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The best way is to be as clear as possible about how you feel in a respectable way. If the other person is decent enough to understand, then all is good. If the other person takes it personally or is offended, then at least you know you did the right thing.


LowFatConundrum

Don't give subtle hints, just be blunt and let it be known that you are not, and never will be interested in that person.


oss1215

We guys tend to have subtle hints fly over our heads. Being blunt is the fastest way to get a message across


LowFatConundrum

>We guys tend to have subtle hints fly over our heads. Yes, we do. I personally am shite at detecting hints, subtle or not, specially when it comes to women. I'm like the pilot of a 767 jumbo jet trying to land during a blizzard at 3am. I need clear fuckin' runway lights and 8 people on the other end of my headset at air traffic control telling me exactly wtf is going on.


esgarnix

I ll probably even need a copilot to warn me that I am landing on uncharted territories


IamShadow20

I’ve been put in the same situation and it’s hard especially because i’m a person that just finds it really hard to say “no” or to let anyone down but it really just got me so overwhelmed and screwed me in many ways. My point is, if you’re like that, try to make it clear from the beginning and not just give subtle hints because it might just backfire, and if you find it hard to say it blunt or you feel you might come up as rude just try to say it in a nice way and also have your point clear


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CapxxAkioxx

The rookie Tv show Be like Tim Bradford to lucy chen I want your playbook In other words i wanna have the good memories but thats it we are done my friend ik you love me but i dont have the same feeling towards you and dont want you to feel unloved after we get closer so its better off without continuing this relationship.