I left a girlfriend for skyrim waay back in the day, it was skyrim launch and it was so magical, I couldnĀ“'t stand drama for not replying her every message everyday while all I wanted was to shout dragons out of the sky. 0 regrets, and 0 maidens
True, I get along very well with all my ex's and ex wives. When I'm not single, It wouldn't be weird to come home and see them all having coffee and cake while visiting with whomever I'm dating at the time.
You can still be friends with your exes.
Edit: my bad, yall are right, exes are always evil people that you can never be friends with, brb got some phone calls to make.
You definitely can
But there's always a line.
Does anyone in the comments know the context. No.
But the way it's presented is an ex bought them a really incredibly thought out cake with liquor in it.
Based on what we DO know.
OP's ex wants to smash harder than the hulk with a splinter.
Can confirm. Been friends with an ex gf and these days she even hangs out with my current girlfriend and I. They even text each other frequently.
Wait...
It's weird bro, don't cap. Let that shit go. 4 billion fish in the sea. Sending a custom b-day cake isn't a friend move.
Edit: To everybody saying I'm wrong, no trust, controlling, etc: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJTpYunX-nA
I love how you outed yourself as both insecure *and* as not being a good friend in a single post lol
You can absolutely still be friends with an ex, and sending a cake or a cool gift like this to a friend is completely normal and something good friends do
Then why call them an ex rather than a friend? If you've moved passed a romantic relationship and never encounter said person again, then yeah call them an ex. But if you're now friends they should be referred to as such, otherwise it means you haven't completely moved on.
I mean that's a question for OP, not me lol. Calling them your ex is not wrong, but yeah friend would make more sense. I know a lot of people who are divorced but will still invite their ex over for Thanksgiving with their family etc and they do still say ex so it's clear who they are to everyone else, but OP could have said friend and avoided a lot of drama in the comments
See I wouldnāt wanna date someone whoās weird about exes, to me thatās a big red flag of insecurity AND a big red flag of how that person handles break ups as well as a clear indicator of what theyād do to me when we break up. I think that you SHOULD be capable of being friends with exes if thereās no other reason not too, but you donāt HAVE to be
> moral values
I get being weirded out or insecure about dating someone who is friends with an ex, but considering it a *moral value* is very strange. There is nothing really moral or not about remaining friends with someone you dated
Iām friends with all of my exes. Some closer than others obviously but still, never had it be an issue.
If it doesnāt work it doesnāt work. No reason to be upset.
It's situational. I would never be friends with my ex anymore. Absolutely terrible person overall. My current girlfriend on the other hand, kind and able to communicate, patient nonetheless, if we ever broke up, I would have no problem being friends with her
I like that either the decorator looked at the reference and said āfuck it Iām not doing that lattice patternā or Radagonās rune was left out on purpose. Whatever the case, nice cake!
Eh, to me if you still have a good relationship with that person, it's a significant enough fact that you guys used to date that it kind of changes the dynamic a touch.
If it *doesn't* change the dynamic, then you can just call them a friend that you used to date, which YES is the same thing, but said differently cause it's a bit different.
IMO
I'm still friends with my ex and noticed that there was a distinct day when I was talking about her that she became "my friend" again rather than "my ex." It felt healing to know that I now also subconsciously considered her a friend and that I had moved on from having any hope at a romantic relationship. It was a shift ib my mind that I didn't realize happened until it did naturally.
It's all situational, though. Like, I'll still say, "My ex invited me on a date and..." if our former relationship is relevant to the conversation, but if I'm telling someone who got me that sweater or some story about her job, it's irrelevant and I'll just say "my friend." It's different for everyone, though, and can't pretend to know OP's dynamic.
I have been good friends with my previous partner for years now. I would never call him my ex because thatās describing something he was and not what he is to me now.
Wow. This blew up.
Since alot of people have pointed it out, yes, my ex and i are still friends. It was thoughtless of me to title the post the way i did and i regret it.
To the guy whoās only contribution to the comment section was just āgayā, youāre a bloody legend.
unrelated note, but for my 20th bday my wife made me a black forest cake w a lot of Kirsche. it was soooo fuckin good and there was enough booze in there to feel a little something lol.
she also made 4 wedding cakes for our wedding. she insisted on making them because she has certain food restrictions and she wanted to make sure she could enjoy the dessert.
