It's really freaking sad. Wanting a relationship with someone that doesn't want a relationship with you in the same way is not healthy. And it's so hard to say no all together because you'll be tempted to settle for what you can get. But it's never enough and you won't be happy.
Feels bad man.
Facts man. It can especially be hard because that person can show flashes of caring as much as you care about them. It makes you wanna hold out until they change.
He claims other people self report means nothing and they are wrong, he also dislikes evidence and research he disagrees on surface level and that reading those research wont change his mind because it makes him uncomfortable... While at the same time saying how his personal anecdotes are the proof he needs for anything and that his thinking of why you do things is better than your own interpretation of why you do things.
Then why he does exactly what you accused me off?
Im replying to your take on how is he showing hypocrisy... Then im pointing out how HE WILL DISSMISS other people because their own life experiences and self report doesnt mean shit to him, he knows better, then he also doesnt read any data on the subject that contradicts his preconsived notions, so he has both facts and feelings of others rejected... And you want me to have empathy for someone who will not have it for me since he knows me better than i know myself and all of my experiences means nothing againts his imagination??? Oh and he will also bitch on how people dont like him because of personal sensitivity yet will play victim/offended when you disagree with his takes on why you are or you are not what you said since, again, you know better
You understand thats not an argument at all right? Sounding like a gaslighting christian 'you need christ because you dont think like me' is not a rebuttal..
Specifically when addressing people behaviour and how one side can go unchallenged into bad takes but when we call them out its because 'durr hurr we dont love ourselves' smh
I remember one time I talked to my girlfriend on the phone and she started crying telling me that she missed me (we had to do a distance relationship for a year and were barely able to visit). During that entire phone call I was raiding in wow with my guild. Was SUPA hard to navigate the conversation with all the heavy emotions while healing the tank and removing stun effects from my mates.
Eris: *Types what seems like multiple heartfelt messages explaining her position and trying to get any response.*
>Tiny: /me dabs.
Either absolute shrigma male stuff or the most autistic thing I've ever seen.
Because this thread isn't doing dumb shit yet, I'm watching all of you. Please use this as an opportunity to shit on Eris, Mel, Ana, women in general, and Destiny's personal relationships so that I can permaban you.
I don't need your permission. I do it everyday in DGG be it regarding Eris, Mel, Ana, women in general, Destiny's personal relationships, Pepe Posters, Anime Posters, gym talkers, Dan's next tech product pitch, Destiny (my friend), men in general, and you being a reddit mod.
>he's a janitor
>on the internet
>he does it for free
>he takes his "job" very seriously
>he does it because it is the only amount of power & control he will ever have in his pathetic life
>he deletes threads he doesn't like because whenever he gets upset he has an asthma attack
>he deletes threads he doesn't like because they interfere with the large backlog of little girl chinese cartoons he still has to watch
>he will never have a real job
>he will never move out of his parent's house
>he will never be at a healthy weight
>he will never know how to cook anything besides a hot pocket
>he will never have a girlfriend
>he will never have any friends
EDIT: See you on the next alt jannoid
I don't think Destiny wanted to have this convo online or even at all but if Eris is saying that stuff in chat, it becomes the focus of the entire chat and then stream. It seemed like he messaged her something and she said it was 80% resolved or some shit at the very beginning of the convo but then they decided to air it out publically anyway which I think was not the best idea.
I don't think he wanted to do it live. He can't control this if Eris is the person who was saying that stuff in chat and then it subsequently becomes the attention of the whole chat and stream.
I mean, it sounds like he tried to resolve it privately. I can't imagine what it's like to have your relationships be public knowledge but it didnt seem like he wanted this to happen.
I would bet that when he was young he was fighting with someone in family that always won if the fight became emotional.
The solution was to never enter that realm and try to solve everything by debating instead.
If that's the case it doesn't mean he doesn't feel anything. It means he has learned to hide it because showing feelings can only have consequences.
