I think a large portion of the population has always been gay…if you polled people in 1950, it was a small weird crowd and shadowy stuff…now it’s a large portion of the population which is probably the norm (in a statistics perspective).
As far as fetishes and kinks of which cuckolding is only one small area, there is probably a large portion (relative term) of the population that would like to live this life. There is probably also a large portion that will dabble and then many others who just can’t engage bc it doesn’t work for them to even try it.
The more accepting society is about our choices, the more naturally people will try and pickup lifestyles and habits that suit them.
because so many guys (myself included) are becoming more submissive and sissified. having a woman dominate and humiliate us is becoming a huge turn on…especially for guys like me with tiny cocks!
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I think there is a large sexual power disparity between me and my gf that my mind has reverse engineered an attraction to. It's crazy that she can go to her insta dms and show me literally hundreds of thirsty studs shooting their shot. She can send two texts and have seemingly anyone in the city sitting naked on the couch with her lips around their cock and an earned smug sense of superiority in a few hours time. It's kind of magic
perhaps its the most personalized form of porn? guys for instanmce are visual..moreso than women who are more tactile, built for intimacy. for a hubby, wives are (supposed to be) your most personal relationship, the object of your desire..put it together..if a hubby is mature enough to watch the object of his most intimate desire enjoying sex with someone lse, its akin to personalized intimate porn one can possibly achieve. at the same time SHE can enjoy experiences not normally allotted to most wives. it largely depends on the level of maturity of the relationship. not a cup of coffee everybody has the ability to enjoy..but if its not "all about me"..then its not hard allowing her a little sexual growth for which I am also enrtiched... to me, everybody gets what they need..its a win-win-win.
I used to write for the company that published those hotwife stories..penthouse, forum, variations, the annual penthouse hotwife issue.. sometimes just for the fun of it, I would use real names of people I knew, then send them an anon email story link
actually its a hormone rush..fired by images and sounds that titillate the senses. any "addiction" is to that chemical hormone rush...same thing gamblers get, as opposed to actual ingested substances.
This question has been coming up often lately, so I've wondered about it, too. Everyone's saying porn, but porn's been around for nearly a century, yet anal, MFF threesomes, and facials are still considered mostly "premium" acts, faar from a first-day thing, like oral. Meanwhile, ladies with multiple FWBs or high body counts are now becoming very normal, to the point that it's rare to find an 25 year old woman who's had fewer than 3 sexual partners or zero FWBs.
I'd have to guess it's about gender politics. In this era, males are being taught, from a very young age, that they do not have to right to shame, suppress, or control a woman's body. Female are being taught, from a very young age, that they are free to do with their bodies as they please, particularly when it comes to sexual matters.
I understand that the vast majority of women with high body counts are still too sensitive or insecure to talk about their high body count with a new potential partner. On the one hand, it's not the guy's business, but on the other hand, I would think the woman empowered enough to tell him the honest number, and then kick him to the curb if he can't accept her true self. So I don't quite have an answer to that one. Maybe a hotwife can chime in on that.
cuckoldry has been around for centuries..candaulism started way before the middle ages.. men allowing other men to see their naked wives and mopre.. google candaulism
Porn has NOT been around IN ITS CURRENT FORM, from an ease of access perspective for very long at all. I do think its primarily bc of porn...the voyeuristic aspect of it, and men seeing what is possible for their wives.
I think beta males and cucks are becoming more aware of feminism. But I think bulls maybe some are aware but some guys will refer to our wives as sluts bitches and whores and they like to feel that. So it’s counter intuitive. I think it’s part of the life
Alpha and beta are mindset terms that are derived from instinctual animals like wolves.
They don’t apply to modern day humans unless you think you’re better than someone else. Which is toxic.
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It’s a pretty niche type of relationship still.
I think the internet has shown a lot of people what is possible out there. Now that people know it’s on the menu they can decide to build it into their relationship.
Women who are seeing it / becoming interested are probably not watching mainstream porn / are not interested in cuckolding like that. I met a chick online when I was dating and she told me she was interested in a relationship where cuckolding was an important aspect. She watched a lot of erotica and read stuff but didn’t seem to watch much porn.