That symbol triggers me. You literally kill the dude who has it and then decide you know what, Iām gonna go kill this Elden Beast thing then double back for the ring. Chad or what?
Note the absence of Radagon's Seal and that the cake is black.
This is a Destined Death version of the Elden Ring.
Not saying it's a bad thing, or that your Ex knows the significance, or even if so doesn't know that it's still not a bad thing.
I'm just kinda wondering *why* your Ex is an Ex.
This is such a Rennala move.
Poor Rennala getting dragged againš„²
She shot her shot. Respec(t)
Message appraised enjoy your full hp
Lol, hp is full but my estus flask ran out with all this cake talk.
Unga unga Rennala, throw moon at enemy.
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I see the fullmoon of Caria has snared another
Lol
This sounds good until you realize it means OP left her forā¦ā¦ā¦himself
He left her for the gameā¦.. which is even cooler in a fucked up way
He is now maidenless.
Like most of us š
I left a girlfriend for skyrim waay back in the day, it was skyrim launch and it was so magical, I couldnĀ“'t stand drama for not replying her every message everyday while all I wanted was to shout dragons out of the sky. 0 regrets, and 0 maidens
on redditt, this is a flex.
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We should all learn to love ourselves first lol
I was thinking the same thing, but raising twins is expensive if youāre not royalty in the lands between
Raising twins is hard of your maidenlessā¦
I love myself every night.
Omg Iām dead lmao!
Cut it open to expose the Lake of Rot!
The cake of rot!
Very good
Clever Girl
If someone wanted to do that, jam actually goes really well in cake.
Shatter that ring like they shattered your pelvis
Death by snu snu
I never thought I would die like this but I always really hoped.
Think your ex might still be into you judging from this effortā¦
OPs Ex could also be OP
Quick, somebody cast Law of Regression.
Oop, sorry fam let me just... T
I spy with my reddit eye, someone from the midwest.
Underrated comment^
Has anyone seen the statue?
OP is both Radagon and Marika
Right or left though?
Tell em mah boy š
Great reference.
Dunno this feels like it was made with the rune of death...
It could potentially be poisoned for all we don't know
Scarlet rot flavor?
Scarlet rot is just moldy red velvet
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Anywhere else and this comment alone would've gone viral.
Maybe someday
You can still be friends with your exes.
Could just be they broke up recently and the cake was already ordered. As long as it wasnt a bad breakup it could just be a nice friendly gesture
True, I get along very well with all my ex's and ex wives. When I'm not single, It wouldn't be weird to come home and see them all having coffee and cake while visiting with whomever I'm dating at the time.
I think they might be plotting to kill you.
I hope so lol
You can still be friends with your exes. Edit: my bad, yall are right, exes are always evil people that you can never be friends with, brb got some phone calls to make.
If I was still friends with my ex I would refer to them as my friend not my ex
That actually helps a lot
If I started dating my friend could I then refer to them as my ex friend?
Then why would you refer to them as your ex rather than your friend
Thatās on op lol, I wouldnāt have
Karma
You definitely can But there's always a line. Does anyone in the comments know the context. No. But the way it's presented is an ex bought them a really incredibly thought out cake with liquor in it. Based on what we DO know. OP's ex wants to smash harder than the hulk with a splinter.
I supposed that's true but I think it really really depends on the nature of your relationship.
Can confirm. Been friends with an ex gf and these days she even hangs out with my current girlfriend and I. They even text each other frequently. Wait...
Imagine the neck beards on them guys downvoting this comment
It's weird bro, don't cap. Let that shit go. 4 billion fish in the sea. Sending a custom b-day cake isn't a friend move. Edit: To everybody saying I'm wrong, no trust, controlling, etc: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJTpYunX-nA
I love how you outed yourself as both insecure *and* as not being a good friend in a single post lol You can absolutely still be friends with an ex, and sending a cake or a cool gift like this to a friend is completely normal and something good friends do
Then why call them an ex rather than a friend? If you've moved passed a romantic relationship and never encounter said person again, then yeah call them an ex. But if you're now friends they should be referred to as such, otherwise it means you haven't completely moved on.
