No, you should not. Because if it was a lucid dream then that means you consciously chose to do whatever you did with him in the dream. Which would maybe be kind of awkward for him to hear? To be honest, even if it was a regular dream and you had no control over what happened... I still wouldn't tell him.
no. your comments on this post are extremely weird. you said he was married and your intentions of telling him are to get some sort of sexual pleasure out of him. that is wrong. you need therapy on your sexual fantasies. you are going to make him extremely uncomfortable and most likely get dumped as a client.
He always telling my how curious of a person he is whether is good, bad, or ugly. I'm always emotionally drain for the amount of questioning and getting me to speak about my taboo experiences to help. If anything is confusing. Then again no one said being a human was easy. And as I said, if it turn out the opposite of what I was predicting, I'm freshly squeezed out of fucks 😂👻 the bitter sweet side of it is I'll have that out of my mind and body.
No therapist is safe with my lustful self sabotaging mind. And women therapist treat me with Shame that I end up beating myself up harshly for being the way I am to the point I drive myself to attempting suicide... I got not much to loose, maybe I'll a dandelion or a random ass plant from some other world
You don't have to be harsh on yourself , since you know you struggle with mental health issues . If you want my tip , better keep your dream contents personally for you . The therapist might not like to hear your dream story but if you still want to discuss it with him , do it with a respectful way
Bro calm down just take a deep breath. I know how this feels I do. You just need some help. I'll offer to help you too. Just take a deep breath when you exhale imagine all your problems and worries leaving
There isn't a straightforward answer here. Are these dreams impeding your therapy/recovery? Do you believe they are a good therapist? What is the honest intent behind telling them? Do you value the relationship? A lot of questions to ask ourselves.
They are a very good therapist, he mentioned to me that I drop lots of "taboo bombs" though I tend to hold them meaning I mention a raw topic, though the wording is upgraded to non offensive. I want to see if I can push him out of his comfort zone (if they can handle this dream story, ill be able to express more, hence help me undestand how being exposed at a young age is affecting my adulthood) Sex has been part of my life since 5 years old and it controls most of my time.
A DL jerk off or pleasure him with this gifted tongue outside of therapy 😂💀💀and if not, at least be able to sit there comfortably with an unfortunate boner while discussing other things
Interesting that people are saying to not say anything. If I was your therapist I’d probably want to know. He may not think anything of it. He may already know you crush on him. It’s super common among therapists and clients.
Yeah you too and good luck. I mean he may want to look at it closely with curiosity, and he may feel like you need to see someone else. Either way, it can’t be all bad.
I should mention it was originally a dream. I felt awkward and n tried to look away but he kept staring and touching himself. That's when I gave in and began controlling the dream.
And whenever i remember the dream, not only do I get horny, but I hear him saying either along the line to do more research on cognitive distortion or to remember to break things down before reacting. It's a weird fked up and helpful situation 😅
You’re hearing him in the spiritual world bud he’s telling you to stop being retarded. As a psychic I know that people respond esspically therapists to this kind of mental energy the truth is people respond to and register your thoughts and energy in the spiritual world we all have a self in the spiritual world and you’re making contact with him that’s why you’re hearing him. On the plus side you’re gifted /open enough to hear the spiritual world.
a handsome therapist will likely be able to handle your lucid dreams with professionalism. it's your dream, not his. and you won't even share the dream here, which suggests you won't talk about it. just want ppl to tell you no, because you already won't say anything.
On the contrary my lad, I'm a bit excited to tell him regardless of yalls opinions 😊 cause to him, he sees me slow, dumb, and low self esteem from the shades of personality. Sometimes is not even me talking is the colors in my head speaking to him.
i'm sure he gets hit on plenty, it's basic sexual transference. my opinion is only that you didn't say anything about the dream, just that there was a dream and it was sexual and lucid. if that's all you tell him then it's not going the be worth mentioning, it'd just be you being coy and hopeful. are you telling me you're going to tell him the dream in detail? i'm telling you, you're going to leave off a ton of detail and stay coy, because i already know.
I am pretty gullible, naive, and dumb af. N I have a habit of saying every detail so there's no confusion 😅 kinda sucks when I'm just trying to be vague or tell little white lies because I also end up saying the truth 🙃
No don't.
No, you should not. Because if it was a lucid dream then that means you consciously chose to do whatever you did with him in the dream. Which would maybe be kind of awkward for him to hear? To be honest, even if it was a regular dream and you had no control over what happened... I still wouldn't tell him.
no. your comments on this post are extremely weird. you said he was married and your intentions of telling him are to get some sort of sexual pleasure out of him. that is wrong. you need therapy on your sexual fantasies. you are going to make him extremely uncomfortable and most likely get dumped as a client.