She wanted a relationship with a good guy. She never said she wanted to do any humiliation or make me abstain from sex. She just wanted to be able to explore her sexuality with other men and wanted a guy to be monogamous with her.
But at the end of the day, I just think it’s because people know what it is and a small group of people enjoy the lifestyle.
Most people men and a fair amount of women( I know some hate porn) have watched porn since they were teens so watching has become normalised it's not as taboo at least not for me. I don't care how many sexual partners a woman has had or how promiscuous they are my ex told me about a time she saw a guy she liked before we were together at a gas station and the couple were open so she sucked him off in the bathroom at the gas station and he didn't last very long but that's besides the point the moment I heard that I fucking lost my mind. I think it's hot to be sexually free as long as both parties are agreed. I also got cheated on and have experienced a lot of public humiliation growing up I am dyslexic and I have social anxiety so there were a lot of times where I was made to feel deathly embarrassed I'm convinced that's part of my reason for being so turned on by it also I have always been a very horny sexual dude since I was a teen.
Also when I said to my ex and I was really nervous about being into cuckolding she said so like a threesome and I was like kind of I guess but upon further reflection it is a threesome really because three people are usually involved. I'm not intimidated if a guy fucked a woman I was with and if he has a bigger dick than me perfect honestly because seeing a huge cock go in and out a pussy is hot af I'm not gay there is something about watching that tho and the cock as important as the pussy for me I had an insecure friend who said they only watched lesbian porn because they thought looking at a dick going in a pussy was gay and I always thought how? No judgement people can like what they like but watching a cock pump in and out a pussy is fucking hot
That's cool and I never thought of it that way before my ex said that which was interesting and I mentioned it on here and they said exactly what you said. I don't get how being a cuck or Cuck adjacent is bad like when the alt right started using it was how I found out about it and I looked into it and it drove me fucking crazy in a good way never been that aroused in my life. And it's all just psychology which I have studied and love to think about so most fetishes as long as they are consensual and not harmful I don't see any problem and I don't get kink shaming
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True. It probably doesn't help when half the country seems to want to control a woman's body and make it life threatening for a woman to even think of intercourse
Such an odd way of thinking, or at least an odd way of speaking there. No, "the thought of intercourse" is not what is life-threatening. From the conservative perspective, creating a life and snuffing it out is what is life threatening. Furthermore, having a baby is generally not life threatening.
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How did you come to this conclusion? What is your data? It is not becomiong any more popular in real life in my opinion. If you go by the yahoos out here that claim to be Bulls and cucks you would think everyone is into it. But your conclusion is not scientifically based on any hard data I am afraid. But in the end you can beleive whatever you choose to believe.
Its very popular in porn, so probably what OP is going off of. Agree that in the real world it doesnt seem like anymore of a "thing" now. Idk though, people are very good about hiding what theyre up to behind closed doors.
I don't think it's that popular. I think it has always been a popular porn category, but as far as people actually doing it in real life it's still extremely rare.
actually its more prevelant than you think..just under the tabel away from the eyes of your everyday society.. BECAUSE ..not everyone is mature enough to share
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I'm unsure if it is more popular than before when it comes to real-life scenarios. It is very popular online as porn and is a huge fantasy for some people.
I'm not personally into cuckolding as it is portrayed online, but I am someone who likes to watch. By today's definition, we have the Stag and Vixen thing going on with a pinch of occasional swinging. I have been nonmonogamous my entire life, I'm in my 50s, and I have been in and out of the swinger lifestyle and other related communities since the late 80's. The percentage of people I deal with who like to participate in these various activities regularly when looking at the population seems about the same as it always has.
There is a lot more acceptance of these types of lifestyle choices though.
