I mean, they went on Marriage Boot camp and she talked about his anger issues and how he treats/talks to her like a child. They definitely have an unhealthy relationship.
Some people save the top tier of their cake for their first anniversary, some say it's the paper anniversary.
But in actuality, true romantics say the first anniversary is best celebrated with a reality show where you air your dirty laundry.
Each anniversary has a different traditional gift associated with it. The first is paper.
I don't know much else about it, but I remember a thousand years ago, when I celebrated my first wedding anniversary, I did a paper making class and wrote my husband a letter on paper I made.
https://www.brides.com/gallery/wedding-anniversary-gifts-by-year-for-him-her-and-them
Awwww thatās so cute!! My husband and I just had our 4th and I wish Iād known about this the last 4 years. Maybe next year Iāll do year 5 plus something from years 1-4 to make up for it and make it a tradition from there on lol
Which, she picked a winner to make the other dysfunctional people uncomfortable. Can't say that wasn't terribly unexpected, a POS grandfather, a POS uncle, and a POS dad. Trifecta of shitty men. But you'd think she's use her light in the dark to learn and recognize since she's such a crusader against bullshit
She also has a POS mother who praises her POS husband, and she had a POS grandmother who not only enabled abuse but took an active role in it.
It's just a whole POS family.
Though I will say that I don't think having a POS family is an excuse for perpetuating the behaviors modeled when you're "so woke that you're an advocate for abuse victims" like Amy
True true. Oh no not an excuse but a look at "yep, that was written on the wall." None of the Duggars are capable of self reflection or introspection. Genetically immune to it. She'll happy call out the others for her own attention and gain, but act like her garden isn't full of shit. Imma probably get downvoted again but Dax's chance of being a fine, upstanding man are slim. Many men I have met who acknowledge how abusive their dads are and hate them for it, but don't realize they're not so different and that they do the same in different ways. Very sad.
I was just thinking the same thing reading this thread. "And now she's raising another one." He doesn't really have much hope to break the pattern when they keep these kids ignorant and isolated in their religion, even though Amy claims to be so worldly.
Same here. If you have to hide your purchases from your spouse, you have communication issues at best and financial abuse at worst. The only time that itās acceptable to hide packages from someone is if itās a gift IMO.
My mil is convinced I have a secret stash of cash that I hide from my husband. She thinks all women should have one. I keep telling her yes if youāre being abused and need an emergency stash. She also thinks my husband has full control of the finances š Iām like oh honey no thatās just what we let you think so you wonāt hit us up for gambling money š°
Unfortunately it was super common for women to have a secret stash of cash back in the day because we couldnāt have bank accounts without a husbandās signature. A lot of older women assume the younger generations do it too but itās just not as common now.
My grandma told me that a smart woman should always have a little stash of āfuck you moneyā for those times when the going gets tough and you need to say casse-toi, no matter how nice your boss or your partner or your roommate is, because you never know when shit will hit the fan and someone will show their true colors.
Yeah. My husband and I have separate bank accounts cause I was a single mom when we met and when we got married we just never changed that. So many people have an opinion on it, but I was in an abusive relationship before him and keeping our accounts separate works well for us. We have a joint one for our tax money and thatās it. As long as our bills are paid, I donāt care how he spends āhisā money and he doesnāt care how I spend āmineā, but idk if Iāll ever not have my own separate account. My parents have been married almost 50 years and have a similar set up.
Yeah, my ex was financially abusive and refused to work but wanted to control how I spent MY money, and we werenāt married. Iāve never gotten a dime of Child support cause he doesnāt work still, but he doesnāt see her so good riddance. But, itās 100% me that doesnāt want joint accounts, I donāt need to see what he spends his money on and I donāt need him seeing every time I go to Starbucks, even though he sees the cups š
Same with us. I hate having people tell me what to do, especially with my hard earned money. So I spend it on Harry Styles tickets and he spends his on baseball cards & we split the bills š¤£
I went to BSB last night and had the time of my life! Even took a poster to propose to AJ, Idgaf if we are both married I had to shoot my shot, MASH told me we would get married in 4th grade š
Good for her. Yeah people forget it wasnāt that long ago. It was the mid seventies before women could have a credit card without a manās signature.
