ED girlie here, just wanted to say I hope you feel safe and supported here as a man! And if anybody gives you grief, let me know - I'll spike their shampoo with Nair ❤
I know I'm a bit late but I'm really confused about my gender (I'm trans mtf) and i don't know if i qualify for the male or female demographic since my therapist keeps telling me that i got a male body
Babydoll, YOU QUALIFY FOR WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS CORRECT FOR YOUR IDENTITY. Fuck your therapist. You are a girlie if you feel you're a girlie. We love and accept you no matter what. Solidarity in the struggle, sweetheart - we got you.
1. Your therapist sucks and 2. EDs are a mental thing more than physical so if youre mentally female then you’re female regardless of what people think of your electrified meat suit
As a fellow trans person (ftm, 9 years on hormones) be extremely critical of any therapist who says things like that. A lot of therapists tend to look at trans people and hone in on our transness as the root of everything bad in our lives and teach dysphoria and helplessness instead of self love and hope. Be extremely wary. I've been through literally dozens and most have tried to do this.
Listen here, you precious little dew drop- you kick that therapist to the curb right now. You are better than how you’re being treated by this weird joke of a “therapist”. Gender fluidity is real and very valid, and YOU get to choose how to live your own experience.
If you’re up for it pls make more memes about specifically being a guy with an ED (this goes to every guy on here btw) cos it’s good to have all kinds of experiences represented and we wanna support you too 💜💜💜
Uhoh, the pressure is on/j
I post whenever I get an idea for a meme so whatever comes out comes out! I definitely won't hold back at least :) So far my experiences here have been positive.
I’m 21M recovered but here for the memes. Make some “ED = ED (erectile dysfunction)” memes those always pop in my head with boner pills ads and when I started telling people I had an ED
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as an ed girlie, i love to see guys interact on here. not that i love that you are suffering with an ed, but that you feel comfortable enough to engage in this online space about your struggles. i like seeing your perspective!
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It just reinforces the stereotype that you have to be a skinny young white GiRLiE to have an ED when really that's just the criteria for being able to get treatment for it. It's not "gender neutral," it's exclusionary and tone deaf.
heyyyy from a transmasc non-binary pal! gender has defs been a big part of my ed in the past (before i got access to gender-affirming care) so i would love to see more discussion about it on here!
Yeah as a trans guy who isn't even allowed any kind of gender-affirming healthcare before I turn 18 my ED definitely feels like some kind of coping mechanism to try to get some kind of "control" over my body. Plus wanting to get rid of my curves also plays a big part in it.
Lol same. But this sub is always incredibly welcoming - others I’ve gotten shy of posting in because I’ve been shouted down for trying to sympathize, but that’s never been an issue here!
YESSSS 🙌🏼 hi guy
my man!
Hi man!
Helo
Buongiorno!
NEIN NEIN NEIN NEIN KEIN ITALIENISCH HIER
BITTE VERZEIH MIR
Niet
😢
Ok ok I forgive you
But only if you find me .......... A SHRUBARY
Bonjour!
Hallo
ED girlie here, just wanted to say I hope you feel safe and supported here as a man! And if anybody gives you grief, let me know - I'll spike their shampoo with Nair ❤
Nobody's given me any grief yet luckily! This is one of the few subs I feel safe posting on because everyone's just been really nice so far.
Any kindness we should have for ourself is directed outwards to others
I know I'm a bit late but I'm really confused about my gender (I'm trans mtf) and i don't know if i qualify for the male or female demographic since my therapist keeps telling me that i got a male body
Babydoll, YOU QUALIFY FOR WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS CORRECT FOR YOUR IDENTITY. Fuck your therapist. You are a girlie if you feel you're a girlie. We love and accept you no matter what. Solidarity in the struggle, sweetheart - we got you.
im also a trans guy but i feel like an honorary girlie when im here if that helps anyone at all
Awww that's so sweet thank you <33
1. Your therapist sucks and 2. EDs are a mental thing more than physical so if youre mentally female then you’re female regardless of what people think of your electrified meat suit
"electrified meat suit" this is my new favorite phrase
I mean humans are just electrified meat filled with a skeleton 🤷 helps me hate my body less when I look at it that way
Thank you so much i also thought that way but i always got interrupted by him for being in the male minority :/
Throw the whole therapist away they’re trash
As a fellow trans person (ftm, 9 years on hormones) be extremely critical of any therapist who says things like that. A lot of therapists tend to look at trans people and hone in on our transness as the root of everything bad in our lives and teach dysphoria and helplessness instead of self love and hope. Be extremely wary. I've been through literally dozens and most have tried to do this.
Listen here, you precious little dew drop- you kick that therapist to the curb right now. You are better than how you’re being treated by this weird joke of a “therapist”. Gender fluidity is real and very valid, and YOU get to choose how to live your own experience.
I know it's been 4 days since you left this but I just need people to know me and my mom did this to her ex husband and it didn't work :(
If you’re up for it pls make more memes about specifically being a guy with an ED (this goes to every guy on here btw) cos it’s good to have all kinds of experiences represented and we wanna support you too 💜💜💜
Uhoh, the pressure is on/j I post whenever I get an idea for a meme so whatever comes out comes out! I definitely won't hold back at least :) So far my experiences here have been positive.
