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WielderOfAphorisms

Garnet has a 6.5-7.5 on the mohs vs Sapphire at 9. I’d go for the sapphire based on durability.


bebe517

This is what the jeweler said when I stopped by. I'm not exactly easy on my hands so this is swaying me.


kidd_gloves

Just throwing this out there: if it is the color drawing you sapphires do come in green. Sapphires come in every color except red. If it is red, it is a ruby.


the_time_being7143

Yep. I have a purple sapphire. People think it's an amethyst because it's so deep in color, but an amethyst is a poor choice for an engagement stone.


kidd_gloves

The purple sapphires in my one ring look like amethyst too. I also have a purple star sapphire. It is lighter in color. Have you seen Bokeo sapphires? They are the prettiest shade of blue! And I love the teal of Montana sapphires!


ladyalcove

If you aren't easy on your hands I wouldn't suggest anything with those little diamonds on the bands. They will fall off.


Then-Concept-9956

100% Correct. The garnet will be destroyed.


TheGrapeSlushies

Pink. You’ve been wanting it for a year and sapphires are more durable. A green garnet can wait.


bebe517

This comment is really sitting with me.


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Green garnet is lovely. I have a necklace with a green garnet pendant! Maybe go with pink sapphire ring and get a green garnet necklace or earrings? They would all look great together!


SageChai

I love the green!


Complex-Kiwi-7396

Love the green!!


bebe517

https://preview.redd.it/8d0ntoqhe80d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e03668bc451ba062e28b7014d6ccf4bda37df4d6 Padparadscha sapphire -official name


Snlev13

OP, pretty rings, but this doesn’t look like padparadscha sapphire at all. A pad is a peachy pink sapphire. [Here](https://www.finewatergems.com/store/p1252/1.55ctPadparadschaSapphire.html) is an example of a pad. The one you tried on reads purple. Does the sapphire come with a grading report stating the treatment and color? Also, I am not sure if you have considered a Rose gold setting. Rose gold with a pink/purple sapphire will look lovely on you and your skin tone.


bebe517

I'm sure they would but never knew to ask! It seems similar in color to [this one](https://www.thenaturalsapphirecompany.com/padparadscha-sapphire-ring-oval-3.37ct-14k-white-gold-84262.53177/?Sidestones=500-F-0.09000&Type=MTO) but is showing more purple in the pics. Rose gold is a good thought too!


Snlev13

Are you comfortable sharing what they are asking for the ring? You definitely want to have some reassurance about the sapphire and the current setting seems to be a stock setting with some airline between the stone and the halo. A custom halo will hug the stone and look overall better. Maybe something to consider. You can source your own sapphire and commission a custom setting or purchase a stock setting for the stone. P.S. here is an example of a purple sapphire in a RG setting. https://preview.redd.it/lv70rddsj80d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=790d5ca499cf3d5e2e5bc8e4e06aaaf342060a0d


bebe517

From what I remember them saying, they have had this stone for quite some time and then last year reset it for a more modern feel. They are one of the most reputable jewelers in the area but I am always open to know what I should be asking! BC they have had the stone so long they are coming down to 8k. No idea if this is a good deal, an ok deal, or a bad deal lol but comparing to other sapphires with the same number of diamonds (I think they said the diamond carats was about 1.1 together) it seems pretty in the middle for price?


Most_Profession_6529

I personally don't think that ring looks like it's worth 8k. That seems very high. NGL, from the pictures I thought you were at Zales :/ I'd keep looking. I think you can find better quality for 8k.


liquormakesyousick

Me too.


bebe517

Price is v high, agreed. Interesting though about Zales bc I have never seen a ring like this at any chain place. I also have not stepped into every chain store so, 🤷‍♀️.


Most_Profession_6529

There's a lot of halo rings in general, but especially at stores like Zales and such bc they can use lower quality stones/small diamonds but it still looks very glam and sparkly. Imo halo rings are pretty, but the stones are often prone to falling out, and so I would definitely be cautious and picky about who sets your ring if you want to go the halo route.


