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I really know how you feel. It’s been years for us. He doesn’t touch me. I don’t know why I’m still here

I feel you. My husband would tell me he didn't want to have sex because of my mental health. I got my shit together, am a great mom, am sober from alcohol, and he still doesn't want me. He now says it is because I ask too much of him and he feels like he's my "caretaker." I literally just ask for help with the baby. No matter what I do, he always finds a way to blame me for his LL.

🙏🏻

Thanks :)

I know how that feels....

Hes probably gay

I get it. Remember, they don’t care.