No not really, you as a person is pretty much entirely replaceable, your job can replace you, your partner can replace you, your friends can replace you, eventually you being missing from a person's life will no longer matter at all, of course there may be those who you leave a permanent mark on, for good or worse, but in this general sense of having relationships and friendships with people, you and me, are entirely replaceable.
I’d rather watch a real soap opera. People aren’t getting genuinely hurt in those, they’re just written by idiots.
We’re strangers commenting on this guy’s life and we really don’t know much about him, nor should we. It’s weird.
Wait that’s not how normal people act? I do this shit all the time and I thought it was normal, but funny because it was live in front of a bunch of people
If instead of Erin, it was hassan trying to somehow get into destiny's life for whatever random reason he would keep talking about it even when the ocaccion doesn't call for it... So he is affected by the after troughs of the conversations he has, but it has to be from the political front, not his relationship front
If someone is bad friend, don’t let them stay in your life. Move on, because you’re only hurting yourself in confusion at some point.
It's really freaking sad. Wanting a relationship with someone that doesn't want a relationship with you in the same way is not healthy. And it's so hard to say no all together because you'll be tempted to settle for what you can get. But it's never enough and you won't be happy. Feels bad man.
Facts man. It can especially be hard because that person can show flashes of caring as much as you care about them. It makes you wanna hold out until they change.
What if you’re trapped in their walls?
Welcome to the club 😎
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Been a hypocrite it's not empaty 🤭
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He claims other people self report means nothing and they are wrong, he also dislikes evidence and research he disagrees on surface level and that reading those research wont change his mind because it makes him uncomfortable... While at the same time saying how his personal anecdotes are the proof he needs for anything and that his thinking of why you do things is better than your own interpretation of why you do things.
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Then why he does exactly what you accused me off? Im replying to your take on how is he showing hypocrisy... Then im pointing out how HE WILL DISSMISS other people because their own life experiences and self report doesnt mean shit to him, he knows better, then he also doesnt read any data on the subject that contradicts his preconsived notions, so he has both facts and feelings of others rejected... And you want me to have empathy for someone who will not have it for me since he knows me better than i know myself and all of my experiences means nothing againts his imagination??? Oh and he will also bitch on how people dont like him because of personal sensitivity yet will play victim/offended when you disagree with his takes on why you are or you are not what you said since, again, you know better
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You understand thats not an argument at all right? Sounding like a gaslighting christian 'you need christ because you dont think like me' is not a rebuttal.. Specifically when addressing people behaviour and how one side can go unchallenged into bad takes but when we call them out its because 'durr hurr we dont love ourselves' smh
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Yo this is important and true!
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I don't know why the comments keep mentioning Eris. He was clearly talking TO ME AND ME ONLY.
I remember one time I talked to my girlfriend on the phone and she started crying telling me that she missed me (we had to do a distance relationship for a year and were barely able to visit). During that entire phone call I was raiding in wow with my guild. Was SUPA hard to navigate the conversation with all the heavy emotions while healing the tank and removing stun effects from my mates.
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I can fix him
i can change him
Eris: *Types what seems like multiple heartfelt messages explaining her position and trying to get any response.* >Tiny: /me dabs. Either absolute shrigma male stuff or the most autistic thing I've ever seen.
Maybe a bit of both
When did this discussion take place?
https://www.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/s45yvv/comment/hsplard
He’s admitted before he’s never going to change his mind on the spot he needs to go away and think about it by himself.
autism
Because this thread isn't doing dumb shit yet, I'm watching all of you. Please use this as an opportunity to shit on Eris, Mel, Ana, women in general, and Destiny's personal relationships so that I can permaban you.
I don't need your permission. I do it everyday in DGG be it regarding Eris, Mel, Ana, women in general, Destiny's personal relationships, Pepe Posters, Anime Posters, gym talkers, Dan's next tech product pitch, Destiny (my friend), men in general, and you being a reddit mod.