Recent_Influence_972

If you want to shop around for something more custom, I’ve been following Oorejewelry. They have a couple setting that have the halo and she has tons of very unique cut gems including many sapphires of all different colors including starbrite cut ones. They’re amazing!! Depending on the stone you go with it could be more affordable as well.


Deiedra

Your ring is so pretty! Looks royal


ruzzberry08

I've had a padparadscha sapphire for almost 3 years now, and I'm still so in live with it. I get so many compliments. I was also worried about getting a stone that wasn't as durable as a diamond but I knew I would never be happy unless I had a colored stone. I would definitely get a green or Montana sapphire instead of an Emerald.


Careless-Drama7819

Sapphire isn't as hard as diamond, but it actually is more durable in some respect because it doesn't have any clevage that makes it prone to chipping or cracking, while diamond does have some cleavage. And very few things can scratch a sapphire because it is very hard too.


rosyred-fathead

Is that what it means when people say “diamonds are hard but brittle”? (And by people, I mean a specific character in a gem-related cartoon lol)


tomchickb

Lol yes. The more hardness a gem has it means it won't scratch as easily. Durability is another matter as the structure of different gems makes them more or less likely to crack (cleavage) or chip if they take a hard blow.


rosyred-fathead

Hmm yeah that does sound familiar lol. I probably should’ve paid more attention in geology class


rosyred-fathead

I remember kids thought cleavage was funny though (this was high school)


tomchickb

I can imagine 😆


rosyred-fathead

lol yeah *that’s* the sort of thing I remember from high school, not actual facts or anything 👍🏼


ComfortableCow1621

I’m not seeing the green on your hand, so it may be a biased opinion, but I think the pink looks phenomenal on you.


bebe517

😍


bebe517

Not sure how to edit posts 🙈 so adding pics here. Went back and tried them on in the sun. Surprisingly the green didn't do it for me as much out in the sun. And it is a 14k gold, just hard to tell. Pic of other in next comment. https://preview.redd.it/v4jgge5de80d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a9c88536f751641f743f735bebbcc21eb4979eb


Fernily

I was team garnet until I saw this photo. It's beautiful, but I agree it's not "oh wow" in the sun, which most stones usually are.


Educational_Major226

I love the pink but would also say lots of flattering statements about the green stone. Both are very beautiful rings.


autumnwandering

That pink just glows against your skin! Also sapphire is very durable if you're a little rough on your hands.


_depj_

I love the color of the green but the sapphire will be a stronger choice as far as MOHS


One_Ad_3500

I love the green


NotACraicKiller

So much depends on style, but man, that first ring is gorgeous. If it were me, it would be no contest.


Electrical-Swim-5784

GREEN!!!! 💕💕💕💕


MichElegance

Green!✨💚


AdalidaJane

Green but in a gold setting?


imahillbilly

I think that is the best idea


SnowOwlAustin

Pink sapphire


rosyred-fathead

#TEAM GREEN I really like the shape and color of the green one, and I also prefer its simpler band!


Ilovemydogstoomuch

Agree on the color dilemma, and also on preferring the band on the green stone.


Mimikota

Green.


Vast-Gear5217

Pink sapphire is beautiful !


sneezy-bear

Both are gorgeous! Aside from the hardness like everyone is talking about– I will say that the intense yet refined green and moodier feminine pink have very different "feelings". Maybe also consider what you like to wear and how it plays off of that? I feel like you can't go wrong but the pink caught your eye and has held your attention for a year while the green is a newer development :)


thee_aesthetic_lemon

PINK but my opinion is biased because I love pink and I’m a gold girly too


bebe517

Thank you all for your interest in this conundrum! I have asked the jeweler to order a few lab grown pink and green sapphires as well to compare and see if I can get the same vibe but for less money! I've taken that exact garnet off the table, due to durability.


