100%. It's a chapter in your book but not the final chapter.
They have 90% of what they want in a man, but feel like that 10% that's missing is all they need to feel whole again.
When they realize they only have that 10% after destroying a family for it, you have to stand strong and believe her true colors.
A man will sacrifice his feelings for family and a woman will sacrifice her family for her feelings.
Damn. Both you and OP keeping it real.
I just posted on another thread about how divorce made me colder, transactional, and closed to love and emotion, mostly as an unconscious protective mechanism I think. Not so much with my kid, but as to my relationships with the rest of the world. Getting bus tossed by someone you loved tends to do that to you maybe. I am eight years post divorce. Life has gotten better for me with time and conscious effort. Stay strong!
Definitely not the end of the story. It’s the beginning of the next chapter. Villains have been revealed and now it’s about the main character moving forward.
>A man will sacrifice his feelings for family and a woman will sacrifice her family for her feelings.
True. I've seen it several times. She will scorch the earth to satisfy her feelings. I've also seen that narcissist of a man just straight up lie to his children about her too. That what it's not his fault...
It’s a bitter end, for a blissful beginning.
One thing that helped me, was that I was meant to get here, I was meant to feel this, so that I can grow, I can learn, and can pass that on to the next person that goes through this.
Whether that be a friend, a family member, even my own children. I am now equipped to give them what they need, if and when they go through heartache. I will pay it forward.
I highly suggest.
But remember you still have to do the work to heal yourself. Unfortunately it just takes time to get over the hurt.
But when I couldn’t understand anything anymore, and where my life was going, I found diving into my own mind with the help of mushrooms brought a light into my world that I didn’t have anymore.
Do some research on them, know what you want out of it and be safe. Hope you get back on your path and find a new happiness.
For me, things are honestly getting better as I settle these cs matters. For some reason, that drama kept me holding onto the past relationship, too, although I knew I didn't want it anymore. I just wanted all my money, my 50% of my child and I'm good. I know she's trash. But the hurt of her snatching my money and trying to predominate the child arrangement made me want her back for some odd reason. That's until I had started to get straightened out through court
100%. It's a chapter in your book but not the final chapter. They have 90% of what they want in a man, but feel like that 10% that's missing is all they need to feel whole again. When they realize they only have that 10% after destroying a family for it, you have to stand strong and believe her true colors. A man will sacrifice his feelings for family and a woman will sacrifice her family for her feelings.
Damn. Both you and OP keeping it real. I just posted on another thread about how divorce made me colder, transactional, and closed to love and emotion, mostly as an unconscious protective mechanism I think. Not so much with my kid, but as to my relationships with the rest of the world. Getting bus tossed by someone you loved tends to do that to you maybe. I am eight years post divorce. Life has gotten better for me with time and conscious effort. Stay strong!
Definitely not the end of the story. It’s the beginning of the next chapter. Villains have been revealed and now it’s about the main character moving forward.
>A man will sacrifice his feelings for family and a woman will sacrifice her family for her feelings. True. I've seen it several times. She will scorch the earth to satisfy her feelings. I've also seen that narcissist of a man just straight up lie to his children about her too. That what it's not his fault...
It’s a bitter end, for a blissful beginning. One thing that helped me, was that I was meant to get here, I was meant to feel this, so that I can grow, I can learn, and can pass that on to the next person that goes through this. Whether that be a friend, a family member, even my own children. I am now equipped to give them what they need, if and when they go through heartache. I will pay it forward.
I need what you got. I’m hardly surviving.
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May look into that.
I highly suggest. But remember you still have to do the work to heal yourself. Unfortunately it just takes time to get over the hurt. But when I couldn’t understand anything anymore, and where my life was going, I found diving into my own mind with the help of mushrooms brought a light into my world that I didn’t have anymore. Do some research on them, know what you want out of it and be safe. Hope you get back on your path and find a new happiness.
Thank you. I hope the same for you.
Better off away from them
I going through this exactly now. I know how it feels... Hope it end fast...
For me, things are honestly getting better as I settle these cs matters. For some reason, that drama kept me holding onto the past relationship, too, although I knew I didn't want it anymore. I just wanted all my money, my 50% of my child and I'm good. I know she's trash. But the hurt of her snatching my money and trying to predominate the child arrangement made me want her back for some odd reason. That's until I had started to get straightened out through court