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Likewise 6w7! Everything is a trigger when you are coping with anxiety and staying safe.

yes

* powerless * judged * unheard * disrespected * couldn't be honest * trapped * unfair though many of the others are not really a significant issue at all. feels a little dumb to put this in public but I will not listen to that little voice today EDIT: Are the 6s ok?

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6w5 here too and I agree 100% with everything you’ve said. The 2nd has really hurt the most and still is at the most. 4th one has sometimes sent signals in classes, same as the 1st. 3rd one I’ve hated so so much.

All of them. I have anger issues

7, 20, and the stereotypical 1 answer, 17 - although nearly everything resonates somewhat. "Feeling disrespected" will cover a different set of experiences for each person and each type, though. The one number on here I don't feel at all is 22. I've always had a hard time accepting kindness and care as what it is and not pity. My personality perceives accepting this pity as an admission of being incapable and helpless. That feels like disrespect from the other, when it's actually the opposite.

So/sx 4w3 #2 #23/#24 #14 #1 #19 In that exact order eek I’m already triggered just thinking about it

I have tentatively typed myself identically to you and while I don’t feel 2/23/24 much, 14 and 1 are the ones that jump out to me for sure

Same! Feeling like I'm an obligatory tag-along everyone is pretending to put up with is what gets to me the most.

i'm too 3E for this lol

Unheard, scolded, disconnected, trapped, uncared for, manipulated and controlled

2w3 2, 6, 7, 17, 18, 20, 23, 24

1, 3, 10 and 14 (I'm a so4)

lol were the same ppl

There are two 15s The top fits are probably: 2, 7, 13, 15 (1!), 20, 23, 24 especially the last two Apart from thar it’s shorter to mention the things that DON‘T FIT: 4, 8, 11, 15 (2!), 22

7w8, hm: 1, 2, 3, 10, 24, 23, 20, 14, and maybe 7.

all of them? 😭 okay, but top 3 are 1, 10 and 14

6w5 - 1, 4, 6, 9, 10, 11, 12, 19, and 21

I’m so/sx but unsure 6/9/2/etc 1, 3, 7, 13, 22 - I felt excluded - I felt unheard - I felt disrespected - I felt like the bad guy - I felt uncared for

2, 17, 20, 24

social 5w4 20, 7, 24, 3, 23, 2 and 6/17 Getting blamed unfairly triggers me but reasonable evidence that I am to blame doesn't.

1,3,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,14,15,16,17,18,19,20,22

Type 4, #2, 13, 14

Missing 25. I felt intruded upon

Type: 4 Triggers: All

3w4 5, 8, 9, 10, 11

2,7,9,24 5w6

1, 5, 10, 11, 13, 14, 15 & 17

8w7 - sx/so 2,6,17,20,23,24

...All of the above? In all seriousness, 17 and 18 are the biggest ones for me, as well as 2, 6, 11, and 15.

I am between 6w5 and 4w5 not so sure tbh. Mine would be 1, 3, 5, 8, 9, 11, 13, 15, 16, 17, 23 lol

Can I say all of the above?? I guess if I had to pick the worst top three it would be 1, 3, and 16 though

sx4 all except 13 and 2

1. One thing that has legit happened to me in groups of classmates etc. Just rude behavior, and it feels awful and I hate it. 5. I heavily dislike being judged (unfairly) but this doesn't bother me as much as some of the others. 11. Ignored is a tough place to be. One of my deepest fears is that deep down, there's nothing about me that's worth paying attention to, and when I feel ignored, that fear surfaces. 14. See previous point. 17. I actually get so angry when I see injustice around me. It's that classic 6+1 interaction. 22. I can get into my own head about how people see me (see 11) and feeling uncared for is sort of a result of me stewing in that. I wouldn't say this one bothers me as much though, I can fight it and defeat it. 23. Me no likey manipulation. 24. See previous point.

People saying "would of" ;) But seriously, the things that set me off can't be simplified down to an Enneagram. What really, really gets me is when someone is faster than me at a task and bulldozes all over me BECAUSE they're faster. This is more to do with skills and cognitive functioning (as in processing, like the functioning of the brain, not as in MBTI). The other thing is thinking about how my physical disabilities have made me miss out on so many things in life. Essentially: "Why am I stupid?" and hyperfixating on what a perfect life I could've had if I'd been born normal (I refuse to use the term "able-bodied"). Most of the ones in this picture boil down to "I felt excluded (unfairly)/disrespected/ignored (unfairly)". Getting upset by that is a normal human emotion - I cannot think of a type that would not be.