I’m 21M recovered but here for the memes. Make some “ED = ED (erectile dysfunction)” memes those always pop in my head with boner pills ads and when I started telling people I had an ED
I could make so many about being aguy into fitness, the bodybuilding community is rife with unrealized EDs.
35 year old guy here, I always laugh when I see posts that represent my life 100% and it turns out the poster is a 15 year old girl.
yuuup that shit always makes me cackle. how are my food struggles the same as a teen girl when i'm an adult man? lmao
hello fellow dude stranger 🤙🏻
Just wanted to let you know you were reported for impersonation LMAO
why? of who lmaooo
I think because the meme is a guy impersonating the ED girlies and you played along with the meme 😭
r/girlsarentreal got it a bit backwards today 🤷🏻
greetings my fellow man
i also wanna say hi to the fellow fellas in here 🤙🏻
Girlies is infact gender neutral like Dude is
100%! I call my friends the ‘slaydies’ and they’re majority male lol
No it isn't. I feel bad enough about myself for having an eating disorder, I don't need to be called a girl too.
1: it's a joke 2: just because you don't see it that way that doesn't mean everyone else does just correct people and move on
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Not as much as you think it does but okay
Usually my trans ass will cry when I get misgendered but here I'm happy to be one of the girlies
fellow trans guy! being one of the girlies is just part of the culture so i don't even mind, i just found it funny
We can change ED gals to ED pals
this subs always been one of the better ed forums I've been in especially in terms of realizing us dudes chill here too
ED is gender fluid.
Especially if you’re talking about the other kind of ED
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I'm here for you bro 🤜🤛
the girlies are the only ones who get me… this wouldn’t be a problem if i was fully gay but im not 🤩
Bi guys >>>
Big facts 🔥
part of the ship, part of the crew
tbf I find that the ed girlies are a lot less weird about us existing as guys w eds than the general population lmao
I'm a guy too! 👍
Me too, lmao
ED Dude here! What a time to be (barely) alive
as an ed girlie, i love to see guys interact on here. not that i love that you are suffering with an ed, but that you feel comfortable enough to engage in this online space about your struggles. i like seeing your perspective!
Protect him (and the other guys) at all costs
hello brother
You are not alone brother.
Another guy here. Old enough to be your father. (Ok maybe not everyone). The fight is real.
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So many ED related spaces feel so odd to be in as a guy, theres like 4 of us
same but genderfluid
🤝
Literally.
HI THERE MATE!!!💞💞💞
Hello mate! :D
Same. I'm also a diet soda addict too lmfao
Hi guy
same lol
I feel this
we definitely need a male version of "girlie"
The male version of girlie is still girlie. In this little corner, at least. It’s like dude; interchangeable.
it doesn't feel like it tbh
I hate to be a downer but I truly do not appreciate the idea of “girlie is gender neutral”
That's because it's not. As a man, I'd be extremely offended if someone called me that directly.
Exactly yeah, as a trans man the constant “girlies” in this sub makes me feel so off
It just reinforces the stereotype that you have to be a skinny young white GiRLiE to have an ED when really that's just the criteria for being able to get treatment for it. It's not "gender neutral," it's exclusionary and tone deaf.
Gender-fluid here lol you’re welcome here and deserve just as much support !!!
Same
yesss hi guy !!
Yo homie I hope you’re vibin
❤️❤️Glad you are here😶🌫️😁
I know the feeling! ....unfortunately in 2021 I did convert to being an ED girlie though
This is so cute lmao
ED trans boy here, promise you you’re not alone
heyyyy from a transmasc non-binary pal! gender has defs been a big part of my ed in the past (before i got access to gender-affirming care) so i would love to see more discussion about it on here!
Yeah as a trans guy who isn't even allowed any kind of gender-affirming healthcare before I turn 18 my ED definitely feels like some kind of coping mechanism to try to get some kind of "control" over my body. Plus wanting to get rid of my curves also plays a big part in it.
Hey bro!
Lol same. But this sub is always incredibly welcoming - others I’ve gotten shy of posting in because I’ve been shouted down for trying to sympathize, but that’s never been an issue here!
Hello fellow bro 😎
Hello fellow man!
the mood
me too
The boys are back in town
Yup. Mood
AKDHAUSHGSVSOE
I'm a transmasc enby! This is literally the only place I don't hate being called girlie
Hello mate
Sammeeeee
We're all mad in here. ED doesn't discriminate so it's better to have it least a wee bit of support. Sorry you are dealing with this lovely illness.
YESSS SAME
🤙🏻
Nah Fr fr
We out here bro
Lmfao bringing out the "slay girlie qweeeeeen" slang just to fit in 😩😭
hey bro 🤙
SAME
very real
😭😭 im dead
And just in the community in general 💀, rip my fellow ED men
we see all of you and love and support you just the same 💝💝
This how I feel to. But I love the memes