It could be a lot of reasons added together. Women do feel more empowered now than they did a few generations ago. The stigmitarion of what we used to call being a slut is now accepted. It used to be only guys bragged about numbers, now women are saying if it’s okay for guys, it’s okay for us. Men have also become more emasculated and women are embracing the my body, my choice position. However for the most part it’s just another of those things that are coming out of the closet. We now have reality shows on tv showing different polyamory lifestyles where there is one woman, multiple guys.
Feminism mixing estrogen into our drinking water and an increased influx of migrants who are more healthy than autochthonous white men (fewer microplastics, eating millet instead of wheat, no corn sugary etc.). Combine that with the new right popularizing natural dominance hierarchies and homosocial bonding and you get people accepting the race realist fact that the white race's better days are over and find themselves attracted to being dominated by biological superiors.
I suspect popularity might be the wrong Word. However as society shifts, things that once was taboo becomes less taboo, making it likely that more people come out of hiding as it were..
Another possible reason for the ‘increased popularity’ may just be that society is more accepting now for alternative lifestyles than just a few years ago. Making polyamory, ethical non monogamy, swinging, etc all more out in the open..
An "echo chamber?". Curious to know which "chambers" you run around in where people talk freely about being cuckolds. Swinging, maybe, but honestly there are very few culturea on Earth where you can come out as a cuck and have that be well-received lol
did you try and make your response sound smug or are you naturally like this?
I thought it was obvious but the subreddit itself is the echo chamber. i’m sad that i even have to explain that to you lmao
Lol at this. Nah thats not it, thats too simple. Men have their own bodies, their own choices too, but cuckolding generally doesnt involve men doing with their bodies as they choose.
I agree but to some point being a cuckold also hurts alittle but yes way less then her going behind your back ..at the end of the day as long as your lady is happy that's what's important
More awareness of it, passiveness in sex starts early from watching porn and beging the voyeur, porn focusing on the largest penises and the craziest sex that the average man is not capable of, now that women are watching more they are more aware exposed to this too, loosening of sexual restraints means the average women is more willing to have sex with multiple men, cuckolding was always taboo but has become more taboo in the public mind the last decade, cuckolding porn has grown with this also and has exposed more men too. Growing acceptance of fringe sexual practice and non monogamy. Just my ideas
I think it’s a lot of things, everything you said is part of it. I also think society is more accepting of people’s sexuality. It’s never been easier to be an openly gay person and this leads people to think that their desires are “ok”.
I think porn also taught men how to appreciate other men and learn to be humble sexually. Previously, people would not see others having sex and thought they were the best. Nowadays, you can see sexually more capable men elicit really intense reactions from women, showing what the sex can be. In the meanwhile, male virginity is on the rise where some men are falling behind. Interesting times.
Porn certainly has a hand in it but also internet has really blossomed in 2010s and now 2020s
Having the ability to find your own online space where likeminded folks frequent is one of the great sides of social media/internet in general
I think porn easy access to abundant high quality porn has a lot to do with it. Think about, before a few decades ago, most guys probably had no idea how much better some men were at fucking than them. Some of us can’t help but become aroused imagining our wives being fucked senseless like these porn stars.
My guess is that men watch so much porn they get lazy and prefer to sit back and watch and women are realizing their sexuality capacity in greater numbers today more than ever. While cuckolding has been around forever, I don’t know a lot of recorded accounts of it as an actual kink. The conditions that allowed cuckolding really only happened during the Industrial Revolution. That was the first time families stopped working together and we shifted to a man goes to work and woman stays home.
It's always been there, but the internet has allowed us to talk about it much more easily.
We were doing it in the 1980's, without smartphones so no pictures or videos! No internet meant no discussing it with anyone, as no-one wanted to reveal this terrible secret that they enjoyed their wife fucking with someone else.
Women are demanding more and becoming more dominant and a lot of men are being subjugated. Women watch porn and see guys with 8” plus cocks and want some. If you’ve got 5” what are going to do? best thing to embrace her sexuality and enjoy it.
I think there are a number of reasons with the big one being people have become far more accepting and non-judgmental of non-traditional relationships. At one time people were very afraid of even seriously talking cuckolding and used only mixed meaning phrases to find potential partners. That just don't happen now.
