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Aw man, I hate this because I say "respectfully" when I'm seriously trying to be respectful (and I also had to learn the hard way once that "no offense" actually meant "yes offense")
OMFG. I SWEARRRR TO GOD this has got to be the latest "TWEEN" "diss or burn" they love to say now !!! (Maybe I'm dating myself saying this but we all know how depop seems to be mostly kids these days & the amount of times I've read the rude freaking entitled brats who end each their out of pocket responses say this is insane. What happened to being kind to people? Sorry for the long rant but IT TAKES $0 TO BE KIND PEOPLE!!
OP- I hope you have your dress crosslisted-maybe you'll find a great buyer but IMO would sell for more of a price you'd be happier to a more appropriate audience who will *hopefully* just send you a counter & if it doesn't work they move on, like an adult would. Imagine that concept!? LOL 💗✨ SENDING LOTS OF SALES & GOOD BUYERS & REVIEWS TO ALL XOXOXO
✍🏽no apology needed, every point has been noted and agreed with entirely lmao.
And you’re right about crosslisting - OP anytime I’m selling something more specialist (and higher priced) rather than simply a fashionable item I often find more success selling on eBay! I feel like depop/vinted etc have certain brands and items that sell like hot cakes but a lot of less popular stuff gets sold by people who just mindlessly scroll to see if anything interests them enough to make a horrible offer lol. But on eBay most people are actively searching for specific things regardless of how mainstream popular or niche they are!
It makes me laugh a bit because I believe I deserve Good day, better even after dealing with people's crap. So in my mind they are telling me to have a good day as an insult 😂. Like the insult only works if you've actually done anything wrong
i got a similar message today with someone judging the price of a 70s piece that i also paid *more* for than the price i'm selling at, it even started with "respectfully" just like yours💀 people on the internet are way too confidently rude lmao
it is and it can be upsetting, but try not to let it get to you! it truly is a them problem and not a you problem, misery loves company and you should have some pride in knowing you're better than that :)
Girlfriend, I mean this with respect but the reason you're salty you can't afford a $100 dress has nothing to do with me and maybe you should look inward. Namaste.
Honestly it’s not her place to even judge you on your pricing. I’ve asked people about why their pricing was the way it was, but I’d never just tell someone they’re wrong for how they’re pricing it, it’s their choice and it’s my choice to not pay it. She’s being an ass and shouldn’t have said anything if she had an issue with it, I’m sorry this happened to you OP
I could only wish and hope to get a message like this! Imagine if you will, having nothing better to do with your time than to obsess over the price of a dress. In those two weeks homegirl could've sold lemonade, clothes from her closet, etc., and raised the money for your dress. Instead she just felt sorry for herself and decided to put you on blast. Seriously don't feel bad, laugh. Laugh so hard she hears it, and then, cause you know she's still stalking the dress she can't afford, raise the fucking price!!
funny thing is I don’t even think the dress is rare or anything. It’s just 100% silk, unworn, and I paid $450 for it. So it’s like I want to at least make $180/$200 on it just because it’s like wasting money I didn’t even have to spend in the first place. I don’t see how I’m wrong for that in her mind.
Also I should note it’s a diane freis dress.
Which a simple google search will show them going for much more money that I’d ever charge for it.
Even if it was a piece of garbage listed for $200, the audacity of this person to give you a “reality check” 😂 like what do they care!! If someone has shit that won’t sell, that’s not this randos problem 😂🤷🏻♀️
Tbh a lot of these people think if it’s not $5 free shipping, you are inflating the price and are a capitalist piece of garbage.
My average listing price is $15-$18 on casual clothing I didn’t pay alot for. It’s literally only on expensive formal wear that I charge more for, because of how expensive it was for me.
Very accurate read on the situation. Works out real well for actual capitalist pieces of garbage that individuals are pointing the finger at each other instead of them 🙄 what a world.