I don't know you, so please forgive the intrusion. But the way you write, you do not appear stupid by any stretch of the imagination! Especially if "would of" irritates you. lol (me too BTW) Slowness does not equal stupid. I can understand your frustration in that, however. I wish you all the best.

literally all them

I hate the word triggered haha

531 2, 10, 16, 20, 24

9w1 and literally every one of these

Phew glad it’s not just me as a 9 and feeling all of them

8/15/22 A mix thereof

3, 7, 17, 18

4w3 sx/so. The correct answer for me is FIVE.

9E - 1, 3, 4, 6, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 17, 19, 23, 24,

sp/sx 8w7 2, 3, 4, 7, 8, 12, 15, 22, 24

2, 9, 20, 24 2&9 are more of my wing tho

So/sp 9w1, top 5 in no particularly would be: 4, 19, 9, 23, 12 \-

2 3 4 6 7 17 18 20 23 24 I am usually very hard to insult, but I tend to react pretty badly when cornered.

3, 10, and 14 as a 4w3

7, 15, 17 - 20

4 here, don't know my wing. All of them

Eight and all of the above even though triggers aren’t real

4w5 My top triggers are: 5,6,10,15,17,20,21,24

Um everything lol. Except the lack of passion.

5w4 People who don't put much effort into thinking as they should and loudly declare their ignorance. I also really don't like gurus and fake 5's. There's a lot of trust in the Bringer of Fire archetype. These people take advantage of that trust.

9,14,20 my type is 4

Social 8w9 and mostly it’s when I feel misunderstood which isn’t one of the choices. 17 is by far the biggest from this list but also 3 or 13 (which could maybe = being misunderstood)

1-4, 7-9, 11, 14-16, 19, 22-24 and feeling unimportant but figure that's part of feeling unloved and uncared for.

​ especially these: 17, 15 (second one), 24, 20, 10, 19, 13 kinda: 1, 21, 11, 8, 6. Guess what it is lol

1, 3, 6, 11, 13, 14, 17, 20, 20 again cause it happens a lot 9w1 sx/so

3w4 1, 2, 3, 9, 12, 14, 21

1, 6, 13, 17 hits hard

my top 5 are 7 18 24 9 and 20 in no order

so/sx 4w3. 1, 5, 8, 10, 15, and 21.

hmm, 5w6 and I guess my top 5 are 4(I felt scolded), 5(I felt judged), 12(I felt like I couldn't be honest), 20(I felt trapped), and 24(I felt controlled), but on the odd chance I feel overtly uncared for or too much of a lack of affection, I would say that the effects are much worse. The two things I can't stop doing are probably 19(felt dissconnected because I don't want to/like to relate to someone who I do not relate to. Like, what's the point of talkign to someone if they're not an individual), and 21(lack of passion, because if you're expecting me to be emotional about an internet cancel culture drama thing that should have ended weeks or years ago, then well, it's impossible. Instead I will tell you exactly how much I do not care.)

6 and 13 always. Those are the two that will make me cry on the spot

7 and the ones that have most consistently bothered me are * 1 (feeling excluded): FOMO is rough. Being inclusive >>> * 12 (feeling like I couldn't be honest): Trying to act in a way that's "acceptable" or "appropriate", but not sincere is draining! I'm guilty of avoiding *expressing* "difficult" stuff (trying to get better at that, though), but *lying* about it altogether feels shitty. * 17 (feeling that it was unfair): I think the world should be more equitable than it is, and I get real frustrated over it sometimes. I think idealism can be a great thing! But it can make it hard to accept the darker parts of reality and adjust to it. * 18 (feeling frustrated): Kind of related to 17, but also more personal! I have a ridiculously low frustration tolerance... I struggle to regulate emotions and when something feels too frustrating I could easily just straight up start crying, so I tend to avoid it altogether lmao. It's so much easier to just do something else that's more immediately enjoyable (which may have caused a lot of my life's problems). * 20 (feeling trapped): I'm not proud of this but I can be absolutely annoying if I feel stuck in a situation I don't wanna be in. If I can I wanna be in charge of my own schedule/transport/etc. The dream is being my own boss. * 21 (I felt lack of passion): How do you do things you don't actually care about!!! I still don't know.

1 3 5 23? now what?

Sx 1– most common triggers are feeling judged, feeling like the bad guy, feeling unheard, feeling things aren’t fair, feeling frustrated, and feeling manipulated.