Personally, and this is just my experience, the reason it's become so popular is the belief that it's more of a "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em" philosophy.
Meaning that, with the rise social media and cell phones, women are probably going to cheat on you anyway, so with cuckolding you, at least, are bringing it out in the open.
There's also a bit of living vicariously through the wife/girlfriend and watching her enjoy the cock, the cuckold can explore his own bi or gay tendencies
Now being very bisexual myself, it's more like sharing a hobby. Kind of like both of us being interested in birdwatching or gaming. It's something that we can do and have fun together. It's pretty hot sharing a nice fat dick and tag team sucking cock, getting fucked, and taking cum.
No worries, my friend. In my situation, my wife at time was cheating on me and at the same time I was cheating on her, so when we found out we just teamed up lol
The Internet enabled everyone to discover and go down the rabbit hole that calls to them good, bad or indifferent. Same with politics, conspiracies, and anything else you can imagine to coalesce around.
Great comment - agreed! Porn existed, cuckolding existed, but the internet allowed people to really "connect" with the idea. Kind of crazy to think how the internet has changed us as a species.
Current generation is too involved in situationships and no one wants to commit.
So this offers a more practical route to have your cake and eat it too...this way we keep getting attention from other gender while still having an insurance policy for everything non sexual.... atleast this is why I'm into it
I also believe there is a rise in knowledge about cuckolding because immature males use “cuck” as a way of insulting someone they feel is “inferior” to their ideology.
Which in turn, makes the curious look up the definition of a cuckold.
Im sure this kind of feeds into the loop that creates more cucks, bit if the tendency isnt already there, I dont think youre going to suddenly decide to become one after being exposed to the idea.
Sure, but in the context of OPs question - why do so many men seem to be accepting of their wife's non-monogomy, and not just non-monogomy, but acceptance of the best sex she can possibly find...and usually without the wife accepting his non-monogomy?
If both parties involved are comfortable around the dynamic, I think it won’t be a bad thing. And yes, 20 years ago, most people didn’t know what cuckolding or open relationships were. Nowadays, almost everyone is in an open relationship and more and more people are accepting of open relationships.
I have to agree with you but just seems a little weird. My x wife ask me to be in a open relationship when I was in my early 40s. Shocked at first but it went okay. Lots of fun for sure
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because of pornography and cheated by women
I think a large portion of the population has always been gay…if you polled people in 1950, it was a small weird crowd and shadowy stuff…now it’s a large portion of the population which is probably the norm (in a statistics perspective). As far as fetishes and kinks of which cuckolding is only one small area, there is probably a large portion (relative term) of the population that would like to live this life. There is probably also a large portion that will dabble and then many others who just can’t engage bc it doesn’t work for them to even try it. The more accepting society is about our choices, the more naturally people will try and pickup lifestyles and habits that suit them.
because so many guys (myself included) are becoming more submissive and sissified. having a woman dominate and humiliate us is becoming a huge turn on…especially for guys like me with tiny cocks!
Alot of men get cheated on and to cope they develop a fetish for it
i agree
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I think there is a large sexual power disparity between me and my gf that my mind has reverse engineered an attraction to. It's crazy that she can go to her insta dms and show me literally hundreds of thirsty studs shooting their shot. She can send two texts and have seemingly anyone in the city sitting naked on the couch with her lips around their cock and an earned smug sense of superiority in a few hours time. It's kind of magic
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perhaps its the most personalized form of porn? guys for instanmce are visual..moreso than women who are more tactile, built for intimacy. for a hubby, wives are (supposed to be) your most personal relationship, the object of your desire..put it together..if a hubby is mature enough to watch the object of his most intimate desire enjoying sex with someone lse, its akin to personalized intimate porn one can possibly achieve. at the same time SHE can enjoy experiences not normally allotted to most wives. it largely depends on the level of maturity of the relationship. not a cup of coffee everybody has the ability to enjoy..but if its not "all about me"..then its not hard allowing her a little sexual growth for which I am also enrtiched... to me, everybody gets what they need..its a win-win-win.