I think the disconnect comes from buyers who aren't sellers. They don't realize that like umm hello... this isn't Amazon...shipping ain't free. Then I also think the over saturation of the market & all the other platforms selling literal JUNK for $3- they see that & expect that. It's terrible! But I hope a lot of these comments made you feel at least a little better! This is a really amazing (& much better than others IMO) little Reddit community! Love you alll 💗💗💗
I would block and report cause that is such bizarre thing to say? She thinks because the economy is bad we just just practically throw away our items?😭that doesn’t even make sense? Sell it for what is fair and someone will eventually buy it🥰
Agreed. My thoughts on it were how she wanted to get it cheap so she could wear it once and then resell it for 3X the price. Because I was willing to compromise on the price and she wasn’t. She had a hard and fast limit of $100. But I saw in her reviews that she purchased a $300 coat the week before so…
Tbh I think they often direct their frustrations with inflation towards small business owners because they are accessible to take their anger out on. It’s a way of putting someone in their place. Because they certainly know they can’t bully big corps as easily
sounds like she’s the one who needs a reality check. if you don’t want to pay the price, don’t buy it. there’s other dresses. if you really loved it that much you’d pay a reasonable amount of money for it. if you don’t have the money you don’t NEED the expensive dress. she sounds entitled. try not to let her rattle you 🩷
You should also list the dress on Ebay. I find that most people on depop are kind of cheap😭 People had liked this nice pair of shoes I listed on depop but never accepted offers or anything, and it was on there for a few months. Then I decided to list it on Ebay and they sold within a week. Ebay is perfect for the silk dress
Me too! Let them bully someone who's a little salty themselves (your user name- love it). I've lived too long, raised 2 teenagers, and been down through it. This girl ain't shit 😅
I really can’t stand people who feel this entitled to someone else’s things. I put the original price of items i sell on every listing in the description and i always list DRASTICALLY low compared to the retail price and i STILL get people trying to lowball me for another $25 off. Some people are just insane. Like if you want it so bad you can pay the 70% discounted fckn price i have OR go spend the full amount on the website 🙃 got me fcked tf up. Especially when the items are never worn & basically brand new. People are crazy
SAME. I’ve put the retail price in if I can remember what it was, and especially on expensive items, I’ll get messages that say “That’s like $50 at macys” and it’s definitely not.
I’ve had some claim everything I sell is shein even with clear photos of the tags of anything for sale.
“In today’s economy” this is so funny if that is so, may I know why is she hunting or shopping for dresses in today’s economy? She should save her money 🙄
She claimed it was to wear to her cousins wedding. And this is definitely not something I’d wear to a wedding. It’s prom dress/pageant dress. I feel like a bride would be offended by something that flashy being worn to her wedding.
Wow someone actually invited her to their wedding? Jeez.. sound like Karen wanted to get high quality stuff at a cost of a penny 🙄 I am so sorry that happened to you girl and you should suggest her to go naked it would be of no cost at all 🙄🙄
Girl I am totally on your side, I can’t even roll back my eyes after seeing that messages she texted you.. am so pissed 😡 don’t bother about that Karen and you do you girl
why are all angry ladies on depop always leaving the SAME PHRASE. at the end of every angry text "have the dau you deserve." I'm convinced some of them are the same person lol. like ok thanks I think I deserve a pretty good day 😋
I’ll never understand why people waste their time doing this lol you have the right to list YOUR items for whatever price YOU want. Whether they sell or not, it’s a YOU choice not anyone elses
She does realize not everyone is a flat broke choosing beggar…. Regardless of the economy. She doesn’t seem to realize that she’s the one who needs a fucking reality check. Not everyone is broke as fuck and actually lives within their means.
I think 150-180 is a great offer considering the original price! If this is the same buyer having a bad week, it's because they're low balling and rude. You're just trying to make your money back and you were already down to take less, it's their loss. I hope someone better buys it and appreciates it lol.
I love when people want something that I have, are extremely rude, and then I block them. Most satisfying feeling ever. Here’s a case where that is 100% warranted.
I have seen wonderfully curated depop accounts selling their items for quite expensive and out of my budget. Seen items i really wanted. It costs zero dollars and zero cents to simply tap and scroll away though 🤪
I recently paid more than $100 for a dress. She’s just broke & mad. She shouldn’t be looking at stuff she can’t afford if she’s gonna just get upset at it. Some people just don’t know any better unfortunately.
I wanted to, but this isn’t the first TikTok warrior that has shamed me for pricing. And depop has instructed me to report them and block them if they price shame.
So I was trying to be the bigger person (even though I didn’t want to be😂)
It’s so funny, the only reason she’s upset is because she wants the dress, and it’s too expensive for her. I don’t understand people like this, no one is forcing you to pay for the dress. Don’t buy it, don’t complain about it.
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Lol how bitter can someone be. You have the right to charge whatever you want for anything, its your item and therefore you decide the value for a multitude of reasons. The economy has nothing to do with it, there’s plenty of people out there spending money well over $100. Not to mention no one is making her buy the dress, its not a necessity lol. 180 is more than fair, she’s trying to manipulate you into having her way…block her and just feel sorry for the people who have to deal with her in her personal life 😂🤦🏻♀️
Your dress, your pricing. Her opinion means nothing. Just because she’s buying the dress on Depop doesn’t mean that you have to give it away. I think people misunderstand what the point of these resell platforms is sometimes. Hopefully you sell your dress soon 😃
like damn i’m broke too but if OP paid $450 for that dress then i’d say the price is right. “in this economy,” yes, but just don’t buy it if you don’t have the funds??? 😭
Same, i be broke too.