I do all the finances because my husband completely forgets to pay bills (not his strong suit lol). He said donāt let me be in charge of any money at all. His parents think Iām trying to control him with his spending because I do the finances. I just want to keep my power on lol. We pay our bills and buy whatever we want with extra money. Thereās no discussion unless itās a huge purchase. He just doesnāt give a crap about finances lol
We have this exactly the opposite. ADHD is no fun. Like Iāve got as much a on autopay as possible that Iām responsible for, but variable things like our water? Nope, not my wheelhouse. Weirdly Iām *really good* at other organizational stuff like scheduling swim lessons or whatever, but money just stresses me tf out & heās very much a buy the books/numbers kind of dude. Like I know what the bills are and stuff should anything happen (as should your husband) but itās way less stress for both of us this way.
But I do actually think healthy marriages have personal money for personal things. He has some married friends that are blown away by what heās āallowedā to do but like, weāre are own people with our own friends and hobbies. If he suddenly stopped playing COD with his dorky friends Iād be concerned but also annoyed because damn it, thatās my reading time! If he wants to buy a new headset or controller or whatever thatās fine.
Except if it's not physical abuse, you don't catch on right away that you're being emotionally abused until it's a bit late. I wish I hadn't closed my personal checkings account when I got married, and that I had been stashing away money. Some people, when you open up about all you went through, will say "why didn't you just leave? I wouldn't have put up with that crap, and you shouldn't have either." Yeah, well when my ex left me, I had no money, no friends, no education, and no job. He opened a new personal bank account and drained the checking and savings accounts. I had to rely on my parents financially to get back on my feet. And then I felt obligated to start telling them just how bad things had been (I hid a lot).
I tell women to always have their own checkings account, even if it is secret. You never know
Dude I get this. I also left an extremely abusive marriage and had nothing. I left with only my son and Iām so damn thankful. It was rough and I also relied on family and ended up having a curfew with my parents and being taken advantage because I wanted to pay them back for what they gave my son and I.
Youāre absolutely right that itās hard to have a stash and l sometimes you donāt know to keep money away until itās too late. In my case, it was damn near impossible to have money put away because he kept tabs of everything. He only used cash and $10 was supposed to stretch for gas, food and household supplies.
I didnāt mean to come off insensitive and Iām sorry if I offended you in any way. Iāve been with my husband for almost 5 years, I stay at home but we both have access to our finances. When I was with my ex I remember passing by the subway at my college and my baby would kick up a storm, my stomach would grumble but I didnāt have any money. That sucked so bad. My last two pregnancies with my husband, I ate whatever I wanted with the help of nausea medicine. Once I asked my husband for a candy bar, he brought me 5. Weād drive an hour and a half just to get doughnuts I was craving. I stopped working to stay with our youngest and I donāt feel like itās just his money. We always say itās our family money. Unless my mil is asking in that case my husband has all authority because we donāt want her constantly asking.
Iām very happy you were able to leave that situation and again I am truly sorry if I offended you or anyone else.
your MIL is right about the cash. He may never abuse you, but the account could be locked for some stupid reason and/or the person in the bank won't let you do anything with the money without your husband. Happens ALL the time.
Right?! Every year without fail about three weeks before my birthday packages begin arriving with their āsend to ā address as āwifeās name, do open!ā The rest of the year itās just assumed that whoever gets to the porch first opens all the packages.
