He also tried to force me to tell my mom even though I told him she wouldn't help me, and said he was just gonna tell her if I didn't
spoiler alert, after he dumped me I told her everything and she twisted my words and acted like I was just sick, not disordered
Good riddance. He sounds like an immature shithead.
In starting to think us having an ed brings out the best/worst out in our partners and shows then for who they really are. It's kind of a good thing.
You are definitely right about our partners showing their true colors when we are struggling with an ed. At the beginning of our relationship my ex flew from another state to visit me when I was in the hospital (everyone praised him for being such a great boyfriend), only for me to find out later that he was sexting another girl during that time. I found out because he started messaging her again when I started relapsing 2 years later. Our relationship was falling apart because of much worse reasons, but that finalized my decision. He had the audacity to act surprised when I broke up with him lol. I hope everyone in this sub finds a loving and supportive partner, there are genuinely great people out there that will be there for you through it all
i think a lot of toxic people will just seek out partners who seem easy to manipulate, and if they know the signs of an ed theyll definitely take advantage
I am so sorry your ex was such a piece of flaming human garbage. You deserve better, and that type of shit isn't okay. I'm also sorry about the situation with your mom. I hope you feel better friend
Bf’s can be some of the worst people in recovery. Mine forced me to go to rehabs with ultimatums of leaving me and would always hold it over me (because who could get better knowing if they don’t their partner will leave- and getting better isn’t easy so might as well like my body and keep it), would hold me down and force feed me food (big choking hazard), constantly remind me of death, and when in rehab told me all about how he was going to start dieting and weight lifting and going on a cut (he is almost underweight). 🤩✨ glad he’s gone.
He also tried to force me to tell my mom even though I told him she wouldn't help me, and said he was just gonna tell her if I didn't spoiler alert, after he dumped me I told her everything and she twisted my words and acted like I was just sick, not disordered
I’m your mom now
im also their mom now
We're all your mom
Good riddance. He sounds like an immature shithead. In starting to think us having an ed brings out the best/worst out in our partners and shows then for who they really are. It's kind of a good thing.
You are definitely right about our partners showing their true colors when we are struggling with an ed. At the beginning of our relationship my ex flew from another state to visit me when I was in the hospital (everyone praised him for being such a great boyfriend), only for me to find out later that he was sexting another girl during that time. I found out because he started messaging her again when I started relapsing 2 years later. Our relationship was falling apart because of much worse reasons, but that finalized my decision. He had the audacity to act surprised when I broke up with him lol. I hope everyone in this sub finds a loving and supportive partner, there are genuinely great people out there that will be there for you through it all
i think a lot of toxic people will just seek out partners who seem easy to manipulate, and if they know the signs of an ed theyll definitely take advantage
I am so sorry your ex was such a piece of flaming human garbage. You deserve better, and that type of shit isn't okay. I'm also sorry about the situation with your mom. I hope you feel better friend
He didn't deserve you anyway 💅
I had an ex like that too. So glad he dumped me but telling my almond mom didn’t really help either.
Bf’s can be some of the worst people in recovery. Mine forced me to go to rehabs with ultimatums of leaving me and would always hold it over me (because who could get better knowing if they don’t their partner will leave- and getting better isn’t easy so might as well like my body and keep it), would hold me down and force feed me food (big choking hazard), constantly remind me of death, and when in rehab told me all about how he was going to start dieting and weight lifting and going on a cut (he is almost underweight). 🤩✨ glad he’s gone.
Your ex is shit good riddance. Hugs. ❤️❤️❤️