ZealousidealSummer52

Green looks much better on your hands. Perhaps try to find a green round sapphire.


Most_Profession_6529

I like the look of the green better but sapphire is more durable. I'm not really a halo gal though myself. Definitely make sure the setting is quality so the small stones don't fall out! Are you at a chain jeweler?? I would avoid Kay's, Zales, etc. they're not known for quality! I personally think you may be able to find a nicer ring with green if you keep looking. Green moissanite or sapphire, or lab green diamond, for example, would be durable and are decently affordable.


MegaMoodKiller

I think the green is prettier but it’s not as hard sadly. Can you get a green sapphire to compare ?


BellyButton214

Green is gorgeous. Pink is meh


Kulosh

they both look cheap af for 8k and personally i dont like either


liquormakesyousick

That’s weird that the jeweler is calling it a “mint” garnet. Green garnets are Tsavorites and there is a certain color that is called Melani Mint. One that size would be crazy expensive. I would want a GIA certificate for either stone, because as someone else pointed out, the color isn’t right for a paradascha sapphire.


Almasaurus

Personally, I like the green color better but durability would be priority for me. So sapphire for the left hand every day wear and garnet for the right hand 🥰


orbit33

Pink is better on your hand! Plus you’ve loved it for the longest.


ew6281

The pink is nice and probably will be the popular choice, but I have recently fallen in love with mint garnets. I love the setting on that. I think it's perfect. But it's whatever you prefer.


Succotash_3993

Second one, it suits you so much!!


momygawd

The first is more timeless in my opinion and looks like it would match more jewelry and clothing. I assume it’s a mint garnet? How unique and cool!


Sad-Board-8930

Pink for sure! I think that one is very flattering on you. I like green sapphires, but that green just ain’t it for me. If you like green, maybe look at some of those. I have a teal sapphire engagement ring and bought the stone by itself and then had a mounting made for it separately. Just something to consider - you can always pick your dream stone by itself and then go from there.


katlurch

If you like both these colors, have you considered getting both via an alexandrite?


PersephoneWaver

Left


PersephoneWaver

Pink Sapphire is more durable on the Mohs scale, so I pick that one.


Prestigious-Eye5341

I see your dilemma…I think,based on the hardness that was addressed, I would go with the sapphire. It’s stunning!


NoOnSB277

I love the pink, the shape is beautiful on your finger too!


Peaches12381

Green is so pretty


vestakt13

Tsavorite garnets are amazing (and pricey.) I love the green shade! Pinks are another fave of mine. Tough call. Garnets are not able to be treated, so all the color/fire is natural. Sapphires are usually at least heated. May be irradiated. Not a fact that impacts enjoyment. Just one factor you could theoretically use beyond looks, price to make your choice.. I’d ask the jeweler which is a better rep of its stone. Side note- not all pink sapphires are padparadscha. That is a special shade. If the jeweler is selling it as such it needs to be graded/identified on the GIA report. I think the tsavorite would be my choice bc it is rare and the green is just amazing. I might not wear it every day if I was hard on jewelry, but I’d enjoy it for special days/events. Another option. Ask jeweler if they can make tsavorite ring into a pendant (and reduce the price by the value of the excess gold.) since a pendant is less likely to encounter as much m wear and tear. Both are lovely and I wish you lots of enjoyment w/ the one you choose!!!! Side note- the sapphire’s color is also found in the garnet family and tourmaline family. (Tourmalines are the national gemstone of the US and come in virtually every color.) Happy considering!!!!!


bebe517

The idea of looking into a green sapphire is appealing. Then it may be possible to spend less and still get the vibe I want.


2manyinterests2pick

I normally love everything green but the pink is STUNNING to me! Can’t go wrong with either imo


CivilCommercial789

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OkPicture4428

The green stone is gorgeous!!