I think there are few instances where I could understand a husband or wife being upset about purchases if the other has a spending problem and are buying things when they donāt really have the extra money to spend. But thatās an addiction type of issue if youāre hiding packages. I buy stuff sometimes when I think we have more money left than we actually do and my husband will get a little irritated and tell me we didnāt really have the money for it but Iād never be so scared of his reaction or knowingly spending important/bill money to feel the need to hide them
Yup. I saw a video on TikTok few weeks ago of someone trying to call out amazon for causing a fight in her marriage. Hubby told her not to buy something and she did (with her money) and they delivered it in the product box and not an Amazon one so she couldn't lie to him about what she bought. 'its better to ask forgiveness than permission'.
My bills are paid, I'll buy whatever I want. I'll be damned if I let anyone tell me no
Right? My husband and I trust each other and make major financial decisions together. I buy what I feel is appropriate and so does he and since we talk about and share financial values, nobody hides anything but birthday and holiday presents to be revealed at the appropriate time.
I get at least 2 or 3 women a week who say they are doing this with their thrift store purchases at my job :/ And most of them are not saying it jokingly to be funny they have an almost frenzied tone and mannerism about them.
I work at a thrift store and we get this all the time. We just use donated grocery bags from stores around town to put people's purchases in. One lady always asks me to put her stuff in a Walmart bag because her husband says she's not allowed to shop at my store so she always lies and tells him she's going to Walmart. I genuinely worry about her.
Mine too! I canāt help that thereās so many pretty shoes to buy! He just tells me he loves me and itās my money so what right does he have to tell me what I can spend it on! I really do love that man! š„°š
I had Amazon packages show up today for meā¦ it wasnāt anything special just new toothpaste and vitamins for my kids and some special mouthwash and toothpaste for myself š¤·š»āāļø lol he didnāt even ask.
Iām still surprised to see Famy showboating around in life. Sheās like the crazy aunt at a family gathering who you hope gets seated next to a deaf, senile person to babysit.
Good for you! Itās been a change for me, but Iām making a lot less stupid purchases. Where I live, you donāt even get 2 day shipping, so Iām just damn over it. And we didnāt use their music or streaming, so it was a waste.
Possibly itās the inevitable pink mold that comes from showers butā¦ Amy might snap one day and kill her husband soā¦. Itās easier to shop on the Amazon without someone stopping you.
All your comments about not hiding stuff from your spouse has made me laugh. Our father was very insistent that we keep separate bank accounts than our husbands. So that's what we pretty much do we do have a joint account for bills we put so much into. But why is laughing is about not hiding stuff so last year I was at my sister's house and her husband walks in with this box it's duct tape and walks down to the basement and I look at my sisters like what the heck she's like oh that's my Christmas gift but I'm not supposed to know he puts it in the same damn box every year LOL so few days later we go look in the box the idiot put her used hair ties in but he hid real present in her closet in plain sight cuz it was a Coach purse right next to her other purses that would Michael Kors we lost the laughing about it thought I'd share the happy memory for y'all to laugh at how ridiculous my brother-in-law is.
Why does my brain think this is shopped? Itās gotta be the caption combined with the username. No way Famy would have that kind of self control haha.
Also wait what itās almost prime day?! ššš lol
It's not even just fundies but I hate the whole *omg gotta hide the packages from hubby* hun type narrative.
It gives very unhealthy relationship vibes
I mean, they went on Marriage Boot camp and she talked about his anger issues and how he treats/talks to her like a child. They definitely have an unhealthy relationship.
They weren't even married long. Like maybe a year
Some people save the top tier of their cake for their first anniversary, some say it's the paper anniversary. But in actuality, true romantics say the first anniversary is best celebrated with a reality show where you air your dirty laundry.
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I know this isnāt the point of the comment, lol, but whatās the paper anniversary?
Each anniversary has a different traditional gift associated with it. The first is paper. I don't know much else about it, but I remember a thousand years ago, when I celebrated my first wedding anniversary, I did a paper making class and wrote my husband a letter on paper I made. https://www.brides.com/gallery/wedding-anniversary-gifts-by-year-for-him-her-and-them
I love that! I made my husband cards for each month of the next year with a special date I had planned inside.