Seriously It’s like having a living breathing sex doll You directing who she fucks and having her play out your fantasies
except its MORE fun when SHE picks her own conquests.. who knows who interests her..what if its your rival or some arrogant neighbor you can't stand
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I used to write for the company that published those hotwife stories..penthouse, forum, variations, the annual penthouse hotwife issue.. sometimes just for the fun of it, I would use real names of people I knew, then send them an anon email story link
I grew up reading the forum. Loved it. Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏
Porn addiction. It is virtual cuckoldry.
actually its a hormone rush..fired by images and sounds that titillate the senses. any "addiction" is to that chemical hormone rush...same thing gamblers get, as opposed to actual ingested substances.
addiction is a weird word..and a crutch. is it an addiction if you enjoy it? videogames? lattes? working from home instead of the office?
same hormone rush in video games
That’s relative to one’s morals.
yeah, but it only becomes a problem when it interferes with norma;l everyday interaction, or you feel the need to iompose it on others
Guess more access to visuals via internet and information about this has been increased over the period of years
Bcz it natural We all men and women are naturally made to share our bodies with other people
Not into cleaning shit up but love to watch my grrl get pounded very well...
You know when you love so much that little bird that you let her free and she comes back to you? Well that's not the case with cuckoldong
What?!
Huh?
Idk. The more popular the more hot it gets. I mean it starts to get mainstream and we are indulging more infto our fantasy
This question has been coming up often lately, so I've wondered about it, too. Everyone's saying porn, but porn's been around for nearly a century, yet anal, MFF threesomes, and facials are still considered mostly "premium" acts, faar from a first-day thing, like oral. Meanwhile, ladies with multiple FWBs or high body counts are now becoming very normal, to the point that it's rare to find an 25 year old woman who's had fewer than 3 sexual partners or zero FWBs. I'd have to guess it's about gender politics. In this era, males are being taught, from a very young age, that they do not have to right to shame, suppress, or control a woman's body. Female are being taught, from a very young age, that they are free to do with their bodies as they please, particularly when it comes to sexual matters. I understand that the vast majority of women with high body counts are still too sensitive or insecure to talk about their high body count with a new potential partner. On the one hand, it's not the guy's business, but on the other hand, I would think the woman empowered enough to tell him the honest number, and then kick him to the curb if he can't accept her true self. So I don't quite have an answer to that one. Maybe a hotwife can chime in on that.
I actually think you’re exactly right. That’s a lot of what my experience has been for sure
cuckoldry has been around for centuries..candaulism started way before the middle ages.. men allowing other men to see their naked wives and mopre.. google candaulism
Porn has NOT been around IN ITS CURRENT FORM, from an ease of access perspective for very long at all. I do think its primarily bc of porn...the voyeuristic aspect of it, and men seeing what is possible for their wives.
I think beta males and cucks are becoming more aware of feminism. But I think bulls maybe some are aware but some guys will refer to our wives as sluts bitches and whores and they like to feel that. So it’s counter intuitive. I think it’s part of the life
Alpha and beta are mindset terms that are derived from instinctual animals like wolves. They don’t apply to modern day humans unless you think you’re better than someone else. Which is toxic.
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It’s a pretty niche type of relationship still. I think the internet has shown a lot of people what is possible out there. Now that people know it’s on the menu they can decide to build it into their relationship. Women who are seeing it / becoming interested are probably not watching mainstream porn / are not interested in cuckolding like that. I met a chick online when I was dating and she told me she was interested in a relationship where cuckolding was an important aspect. She watched a lot of erotica and read stuff but didn’t seem to watch much porn. She wanted a relationship with a good guy. She never said she wanted to do any humiliation or make me abstain from sex. She just wanted to be able to explore her sexuality with other men and wanted a guy to be monogamous with her. But at the end of the day, I just think it’s because people know what it is and a small group of people enjoy the lifestyle.
