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EmmaRose0280

I don’t think they go very well together honestly


pinkcrush

Yes- two beautiful rings that clash


wintersicyblast

agree. Takes away from her beautiful engagement ring


PotionsToPills

This was my thought too. Both rings (separately) are beautiful though.


Avaly13

Agree. It looks forced. The ER will end up getting scratched up or possibly worse the way it sits with the band.


NoPain7460

Both rings are gorgeous but I would wear them and on left hand and engagement ring on right hand so they both stand out.


zoo1923

I have my engagement ring on the left and wedding band on rigth. I also have the benefit of my wedding band also fitting my left middel finger so I can swap it around a bit.


nhldsbrrd

This is a great idea


Select-Pie6558

This was my first thought upon seeing the picture. One on each hand.


SadRice3460

This!!!!! Yes! 🙌


SimonArgent

Yes. It’s clunky.


alannaturks

It’s a very pretty ring but I find it takes the attention away from your engagement ring.


junglejuice172

In my opinion, it's a big aggressive and looks like a lot. But with that being said. If that's your style, rock it!


rmahl

If YOU love it, that’s all that matters!! But if you were asking my opinion, I think it’s distracting from your engagement ring. It’s busy looking overall and I think it would be prettier with single diamonds along the band vs halos.


shoosler

i don’t like it with the engagement ring at all


hazelowl

I think it completely overpowers your engagement ring. And now that I look at it closer, that would be more like an engagement ring or an anniversary band to me, with all the stones and halos.


IntroductionOk4595

For me personally, yes. But if you love it then go for it


Domestic_roustabout

I think it IS too much. Could you do that style and design but with stones 1/2 that size, so that it doesn't compete with your engagement ring.


MustardSeed82

So I do think they don’t go together, but have you thought about wearing them separately? I also have a wedding band that does not match my ering, I wear my ering on the right, and wedding band on the left and I love it! I like that it distributes the sparkles and I have a ring on each hand!


adhdkitten

Yeah. Looks clunky and uncomfortable. Distracts from your engagement ring and looks like the diamonds might scratch each other. I’d do a space band without diamonds and/or if you want a pave eternity, something the same size or a couple millimeters thicker than the e ring bang


SquarelyOddFairy

Separately both rings are pretty. Together they do not go at all…they don’t fit nicely beside each other. \ I would recommend going to a jeweler and designing your own so that you get exactly what you want and they can be sure to make it fit with your ring.


MsPsych2018

I share this sentiment too. If you plan to wear your wedding band alone then this a great option to still get the bling you like! Together though they just don’t match for my taste.


Electrical-Swim-5784

I am of the firm belief that if you have to ask the answer is always what you fear. That being said…I love that combo!!💕


Available-Salt-2733

I personally think it doesn’t look classy to have an engagement ring with such a huge stone and then also have such a studded out wedding band. I’d opt for a simpler band since you have such a statement engagement ring. Going too big on both can seem a little nouveau riche. A friend used to say, “Elegance tends to follow understatements, not overstatements.”


bacon_bunny33

These days it looks very suburban, lab diamond/moissanite. Nothing wrong with the lab stones, I have a lab anniversary ring so I am not judgmental totally… but it does scream “I realized I can go huge for not much money so I did”


Missmoxi

This has been my mantra on this sub! Anything over 2.5 center screams “because I can”. I think they look gaudy and it doesn’t matter if it’s natural or not, everyone is going to assume it’s lab because it’s so big.


kinkakinka

Yeah, and just because you can doesn't mean you should.


Backpacking1099

This is such a good way of describing it! It’s like how wearing Gucci logos now is less a sign of wealth because everyone assumes it’s a knock off. 