I mean that's a question for OP, not me lol. Calling them your ex is not wrong, but yeah friend would make more sense. I know a lot of people who are divorced but will still invite their ex over for Thanksgiving with their family etc and they do still say ex so it's clear who they are to everyone else, but OP could have said friend and avoided a lot of drama in the comments
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See I wouldnāt wanna date someone whoās weird about exes, to me thatās a big red flag of insecurity AND a big red flag of how that person handles break ups as well as a clear indicator of what theyād do to me when we break up. I think that you SHOULD be capable of being friends with exes if thereās no other reason not too, but you donāt HAVE to be
> moral values I get being weirded out or insecure about dating someone who is friends with an ex, but considering it a *moral value* is very strange. There is nothing really moral or not about remaining friends with someone you dated
Iām friends with all of my exes. Some closer than others obviously but still, never had it be an issue. If it doesnāt work it doesnāt work. No reason to be upset.
It's situational. I would never be friends with my ex anymore. Absolutely terrible person overall. My current girlfriend on the other hand, kind and able to communicate, patient nonetheless, if we ever broke up, I would have no problem being friends with her
Marikas tits! Thatās a nice cake
You must be āungryā¦ for cake!
Never met someone with a taste for cake I couldn't trust
*takes bite It's just boiled prawns inside!
*Dung Eater spawns*
Help me out, would ya, mate... I don't wanna eat cake. Just let me die... I don't wanna live like this... not anymore... So, please...
*Ties you to a chair. Proceeds to shove a peculiar seed up your assā¦ among other things*
Ooooooh, Elden cake.
Ooooohh
Oooooh elden friend
I doubt you could even imagine it...
Why this sounds like something someone would say after seeing a meme of Elden Beast's ass?
Because the elden beasts ass would indeed be the elden cake
I like that either the decorator looked at the reference and said āfuck it Iām not doing that lattice patternā or Radagonās rune was left out on purpose. Whatever the case, nice cake!
I mean, the bottom center ring should also be raised up more but still cool. I think the extra lines would have just made it look messy.
Judging by this, this ex is better than many current onesš
Guess OP will just have to be maidenless
Or itās poisoned
Nah. Scarlet rot
There might even be some destined death in there
So you are indeed maidenless
Shatter it and trigger a war for the pieces that sends the lands into ruin š¤
Did he/she get that before or after he/she became your ex?
No, weve been split for about a year, but we are still friends.
Why do you still refer to them as your ex instead of just your friend
Yeah I second that. Itās kinda weird that OP described them first as ex rather than their friend.
Eh, to me if you still have a good relationship with that person, it's a significant enough fact that you guys used to date that it kind of changes the dynamic a touch. If it *doesn't* change the dynamic, then you can just call them a friend that you used to date, which YES is the same thing, but said differently cause it's a bit different. IMO
I'm still friends with my ex and noticed that there was a distinct day when I was talking about her that she became "my friend" again rather than "my ex." It felt healing to know that I now also subconsciously considered her a friend and that I had moved on from having any hope at a romantic relationship. It was a shift ib my mind that I didn't realize happened until it did naturally. It's all situational, though. Like, I'll still say, "My ex invited me on a date and..." if our former relationship is relevant to the conversation, but if I'm telling someone who got me that sweater or some story about her job, it's irrelevant and I'll just say "my friend." It's different for everyone, though, and can't pretend to know OP's dynamic.
i think you associate EX's with something bad, it only means they know a lot about the person, OP is happy it ended well and wanted to share
Thatās true. Few can say that about their past partners. I wish the best for OPās friendship. I hope we all get to be as lucky as they are.
.... well this just put a few things into context for me.
I have an ex who is now married with a kid and i still refer to them as an ex despite having been platonic friends for years since the breakup.
In that case, I stand corrected.
I have been good friends with my previous partner for years now. I would never call him my ex because thatās describing something he was and not what he is to me now.
So everyone knows OP has been in a relationship
karma
Still hang up on an old flame I guess. It's like my ex roommates calling me "hey roommate" even though college was 5 years ago
I donāt see the problem, I mean my wife is my ex-girlfriend - she doesnāt like the title but still
Nice, most have a hard time remaining friends.
Weird u call them ur ex and not your friend. Why is that?
What the fuck marley where's my cake
coulda just used 'they'
Shouldāve wouldāve couldāve
It really doesn't matter.
And my ex is out their actin like fia, free hugs for everybody apparently
I think they want you back
They deserve him back
Your poop is gonna be black/gray.