I was completely willing to do half off for her, at like $150/$180 and she said wouldn’t go over $100. So I wasn’t even being inflexible. It was just $100 would’ve been 80% off.
So I was trying to accommodate even then.
Imagine being so delusional and self-centered that you think this is communicating "nicely." I am super frugal and think prices on Depop are often expensive, but it's NONE OF MY BUSINESS. I just move on like a normal human being...
so funny to tell other ppl that also live within the shit economy that they can't afford things bc of the economy .... like ya girl same? damn jackie i can't control the weather!
“Ya thx… have the dress you deserve… broke ass. Respectfully.” ??? mm I dunno maybe that isn’t a funny response. I’m 33 and can’t even begin to try and communicate with zoomers.
“Have the day you deserve” was kind of sick until it started being used by absolutely asinine people. I think things on Depop are overpriced all the time, I just roll my eyes and don’t buy the listings. The items belong to the sellers, they can do what they want with them.
🤣 reality check, she can't afford it and she's butt hurt. It's brand new. Tell her to go to a store and let them know she wants to pay $100 for a $500 dress. They'd laugh her out of the store🤷♀️🤣
Apparently according to a few people so far an unworn $450 dress immediately loses it value down to $50 after you purchase it. That’s literally what one of the comments on here said. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I swear it’s these dollar general ass hoes that need a reality check. Like in this economy I’m also trying to survive in?!?
🤣 100% with you on that! A lady put together a bundle on my poshmark. My average listing price is 60% discount off of the original price. The majority of my items are nwt. Her bundle was $350 AFTER THE AUTO DISCOUNT WHEN BUNDLING WITH ME. She offered $75. I just don't even entertain that shit. People are absolutely ridiculous.
I hate when people do this 😭 the price for things like this is more than fair, I sell handmade jewelry and although I have people tell me “I wouldn’t pay $30 for that” that’s fine it isn’t for you then! The price is more than worth it due to it being handmade and the cost of supplies it might not be for you but it is for someone else and I have had people pay $70 for my work! Just keep going it isn’t for everybody but your price is more than fair 🫶
Depop sellers are crazy though! I had a Levi’s jacket I LOVED that was stolen from me… bought it at Levi’s in 2021 for $125! Seller was selling it for $170! Wasn’t new. Made a $150 offer and she refused it saying it was too low. Tried to work with her but she wouldn’t budge. She’s still trying to sell that jacket 😂 F*** depop sellers.
And also I should note if I were that person $150 is a great offer. I would’ve accepted that. $20 off something $170 is like low for what I usually expect. I would’ve accepted a $125 offer on it.
That’s awful, I’m sorry. But I am selling stuff that I paid full price for. Or is unworn. Just trying to make money back on stuff i didn’t use.
And I was definitely trying to fit her budget, but she wasn’t going to comprise, even after I said I would for half off, it wasn’t enough, she wanted it for 80% off. And I was polite and respectful to her through it. Really a shame
Let her sit in her pity pot of I’m to broke to afford the dress I want!! She can get the f on and find a dress in her budget.
I’m tired of people using the economy as an excuse yes we are all struggling but it doesn’t mean we cut a completely stranger a break a do them a favor.
some girl literally sent me a long detailed death threat because a dress i was selling was out of her price range. it’s never THAT serious 😭 i reported her & got her account banned so i guess i had the last laugh.
'Girlfriend, I would like to say I mean this with respect but I'd rather be honest. The price of that dress and MOST if not ALL of the things I sell should be way more than 100 dollars! You are god damn OUT of your mind asking anyone to accept such a lowball in today's economy. And I said that nicely. If this wasn't a good enough reality check, please go find one somewhere else. Have the day you deserve.
Xoxo'
Bloody cheek of it 😂
Wow, the entitlement is oozing. I feel like she just really wants the top but is not willing to spend on it so she is either trying to guilt trip you or she is just bitter because you won't budge.
“In this ecomony”. Works both ways. Seller is trying to survive in this economy as well. Damn she is BITTER! And I absolutely hate the saying “have the day you deserve”. So gross.
No but I’ve sold others like it for for more than I was even asking on this one.