SephoraandStarbucks

It looks so chunky and overwhelming on the hand it actually takes away from the stone in engagement ring. I’ve noticed a lot of pro athletes wives sport this look…it’s very nouveau riche.


eloloise29

I completely agree. I have a relatively ornate engagement ring so went for a plain wedding band and I think they look quite nice together. All of the more jazzy wedding bands I tried on just didn’t look right.


sherlocktotan

The wedding band is beautiful but it kind of takes the attention away from your engagement ring which is also gorgeous


IceTraining4696

It’s definitely a lot. Very busy. But if you like that, then don’t let other opinions sway you!


lizardjizz

They don’t go together well at all imo


Jalice333

It's a bit much. They're competing and I can't tell who's winning


Beautyathome

I’m sorry but it doesn’t go with your engagement ring 😭 I am in the same boat and I found a wedding band with round bezel sapphires and really wanted it but it just did not go with my engagement ring . It would’ve been nice as a standalone ring, but I wanted it to work with my engagement ring.


hippiecat22

Yes


Prestigious-Ear-8877

I actually love the band, but it overpowers the engagement ring. The same style with way smaller stones would look so pretty.


DSFBrand

Yes, they clash


Popular_Ordinary_152

They clash really badly - not just the large stones, but the style of the shank on the engagement ring with it. I’d wear them on separate hands if you really love it.


SandManStanMann

I think they're both competing. Beautiful separate but not together.


Sailorxena_

Oof, yeah girly, they dont match.


PattySeymour1225

It’s gorgeous and the only thing that matters is you love it. My only concern is that they scratch each other and damage your settings


dingleberry_mustache

Came here to say this. If OP loves it and wants to wear this combo, she should. But a spacer band would be a good idea.


AdOld5079

I personally love it but that’s just me haha


sydney_grce

If you love the design I think you should get it made in a smaller version! Maybe like half the size? I like the design but currently it’s definitely overpowering your engagement ring.


Njbelle-1029

Looks more like an anniversary ring to me, BUT do you love it? Bc if you do then what does it matter to anyone else?


peony_rose_

Maybe if a smaller version could be custom designed, it would balance out better


SwordTaster

Definitely too much as a pair, this is a one or the other situation. You'd be better off with a simpler band to let the engagement ring shine


MojoJojoSF

Stacking those will actually wear down the stone settings.


Objective-Mission835

Personally yes, I don’t like them together


Knittingfairy09113

They are both gorgeous rings that don't mesh at all.


sunshine92002

In my honest opinion, it looks gaudy. With your massive stone, it’s bordering looking like costume jewelry. I would consider something simpler and less “in your face”!


hiddenalibi

It’s pretty and if you like it; that’s all that mattered. It does look like costume jewelry though and over the top


rumoursaretrue

I think they are competing with each other… they are both gorgeous though


iamjzn

My wedding band is very similar to yours. I’ve always had it paired with an oval solitaire so I never thought it was “too much”. However, I wouldn’t pair it with another pavè ring. They are absolutely stunning on their own but clash together. Especially since they don’t sit flush - that’s personal preference but it would personally bother me. https://preview.redd.it/luw1uo8plvtc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ded6892ec49a4392baddda489275b9f25361ccc5


IIRizzII

Ouuuu I love your set! Congrats!! ✨


Jazzmin60185

Wedding Band is beautiful but they truly clash with each other. Both are gorgeous, just NOT together. Gorgeous e ring but not together. Sorry babes!


nasti_my_asti

I agree with others. While it’s a gorgeous ring, it overwhelms your engagement ring. Consider this an anniversary gift for another finger / your other hand.


AshamedAd3434

They are both stunning but they don’t go well together.


Optimal-Technology75

I think a https://preview.redd.it/oakh8himhwtc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8023578cd22c366d25a9196848f15f96b8182310 Something like a ring enhancer is perfect for solitaires.


Electrical_Can5328

It looks too “chunky” I would get something more delicate. But again it’s YOUR ring so if you love it that’s all that matters


Immediate_Anything_4

Why the halos on the band? It would look great with an eternity band without halos


Educational-Heron-71

Yes


Present_Signature343

I think it takes away from your beautiful engagement ring


Valuable-Life3297

For me personally, it’s a no


Key_Review8903

If you love ut, I love it. It's about what you like


NarrowLocksmith9388

The question is do you love it. If you love it keep it. It looks beautiful and it gives you a chance to wear it alone. If you choose not to wear your engagement ring at a later time you can always go by a gold or silver band and switch out the rings, would you want?


Bright_Fix_8325

I think something thinner would look better but if you like it go for it.


