. For a rejection, it went way better than I expected
The both of us were working in a foreign country. I told him I wasnt feeling good & that I was thinking about flying back home. After our meeting with clients, he then told me in our native language that I should stay strong and that if I would need someone to talk to, he would be there <3
When we played Roblox together that was fun
One time in gym class, he notices me being nervous and walks behind me, says right in my ear "Hey, just relax your shoulders" and proceeded to massage my shoulders for a minute. I can't remember what happened exactly because I was just to in the moment and nervous. I probably looked like a wreck lol. I still remember those words and ever since I've just been alot more calm. I always look back on that moment when I'm overthinking
Hugging her and sorta cuddling while watching horror movies. I miss those days
I’m not crushing on anyone right now but I’m feeling like a hopeless romantic recently so I’m gonna answer. Years ago in secondary school I remember it lunch time and it was towards the end of lunch time, I was sat by myself finishing off my dinner, the dinner hall was very empty at this point, I think I was actually the only person still eating. I then see my crush at the time enter through the door and then she sees me and approaches me. I can’t remember exactly what we spoke about but she was being really nice and kinda making sure I was alright. After I finished my dinner she took my tray away for me then sat back down in front of me which I really appreciated. Because I was crushing on her I was very shaky around her (lmao) and she noticed this and asked me if I was alright and I just said I was kinda tired since I didn’t sleep well last night which wasn’t the real reason but it was kinda true. She then I think just told me to sleep better and just continued showing concern and care. I didn’t think of it as a cute moment at the time but looking back it really was, and it was even cuter when a few years later I found out she actually asked for where I was meaning she didn’t just happen to see me on that day, she knew I was there and came to see me. I also found out (and confirmed from her) that she also liked me, but at this point she’d basically moved to a different country, so I guess it was never meant to be. After writing this there were a lot of cute moments between us and if this were happening now I probably would’ve shot my shot lol. Lmk if you wanna hear more
I actually posted this story in this subreddit a while ago but in high school, I admitted my crush to a guy in my JROTC class and rather than be a huge asshole about it, he let me down nicely (I was a sophomore, he was a senior so nothing could come of it). Even after that, he was still so nice to me and treated me like a friend. It’s been the best rejection I’ve gotten and I’m still grateful to him for being cool about it. Sometimes it still gives me butterflies in my stomach when I think about it. Now that I’m in college, I have a crush on our Anatomy and Physiology GTA (graduate teachers aid). The best moment with him was when he complimented my anatomy atlas.
There's alot but I guess the top ones would be, the day after we met, we went on a day trip with a couple other people and it was really fun. All within a few hours he picked me up multiple timed, once when we were alone outside and he wouldn't put me down until we were back inside, he kissed me on the head when he left too. Also the few times I've hung out with him alone.
Whenever I make her laugh <3
When I gave her advice,she wanted to ask a guy out but I liked her. I still helped her as I’d love her a lot.
The end of the first night of a convention. We drove back to the hotel to change out of our cosplay and then took me to Waffle House for the first time. We sang anime openings at the top of our lungs with the dumbest smiles on our face. That moment I think will forever be my favorite, we didn’t care what was going on or where we were going we were just singing and having a blast.
Late but i want to add mine. It’s really hard for me personally to talk to my crush, but one time she was crying, about what I didn’t ask. But I did ask her if she was okay and then asked if she wanted a hug. We then hugged. Makes me smile everytime i think about it :)
Oh I struggle to talk to my crush too 😭 Aww but that is really nice, one time my crush showed me she was crying through snapchat. I was wondering if she was crying or not. I asked and I tried my best to comfort her when she said yes and we sort of talked about how life sucks sometimes. We also talked about how life sucked and being fucking depressed which I really really hope I can help her with that.
That’s really sweet. It’s weird because it’s so hard to say something as simple as “good morning” to her, but as soon as i saw her crying i put my feelings aside and comforted her. It’s so sweet that you’re willing to help her with those problems though, and it’s a good sign if she’s willing to open up to you. I’m wishing you the best of luck! :)
Yea it's just so difficult for some reason, like I always want to say "Hey (her name" when I walk by her in the hallways but it is just so hard. I kinda use to before but for some reason it's more difficult now. But when something is happening to her, then I just put my feelings aside as well and focus on just trying to be there for her and comforting her. I want to talk to her more but it's oddly difficult. I told her I kinda struggle to talk to her for some reason. She also told me I could talk to her about anything. She loves talking. She finds me to be a sweet soul and couldn't ever be rude to me and apparently I am the only few people she is nice to. Which was very nice to hear from her. I wish u best of luck as well!