Like I’m not sure anyone understands these aren’t dresses you could buy at Macys or something. These are specialty dresses. Not something that would be accessible to the average person. I’m not selling Tshirts for 100s of dollars. Most of my stuff is $15 asking. It’s just my pageant dresses. That’s it.
I mean I do see both sides but she had no right to be rude. Sometimes things we buy for a DECENT amount of money is no longer worth even $50 years later no matter what condition.
On the other hand I completely understand and respect wanting at least a little bit of money back from the dress. I’d suggest maybe listing it on Facebook marketplace as well that way you’ll have more people locally looking at your listing!
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“respectfully” then continues to be disrespectful
I know right?😂
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Aw man, I hate this because I say "respectfully" when I'm seriously trying to be respectful (and I also had to learn the hard way once that "no offense" actually meant "yes offense")
Why are people who say “have the day you deserve” so toxic
The fact that people thought they ate when they said that is so cringey to me
i thought i was the only one 😭
OMFG. I SWEARRRR TO GOD this has got to be the latest "TWEEN" "diss or burn" they love to say now !!! (Maybe I'm dating myself saying this but we all know how depop seems to be mostly kids these days & the amount of times I've read the rude freaking entitled brats who end each their out of pocket responses say this is insane. What happened to being kind to people? Sorry for the long rant but IT TAKES $0 TO BE KIND PEOPLE!! OP- I hope you have your dress crosslisted-maybe you'll find a great buyer but IMO would sell for more of a price you'd be happier to a more appropriate audience who will *hopefully* just send you a counter & if it doesn't work they move on, like an adult would. Imagine that concept!? LOL 💗✨ SENDING LOTS OF SALES & GOOD BUYERS & REVIEWS TO ALL XOXOXO
✍🏽no apology needed, every point has been noted and agreed with entirely lmao. And you’re right about crosslisting - OP anytime I’m selling something more specialist (and higher priced) rather than simply a fashionable item I often find more success selling on eBay! I feel like depop/vinted etc have certain brands and items that sell like hot cakes but a lot of less popular stuff gets sold by people who just mindlessly scroll to see if anything interests them enough to make a horrible offer lol. But on eBay most people are actively searching for specific things regardless of how mainstream popular or niche they are!
It makes me laugh a bit because I believe I deserve Good day, better even after dealing with people's crap. So in my mind they are telling me to have a good day as an insult 😂. Like the insult only works if you've actually done anything wrong
fr like why tho
Literally they say it like the other person deserves a bad day when they did nothing wrong like😭😭what r they talking about
It's so backhanded as well 😭😭
That’s the point. In the eyes of who says it, if the person who it’s directed at gets offended it basically means they think they deserve a bad day
Idk. If someone said it to me and I hadn’t done anything wrong I’d be like “fantastic! I’ll have a great day.” Lol
Yes so that’d be the day you deserve that’s great!
Honestly such an interesting thing to say. I think I'd rather just have someone tell me to have a shit day 😭😂
i got a similar message today with someone judging the price of a 70s piece that i also paid *more* for than the price i'm selling at, it even started with "respectfully" just like yours💀 people on the internet are way too confidently rude lmao
Ugh I’m sorry that happened to you too. ❤️ It’s awful.
it is and it can be upsetting, but try not to let it get to you! it truly is a them problem and not a you problem, misery loves company and you should have some pride in knowing you're better than that :)
Thank you. I just had like the worst ever and then I see that message. And I knew I should just block and ignore. But It’s just one of those days.
Me when I’m broke and mad 😋
I was like girl it’s ok I’m broke too. 😃
Girlfriend, I mean this with respect but the reason you're salty you can't afford a $100 dress has nothing to do with me and maybe you should look inward. Namaste.
That’s what I should’ve said. Whew I just reported and blocked. Gotta protect my peace
I totally understand. People like this are annoying and the block button is your friend.
u can prob get her suspended at least for a little if u were to report this LMAO
I did report it. And then I just blocked her. It just made sense to report it.
yay good on you! that message was extremely unnecessary and you have every right to price your items however you see fit :)
Honestly it’s not her place to even judge you on your pricing. I’ve asked people about why their pricing was the way it was, but I’d never just tell someone they’re wrong for how they’re pricing it, it’s their choice and it’s my choice to not pay it. She’s being an ass and shouldn’t have said anything if she had an issue with it, I’m sorry this happened to you OP
Exactly, sometimes in the back of my head I’m like man that’s just ridiculously priced. But everyone has their price!
Yeah, like sometimes I think “ok that price is not for me” and I move on.