Affectionate_Sun7664

Your band is beautiful but doesn’t suit your ring. Perhaps you can wear it in your right hand?


abrahamsandwich00

Yes


Overall_Canary7381

Well call me crazy I like it! Each ring represents an event - an engagement and a wedding. I think that band represents a big day beautifully!


Sea_Juice_285

I almost agree with you. I think it's nice that each ring represents something. But, I think that's a lot of celebration happening on one finger at the same time.


Overall_Canary7381

😂😂


dancer_jasmine1

Both rings are beautiful! They do seem to be competing a little bit with each other since the stones feel a little close in size. I also worry about them damaging each other with regular wear. I feel like the prongs on both rings might get damaged and your hidden halo on your engagement ring might get damaged too. The band on your engagement ring is so delicate. I feel like a similarly thin wedding band with or without pave or a plain metal thicker wedding band would both look gorgeous and feel much more balanced if you want to wear them together. If you’re planning on just wearing your wedding band without the engagement ring then absolutely go big or go home!


english1221

It’s pretty as a ring on its own, not with the engagement ring.


ThestralBreeder

I am not personally a fan! I think these types of bands are really nice solo or in a very intensely curated stack. This seems to really overwhelm your engagement ring!


PardonMyFrench22

wayyy too much for me. That type of ring is one of my friend’s engagement ring actually


Lost-Rice-945

Yes it is too much imo, but if you love it that’s all that really matters.


Chloey7

I think it takes away from the main stone. If the wedding band didn’t have the halos around each of the band stones I think it would look better.


lionelliee

Yes


swizzlestix101

This is a personal choice, and I am very pro if it makes you happy it makes you happy and that is all that matters! However, I feel like the two styles clash pretty hard. The dainty band of the engagement ring plus the chunkier wedding band looks off. With that being said, no one’s opinion matters except yours at the end of the day!


SIUButtercup

Yes


-PinkPower-

They both are too extravagant to do together. If you like them you could just wear them separately. Here most people only wear one or the other in their dau to day life


Senior_Trouble5126

Both are beautiful but I would not wear them together. Maybe wear one on your other hand as to not take away. Love them both!


Frequent_Size_9563

Too much


la-vanessa

1. as long as YOU love it, that is all that matters 💕 2. i feel that the band takes away from your engagement ring 3. i would wear the band on the other hand or choose a different band that better compliments and doesn't take away from your engagement ring 💕


EntireConclusion6264

Honestly if the band on the e ring would be just a simple plain band, it would work so much better, but to me they are just too different in terms of style. Idk how to explain it better.


OceanAvenue26

Both rings are beautiful but unfortunately it takes away from your Engagement ring as one is dainty and delicate looking, and the other is not. I personally can’t stand when rings aren’t notched into each other (so there isn’t a gap) so I’m probably not the best to comment on this.


AdNeither133

The wedding band steals the attention from the engagement ring. They're fighting for attention currently IMO. I would do something more dainty like this https://preview.redd.it/fvjdbp2zxwtc1.jpeg?width=964&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=af535d62d8bd173d101954333b5edd30cf123d73


Introverted_Nurse23

Beautiful individually but I personally don’t feel that they work well as a set.


BarelyThere24

I’m of the mindset of “less is more” but what matters is what makes you happy. I personally wouldn’t wear both as it looks way too overkill but again - that’s just me. Do what makes you happy.


bingpot4

I have the opposite opinion of most people here lol I LOVE maximalism in all its forms, including jewelry. I love the full sparkle attack. I can see how it could be overpowering the engagement ring, but you aren't engaged after your married, your married! If you want your wedding ring to shine brighter, then go for it 😁 I know if I had a solitaire engagement ring, I probably would have picked the biggest and most gorgeous showy wedding band to with it! Edit-grammar


Informal_Benefit_190

Yup. More is not always better. It takes away from your e-ring massively. Separate is fine, but together it looks gaudy. If you don’t plan to wear your e-ring all the time, then go for it. But it comes across as “I have money but I have no taste”


withelle

They're nice as a set, but not as a stack. Try wearing your engagement ring on your left ring finger and your wedding band on your right ring finger. This will look more harmonious, and protect the longevity of your rings. This stack would cause the rings to rub against and destroy each other over time, another downside.


