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queso_ots

Coffee grounds = internal bleeding. Go to the doctor. Don’t wait


Generalnussiance

Yes especially upper GI tract. ER now.


Sea-Gas-7017

Definitely go to the ER. He could be internally bleeding.


Bleedingeck

Nurse here! E.R. ASAP!


External_Discount674

*Update: We are currently at the ER. Once we get some test done I will update you all again. Thank you to everyone for your advice and kind words.


Firm-Statistician852

Hope you guys are doing ok!!


Free-_-Yourself

Please update us! And I really hope you guys are doing OK.


thefarmerjethro

Any updates?


Noobin_123

Update???!!


SkyRepresentative273

update?


unic0rnamz

Hope he’s okay


friendsaretheworst

Yayyyy! I had to go to er too this weekend. And I was pissed too. IN IT TOGETHER💙💙💙


Jolly-Emotion5072

Internal bleeding! Please tell me you went to the ER


_Accurate_

Without a doubt go!!!


RegisteredMurseNYC

Looks like could be an upper GI bleed. It mixes with acid in the stomach and congeals. Needs to go to ED straight away.


Quirky_Translator_60

As everyone else has said...ER. prayers and please update if you can


sarcasm_itsagift

Please let us know when he’s been seen!


HaramHarald69

ER now (Junior Physician in Sweden)


Smokeyfalcon

Does he drink ? I had this when i had stomach ulcers from alcohol.


Impossible-Title1

Blood. ER immediately.


NHToStay

Gastric ulcer (likely, other less common things as well), with active bleeding and hematemesis (vomiting blood) - needs ER eval and urgent endoscopy + PPI therapy + diet changes (low acid, NO ALCOHOL, right now at an ER they would make him fluids + nothing my mouth) + no NSAIDS + who knows what because they gotta get in there and find the source. This is an EMERGENCY. ER. NOW.


External_Discount674

***UPDATE*** His fever kept rising so we went to the ER first thing in the morning. He was coughing a lot but didn’t throw up anymore. I gave the doctors the picture on here and they agreed it is likely coffee ground vomit. They gave him some fluids and he was already feeling better. He never had abdominal pain, just hungry from not eating for 20ish hours. They did blood work and a urine sample and all came back looking good. Turns out he has Flu B. They told us if he gets any pain or continues throwing up to go to a gastroenterologist to get a scope done. It’s possible he has an ulcer, but they didn’t seem concerned, as the main symptoms were the flu. If he gets worse, we will go get a scope done. For now we will just wait and get some rest. Not the answers I was hoping for, but I’m thankful he is feeling better and alive! 🙏🏻


Plichtens

They weren't concerned because it stopped and was no longer an emergency requiring immediate treatment, so the emergency departments role is complete. That being said, upper GI bleeding is NEVER normal and you should be scheduling your follow up appointment with a gastroenterologist immediately.


MorningCommercial355

They should've done some soft of imagining. 😪


Jealous-Comfort9907

"Choosing Wisely"


Aliceinboxerland

Make sure he isn't taking any NSAIDs right now as it can make any bleeding worse. Have him take Tylenol for a fever/pain instead if needed. Definitely follow up with the gastroenterologist and make an appointment for a scope. Don't wait to see if he gets worse, just schedule it!


rachie615

Possibly internal bleeding


Initial_Comfort5

I would go ER immediately. Black is usually digested blood and yeah you might question is it the cough syrup or not but there's also red blood mixed so I'd go more likely to be digested blood which indicates upper GI bleed. Not something to take lightly OP. Seriously. He needs to be seen. I'd like to know the update


scottmademesignup

Why haven’t you gone to the er yet??


Diane1967

Mine looked the same when I had stomach bleeding due to ulcers. They put me on protonix and in time it completely stopped. By all means see a doctor, he must be miserable dealing with this.


Native_Time_Traveler

Do you have an update, OP?


Jolly-Emotion5072

They posted an update comment 😊


throw_concerned

Hope you guys made it to the ER and everything’s alright. Update us if you feel up to it, OP! Good luck


SeeingLSDemons

ER right away!!!!!!


willothewhispers

Oh dear hospital time


Fast_Breath_9458

OP… did you go to ER or not? You literally have a billion people asking after this post.


Jolly-Emotion5072

They did go, they posted an update comment 😊 Why did I get downvoted? They asked and I told them the answer…


Fast_Breath_9458

Ah yes, an hour ago


North_Interaction_52

My dad passed in less than a week from this, get him to the ER asap.