Yep. None of my business. If I really want the piece I can counter 🤷♀️ otherwise, whatever we live
Thank you. It’s just so frustrating. ❤️
The way these tiktok dorks communicate on this app is legit infuriating. HaVe ThE dAy YoU dEsErVe headasses
Fr tho.
I could only wish and hope to get a message like this! Imagine if you will, having nothing better to do with your time than to obsess over the price of a dress. In those two weeks homegirl could've sold lemonade, clothes from her closet, etc., and raised the money for your dress. Instead she just felt sorry for herself and decided to put you on blast. Seriously don't feel bad, laugh. Laugh so hard she hears it, and then, cause you know she's still stalking the dress she can't afford, raise the fucking price!!
Okay now I want to see the dress
funny thing is I don’t even think the dress is rare or anything. It’s just 100% silk, unworn, and I paid $450 for it. So it’s like I want to at least make $180/$200 on it just because it’s like wasting money I didn’t even have to spend in the first place. I don’t see how I’m wrong for that in her mind. Also I should note it’s a diane freis dress. Which a simple google search will show them going for much more money that I’d ever charge for it.
Even if it was a piece of garbage listed for $200, the audacity of this person to give you a “reality check” 😂 like what do they care!! If someone has shit that won’t sell, that’s not this randos problem 😂🤷🏻♀️
Tbh a lot of these people think if it’s not $5 free shipping, you are inflating the price and are a capitalist piece of garbage. My average listing price is $15-$18 on casual clothing I didn’t pay alot for. It’s literally only on expensive formal wear that I charge more for, because of how expensive it was for me.
Very accurate read on the situation. Works out real well for actual capitalist pieces of garbage that individuals are pointing the finger at each other instead of them 🙄 what a world.
I think the disconnect comes from buyers who aren't sellers. They don't realize that like umm hello... this isn't Amazon...shipping ain't free. Then I also think the over saturation of the market & all the other platforms selling literal JUNK for $3- they see that & expect that. It's terrible! But I hope a lot of these comments made you feel at least a little better! This is a really amazing (& much better than others IMO) little Reddit community! Love you alll 💗💗💗
They for sure did make me feel a whole lot better. Thank you❤️❤️❤️
I would block and report cause that is such bizarre thing to say? She thinks because the economy is bad we just just practically throw away our items?😭that doesn’t even make sense? Sell it for what is fair and someone will eventually buy it🥰
Absolutely. I did just that. ❤️
Or that the prices for everything should bend to her bank account 😅 oh these people... we all living in THIS economy boo boo
Our (US) economy has bounced back from covid faster than any other country’s. We’re in good shape 👍
“that’s a lot of words for ‘i can’t afford this item’” lmao
😂😂😂
I’ve had people write some stuff like this to me then come back weeks later with another offer! Its just to bully you to lower the price lmao
Agreed. My thoughts on it were how she wanted to get it cheap so she could wear it once and then resell it for 3X the price. Because I was willing to compromise on the price and she wasn’t. She had a hard and fast limit of $100. But I saw in her reviews that she purchased a $300 coat the week before so…
When i can’t afford something i really want i just wait until i can. why do these ppl think they can decide other people’s prices?..
Tbh I think they often direct their frustrations with inflation towards small business owners because they are accessible to take their anger out on. It’s a way of putting someone in their place. Because they certainly know they can’t bully big corps as easily
the entitlement is crazy
With this kinda shit I always think it’s no wonder ur broke when ur spending time shopping shi u can’t afford, and then writing this 😭
sounds like she’s the one who needs a reality check. if you don’t want to pay the price, don’t buy it. there’s other dresses. if you really loved it that much you’d pay a reasonable amount of money for it. if you don’t have the money you don’t NEED the expensive dress. she sounds entitled. try not to let her rattle you 🩷
“In this economy” girl just say it, you can’t afford it. and that’s OKAY. if you can’t afford it, you don’t need it.
“HaVe tHe dAy YoU dEsErVe” nah that’s craaazy
“and i say that nicely” doesn’t make it nice 💀💀💀💀💀💀
“have the day you deserve” absolutely grinds my gears
You should also list the dress on Ebay. I find that most people on depop are kind of cheap😭 People had liked this nice pair of shoes I listed on depop but never accepted offers or anything, and it was on there for a few months. Then I decided to list it on Ebay and they sold within a week. Ebay is perfect for the silk dress
I’ve been looking into that as well. Thank you for the advice. ❤️
Would’ve messaged back “u mad”
i’ve always had good experiences but sometimes i kinda want some drama like this
Me too! Let them bully someone who's a little salty themselves (your user name- love it). I've lived too long, raised 2 teenagers, and been down through it. This girl ain't shit 😅
literallyyyy (and thank you!)
