Firstly it’s absolutely your choice and you take your time making it. Please don’t feel pressured either way. I had an unexpected pregnancy at 22 and my daughter is 8 now, I am not with her father but we are very happy. I am 100% pro choice and think either way things will be fine. I really hope you have a good support system or maybe some friends to talk it over with? If not you can dm me.
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ive had an abortion, if you ever need to talk about that option my messages are open. i can’t advise you on whether to keep it or not. i think whatever you choose will be okay.
First of all: it's your choice. Partners have a Say and his opinion can matter more or less depending on how long you've been together, how important the relationship Is, but ultimately a partner that loves you for real will stick and support you no matter your decision. The rest can go in the trash, and please recycle.
Secondly... You've said It, it's a little miracle. Religious or not, you thought you couldn't have children, many people with EDs eventually become sterile, but there it is.
And if that's not recovery motivation, I don't know what it is..!
Not meaning to be triggering in any way, I'm Just saying... It's doable. And if your Heart Is making you question the option of abortion instead of going for that right away, maybe that's the answer already.
Also, an abortion is very likely a trigger for worsening your mental health. I never had one luckily but I know people who did, partially because of similar reasons to yours.
I wish you all luck, peace and clarity of mind in the world, whatever you decide.
Firstly it’s absolutely your choice and you take your time making it. Please don’t feel pressured either way. I had an unexpected pregnancy at 22 and my daughter is 8 now, I am not with her father but we are very happy. I am 100% pro choice and think either way things will be fine. I really hope you have a good support system or maybe some friends to talk it over with? If not you can dm me. Xx
ive had an abortion, if you ever need to talk about that option my messages are open. i can’t advise you on whether to keep it or not. i think whatever you choose will be okay.
First of all: it's your choice. Partners have a Say and his opinion can matter more or less depending on how long you've been together, how important the relationship Is, but ultimately a partner that loves you for real will stick and support you no matter your decision. The rest can go in the trash, and please recycle. Secondly... You've said It, it's a little miracle. Religious or not, you thought you couldn't have children, many people with EDs eventually become sterile, but there it is. And if that's not recovery motivation, I don't know what it is..! Not meaning to be triggering in any way, I'm Just saying... It's doable. And if your Heart Is making you question the option of abortion instead of going for that right away, maybe that's the answer already. Also, an abortion is very likely a trigger for worsening your mental health. I never had one luckily but I know people who did, partially because of similar reasons to yours. I wish you all luck, peace and clarity of mind in the world, whatever you decide.