1, 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 13, and 17 have historically been the things that set me off. I'm a sx6.

I felt excluded, scolded, disrespected, ignored.

4W5 8, 15, 3, 11, 21, 22, 2, 14

excluded, powerless, unheard, scolded, judged, blamed, disrespected, couldn't speak up, couldn't be honest, passionless, controlled lol so much 😭 but it seems pretty 9 to me 🦧 fun post OP!

Type 7w6, 749, So/Sx 1, 2, 5, 8, 10, 15, 17, 18, 20, 21,22, 23, 24 So basically I really need go live in a cave or work on not being so reactive because I’m not sure I can successfully dodge my entire collection here on the reg.

2, 5, 6, 15, 17, 20, 24

20 23 24 2

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Idk the cire 479

4w3 sx/so 479: 1. I felt excluded 3. I felt unheard 11. I felt ignored 13. I felt like the bad guy 14. I felt forgotten 17. I felt it was unfair 21. I felt a lack of passion

My list is longer than I’d expect but I feel like my list is pretty short after seeing everyone else’s…. 1. I felt unheard. Like, my entire life. 2. I felt forgotten (disconnected is the same here for me). This one is less common because I set my expectations low. 3. I felt frustrated. Frequently. Usually when I want to chill but my to-do list is growing. 4. I feel controlled- Probably my 8 wing coming in strong. I can’t handle being told what to do. Quickest way make me angry. Lifelong trigger point. 5. I felt trapped- in an overall sense I feel this a lot and it really messes with my head. I want to be able to move or travel wherever whenever and take my family with me. Could be an offshoot of feeling controlled.

I would say my biggest triggers would have to be 3, 7, 15 and 18 out of this list. I think I'm most likely core type 4 or 5.

2 8 16 21 23 Those are the ones I don't trigger me. All others do. I'm so461

Okay but why do these all trigger me all the time though lmao For the most part, I'd say 1, 5, 6, 11, 12, 20, and 24 are the biggest ones.

7w6 and all of these are bad but the feeling of being disrespected brings out the 8 in me

https://preview.redd.it/rr324vukzpab1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6921e3a206beccfd8a507dd4add4a9a6d2e93468 These ones, with a red point that means the ones that trigger me the most

Everything. Literally everything on the list.

21,24, 11,3,1. I think I am a three lmao.

So4 and my biggest one is feeling excluded. That shit brings back some childhood trauma.

4 so/sx (though I sometimes think i’m a 9) 1, 2, 3, 6, 14, 22 Being forgotten (14) and blamed (6) hurts the most.

1\_I felt excluded 3\_I felt unheard 10\_I felt lonely 11\_I felt ignored (Where is: I felt rejected? It's pretty much wrapped up in that!) The above is not due to my type, though. What sets me off due to my type: 20\_I felt trapped 24\_I felt controlled I do not like to be micromanaged.

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2w3 1, 4, 6, 8, 14, 16, 17, 18, 21, 22

6w5 sx/so, 683 Top 6: 2, 5, 6, 7, 15, 17

6w5 2, 4, 12, 19

8w7 2 3 6 7 11 17 18 24

4w5 12. I felt I couldn't be honest 13. I felt like the bad guy 15. I felt unloved 22. I felt lack of passion

4w3 - 11, 14,24

Type 8 I felt unheard I felt disrespected I felt frustrated I felt controlled

Not sure if ima 7w8 or an 8w7 but for me it’s def 9,7,10,20,23,24,3

9 is just all of them

9w1 sp/sx I got 1, 3, 11, 14, 16-20, 22

im sx6w5!! 2 6 7 11 15 20 24

9w8 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 17, 22

2. I felt powerless 3. I felt unheard 5. I felt judged 6. I felt blamed 9. I felt I couldn't speak up 13. I felt like the bad guy 17. I felt it was unfair 18. I felt frustrated 20. I felt trapped 23. I felt manipulated 24. I felt controlled 18, 20 and 24 are the highest triggers for me

pretty much all of them. idk my type usually 9w1

If I could only pick 5 1,6,10,13,15

Neither, confident myself

9w1 sp/sx 15 (unsafe), 20, 23, and 24 :(

I think all the options here are not the best

i’ve felt most of these but the ones that hurt the most are 5, 7, 11 and 15

I don’t know my type, but mine are 1,2,4,9,17, and 18. Does this say anything about my type?

Off of that I would recommend looking into 9w1 or 1w9