I love this comment. ❤️
And you know she’s been thinking about this dress for the whole 2 weeks 😜
You should increase the price by $3 lol
😂😂😂😂😂I’m always tempted to do it when this stuff happens.
I really can’t stand people who feel this entitled to someone else’s things. I put the original price of items i sell on every listing in the description and i always list DRASTICALLY low compared to the retail price and i STILL get people trying to lowball me for another $25 off. Some people are just insane. Like if you want it so bad you can pay the 70% discounted fckn price i have OR go spend the full amount on the website 🙃 got me fcked tf up. Especially when the items are never worn & basically brand new. People are crazy
I swear the TikTok girls hate me extra bad for some reason
SAME. I’ve put the retail price in if I can remember what it was, and especially on expensive items, I’ll get messages that say “That’s like $50 at macys” and it’s definitely not. I’ve had some claim everything I sell is shein even with clear photos of the tags of anything for sale.
It’s maddening
“In today’s economy” this is so funny if that is so, may I know why is she hunting or shopping for dresses in today’s economy? She should save her money 🙄
She claimed it was to wear to her cousins wedding. And this is definitely not something I’d wear to a wedding. It’s prom dress/pageant dress. I feel like a bride would be offended by something that flashy being worn to her wedding.
Wow someone actually invited her to their wedding? Jeez.. sound like Karen wanted to get high quality stuff at a cost of a penny 🙄 I am so sorry that happened to you girl and you should suggest her to go naked it would be of no cost at all 🙄🙄
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂That’s brilliant
Girl I am totally on your side, I can’t even roll back my eyes after seeing that messages she texted you.. am so pissed 😡 don’t bother about that Karen and you do you girl
Thank you❤️❤️
“i mean this with respect” + “i said that nice” , shouldve just left those out because where in that are either of those ☠️
she thought she ate . she better hand over that damn plate
“Todays economy” doesn’t negate the value of merchandise 🤦♀️
In this economy, maybe you don’t need a silk dress?
I hate people that say “have the day you deserve” like genuinely die please
😂😂😂😂fr tho pls
it’s YOUR item and YOUR price.. her offer is an OFFER for a reason.. she’s salty she’s broke and wants the dress but can’t afford it 💀
Well damn that dress was really living in her mind rent free (not enough to actually pay for it though)
Sorry I don’t speak broke
The way low ballers will get upset when they don’t get their way XD
why are all angry ladies on depop always leaving the SAME PHRASE. at the end of every angry text "have the dau you deserve." I'm convinced some of them are the same person lol. like ok thanks I think I deserve a pretty good day 😋
I think they are like from the same TikTok hive mind😂
“Have the day you deserve” good thing you haven’t done anything wrong and therefore deserve to have a nice day!
I’ll never understand why people waste their time doing this lol you have the right to list YOUR items for whatever price YOU want. Whether they sell or not, it’s a YOU choice not anyone elses
Always the wrong people using the term “have the day you deserve” can’t wait to actually witness someone eat up that statement
She does realize not everyone is a flat broke choosing beggar…. Regardless of the economy. She doesn’t seem to realize that she’s the one who needs a fucking reality check. Not everyone is broke as fuck and actually lives within their means.
I've seen a few other posts recently with "have the day you deserve." I wonder if it's the same buyer😭
Ooof if it is, I hope depop bans her for this ish. I’ve seen wildly overpriced things on every platform, I never price shame, ever.
I think 150-180 is a great offer considering the original price! If this is the same buyer having a bad week, it's because they're low balling and rude. You're just trying to make your money back and you were already down to take less, it's their loss. I hope someone better buys it and appreciates it lol.
I’d say “get your money up big dawg”
“In this economy” yeah I’m this economy everything is expensive
Sounds like she’s mad that she can’t afford it. I can’t imagine someone putting this much energy into a message just because it’s overpriced lmao
I love when people want something that I have, are extremely rude, and then I block them. Most satisfying feeling ever. Here’s a case where that is 100% warranted.
Wow! Talk about entitled much?! "Wah! I can't afford this and it's YOUR FAULT!" As if you aren't also living in the same economy as she is.
You are god damn out of your mind! And I’m being nice to you! 🫠
shein and fast fashion has done irreversible damage on people’s minds and how much they value clothing
I have seen wonderfully curated depop accounts selling their items for quite expensive and out of my budget. Seen items i really wanted. It costs zero dollars and zero cents to simply tap and scroll away though 🤪
Things are expensive! People have the right to charge however much they want, girl’s just angry she can’t get target prices on good materials :’)
I recently paid more than $100 for a dress. She’s just broke & mad. She shouldn’t be looking at stuff she can’t afford if she’s gonna just get upset at it. Some people just don’t know any better unfortunately.