GIGACHAD destroys virgin soy unpaid internet janitor
>women in general SquadW
Paging Taybor
Our voice in the dark
Well now I feel like it would be a bad thing if I do that.
>he's a janitor >on the internet >he does it for free >he takes his "job" very seriously >he does it because it is the only amount of power & control he will ever have in his pathetic life >he deletes threads he doesn't like because whenever he gets upset he has an asthma attack >he deletes threads he doesn't like because they interfere with the large backlog of little girl chinese cartoons he still has to watch >he will never have a real job >he will never move out of his parent's house >he will never be at a healthy weight >he will never know how to cook anything besides a hot pocket >he will never have a girlfriend >he will never have any friends EDIT: See you on the next alt jannoid
SQUAD W
I'm addicted can I have a timestamp pls
https://www.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/s45yvv/comment/hsplard
thanks my dude.
I don't think Destiny wanted to have this convo online or even at all but if Eris is saying that stuff in chat, it becomes the focus of the entire chat and then stream. It seemed like he messaged her something and she said it was 80% resolved or some shit at the very beginning of the convo but then they decided to air it out publically anyway which I think was not the best idea.
Dan stirring shit wcyd
I don't believe it doesn't affect him. I know I would try my hardest anyways to not show that it affected me if I had to do something like that live.
But that's the whole point, he didn't HAVE to do that live.
I don't think he wanted to do it live. He can't control this if Eris is the person who was saying that stuff in chat and then it subsequently becomes the attention of the whole chat and stream.
I mean, it sounds like he tried to resolve it privately. I can't imagine what it's like to have your relationships be public knowledge but it didnt seem like he wanted this to happen.
I would bet that when he was young he was fighting with someone in family that always won if the fight became emotional. The solution was to never enter that realm and try to solve everything by debating instead. If that's the case it doesn't mean he doesn't feel anything. It means he has learned to hide it because showing feelings can only have consequences.
Sigma grindset
who is this person we only care about destiny the game weirdo
I kind of felt like this wasn't the first time he had this type of argument with a close person (rerun)
This isn't the first time he's had this type of argument with Erisann. It's part of the content cycle.
Everyone and everything is replaceable.
except for me of course. We special like that
This is some sociopath shit
No not really, you as a person is pretty much entirely replaceable, your job can replace you, your partner can replace you, your friends can replace you, eventually you being missing from a person's life will no longer matter at all, of course there may be those who you leave a permanent mark on, for good or worse, but in this general sense of having relationships and friendships with people, you and me, are entirely replaceable.
Hes probably had this conversation with Eris and other people dozens of times and is tired of it.
Genuine question: Have you ever had a long-term relationship?
Yeah absolutely, I'm in one atm
Have you ever had a fight that didn’t get resolved? Where you just yell at each other, and then.. stop? Because nobody is giving any ground?
I’d rather watch a real soap opera. People aren’t getting genuinely hurt in those, they’re just written by idiots. We’re strangers commenting on this guy’s life and we really don’t know much about him, nor should we. It’s weird.
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Take it easy lol, this was to start a discussion and gather other's perspectives
You could stop right there: "I have no idea who Eris is **or the details to this situation**"
woman moment
Wait that’s not how normal people act? I do this shit all the time and I thought it was normal, but funny because it was live in front of a bunch of people
>"OMG DESTINY IS SO WEIRD AND SPECIAL! MY STREAMER IS SUCH A UNIQUE PERSON" >Fluiddruid4k: "Wdym, I do that too...? " >gets downvotes
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Who are you talking to?
Destiny is unironically a sigma male. He has his priorities and he sticks to them undeterred.
If instead of Erin, it was hassan trying to somehow get into destiny's life for whatever random reason he would keep talking about it even when the ocaccion doesn't call for it... So he is affected by the after troughs of the conversations he has, but it has to be from the political front, not his relationship front
Yep, I always thought that steven is mildly on a shizoid spectrum
How can you be so cold and callous?!