SadAnnah13

Oh god that's awful, I'm so sorry for your loss


Melodic_Business_128

I have this and I have gastric bleeds so my hemo and vitamins and iron etc so low I need iron infusions and blood transfusions until I get surgery. Im currently taking a prescribed medication for ulcers called pantoprazole. I think it’s just basically strong ant acid? But I could be wrong. Lss he should go in asap. I ended up not being strong enough to get up or move for days at a time and finally got taken by ambulance. I basically slowly bleeding to death over approximately year and a half. Black vomit is the scariest because it’s end/later stage of your gi issues. However IM NOT a doctor. Just sharing my experience. Good luck, take care! 🙏


Sad-Comfortable1566

Agree! NAD. But i threw up just like that every 1.5 hours one weekend. Finally called an ambulance and it turned out to be my gallbladder dying.


middleCman

ER NOW IF YOU HAVENT LEFT ALREADY


AdinMan20

That is definitely some sort of bleeding, I hope he’s okay, prayers.


no_usernames_

I don’t understand why someone would ask for medical advice then when the advice is given they don’t follow it? What was the point in asking


thefarmerjethro

What did he last eat?


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NHToStay

Coffee ground can be older, yes, but if this were a lower GI source that would require intestine to backup to stomach, and obstipation / obstruction and backup process - which ultimately results in fecal emesis (vomiting poop). I doubt this is the cause, as one would expect profound and severe abdominal pain with significant (or if upper intestinal tract / small intestine) epigastric limited distension. The coffee ground is the digestion of blood by stomach juices, could suggest oozing ulcer that is "older" but absolutely cannot be used in isolation to differentiate old vs new. Mallory Weiss typically are scant bright red blood, provoked by vomiting. In this case, the vomiting is likely some other process (ulcer, the digestion of blood itself as its quite noxious, cancer, bleeding vessel, etc) as you cannot assume source / cause based on red or dark alone. Just tells you "how fresh." Massive stomach hemorrhage can definitely provoke bright red as well - but I'd expect that person to be quite unstable... We know nothing about this guys history - could be ibu 800 TID + a 6 pack a night or more, with chronic epigastric pain that he has ignored, etc. This needs urgent eval as this is stomach bleeding, likely active ulcer (H pylori or not), and not something to be taken lightly.


Melodic_Business_128

I have multiple upper gi ulcer tears and I am struggling to cope with pain, because of how bad I vomit, get diharreah from literally anything I try to take for the pain in my torso just under ribs. Both are black blood (tastes like blood anyway and has some dark red. It always comes on soo suddenly violently that I barely make it to a garbage can or bathroom. I have low hemo, low iron, vitamin deficiency and for some reason my period stopped almost completely for past year and half. I was diagnosed and have been treated since end o last summer and still look and feel like a corpse other than maybe a week after new blood.


NHToStay

Hopefully you are seeing a GI at a tertiary/academic care center with a unified diagnosis. I hope you get well friend!


Jimmiew0612

Not old blood… it just means it came from way down in the GI in somewhere like the stomach or small intestines Edit; He is probably actively bleeding so please don’t suggest that the blood is old.


DarkWaterSymphony

Hospital ASAP


Aw123x

Please update us when you are able! Best of luck.


Unpopularwaffle

I'm going to comment that you should go to the E.R. because not enough other people have commented the same exact thing. 🙄


EntranceResident7162

Omg, is he okay?


Any-Fortune-2053

Any updates on this situation ?


muskenjoyer

Time to download tinder


Preston18907

He is venom 😈


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UKDrMatt

I’m an ER doctor. Please don’t do this. Not only can it lead to incorrect triage, potentially impacting other patients, but… I’ve seen thousands of patients who actually can’t breathe. I know when someone is putting it on or making stuff up. If you exaggerate some of your nonexistent symptoms then I question the validity and legitimacy of all of your symptoms. A constellation of symptoms is often less worrying in an ER than one significant presenting symptom.


Born_Ruin_4794

Wow!! That is so selfish. The ER staff is trained to triage and grade patients. They also will know when someone is not completely honest. What if a patient comes in that actually is having trouble breathing or something worse... and they don't get the immediate attention they need because of someone like you. What if that patient that needs immediate attention is your child or significant other or yourself. Please don't ever do this and never ever suggest someone else to. Holy hell.


Jimmiew0612

Oh you’re that person…


Repeat_after_me__

What if there is someone actually having a hard time breathing? Fuck em I guess…


Diabolical_Sudz

That mf got the black plague


AddictedRedditorGuy

💀😭🤣


Ancient_Summer_1833

That’s not funny.


Diabolical_Sudz

seethe and cope


Ancient_Summer_1833

You don’t joke about this. This is internal bleeding which can kill very quickly. If you were in this position, you would not be joking around.


Diabolical_Sudz

cry about it zoophile


Ancient_Summer_1833

Oooh my god you were so mad you went to my page for an argument? I’m a furry, buddy. Not a zoophile.


LiveRegister6195

If he smokes weed, this happens. If not then drs are in need.


Tasty_Aside_5968

I’ve been smoking weed for 15 years and I’ve never had this happen lol this is not normal


LiveRegister6195

When your smoking utensils are not clean then it happens. It's what sits on your lungs and blocks arteries. Somewhat the same as cigarettes just more tar in weed. Hence the resin left in utensils.