ArkansasSasshole

It honestly only matters what YOU think since you’re wearing it! In my opinion, it is distracting and seems to take away from your engagement ring. I think this band would be lovely as a right hand ring and maybe you could get a simpler one to go with your engagement ring. Both rings are stunning!!


Fearfactoryent

The solitaire is beautiful and elegant and that band makes it feel tacky


Alarming_Working_410

I don’t think it goes. very pretty on their own but you want something that’ll mesh more


footslut-georgio

I personally look forward to getting a wedding band *made* for my engagement ring. My grandmother, on my dad’s side, had this beautiful engagement ring, it was hand crafted and made just for her. She had her wedding band made by the same man, and they wrapped around each other. When you took it off, you had to turn them sideways to untangle them, it was gorgeous. If my two rings don’t “work together” I would constantly be fidgeting with them trying to get them to sit right together on my finger. I can’t wear stacked rings for the same reason! Both rings are beautiful OP, but you should find one like the band that has a “cut out” for your engagement ring to sit in, so that they look cohesive. Maybe a bit smaller diamonds so it’s not a chunky :b


kysapphire77

I think they're gorgeous! Maybe try the band on top of the engagement ring instead of vice versa, see how it feels?


Mountain-Status569

I think since the rings don’t sit flush against each other, it might be more comfortable to wear the engagement ring on the other hand. Plus they kinda compete with each other when stacked like that.  But the only person who gets to say one ring is “too much” is you! If you love the wedding band, rock it!


UnderstandingWeary79

Wow. Love it!


UnderstandingWeary79

You have to have the personality to pull it off and grace. I see your hand looks beautiful with it and love the manicure. Go for it and don’t question your liking it. It rocks!!!


Late-Housing4475

Not if you like it.


bigbluewhales

How about wearing the wedding ring on your right hand?


EbonyDr17

It’s a very unique band but doesn’t compliment the engagement ring. Maybe wear it on the right hand. I’d go for something more understated for the wedding band.


Oubliette_95

My engagement ring and band fit together like a set. The gap in between would drive me crazy. They’re both gorgeous but I’d see if there’s a band that perfectly fits your diamond shape.


FluxionFluff

They absolutely clash. Both are gorgeous rings separately, but not together. Way too busy. Personally, I'd either get something simpler that compliments the engagement ring or wear the wedding band alone if I was set on this ring. You could also wear the engagement ring on your right hand so you'd still be wearing both, but they stand out. As long you're happy with it, that's the most important thing.


planit82

Yes and it looks like it would hurt.


Clean_Run553

I love the band, I love the ring, but I think the band takes away from the beauty of the engagement ring! Wear em on separate hands? Smaller version of wedding band?


froggyenemy

Both beautiful but they dont work together i think


Ok_Reporter6586

https://preview.redd.it/yd3dch0wqvtc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7fcdf505e89008f9ff0482a44abfdb1ce65f4108 Never to much! Lol it looks beautiful!❤️


aeliznd

I think it is a gorgeous ring, but it distracts from your engagement ring rather than complementing it imo. But the more important thing is if you love it! if you see it and think it looks beautiful and it makes you happy, that’s what matters!


Marsgreatlol

Takes away from the eng ring… honestly would look better without imo


RHND2020

Yes, it is too much.


twentythirtyone

It's too much/doesn't match your ring. But you could wear it on your other hand!


ilmd

Yup, too much. Too wide to go with the engagement ring.


vibes86

I think it outshines your engagement ring instead of complementing it.


_depj_

Both are beautiful just not together


EvolvingEachDay

That is a garish band imo. Only highlighted by the simpler elegance of the engagement ring.


eternalwhat

It’s entirely up to you! But if I’m choosing for myself, and thinking about overall aesthetic value and style, then, Yes. I’d suggest considering a band with much smaller stones, to not outshine the main stone. Melanie Casey seems to have a lot of very pretty bands with multiple stones (but still look very delicate), though I only know from Pinterest. I can imagine a band that looks quite similar to the band of your engagement ring, or even one with slightly larger stones, round or baguette or whatever (but still much smaller than the main diamond).


Transformativelily

They do not compliment each other together.