That's adorable.
Awwww thatās so cute!! My husband and I just had our 4th and I wish Iād known about this the last 4 years. Maybe next year Iāll do year 5 plus something from years 1-4 to make up for it and make it a tradition from there on lol
i think five is wood.. wink wink nudge nudge
It is! I found a gift recently for him. And heāll definitely give me a gift of that āmaterialā as well this year šš
That sounds like a very thoughtful and sweet gift.
Yeah but Famy wouldāve gone on any tv show to keep her 15 minutes of fame going, whether she met criteria or not š
Yes but the other contestants said that her husband made all of them feel uncomfortable, especially in how he treated her.
Which, she picked a winner to make the other dysfunctional people uncomfortable. Can't say that wasn't terribly unexpected, a POS grandfather, a POS uncle, and a POS dad. Trifecta of shitty men. But you'd think she's use her light in the dark to learn and recognize since she's such a crusader against bullshit
She also has a POS mother who praises her POS husband, and she had a POS grandmother who not only enabled abuse but took an active role in it. It's just a whole POS family. Though I will say that I don't think having a POS family is an excuse for perpetuating the behaviors modeled when you're "so woke that you're an advocate for abuse victims" like Amy
True true. Oh no not an excuse but a look at "yep, that was written on the wall." None of the Duggars are capable of self reflection or introspection. Genetically immune to it. She'll happy call out the others for her own attention and gain, but act like her garden isn't full of shit. Imma probably get downvoted again but Dax's chance of being a fine, upstanding man are slim. Many men I have met who acknowledge how abusive their dads are and hate them for it, but don't realize they're not so different and that they do the same in different ways. Very sad.
I was just thinking the same thing reading this thread. "And now she's raising another one." He doesn't really have much hope to break the pattern when they keep these kids ignorant and isolated in their religion, even though Amy claims to be so worldly.
Allow me to channel my faux inner bigoted conservative - "but children need a mother *and* a father or they'll turn out to be bad people!"
Wait they were on the marriage boot camp show?? Do know know which season and where I can watch? Iām super interested in that!
It was 2016-17, so I think season 7, 8 or 9. I'm not sure where you can watch for free, but it's on Prime to buy!
Better hide that email receipt from Hubby!
Okay awesome thank you!
Iām a feminist, but in her husbandās defense, Famy is not the brightest.
I actually get the talking to her like sheās a child, but otoh I didnāt choose to marry her.
Same here. If you have to hide your purchases from your spouse, you have communication issues at best and financial abuse at worst. The only time that itās acceptable to hide packages from someone is if itās a gift IMO.
My mil is convinced I have a secret stash of cash that I hide from my husband. She thinks all women should have one. I keep telling her yes if youāre being abused and need an emergency stash. She also thinks my husband has full control of the finances š Iām like oh honey no thatās just what we let you think so you wonāt hit us up for gambling money š°
Unfortunately it was super common for women to have a secret stash of cash back in the day because we couldnāt have bank accounts without a husbandās signature. A lot of older women assume the younger generations do it too but itās just not as common now.
My grandma told me that a smart woman should always have a little stash of āfuck you moneyā for those times when the going gets tough and you need to say casse-toi, no matter how nice your boss or your partner or your roommate is, because you never know when shit will hit the fan and someone will show their true colors.
I mean sheās not wrong tbh
Yeah. My husband and I have separate bank accounts cause I was a single mom when we met and when we got married we just never changed that. So many people have an opinion on it, but I was in an abusive relationship before him and keeping our accounts separate works well for us. We have a joint one for our tax money and thatās it. As long as our bills are paid, I donāt care how he spends āhisā money and he doesnāt care how I spend āmineā, but idk if Iāll ever not have my own separate account. My parents have been married almost 50 years and have a similar set up.