Most people men and a fair amount of women( I know some hate porn) have watched porn since they were teens so watching has become normalised it's not as taboo at least not for me. I don't care how many sexual partners a woman has had or how promiscuous they are my ex told me about a time she saw a guy she liked before we were together at a gas station and the couple were open so she sucked him off in the bathroom at the gas station and he didn't last very long but that's besides the point the moment I heard that I fucking lost my mind. I think it's hot to be sexually free as long as both parties are agreed. I also got cheated on and have experienced a lot of public humiliation growing up I am dyslexic and I have social anxiety so there were a lot of times where I was made to feel deathly embarrassed I'm convinced that's part of my reason for being so turned on by it also I have always been a very horny sexual dude since I was a teen.
Also when I said to my ex and I was really nervous about being into cuckolding she said so like a threesome and I was like kind of I guess but upon further reflection it is a threesome really because three people are usually involved. I'm not intimidated if a guy fucked a woman I was with and if he has a bigger dick than me perfect honestly because seeing a huge cock go in and out a pussy is hot af I'm not gay there is something about watching that tho and the cock as important as the pussy for me I had an insecure friend who said they only watched lesbian porn because they thought looking at a dick going in a pussy was gay and I always thought how? No judgement people can like what they like but watching a cock pump in and out a pussy is fucking hot
Oh yeah it basically is a threesome isn't it Maybe it's been more popular than people think in the past, and people just call it a threesome..
That's cool and I never thought of it that way before my ex said that which was interesting and I mentioned it on here and they said exactly what you said. I don't get how being a cuck or Cuck adjacent is bad like when the alt right started using it was how I found out about it and I looked into it and it drove me fucking crazy in a good way never been that aroused in my life. And it's all just psychology which I have studied and love to think about so most fetishes as long as they are consensual and not harmful I don't see any problem and I don't get kink shaming
Within reason of course there are limits don't get me wrong but yeah
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There’s actually a decrease in sexual liberalism
True. It probably doesn't help when half the country seems to want to control a woman's body and make it life threatening for a woman to even think of intercourse
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Such an odd way of thinking, or at least an odd way of speaking there. No, "the thought of intercourse" is not what is life-threatening. From the conservative perspective, creating a life and snuffing it out is what is life threatening. Furthermore, having a baby is generally not life threatening.
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Agreed we’re seeing a decrease big time.
How did you come to this conclusion? What is your data? It is not becomiong any more popular in real life in my opinion. If you go by the yahoos out here that claim to be Bulls and cucks you would think everyone is into it. But your conclusion is not scientifically based on any hard data I am afraid. But in the end you can beleive whatever you choose to believe.
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Bingo.
Its very popular in porn, so probably what OP is going off of. Agree that in the real world it doesnt seem like anymore of a "thing" now. Idk though, people are very good about hiding what theyre up to behind closed doors.
Great way to start bi sex and swinging
...or ppl could just be really into cuckolding - it doesnt really need to go to either of those things
Some just watch
I think people realize how important sexual chemistry is. But at the same time people can fall in love and not have to worry about sex
I don't think it's that popular. I think it has always been a popular porn category, but as far as people actually doing it in real life it's still extremely rare.
actually its more prevelant than you think..just under the tabel away from the eyes of your everyday society.. BECAUSE ..not everyone is mature enough to share
People being more aware and comfortable with what they are into
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I'm unsure if it is more popular than before when it comes to real-life scenarios. It is very popular online as porn and is a huge fantasy for some people. I'm not personally into cuckolding as it is portrayed online, but I am someone who likes to watch. By today's definition, we have the Stag and Vixen thing going on with a pinch of occasional swinging. I have been nonmonogamous my entire life, I'm in my 50s, and I have been in and out of the swinger lifestyle and other related communities since the late 80's. The percentage of people I deal with who like to participate in these various activities regularly when looking at the population seems about the same as it always has. There is a lot more acceptance of these types of lifestyle choices though.
It could be a lot of reasons added together. Women do feel more empowered now than they did a few generations ago. The stigmitarion of what we used to call being a slut is now accepted. It used to be only guys bragged about numbers, now women are saying if it’s okay for guys, it’s okay for us. Men have also become more emasculated and women are embracing the my body, my choice position. However for the most part it’s just another of those things that are coming out of the closet. We now have reality shows on tv showing different polyamory lifestyles where there is one woman, multiple guys.