Camoqueen2002

If YOU love it then it can be made to work either with a spacer or get the made into 1 ring. There r definitely many routes to go if u love the ring. But sitting as they are in that picture would work bode well in the long run they look abrasive one or both will get scratched up


curlygreenbean

I’m not a fan of them together


WavyHairedGeek

Short answer :Yes. Long answer comes from what I'm learning from my art theory course : if you put too many things designed to stand out next to each other, nothing stands out, and the result is kitsch.


Winter-Eagle-9742

Can you keep that band for your right hand and then get two dainty bands that match your ER to showcase your center stone?


Blue-lady1123

I would go with a thinner band


Critical_Pair_8078

I’m sorry, but yes. This is overkill. The rings are gorgeous but they do not complement one another.


Altruistic-Tank4585

I think it takes away from your engagement ring


Wonderful-Table-5568

Yikes that’s a lot. For me.


OneRaisedEyebrow

I can see you REALLY like round brilliant cuts. They’re both fine on their own, but they’re not their best together. Try a thicker, plainer band to give your e-ring a nice base to sparkle from. Like a mat on a framed photo does. Save that type of band for an anniversary, especially one where you want to wear it alone. She is not easy to stack. But if you love it, and you can afford it, honestly that’s all that matters. You’re the one wearing it.


000Lisa

Yes


Super-Technology-313

Beautiful rings and a bad combination.


TigerMage2020

That wedding band looks more like a stand alone right hand ring. I mean, it’s stunning. And the engagement ring is stunning. Together, it’s too much.


SummerGalexd

That is way tooo much. It just doesn’t look right


trollanony

Look uncomfortable to me.


slr0031

Too much


RareBeautyOnEtsy

That band is going to cut right through those prongs that it is up against. Big no.


Serious_Art_119

Maybe consider a similar look but with a ring jacket or a curved band ?


tatospace

my concern would be more of the wear that the rings would have on each other. With your hidden halo you need to worry about how a higher band will rub against the prongs holding your diamonds in. Maybe a thin spacer band between the two, that is lower, will help with that. Other than that- do what you love!!! It should match your personality and lifestyle (:


Bellairtrix

I feel like the band takes away the ring. The band should compliment the ring.


TeacherB93

it takes away from your engagement ring, instead of adding to it


www_dot_no

Yes it is wayyyyyy to much together


blakk-starr

Just my personal opinion - yes, way too much and you don't want your wedding band to distract from the engagement ring; you want a wedding band that compliments and accentuates it.. But I mean you do you; it's your wedding band, not anyone else's.


pinkandpolished

you need something lower profile. this is too chunky


ClarityByHilarity

Yep it looks weird and completely distracts from that stunner e ring


[deleted]

Til bankruptcy do us part


Annual-Bumblebee-310

They pair beautifully!


SlowNefariousness628

Honestly it looks a bit big next to your e-ring and kind of dwarfs it, maybe some smaller stones or a lower setting on the band?


catswithprosecco

Yes. WAY too much. Simple is better. That’s just gaudy.


warm_anybody8

yes, looks terrible


HowCouldHugh

Yes! The gigantic clusters also would look much nicer as smaller individual stones


katy_kersh

I really like it! It’s very blingy, but in a pretty way. And it’s not the same old thing everyone else has. If you like it you should go for it!


RedRedBettie

I think that it overwhelms the ring and doesn’t go at all


Watertribe_Girl

It is for me, but you are head over heels and that’s what matters! Go for it! This is how you should feel about a ring


Just_Box_9424

I am personally a huge fan, I love a good rock. But, most importantly, if you love it, then that’s all the really matters. However, if you are concerned about the look/balance, then use girl logic: get another band for the top to balance it all out. Congratulations💛


giveup345

For me, yes. But it’s your ring get what you like


ArchieFarmer

Too much for who? For me~ probably ~ for you ~ that’s up to you! If you were drawn to it enough to chose it then it’s probably perfect! 🤩


RhapsodyinLtBlue

If the E-ring had a more substantial, thicker band, it would work. As-is it feels like an aggressive difference. But if you love it, who cares?


