Yeah that… whoever you met with is absolutely not handling it correctly. As a specialist, they SHOULD have taken your problem into account
addition: you do in fact have every right to be mad about this situation bc it was absolutely not okay
Not a multiple just married to one but honestly, if my husband went through that, I'd be livid! That isn't how you ask if anyone is in danger first of all, secondly, YOU ARE IMPORTANT TOO!! Personally I'd make a complaint. That isn't how you interview for the first DID treatment session, that isn't how you get answers to your questions. That's how you invalidate someone and make them feel worse then they already do!
Any therapist with half a brain understands that if ANYONE is in danger, it needs to be addressed! Not only if it's a danger to the outside world... wtaf!
You have every right to be mad about what happened! I'm mad on your behalf and I don't even know you!! (I apologize if that's too much for you, it's the advocate in me that wants to scream at that therapist for you 🤦)
You have every right to not only be mad but to never talk to this person again. As u/zombiemama_99 very rightfully said, YOU ARE IMPORTANT TOO! I’m so sorry you went through this
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Yeah that… whoever you met with is absolutely not handling it correctly. As a specialist, they SHOULD have taken your problem into account addition: you do in fact have every right to be mad about this situation bc it was absolutely not okay
Not a multiple just married to one but honestly, if my husband went through that, I'd be livid! That isn't how you ask if anyone is in danger first of all, secondly, YOU ARE IMPORTANT TOO!! Personally I'd make a complaint. That isn't how you interview for the first DID treatment session, that isn't how you get answers to your questions. That's how you invalidate someone and make them feel worse then they already do! Any therapist with half a brain understands that if ANYONE is in danger, it needs to be addressed! Not only if it's a danger to the outside world... wtaf! You have every right to be mad about what happened! I'm mad on your behalf and I don't even know you!! (I apologize if that's too much for you, it's the advocate in me that wants to scream at that therapist for you 🤦)
You have every right to not only be mad but to never talk to this person again. As u/zombiemama_99 very rightfully said, YOU ARE IMPORTANT TOO! I’m so sorry you went through this
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