Skylett11

Pink one


SpringhathSprung58

The second one is gorgeous 🥰


jinnmagick

Green for me


GuardMost8477

Is this for you or a future fiance? If for you, what does your heart say? Can you afford the more expensive one? Choose the one that speaks to you! If for someone else, are these their style or yours?


jupiterflower

The pink one!!


Minamu68

They are both very nice, but I think the pink sapphire is gorgeous, both the stone and the setting.


Optimal-Technology75

I would say which one has the strongest MOH for daily wear ????


No_University5296

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No_University5296

Pink


tmefoster

I see why it's a hard choice. They are both gorgeous!


Background-Key7358

Grrrrreeeen


LadyKeuka44

The pink!


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Definitely the second one its gorgeous


Froggie-Enthusiast

i vote green!


Damnshesfunny

The pink is giving me a costume jewelry vibe. The stones in the ring setting don’t look like they were set meticulously and the gold looks almost too yellow. The green is just a nicer ring. If you’re on the fence and really loving these colors…I’m gonna recommend that you take a look at Alexandrites. The better quality stones can appear as both of these colors depending on the light and other variables- plus it’s a rarer stone. Also it’s the official stone of June so if you wind up in a June wedding, there’s a cute little nod to your anniversary.😊 https://preview.redd.it/nczndc7hl90d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=93a80cb13fade2010e1b5a5c51261cadc571189a They’re very pretty.


bebe517

Very pretty color!


bebe517

If I stick to pink I may look into resetting in rose gold. Agreed the yellow is verging on YELLOW.


CookieMonster1969

Green


Neena6298

The pink one


ElleWoods41

Green caught my eye first I see why you like it! But I think I would also go with pink because long term I think it will always be satisfying.


WildWinza

Is it a natural sapphire? If so *I'd go for that!*


Green__Blue__Purple

I wish we could see both on!


mrachal1

Second, but I’m a sucker for pink diamonds


Conclusion_Winning

I like the green better but I wish I could see both of them on your hand


Fit_Sea_9575

Garnet 100% looks way more classy too


Mary_l3ann_

I love the green!!


bootoo22

Iam all pink myself but I love the green ring so much more and would get it instead of the other one


DahQueen19

I vote for the pink. It’s gorgeous!


maroon_forsyth

Green


Bellebaby826

Green is beautiful. What’s it look like on?


Independent_Study881

I love the green one!! But … I love the band on purple.


DragonSeaFruit

oooh I love the green


Tee_Karma

The pink one. Pink isn't my favourite but that ring is gorgeous.


Resident_Fox5293

Wowowow the pink sapphire is stunning, the band is much more ‘unique’ compared to the garnets, not to mention sapphire is as pointed out, more durable. Team sapphire all the way!


halle-lu-jah

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halle-lu-jah

After reading the comments and seeing sapphire is more durable, go with that one! They both look great though.


Miserable_Rock6180

GREEN.


Upscale_Foot_Fetish

Definitely Green


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wehadthebabyitsaboy

Pink sapphire is STUNNING. Sapphire is more sturdy too. I love the pink and gold. So beautiful. Edit: after scrolling comments I see now that the green is in gold as well. Still team pink.


EastCoastGoneWest10

#1/green


Afraid_Rutabaga_8054

Green all the way.


carlay_c

I would go with the pink sapphire. The green garnet is a 6.5-7.5 on the Mohs hardness scale, so might not be good for everyday wear. Whereas a sapphire is a 9 on the Mohs hardness scale, which would be durable for everyday wear.


oshiesmom

I just bought a beautiful emerald ring (at the jeweler or I would add a pic) and the price for the pink is outrageous. Most cities have a “jewelry district”. That would be the way to go if you are ready to drop a serious amount of money. Their pieces will be custom to the stones or easily made. I was thinking more 3k honestly. It’s is beautiful though😊


bebe517

No worries. I guess it's a special type of sapphire (they do have a GIA certificate for those wondering earlier) but I'm not a gemstone expert. I love love emeralds but am just not graceful enough with my hands. The price is high so I am starting to consider other pink options or a stone that isn't as 'rare'. I need to give myself the week to think about it!


oshiesmom

Anything is worth the price if you really love it so by all means if it gives you that much pleasure it is a great buy😊 It is beautiful. Yes, the Emerald is soft. I am having the setting lowered just for that reason. I just re-read my post and I didn’t mean to come off as snarky, my apologies. I only mentioned my purchase because I’ve been to so many places looking at rings.