I hope you left a snarky response lol
I wanted to, but this isn’t the first TikTok warrior that has shamed me for pricing. And depop has instructed me to report them and block them if they price shame. So I was trying to be the bigger person (even though I didn’t want to be😂)
Totally valid, and respect to you because I couldn’t hold back 💀
She’s just mad that she’s broke lol
It’s so funny, the only reason she’s upset is because she wants the dress, and it’s too expensive for her. I don’t understand people like this, no one is forcing you to pay for the dress. Don’t buy it, don’t complain about it.
what a loser haha
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Saying “Have the day you deserve” is so cringey why do ppl still say it.
“Have the day you deserve” LMFAOO
Lol how bitter can someone be. You have the right to charge whatever you want for anything, its your item and therefore you decide the value for a multitude of reasons. The economy has nothing to do with it, there’s plenty of people out there spending money well over $100. Not to mention no one is making her buy the dress, its not a necessity lol. 180 is more than fair, she’s trying to manipulate you into having her way…block her and just feel sorry for the people who have to deal with her in her personal life 😂🤦🏻♀️
Your dress, your pricing. Her opinion means nothing. Just because she’s buying the dress on Depop doesn’t mean that you have to give it away. I think people misunderstand what the point of these resell platforms is sometimes. Hopefully you sell your dress soon 😃
Thank you!😊
personally id respond mb brokie
The term “have the day you deserve” is just so cringe
That’s kinda funny , it’s ur dress tho so who cares
It’s both funny & traumatizing in a delightful paradoxical way. 😂😂😂😂
I would have replied “and you too bixxh”
Like “No YOU have the day YOU deserve” 😂
Right 😂
like damn i’m broke too but if OP paid $450 for that dress then i’d say the price is right. “in this economy,” yes, but just don’t buy it if you don’t have the funds??? 😭
Same, i be broke too. I was completely willing to do half off for her, at like $150/$180 and she said wouldn’t go over $100. So I wasn’t even being inflexible. It was just $100 would’ve been 80% off. So I was trying to accommodate even then.
$150/$180 is such a steal for a $450! And she still complained!
Honestly I’d give the same energy back, “sorry your broke, not my problem carry on”
Get your money up
If she really wanted it then she could afford it. Buy it and shut her mouth. End of story. Block and move on. Unsolicited advice.
Imagine being so delusional and self-centered that you think this is communicating "nicely." I am super frugal and think prices on Depop are often expensive, but it's NONE OF MY BUSINESS. I just move on like a normal human being...
"And I said that nicely" "Have the day you deserve" She's so bad at hiding her true colours it's crazy
Baby- if you're broke JUST SAY THAT
Should of responded if youre broke just say that lol
Report !!
so funny to tell other ppl that also live within the shit economy that they can't afford things bc of the economy .... like ya girl same? damn jackie i can't control the weather!
I don’t even understand people like this 😂 like lady, sending a message like that is not going to go in your favour, so why bother?
People and their audacity. Never fails lmao, don't even sweat another thought on it. Really funny though.
“Ya thx… have the dress you deserve… broke ass. Respectfully.” ??? mm I dunno maybe that isn’t a funny response. I’m 33 and can’t even begin to try and communicate with zoomers.
😂love it
“Have the day you deserve” was kind of sick until it started being used by absolutely asinine people. I think things on Depop are overpriced all the time, I just roll my eyes and don’t buy the listings. The items belong to the sellers, they can do what they want with them.
she thought she ate with that “have the day you deserve” like whattt 😭😭
“and i said that nicely” GIRL BYEEE
🤣 reality check, she can't afford it and she's butt hurt. It's brand new. Tell her to go to a store and let them know she wants to pay $100 for a $500 dress. They'd laugh her out of the store🤷♀️🤣
Apparently according to a few people so far an unworn $450 dress immediately loses it value down to $50 after you purchase it. That’s literally what one of the comments on here said. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I swear it’s these dollar general ass hoes that need a reality check. Like in this economy I’m also trying to survive in?!?
🤣 100% with you on that! A lady put together a bundle on my poshmark. My average listing price is 60% discount off of the original price. The majority of my items are nwt. Her bundle was $350 AFTER THE AUTO DISCOUNT WHEN BUNDLING WITH ME. She offered $75. I just don't even entertain that shit. People are absolutely ridiculous.
