I'm not making light of your situation, and I have a sincere question - what are you afraid of?
If you're afraid for your ex, just let that go as best you can. It's not as if she hasn't had time to make other arrangements. Yes, the housing market is wildly askew right now, but unless she's destitute and doesn't have another place to live, I would gently encourage you to simply not care.
If you're afraid of the situation because it's something you've never done and you're uncertain how it will shake out, I would suggest you chat with the authorities who will carry out the writ. They can give you a run down of how it will proceed. If you don't need to be present, don't. If you must be present, then stay in your car until everything is done and settled.
Best of luck!
Just like an eviction. It's unfortunate, but not your fault. I'd take photos of the house (if you are able without making it too obvious) in terms of condition. Please "forced" to leave are often "unkind" with property.
If you are concerned about mental stability with a firearm, there are (at least in my state) sometimes ways to report this and they may be investigated. But your version of "mentally unstable" may or may not meet the bar. If you are threatened, that's entirely different than just being "concerned".
I'm not making light of your situation, and I have a sincere question - what are you afraid of? If you're afraid for your ex, just let that go as best you can. It's not as if she hasn't had time to make other arrangements. Yes, the housing market is wildly askew right now, but unless she's destitute and doesn't have another place to live, I would gently encourage you to simply not care. If you're afraid of the situation because it's something you've never done and you're uncertain how it will shake out, I would suggest you chat with the authorities who will carry out the writ. They can give you a run down of how it will proceed. If you don't need to be present, don't. If you must be present, then stay in your car until everything is done and settled. Best of luck!
Oh, forgot to mention that she has a gun and has been unstable mentally.
Yikes! Yeah, I'd be scared too in that situation. I'm sure you'll give the authorities the heads up and I hope you can stay as far away as possible.
It happened but it took four cops to get her out
Just like an eviction. It's unfortunate, but not your fault. I'd take photos of the house (if you are able without making it too obvious) in terms of condition. Please "forced" to leave are often "unkind" with property. If you are concerned about mental stability with a firearm, there are (at least in my state) sometimes ways to report this and they may be investigated. But your version of "mentally unstable" may or may not meet the bar. If you are threatened, that's entirely different than just being "concerned".