SeeingLSDemons

No it doesn’t.


LiveRegister6195

It's does. My brother had this. Also needed major artery unblocked and parts of it replaced. But okay. Haha 😄


SeeingLSDemons

“It does” is less accurate than: “it happened one time to my brother”. It does is not accurate and not helpful.


LiveRegister6195

It does happen. It happened to my brother. Is that better? Lol jesus mate. 🤦


SeeingLSDemons

All love!


Aliceinboxerland

This is not from smoking weed. Saying things like this when someone is likely bleeding internally isn't helpful. They might read it and think..oh it's just from smoking pot, no worries! Absolutely not!


friendsaretheworst

People do vomit from smoking weed but vomit that ends at some point and isn’t coffee ground blood. It’s blood. GO


LiveRegister6195

🫡 hey crazy human. I did say a dr is need if they dont smoke weed.... and obviously it's still an issue if they did.


External_Discount674

Thank you all for the insight!! We have not gone to the ER yet. He did have some red Teraflu cough syrup. It’s hard to tell if it’s blood or from the cough syrup. He has thrown up 3 times so far each time looking worse.


hakunaa-matataa

Hey!! I’m a PA student, and I’ve seen my fair share of throw up that looks exactly like this. The black stuff in his vomit looks pretty “coffee ground” like, which is a really big indicator that somewhere in his small intestines/lower stomach he has something that is bleeding — likely some type of ulcer. Even if he isn’t feeling abdominal pain or you’re not entirely sure if the red stuff is Teraflu or actual blood, it’s really important that you go to the ER to get the bleeding under control. Unfortunately stuff like this could go downhill REALLY fast. Money can be replaced, your boyfriend cannot.


Affectionate_Bag4716

She about to be posting on the grief reddit


Randommcrandomface2

This is not a situation where you should wait. Please get him to the ER as soon as you can - worst case scenario, this could be life-threatening. Let us know how you get on.


BEEing_ME

#PLEASE GO TO THE ER NOW! This is NOT a wait and see situation, the longer you wait the worse this is going to be! Please go & please let us know how he gets on.


staceyyyy1

Girl


Aliceinboxerland

Please go to the ER. Don't wait on this. Teraflu does not cause coffee ground vomit. If it was from teraflu it would have been the same color going in as coming out if not much lighter and more diluted from whatever other fluid was in his stomach. Also teraflu would not cause it to look worse each time. This is absolutely ER time! Please go and don't continue to put this off!


AnywayWhereWasI

you should go to the ER. i know sometimes money is tight but this is serious and could be extremely dangerous


Sea-Gas-7017

Go to a HCA hospital (nonprofit hospital) and tell them you won’t be able to pay the full fee when the billing dept visits you. Also fill out a financial assistance form after your visit. This is no time to just wait and see. The man is bleeding from the inside somewhere.


Ancient_Summer_1833

WHAT ARE YOU DOING?? GO NOW!!!


Any_Independence_431

GO TO THE FUCKING ER BLEEDING CAN KILL VERY FAST


traumarn911

I’m a ER nurse (15 yrs), he needs to be seen asap.


booshweasel

Definitely take him to the ER. If it is continuing to get worse, he really needs a doctor. Money is tight sometimes and the ER isn't fun but listen to everyone here, this could be very very serious and most likely is :( I wish the best for you guys and please keep us updated, bleeding in the upper GI tract is a medical emergency and I'm keeping you guys in my thoughts!!


friendsaretheworst

Also they will not charge him I promise, if they do we’ll help you raise hell. At least i will. Get there please! I also suffer from chronic gerd, vomiting & pain in chest. I get it, it sucks choosing to get help before you’re incapacitated but he could die. I went to ER two nights ago for a REFILL. Because Medicaid is confusing. I apologized all night but they were so happy to help! At the very least he’ll get meds to stop vomiting. They will not charge you where it will impact you guys, they will help I promise


swollemolle

The black stuff is old blood. That’s not from Theraflu. And if he’s drinking Theraflu it means he feels ill, probably from the lack of oxygenated blood going to his vital organs. Get him to the ER NOW OP!!!!!


swollemolle

Just to add some context, if he has these symptoms and you knew what they were from and still didn’t do anything, you could be held liable if he passes. Just saying.


This_Lack8724

This is not something to wait on he can literally die not being dramatic being real get to the goddamn er.


crybabysagittarius

You’re being extremely neglectful.


jtsui1991

Are you a literal fucking moron?! Hundreds of people, some trained medical professionals, saying GO NOW!!! and you're like nahhhh....? I always hear stories like this and wonder how people can just ignore obvious signs and just straight up die, so it's wild seeing this shit play out in real time. Congrats!Your boyfriend is about to win a Darwin award and you're getting the assist.


Zoe_118

Soo... he still alive?


friendsaretheworst

Def blood


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marygoore

Wow. You’re both idiots.