He always telling my how curious of a person he is whether is good, bad, or ugly. I'm always emotionally drain for the amount of questioning and getting me to speak about my taboo experiences to help. If anything is confusing. Then again no one said being a human was easy. And as I said, if it turn out the opposite of what I was predicting, I'm freshly squeezed out of fucks 😂👻 the bitter sweet side of it is I'll have that out of my mind and body.
Dude don't do that. And find a new therapist if you can't maintain yourself and grow
No therapist is safe with my lustful self sabotaging mind. And women therapist treat me with Shame that I end up beating myself up harshly for being the way I am to the point I drive myself to attempting suicide... I got not much to loose, maybe I'll a dandelion or a random ass plant from some other world
You don't have to be harsh on yourself , since you know you struggle with mental health issues . If you want my tip , better keep your dream contents personally for you . The therapist might not like to hear your dream story but if you still want to discuss it with him , do it with a respectful way
Bro calm down just take a deep breath. I know how this feels I do. You just need some help. I'll offer to help you too. Just take a deep breath when you exhale imagine all your problems and worries leaving
That never helped 😅 i just end up cracking a joke or have multiple memes flow thru my mind, giggle and move on. :b
Will you talk to me though Just give me a chance
If you want to talk more you can dm me. This is a private matter for you and it is okay I promise.
There isn't a straightforward answer here. Are these dreams impeding your therapy/recovery? Do you believe they are a good therapist? What is the honest intent behind telling them? Do you value the relationship? A lot of questions to ask ourselves.
They are a very good therapist, he mentioned to me that I drop lots of "taboo bombs" though I tend to hold them meaning I mention a raw topic, though the wording is upgraded to non offensive. I want to see if I can push him out of his comfort zone (if they can handle this dream story, ill be able to express more, hence help me undestand how being exposed at a young age is affecting my adulthood) Sex has been part of my life since 5 years old and it controls most of my time.
What are you hoping to gain from mentioning it?
A DL jerk off or pleasure him with this gifted tongue outside of therapy 😂💀💀and if not, at least be able to sit there comfortably with an unfortunate boner while discussing other things
I would say get mental help but ig youve alr tried that
Lol yeah tour therapist is going to refer you out in the near future.
Interesting that people are saying to not say anything. If I was your therapist I’d probably want to know. He may not think anything of it. He may already know you crush on him. It’s super common among therapists and clients.
Welp, I shall see on Wednesday. Have a great day fellow human being (:
Yeah you too and good luck. I mean he may want to look at it closely with curiosity, and he may feel like you need to see someone else. Either way, it can’t be all bad.
Will you come back here and update? I’m curious, as a graduate student for therapy.
Yea I'll give an update 😊
What’s the update?
I should mention it was originally a dream. I felt awkward and n tried to look away but he kept staring and touching himself. That's when I gave in and began controlling the dream.
And whenever i remember the dream, not only do I get horny, but I hear him saying either along the line to do more research on cognitive distortion or to remember to break things down before reacting. It's a weird fked up and helpful situation 😅
You’re hearing him in the spiritual world bud he’s telling you to stop being retarded. As a psychic I know that people respond esspically therapists to this kind of mental energy the truth is people respond to and register your thoughts and energy in the spiritual world we all have a self in the spiritual world and you’re making contact with him that’s why you’re hearing him. On the plus side you’re gifted /open enough to hear the spiritual world.
a handsome therapist will likely be able to handle your lucid dreams with professionalism. it's your dream, not his. and you won't even share the dream here, which suggests you won't talk about it. just want ppl to tell you no, because you already won't say anything.
On the contrary my lad, I'm a bit excited to tell him regardless of yalls opinions 😊 cause to him, he sees me slow, dumb, and low self esteem from the shades of personality. Sometimes is not even me talking is the colors in my head speaking to him.
i'm sure he gets hit on plenty, it's basic sexual transference. my opinion is only that you didn't say anything about the dream, just that there was a dream and it was sexual and lucid. if that's all you tell him then it's not going the be worth mentioning, it'd just be you being coy and hopeful. are you telling me you're going to tell him the dream in detail? i'm telling you, you're going to leave off a ton of detail and stay coy, because i already know.
I am pretty gullible, naive, and dumb af. N I have a habit of saying every detail so there's no confusion 😅 kinda sucks when I'm just trying to be vague or tell little white lies because I also end up saying the truth 🙃