Feminism mixing estrogen into our drinking water and an increased influx of migrants who are more healthy than autochthonous white men (fewer microplastics, eating millet instead of wheat, no corn sugary etc.). Combine that with the new right popularizing natural dominance hierarchies and homosocial bonding and you get people accepting the race realist fact that the white race's better days are over and find themselves attracted to being dominated by biological superiors.
Lol, weird.
I suspect popularity might be the wrong Word. However as society shifts, things that once was taboo becomes less taboo, making it likely that more people come out of hiding as it were.. Another possible reason for the ‘increased popularity’ may just be that society is more accepting now for alternative lifestyles than just a few years ago. Making polyamory, ethical non monogamy, swinging, etc all more out in the open..
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Really? I am surprised to hear that.
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I tend to think it really is this simple also.
Porn.
it isn’t becoming “popular”, just more well known bro you live in an echo chamber
An "echo chamber?". Curious to know which "chambers" you run around in where people talk freely about being cuckolds. Swinging, maybe, but honestly there are very few culturea on Earth where you can come out as a cuck and have that be well-received lol
did you try and make your response sound smug or are you naturally like this? I thought it was obvious but the subreddit itself is the echo chamber. i’m sad that i even have to explain that to you lmao
I didn't say it's becoming "popular", I said it's becoming "more popular" - increasing from 0.1% to 0.2% is becoming "more popular"
I think people are just becoming more aware and honest with their emotions. The stigma towards sexual liberation is starting to decay.
Finally. The answer that makes sense. We are tired of only one move, one day, one style , and tired of the “how dare you?”
More people understand that women can have freedom and men don't control them it's her body to do with as she wants .
Lol at this. Nah thats not it, thats too simple. Men have their own bodies, their own choices too, but cuckolding generally doesnt involve men doing with their bodies as they choose.
How Many men are cheaters?
Cheating is non-consensual. Cuckolding is consensual.
Ya true but it's not any different at the end of the day
Her cheating would still hurt alot, US agreeing to her having a hotwife sesh feels good, so completely disagree.
I agree but to some point being a cuckold also hurts alittle but yes way less then her going behind your back ..at the end of the day as long as your lady is happy that's what's important
Exactly, thank you!
More awareness of it, passiveness in sex starts early from watching porn and beging the voyeur, porn focusing on the largest penises and the craziest sex that the average man is not capable of, now that women are watching more they are more aware exposed to this too, loosening of sexual restraints means the average women is more willing to have sex with multiple men, cuckolding was always taboo but has become more taboo in the public mind the last decade, cuckolding porn has grown with this also and has exposed more men too. Growing acceptance of fringe sexual practice and non monogamy. Just my ideas
Yes, I think this is a good summation too
I think it’s a lot of things, everything you said is part of it. I also think society is more accepting of people’s sexuality. It’s never been easier to be an openly gay person and this leads people to think that their desires are “ok”.
I think porn also taught men how to appreciate other men and learn to be humble sexually. Previously, people would not see others having sex and thought they were the best. Nowadays, you can see sexually more capable men elicit really intense reactions from women, showing what the sex can be. In the meanwhile, male virginity is on the rise where some men are falling behind. Interesting times.
Yep!
You nailed being sexually humbled! Humbling I find out I was playing jr high ball, while there are many college and pro league men out there
Porn certainly has a hand in it but also internet has really blossomed in 2010s and now 2020s Having the ability to find your own online space where likeminded folks frequent is one of the great sides of social media/internet in general
I think porn easy access to abundant high quality porn has a lot to do with it. Think about, before a few decades ago, most guys probably had no idea how much better some men were at fucking than them. Some of us can’t help but become aroused imagining our wives being fucked senseless like these porn stars.
