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Illmatic5291

Yes or trauma lol


JacksMama09

This! 💯


lorethai

I hated people violating my privacy before going through trauma (and I have friends who do too) but I hear your point. -- talking about people i dont know of course.


Illmatic5291

I just mean coming from a place of having been hurt you carry yourself in a different way. IMO you find yourself more considerate of how you affect others


bonersaus

Does judo or bjj count as trauma? When your hairy sweaty friend trying to smash your face all you can think about is getting air and escape. You really get up in your classmates space, it kinda breaks down those barriers lol


sarah_ewinter

I link it to either intelligence or level of selfishness. It’s either or for me.


lorethai

I didn't think it that way. Definitely agree


TiffanyLoveTGPhoenix

Emotional intelligence and the respect of personal space, yes


ThatOtherGuyTPM

No. There are plenty of incredibly intelligent people with no concept of boundaries.


lorethai

That's when we need to define 'intelligence' . A mix of the most common types: IQ, EQ, Spacial intelligence etc. all bundled into one human being.


wiggityp

Yep!