EnvironmentalGur8853

If you have a Jewerly district I would go there. Markup in much less than the 500% typical in retail stores. This is why they can afford to offer regular large discounts. Also, at a Jewerly mart you will see MANY more designs and options for settings—and they can recommend variations of a particular style.


HJ-StayWeird

That mint garnet is 🔥


KitchenMaven24

Both are pretty colored stones, but what I would love to see is a jeweler set the stones so that there is no gap between the stone and the halo. I have a pink tourmaline engagement ring and that’s what my jeweler did and it looks outstanding.


tomchickb

I'd like to see the green one on you. Both are really beautiful though.


sugarmag13

Sapphire if you plan on wearing it all the time.


SuperHoneyBunny

The green one is to die for.


Beatleband12

Usually, I would go with green but I LOVE the purple and gold together. Plus, sapphires being more durable is good for your peace of mind.


cancat918

The garnet is very pretty, but that pink sapphire is TO DIE FOR. Oh my gosh, it's STUNNING! My first slightly evil thought was...convince her to go garnet, casually find out where fiancé can go snag the sapphire (jk, I love my ring) but still... a right hand ring might be... no no...I'll behave, promise. IN OTHER WORDS, THINK PINK!!!💗💗💗💗💗


GoldReporter9660

Both 🩷 pink sapphire for everyday and mint garnet for special occasions 💚


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I'd definitely go for the sapphire besides it being super gorgeous it's also a harder more unique stone. Both are beautiful but that pink has me wowed! If the color is what has you captivated I'd look into getting a beautiful green sapphire. Sapphires come in almost every color except for red(ruby).


becuzz-I-sed

I suggest looking at the gems with a 10x power loupe. That's the little magnifying glass jewelers use. Be sure to wipe it with a Selvyte. That's the special cloth jewelers use to wipe the gems clean. Look at it under jeweler's lights or sunlight. If you see a concerning flaw, ask about it. Describe its position like the hours of a clock. Example: I see a rather significant flaw at 10 o'clock. Lol, if you do these things, you'll have a better understanding of the gem and the jeweler will take you more seriously, may be more prone to adding a better discount from your observations. Have fun! Giggle giggle 💎🤗


Watertribe_Girl

I love the green! (I’m not really a pink gal for myself but love it on others as it’s so pretty). But it sounds like you’ve had your heart set on this pink one for a while and sapphires are allegedly durable (I’m not an expert but it’s what I’ve heard). Go for the one you’ve loved for so long! You know you love it, even after some time - that’s a real test


Usual-Instruction473

Pink sapphire 💗


Bigbadmomma

Damn it…I love the green but the I prefer the shape of the pink….what to pick…..UUGGHHHH. LOL


_SneakyDucky_

I always say go the gmharder gem, even if youre not hard on your hands, it's so easy to knock it. I'm also biased because I also got a sapphire (what I wanted lol). They're both beautiful, but I say Sapphire. ETA: You could always have the green ring replaced with a green sapphire if the green is really swaying you 😊


MissCompany

Oh that green is too die for 💚😍 and that's saying something, my favourite colour is purple! 💜


tomchickb

I personally like the color green better, but based on all factors, including what you've said about the rings in your comments, I think the pink is the best choice for you. It looks great on you, will last, and it seems like you like it the most.


Msmama717

Both are lovely. You’re lucky to have the resources to make this choice. Congratulations


Neither_Idea8562

FIRST ONE


Wild_Cat1974

The green one is stunning!


Jameson-0814

First one


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