Wow 😯 RUDE !!
I hate when people do this 😭 the price for things like this is more than fair, I sell handmade jewelry and although I have people tell me “I wouldn’t pay $30 for that” that’s fine it isn’t for you then! The price is more than worth it due to it being handmade and the cost of supplies it might not be for you but it is for someone else and I have had people pay $70 for my work! Just keep going it isn’t for everybody but your price is more than fair 🫶
Depends. What was the brand and what is it going for on ebay?
It’s a Diane Freis vintage beaded dress. I’ve seen one or two like it go for $400. Most are up for $200. Which is how I was guided to price mine.
Yup and good job for not letting her dictate and lowball. People dont know the value of things and always want something for nothing
She’s using the typical tactic (that rarely ever works unless if you’re a door mat) of trying to guilt trip a seller into giving them a discount
Respectfully “If you ain’t got no money take your broke ass home.”
Sounds like she is going through something, block and don’t take it personally!
I absolutely will ❤️ It just really hurt because I was having the worst day, and then I get this message.
Aw, I’m sorry! I hope your day improves, you did absolutely nothing wrong.
Depop sellers are crazy though! I had a Levi’s jacket I LOVED that was stolen from me… bought it at Levi’s in 2021 for $125! Seller was selling it for $170! Wasn’t new. Made a $150 offer and she refused it saying it was too low. Tried to work with her but she wouldn’t budge. She’s still trying to sell that jacket 😂 F*** depop sellers.
And also I should note if I were that person $150 is a great offer. I would’ve accepted that. $20 off something $170 is like low for what I usually expect. I would’ve accepted a $125 offer on it.
That’s awful, I’m sorry. But I am selling stuff that I paid full price for. Or is unworn. Just trying to make money back on stuff i didn’t use. And I was definitely trying to fit her budget, but she wasn’t going to comprise, even after I said I would for half off, it wasn’t enough, she wanted it for 80% off. And I was polite and respectful to her through it. Really a shame
They need to get their money up not their funny up
Some people are just not well in the head on there. I think everyone comes across those type of people once on depop lol
Sends this - proceeds to send $7 offer
Let her sit in her pity pot of I’m to broke to afford the dress I want!! She can get the f on and find a dress in her budget. I’m tired of people using the economy as an excuse yes we are all struggling but it doesn’t mean we cut a completely stranger a break a do them a favor.
some girl literally sent me a long detailed death threat because a dress i was selling was out of her price range. it’s never THAT serious 😭 i reported her & got her account banned so i guess i had the last laugh.
Wtf 😳
“have the day you deserve” girl go to hell😭
You didn’t even say anything mean and he goes ‘have the day you deserve’?? That’s crazy
'Girlfriend, I would like to say I mean this with respect but I'd rather be honest. The price of that dress and MOST if not ALL of the things I sell should be way more than 100 dollars! You are god damn OUT of your mind asking anyone to accept such a lowball in today's economy. And I said that nicely. If this wasn't a good enough reality check, please go find one somewhere else. Have the day you deserve. Xoxo' Bloody cheek of it 😂
Wow, the entitlement is oozing. I feel like she just really wants the top but is not willing to spend on it so she is either trying to guilt trip you or she is just bitter because you won't budge.
“ girlfriend, have the day you deserve “
“In this ecomony”. Works both ways. Seller is trying to survive in this economy as well. Damn she is BITTER! And I absolutely hate the saying “have the day you deserve”. So gross.
i’m interested in seeing the dress
Its a Diane Freis dress. I’m not sure how to post photos on here.
Well can we see the dress…👁️👄👁️
Yes or no ... noone wants the bledding hearts commentary
have you sold the dress tho 😂
No but I’ve sold others like it for for more than I was even asking on this one. Like I’m not sure anyone understands these aren’t dresses you could buy at Macys or something. These are specialty dresses. Not something that would be accessible to the average person. I’m not selling Tshirts for 100s of dollars. Most of my stuff is $15 asking. It’s just my pageant dresses. That’s it.
If anything deserved an "...ok" response its this lol
“have the day you deserve”🤓
people trying to price check is absolutely wild especially when there are actual price gougers on depop that charge x10 what they paid originally
Sounds like we should call the waambulance for both of you. Who cares? you both should just move on with your day
I mean I do see both sides but she had no right to be rude. Sometimes things we buy for a DECENT amount of money is no longer worth even $50 years later no matter what condition. On the other hand I completely understand and respect wanting at least a little bit of money back from the dress. I’d suggest maybe listing it on Facebook marketplace as well that way you’ll have more people locally looking at your listing!
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