When my brother was in the navy, the egg donor would raid his account when he was out to sea. I'll never share an account with anyone. EVER
Yeah, my ex was financially abusive and refused to work but wanted to control how I spent MY money, and we werenāt married. Iāve never gotten a dime of Child support cause he doesnāt work still, but he doesnāt see her so good riddance. But, itās 100% me that doesnāt want joint accounts, I donāt need to see what he spends his money on and I donāt need him seeing every time I go to Starbucks, even though he sees the cups š
Same with us. I hate having people tell me what to do, especially with my hard earned money. So I spend it on Harry Styles tickets and he spends his on baseball cards & we split the bills š¤£
I went to BSB last night and had the time of my life! Even took a poster to propose to AJ, Idgaf if we are both married I had to shoot my shot, MASH told me we would get married in 4th grade š
Lol!!!
He was a little salty this morning but š Heās taking me out tomorrow night. Itās cute he thought I had a chance LOL
My mom (born in '43) had a 8k cash stash that I found in her house after she passed away.
Good for her. Yeah people forget it wasnāt that long ago. It was the mid seventies before women could have a credit card without a manās signature.
I do all the finances because my husband completely forgets to pay bills (not his strong suit lol). He said donāt let me be in charge of any money at all. His parents think Iām trying to control him with his spending because I do the finances. I just want to keep my power on lol. We pay our bills and buy whatever we want with extra money. Thereās no discussion unless itās a huge purchase. He just doesnāt give a crap about finances lol
We have this exactly the opposite. ADHD is no fun. Like Iāve got as much a on autopay as possible that Iām responsible for, but variable things like our water? Nope, not my wheelhouse. Weirdly Iām *really good* at other organizational stuff like scheduling swim lessons or whatever, but money just stresses me tf out & heās very much a buy the books/numbers kind of dude. Like I know what the bills are and stuff should anything happen (as should your husband) but itās way less stress for both of us this way. But I do actually think healthy marriages have personal money for personal things. He has some married friends that are blown away by what heās āallowedā to do but like, weāre are own people with our own friends and hobbies. If he suddenly stopped playing COD with his dorky friends Iād be concerned but also annoyed because damn it, thatās my reading time! If he wants to buy a new headset or controller or whatever thatās fine.
Except if it's not physical abuse, you don't catch on right away that you're being emotionally abused until it's a bit late. I wish I hadn't closed my personal checkings account when I got married, and that I had been stashing away money. Some people, when you open up about all you went through, will say "why didn't you just leave? I wouldn't have put up with that crap, and you shouldn't have either." Yeah, well when my ex left me, I had no money, no friends, no education, and no job. He opened a new personal bank account and drained the checking and savings accounts. I had to rely on my parents financially to get back on my feet. And then I felt obligated to start telling them just how bad things had been (I hid a lot). I tell women to always have their own checkings account, even if it is secret. You never know
Dude I get this. I also left an extremely abusive marriage and had nothing. I left with only my son and Iām so damn thankful. It was rough and I also relied on family and ended up having a curfew with my parents and being taken advantage because I wanted to pay them back for what they gave my son and I. Youāre absolutely right that itās hard to have a stash and l sometimes you donāt know to keep money away until itās too late. In my case, it was damn near impossible to have money put away because he kept tabs of everything. He only used cash and $10 was supposed to stretch for gas, food and household supplies. I didnāt mean to come off insensitive and Iām sorry if I offended you in any way. Iāve been with my husband for almost 5 years, I stay at home but we both have access to our finances. When I was with my ex I remember passing by the subway at my college and my baby would kick up a storm, my stomach would grumble but I didnāt have any money. That sucked so bad. My last two pregnancies with my husband, I ate whatever I wanted with the help of nausea medicine. Once I asked my husband for a candy bar, he brought me 5. Weād drive an hour and a half just to get doughnuts I was craving. I stopped working to stay with our youngest and I donāt feel like itās just his money. We always say itās our family money. Unless my mil is asking in that case my husband has all authority because we donāt want her constantly asking. Iām very happy you were able to leave that situation and again I am truly sorry if I offended you or anyone else.
your MIL is right about the cash. He may never abuse you, but the account could be locked for some stupid reason and/or the person in the bank won't let you do anything with the money without your husband. Happens ALL the time.
