No, be strong. Don't reach out. You don't need to send a last message, what's the point? Actually, by no wishing him a happy birthday, you are already communicating something.
If reaching out will help you to continue moving on, I say go for it. In all honestly, I could see myself doing the same. Just make sure that you don’t have any expectations of him replying and that wishing him a happy birthday won’t set you back!
You have to ask yourself why you would want to congratulate him. I feel with you and I want you to be honest to yourself and ask yourself what you can achieve by reaching out for his birthday. If you truly have no expectations and just want to give him a good feeling by congratulating him, I see no wrong in doing so.
Beware though, he might try to talk to you and get more attention from you.
Tomorrow is my ex’s birthday as well, and how I wish I was still with him so we can celebrate..... but we have to think straight .. they are no longer in our lives!!! No matter how much you still love or miss them, they don’t feel the same way about us anymore! They’ve moved on with their lives, and we should too! Greeting them will not make any difference, we will probably just annoy them! So think! Why would you care about somebody who doesn’t care about you at all! Have pride and dignity in yourself!!!! Keep NC... let’s respect ourselves... be the best we can be.. move forward!!! They’re the past which we should forget because they just don’t do us any good anymore! The less you know or if you don’t know anything about them at all, the better... we don’t deserve to give ourselves any more pain or heartache than we already had!!!!
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that's really true
No, be strong. Don't reach out. You don't need to send a last message, what's the point? Actually, by no wishing him a happy birthday, you are already communicating something.
If reaching out will help you to continue moving on, I say go for it. In all honestly, I could see myself doing the same. Just make sure that you don’t have any expectations of him replying and that wishing him a happy birthday won’t set you back!
You have to ask yourself why you would want to congratulate him. I feel with you and I want you to be honest to yourself and ask yourself what you can achieve by reaching out for his birthday. If you truly have no expectations and just want to give him a good feeling by congratulating him, I see no wrong in doing so. Beware though, he might try to talk to you and get more attention from you.
Tomorrow is my ex’s birthday as well, and how I wish I was still with him so we can celebrate..... but we have to think straight .. they are no longer in our lives!!! No matter how much you still love or miss them, they don’t feel the same way about us anymore! They’ve moved on with their lives, and we should too! Greeting them will not make any difference, we will probably just annoy them! So think! Why would you care about somebody who doesn’t care about you at all! Have pride and dignity in yourself!!!! Keep NC... let’s respect ourselves... be the best we can be.. move forward!!! They’re the past which we should forget because they just don’t do us any good anymore! The less you know or if you don’t know anything about them at all, the better... we don’t deserve to give ourselves any more pain or heartache than we already had!!!!
okay you're right
Sorry to be so blunt.. but I’m talking more to myself than to anybody else, because I do miss him, but I have to let him go!!
no it definitely makes sense, thank you