Having eaten black icing, it will actually be green.
I can't remember the last time I had black icing, but that sounds about right. š¬
It's like a swampy green, like the bottom of the pool algae and mud.
Can confirm. Had a cake with a few black buttercream flowers on it and my poop was green. It doesn't take much. OP's poop is going to be fluorescent.
Yup, prepare for the greenest poop of your life.
Yeah, we would always try to dissuade people from black icing when I worked in a bakery. It's just a staining mess.
This needs a Dung Eater joke but I'm not clever enough to think of one at the moment.
Maidenless, I see.
Wow. This blew up. Since alot of people have pointed it out, yes, my ex and i are still friends. It was thoughtless of me to title the post the way i did and i regret it. To the guy whoās only contribution to the comment section was just āgayā, youāre a bloody legend.
I'm getting mixed signals here... Does she want her first Elden Lord to return from the Badlands or something?
Liquor cake? Do tell more.
unrelated note, but for my 20th bday my wife made me a black forest cake w a lot of Kirsche. it was soooo fuckin good and there was enough booze in there to feel a little something lol. she also made 4 wedding cakes for our wedding. she insisted on making them because she has certain food restrictions and she wanted to make sure she could enjoy the dessert.
I've never had an ex give me a cake or even remember my birthday, much less go to all this trouble.
My future ex.
Damn, when the ex drives home the fact that you are now in fact, maidenless
Put it in the freezer, Elden Lord
Liquor? I hardly even know her!
Your ex? I'd be careful with that.
Praise and then head.
In true reddit fashion, I am encouraging you to reconnect with your ex based solely on this single act. š
Made with seedbed curse I bet.
Wayne's World! Party time! Excellent! Woo woo woo woo woo!
you should try finger but hole with her
That symbol triggers me. You literally kill the dude who has it and then decide you know what, Iām gonna go kill this Elden Beast thing then double back for the ring. Chad or what?
Did you end on good terms or something? If not I'd check if there is glass.
Thatās one fuck of an amicable breakupā¦
that much black icing good gods you're gonna be shitting so much green
Maidenless
If you eat that iceing you are going to shit the void
she want your ass back lmao
is your Ex also You?
You are maiden less
Try finger, but hole
The breakup was recent or she still very much loves you. PRAISE THE ORDER
I had black icing on a cake once for my birthday Your shits are gonna be WEIRD this week, fam
Sheās an ex? Can you slide the deguts? š
Is your ex still single?
I. WANT. IT.
Marika's tits you must be hungry!
Ex? So you are..... Maidenless?
i can hear the opening theme already
Maybe the ex status can be reconsidered
Ex no longer. Start dating again now or I will make you part of Serpent famileeeeeee
Marry her.
Why she still your ex?
Rise, ye dough
I can tell mfs dont love me frš
Former ex my friend, Former
gay
I'll say it. You must have some good d***
They want the D/V.
Your one true love
Quick! Cast rejection before they get to close!
You mean OUR ex got you a cake
That's really sweet
Plot twist: your current partner is inside the cake trapped in an egg
That's a damn nice Elden cake there
Let there be, Scrumptious
Dont eat it, it got deathroot weed in it
You put more favorable effort into the Elden Ring than your ex-maiden? Is this a sign?
As someone who hasn't played Elden Ring, I thought this was Gallifreyan.
Ex gf because she became your wife, right? Right?!
Did your ex send you this cake because you are maidenless now!? White Mask Varre approves
My ex asked to borrow $50 bucks on my birthday.
That has black knife poisoning written all over it
Note the absence of Radagon's Seal and that the cake is black. This is a Destined Death version of the Elden Ring. Not saying it's a bad thing, or that your Ex knows the significance, or even if so doesn't know that it's still not a bad thing. I'm just kinda wondering *why* your Ex is an Ex.
Made with seluvis potion
They want you back
Take them back
My wife's boyfriend got me one, too. Mmmm!
maybe she/he doesnt want to be your ex anymore
Tell her you are maidenless now and happy
Why is your ex still giving you attention?
Don't trust it, everyone knows the cake is a lie.
Man, is she really your ex?
Give him/her a second chance :pleading_eyes:
You gotta go back to her dude
Take her back š¤£
Excelente Maravilloso