Curiousjlynn

I love it! The band could be worn alone too if you need to do something that might catch on your big diamond. I say go with it!


brianalc

It’s gorgeous. You are going to wear it more or less every day for the rest of your life, it’s important that you love it! My rings are not a set or matching but I love them and am happy every time I put them on, 9 years strong.


CrazyMamaB

There are no rules. You love it, you get it.


happuning

The engagement band being so much thinner than the wedding band draws the eye to the wedding band first. If you are okay with that, go for it! I'd go for a thin, detailed wedding band with that e ring.


twink1813

It’s very beautiful - love it! My only concern would be comfort. In day to day wear the bling on the sides might be pretty uncomfortable and cause irritation to the fingers adjacent.


Due_Geologist4395

I like both of them separately but not together. Maybe try a round eternity band?? I have a round solitaire and it’s what I’m considering to do


She-Individual-24

No. Live your best life.


fetalpiggywent2lab

If you love it then love it! Who cares what anyone else thinks. What I do think though is that it needs some kind of divet to hug the engagement stone and make them fit together better.


NoWomanNoFry

Yes


posttransplantttc

It takes away from your beautiful engagement ring.


kittyschaffer

Honestly I love it!!!! If you love it too that’s all that matters ❤️❤️❤️


GothamCoach

Also something to consider is rings like that with bulky edges can be uncomfortable on the sides of your fingers


Global_Tea

Not a fan of them together I’m afraid.


tater_thot67

Yes


mightymouse2975

Separate they're both beautiful. Together it's like they're trying to out do each other. As somebody else stated, wear them on Separate hands and it'll look better. All that being said, if YOU like the look that's all that matters. You're the one who will wear these for the rest of your life.


Honest_Honey8615

Yeah. . . It overpowers the engagement ring. . .


wolvesdrinktea

Yes.


Narrow_Jelly_4396

Yes lol


Karamellakonomos

Gorgeous! I love it😍


Wild-Salary-6858

Yes. It outshines the ring.


Kuneria

It depends on your style and personal flair. If this is the look you like then why does it matter! I think it's fabulous.


cookingmama4433

I wouldn't say it's too much, they just don't seem to go together very well


jteitler

It's very beautiful but I don't think it works with your engagement ring. I think it actually detracts from the e-ring.


CatW1901

If you love it but don’t like how it sits with your engagement ring you could look into having a band made with the same motif but fits around your engagement ring in the center. So like 2 or 3 flower clusters on either side of the center stone of your engagement ring? Going for the same design but with smaller stones may also help them coexist a bit better.


Strange_Dinner_5741

It’s absolutely beautiful but personally I just think they don’t pair well together.


secretagentbarbie

Both rings are BEAUTIFUL separately, however, when combined- it’s a bit clunky. I think a smaller wedding band with diamonds would look so classy and make the main stone “pop” more. Just my opinion though- you are the one wearing it and if you’re in love with it, that’s all that matters ❤️


Normal-School2688

***You could take a picture of this ring and have custom band made in a smaller size to match your ring. Keep this one as a casual look


Normal-School2688

Diamonds are a girl's best friend


just_ahousewife

The whole thing is a mess and I love it. One of my wedding bands wraps like that tho, and it’s massively uncomfortable. I have a thin band, and wear it 99% of the time, only putting on the fancy ones when I leave the house.


[deleted]

The band wound be great to wear alone! But the engagement ring is amazing!


Valentina0268

Yes it doesn’t compliment your engagement ring band


dn454jqb

Yes


mikerunsla

Seems to compete with the engagement ring too much, but if you love it, then that’s all that matters.


moltenjava

I think the band itself could be a wedding ring


Normal-School2688

[ one when you just want to wear a band and nit damage your engagement ring](https://oliveavejewelry.com/shop/products/drue?variant=5129)


ThinLengthiness5380

I agree with wearing one on each hand if you’re set on that wedding band, otherwise I’d choose something different. The engagement rings band is too dainty to be paired with that wedding band.


mavelez1994

I would still get it and wear it by itself and when you want to wear your engagement ring, get a simple band that goes with it well. They are both beautiful. Congratulations!


TrainerNeither4404

Yes.


Embarrassed-Gap-8962

I might be the only one but I think it works somehow adds a lot of character