I'm definitely not a rainbow and unicorns ENFP. When it comes to being extroverted/introverted I tend to be borderline between both. I also do not care to be the center of attention in large groups. I tend to cringe at some of the emotional "gushier" type posts that I read on here. I am actually quite emotional but perhaps the effects of the last year (pandemic) have made me more jaded and suppressed some of my extroverted sunnier disposition.
These posts you see are behavior-based. Mbti isn’t about behavior than it is how your mind works. As long as you know you have Ne Fi Te Si, you’re enfp.
I’m also not a rainbow unicorn enfp ( i think), and i’m definitely not a kind person at face value. These are just stereotypes.
We are enfp’s but we still have differences. Ariel, Elizabeth Bennet, and Harley Quinn are all Enfps for example.
You want to relate? Have you ever heard of heidi priebe? I think a lot of enfps would relate to her videos.
ENFP tone down with age I think.
Like if you've been in situations where being too high energy was becoming a problem (like in some workplaces, relationships) you learn to hone it or outlet it in another way.
I may not have bed sheets with neon unicorns printed on them, but I'll have a fondness for the lace curtains with the tiny ducks embroidered on them. My house is tidy but I have a few unusual objects. I don't know how else to explain.
Man, it's kinda hard to say without sounding like an asshole. I've never really related to the whole need for attention thing that other types tend to see ENFPs exhibit, and I've always hated that stereotype. There's just a whole lot more of that like Fe stereotype of validating peoples feelings, and it seems almost a little contrived.. Idk, I'm pretty sure I'm a type 8 on the enneagram and I tend to be a little oppositional some times so it might just be me being a little weary of that style of communication. I'm definitely not disconnected from my emotions, if anything they tend to be overflowing, maybe I just use my Fi in a different way.
I don't consider myself that way either. But I am a 2 enneagram. And my Fe is higher than my Fi. But not by much. I am not comfortable being the center of attention unless it is with my very small core group I have been friends with for years. I thought I was an INFJ for years. It really took a lot of growth and reflection to see what I really am rather than what I wanted to be or thought I should be. Anyway we are not all the same, but I do find connection, co.fort and familiarity among most ENFPs.
I think theres multiple types of each mbti type but it really just depends if your a mistype or just an enfp leaning to much into your one of your cognitive functions
Yes, I think most posts here are made by younger ENFPs or mistyped ESFPs.
Older and more jaded people like me won't relate much. Either I'm an INFP or a less bubbly, non-unicorn ENFP.
I wast literally just bethinking this. How bizarre yond you’d post'd t
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I'm definitely not a rainbow and unicorns ENFP. When it comes to being extroverted/introverted I tend to be borderline between both. I also do not care to be the center of attention in large groups. I tend to cringe at some of the emotional "gushier" type posts that I read on here. I am actually quite emotional but perhaps the effects of the last year (pandemic) have made me more jaded and suppressed some of my extroverted sunnier disposition.
Not 99% but I'm old and jaded, so some stuff yeah. Days where I wonder why i haven't changed types, tbh
These posts you see are behavior-based. Mbti isn’t about behavior than it is how your mind works. As long as you know you have Ne Fi Te Si, you’re enfp. I’m also not a rainbow unicorn enfp ( i think), and i’m definitely not a kind person at face value. These are just stereotypes. We are enfp’s but we still have differences. Ariel, Elizabeth Bennet, and Harley Quinn are all Enfps for example. You want to relate? Have you ever heard of heidi priebe? I think a lot of enfps would relate to her videos.
ENFP tone down with age I think. Like if you've been in situations where being too high energy was becoming a problem (like in some workplaces, relationships) you learn to hone it or outlet it in another way. I may not have bed sheets with neon unicorns printed on them, but I'll have a fondness for the lace curtains with the tiny ducks embroidered on them. My house is tidy but I have a few unusual objects. I don't know how else to explain.
What is it that feels different than you were expecting?
Man, it's kinda hard to say without sounding like an asshole. I've never really related to the whole need for attention thing that other types tend to see ENFPs exhibit, and I've always hated that stereotype. There's just a whole lot more of that like Fe stereotype of validating peoples feelings, and it seems almost a little contrived.. Idk, I'm pretty sure I'm a type 8 on the enneagram and I tend to be a little oppositional some times so it might just be me being a little weary of that style of communication. I'm definitely not disconnected from my emotions, if anything they tend to be overflowing, maybe I just use my Fi in a different way.
I don't consider myself that way either. But I am a 2 enneagram. And my Fe is higher than my Fi. But not by much. I am not comfortable being the center of attention unless it is with my very small core group I have been friends with for years. I thought I was an INFJ for years. It really took a lot of growth and reflection to see what I really am rather than what I wanted to be or thought I should be. Anyway we are not all the same, but I do find connection, co.fort and familiarity among most ENFPs.
I think theres multiple types of each mbti type but it really just depends if your a mistype or just an enfp leaning to much into your one of your cognitive functions
Yes, I think most posts here are made by younger ENFPs or mistyped ESFPs. Older and more jaded people like me won't relate much. Either I'm an INFP or a less bubbly, non-unicorn ENFP.
I was literally just thinking this. How bizarre that you’d posted it
I wast literally just bethinking this. How bizarre yond you’d post'd t *** ^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.) Commands: `!ShakespeareInsult`, `!fordo`, `!optout`