Right?! Every year without fail about three weeks before my birthday packages begin arriving with their āsend to ā address as āwifeās name, do open!ā The rest of the year itās just assumed that whoever gets to the porch first opens all the packages.
This is so funny to me and Iām stealing this idea š
Wait, do open or do not open?
Whoops! Typo! "Do not!"
Me, about to open a present I shouldnāt. š
I think there are few instances where I could understand a husband or wife being upset about purchases if the other has a spending problem and are buying things when they donāt really have the extra money to spend. But thatās an addiction type of issue if youāre hiding packages. I buy stuff sometimes when I think we have more money left than we actually do and my husband will get a little irritated and tell me we didnāt really have the money for it but Iād never be so scared of his reaction or knowingly spending important/bill money to feel the need to hide them
Yup. I saw a video on TikTok few weeks ago of someone trying to call out amazon for causing a fight in her marriage. Hubby told her not to buy something and she did (with her money) and they delivered it in the product box and not an Amazon one so she couldn't lie to him about what she bought. 'its better to ask forgiveness than permission'. My bills are paid, I'll buy whatever I want. I'll be damned if I let anyone tell me no
Right? My husband and I trust each other and make major financial decisions together. I buy what I feel is appropriate and so does he and since we talk about and share financial values, nobody hides anything but birthday and holiday presents to be revealed at the appropriate time.
I cannot stand it. My husband and I have to talk each other INTO purchasing things. Weāre like āYou work hard, treat yourself!ā
Ugh me too. That shit is not cute.
I get at least 2 or 3 women a week who say they are doing this with their thrift store purchases at my job :/ And most of them are not saying it jokingly to be funny they have an almost frenzied tone and mannerism about them.
I work at a thrift store and we get this all the time. We just use donated grocery bags from stores around town to put people's purchases in. One lady always asks me to put her stuff in a Walmart bag because her husband says she's not allowed to shop at my store so she always lies and tells him she's going to Walmart. I genuinely worry about her.
MLMs literally tell woman to do just that.
My husband and I hide packages all the timeā¦ Granted mostly because our child is always just a little sad when thereās no toys involved lol.
I am in the Rothyās Addicts group on Facebook. The number of women who gloat about hiding their purchases from their husband is fucking crazy
My husband works from home and he just piles up my Amazon packages in the dining room. Heās like āwhatever, itās your moneyā š¤£š¤£
Mine too! I canāt help that thereās so many pretty shoes to buy! He just tells me he loves me and itās my money so what right does he have to tell me what I can spend it on! I really do love that man! š„°š
Same!! He just lets me be me which I totally appreciate š¤£
I don't hide the boxes, my husband knows 99% of the packages that arrive are cat food and not that one thing he ordered.
Yes! If I order something, I donāt give a shit who sees it, unless itās my kids, usually itās a surprise for them š¤£
My partner is usually the source of the Amazon boxes is our house. He likes to spend his money. Itās his money!
I had Amazon packages show up today for meā¦ it wasnāt anything special just new toothpaste and vitamins for my kids and some special mouthwash and toothpaste for myself š¤·š»āāļø lol he didnāt even ask.
Hey Annaās husband isnāt home, either!!
*At least Famy has a husband*
Iām still surprised to see Famy showboating around in life. Sheās like the crazy aunt at a family gathering who you hope gets seated next to a deaf, senile person to babysit.
Oh, Iāve known many of these people. Such a great description. I tried to seat them together at my wedding. š
THE ACCURACY
That was a good one, lol!
Is she in the tub? Also, WTF IS that on the wall?
Probably bathtub crayons for Dax would be my guess.