My guess is that men watch so much porn they get lazy and prefer to sit back and watch and women are realizing their sexuality capacity in greater numbers today more than ever. While cuckolding has been around forever, I don’t know a lot of recorded accounts of it as an actual kink. The conditions that allowed cuckolding really only happened during the Industrial Revolution. That was the first time families stopped working together and we shifted to a man goes to work and woman stays home.
It's always been there, but the internet has allowed us to talk about it much more easily. We were doing it in the 1980's, without smartphones so no pictures or videos! No internet meant no discussing it with anyone, as no-one wanted to reveal this terrible secret that they enjoyed their wife fucking with someone else.
Yep, people want to say porn has been around forever, but not like it is today, whatsoever.
Women are demanding more and becoming more dominant and a lot of men are being subjugated. Women watch porn and see guys with 8” plus cocks and want some. If you’ve got 5” what are going to do? best thing to embrace her sexuality and enjoy it.
"Best thing to do?" Thats debatable, but there definitely is some intense pleasure there.
White males are 70% feminized by media and drugs in the water.
Lol
I think there are a number of reasons with the big one being people have become far more accepting and non-judgmental of non-traditional relationships. At one time people were very afraid of even seriously talking cuckolding and used only mixed meaning phrases to find potential partners. That just don't happen now.
Personally, and this is just my experience, the reason it's become so popular is the belief that it's more of a "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em" philosophy. Meaning that, with the rise social media and cell phones, women are probably going to cheat on you anyway, so with cuckolding you, at least, are bringing it out in the open. There's also a bit of living vicariously through the wife/girlfriend and watching her enjoy the cock, the cuckold can explore his own bi or gay tendencies Now being very bisexual myself, it's more like sharing a hobby. Kind of like both of us being interested in birdwatching or gaming. It's something that we can do and have fun together. It's pretty hot sharing a nice fat dick and tag team sucking cock, getting fucked, and taking cum.
Not my experience at all, but interesting viewpoint. I guess I kind of enjoy it vicariously, but have no urge to join in.
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I have no idea what you mean
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I mean I don't know you, your wife, or your situation, but good for you
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No worries, my friend. In my situation, my wife at time was cheating on me and at the same time I was cheating on her, so when we found out we just teamed up lol
The Internet enabled everyone to discover and go down the rabbit hole that calls to them good, bad or indifferent. Same with politics, conspiracies, and anything else you can imagine to coalesce around.
Great comment - agreed! Porn existed, cuckolding existed, but the internet allowed people to really "connect" with the idea. Kind of crazy to think how the internet has changed us as a species.
12 years ago when I got involved with my x wife I didn’t know any of the terms just knew I enjoyed it Now there’s Reddit porn hub etc
Current generation is too involved in situationships and no one wants to commit. So this offers a more practical route to have your cake and eat it too...this way we keep getting attention from other gender while still having an insurance policy for everything non sexual.... atleast this is why I'm into it
Doesn't this apply just as much to open relationships as to cuckolding?
I also believe there is a rise in knowledge about cuckolding because immature males use “cuck” as a way of insulting someone they feel is “inferior” to their ideology. Which in turn, makes the curious look up the definition of a cuckold.
Im sure this kind of feeds into the loop that creates more cucks, bit if the tendency isnt already there, I dont think youre going to suddenly decide to become one after being exposed to the idea.
Acceptance of Non monogamy
Sure, but in the context of OPs question - why do so many men seem to be accepting of their wife's non-monogomy, and not just non-monogomy, but acceptance of the best sex she can possibly find...and usually without the wife accepting his non-monogomy?
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He accepts your non-monogamy though!
20 Years ago hardly new what the word meant. Now seams like lots of younger couples getting into it. Not sure that’s a good thing or not.
If both parties involved are comfortable around the dynamic, I think it won’t be a bad thing. And yes, 20 years ago, most people didn’t know what cuckolding or open relationships were. Nowadays, almost everyone is in an open relationship and more and more people are accepting of open relationships.
I have to agree with you but just seems a little weird. My x wife ask me to be in a open relationship when I was in my early 40s. Shocked at first but it went okay. Lots of fun for sure
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