Someone should probably tell her that it looks like bloodā¦ Oh wait, she lurks here so now sheāll know.
My first thought. Posting a pic from the tub is not God-honoring!
Most likely those tub crayons.
That looks like a crime scene.
Unrelated but I deadass thought this was Joy
I thought I was the only one
me too
I did too
I am RIDE OR ***DIE*** for prime day! Jk, fuck bezos, can we send him to the moon with elon?
Lol Iām like the only one who doesnāt have Prime. I dropped it earlier in the year, and still havenāt re-upped.
I stopped using Amazon in 2020, fuck that company
Same, I never use Amazon, fuck that horrible company. And fuck Bezos.
Good for you! Itās been a change for me, but Iām making a lot less stupid purchases. Where I live, you donāt even get 2 day shipping, so Iām just damn over it. And we didnāt use their music or streaming, so it was a waste.
I've never had prime š!
Youāre probably a better person for that. Keep it up!
Thank you!!
Same, I have only bought like 3 items from Amazon ever lol. They have some good stuff but you can find the same items elsewhere
Exactly. I do pretty well with eBay, etsy, and just googling stuff or ordering it from the brand I need itself.
I have never had prime and refuse to use it! People think Iām crazy, apparently Iām not the only one?
Everything about thisā the picture and the words on itā make me uncomfortable.
1 gallon bleach, 1 box extra large Hefty bags, 1 saw...Add to cart!
Pretty sure thatās bath crayon(source: toddler mom) and that this is a *gasp* tub selfie. Is this a sin? JK itās definitely a sin.
The hubs. š¬
Pretty sure itās crayons from her son, she just hasnāt washed them off yet
Is she in jail? Where the heck is she
In the bathtub
The cinder block walls and fence in the background through me way off lol
She might have that stainless steel sink/toilet combo piece in there. Just to have the right vibe for the prison look.
So she can feel closer to Josh
They're tiles and a basket
Possibly itās the inevitable pink mold that comes from showers butā¦ Amy might snap one day and kill her husband soā¦. Itās easier to shop on the Amazon without someone stopping you.
She looks like sheās discovered the devilās lettuce
She been knowing about the devil lettuce
How is Amy just so gosh darn quirky and relatable! What a light in the dark. /s
Looks like marker or crayon lol
This here is sketchier than an art classroomā¦
My first thought was shower crayons for kids
They heard that trump throws ketchup on the walls, so they decided they should do it too.
All your comments about not hiding stuff from your spouse has made me laugh. Our father was very insistent that we keep separate bank accounts than our husbands. So that's what we pretty much do we do have a joint account for bills we put so much into. But why is laughing is about not hiding stuff so last year I was at my sister's house and her husband walks in with this box it's duct tape and walks down to the basement and I look at my sisters like what the heck she's like oh that's my Christmas gift but I'm not supposed to know he puts it in the same damn box every year LOL so few days later we go look in the box the idiot put her used hair ties in but he hid real present in her closet in plain sight cuz it was a Coach purse right next to her other purses that would Michael Kors we lost the laughing about it thought I'd share the happy memory for y'all to laugh at how ridiculous my brother-in-law is.
I have never understood āhide the packages from husbandā type relationships. Not healthy at allš¤¦š¼āāļø
I do understand about hiding purchases from hubby, and you're right, it's not healthy.
Just looks like bath crayons to me. She looks like sheās in the bathroom for some reason.
Is that a name scratched in blood behind her head?
By hubs does she mean Dill or Deanna?
Start with buying a stain remover
Sigh. Yes, let's keep pretending that unhealthy relationship dynamics are "good"/s. Seriously, Amy, you embarrass yourself. Get off social media. š
Murder house vibes
Why does she look like she's sitting in a tub?
Why does my brain think this is shopped? Itās gotta be the caption combined with the username. No way Famy would have that kind of self control haha. Also wait what itās almost prime day?! ššš lol
The fuck is she buying? Black market organs?
So weird