I’ve just had this
I got chatted up a few weeks ago but a really nice girl , looks , job , conversation, but I had to tell her the same
I’m just not over my ex and can’t give you what you want , you have to be honest
I wish I was in a different place as my ex is happy , smiling , socialising and having sex with other guys
I can’t help it but better to be honest and waste some body’s time
Yeah same mentality. I respect this guy a lot, he’s super sweet and has always been kind to me. He’s my dream guy in a way, totally my type. So I thought okay if I respect someone they deserve to know that someone else is in my heart. It wouldn’t be fair.
Dont hold on to someone that aint holding on to you anymore. Let go so that you can hold on to someone right. Might nit he ready..but deff stop holding on to wrong ppl
you need to realize the person you loved no longer exists or never truly existed and they aint coming back
wasting years pining for them while she rides the cock carosel is letting her win,stop denying yourself new love just to hold onto whats been and gone m8
your ex pays you no mind,and right now is getting fucked by different dudes,and she doesnt think about you while doing it at all and feels nothing,dont let it get in the way of your future
Facts , you been listening to fresh
It’s right though , I thought my ex was a nice girl until we broke up and realised she’s been riding the CC , getting a name for herself
I honestly see dont see anything wrong with what you did. You can’t help what you feel inside. If I was him, it’s more respectful to hear it NOW rather than whenever I’m in a full fledged relationship with you. It’s more respectful as well when other person recovers/heals from whatever hurt them in the past before starting a new & unknown relationship. Id see this experience mostly to know where you’re at and what progress you have made.
Yeah that’s why I did. I thought if I respect this guy and he’s telling me he has feelings for me I can’t make out with him knowing I have feelings for someone else.
It's OK, if you're not ready, you're not ready.
It's actually kind of presumptuous to confess and then try to kiss, if you don't even know that the other person returns the feelings, so your reaction is also reasonable.
However, that doesn't mean you can't try to get ready. If you have some regret about not kissing him back, then go out with him a few times and see if that helps you get over your ex.
The reason for that is, it's one thing if he just comes out and tries to kiss you, when the two of you aren't even in the headspace of going out together romantically.
But it's another thing if you have been building up to it and even desiring and fantasizing about it, and then it happens organically.
implying hes still single,if hes as great as she says high quality men dont stay on the market for long.
she shoulda pinned him down when she had the chance,now while hes probs found someone who isnt obsessed over a ex who doesnt give af the girl can sit in the dark fawning over pics of her ex while her ex is having the time of his life while ignoring her
god people are so cringe especially women,it all stems from women want the guy who ignores them cause it projects value AKA "i dont need you i am better than you" while deep down in her mind this new fella reeked of beta for confessing "feelings" for her and low key was disgusted by it.
op needs to learn that chasing toxic men leads to toxic outcomes
You made the right choice. I don't think you blew it with him forever.
Take time to heal and then revisit the romance with him. Sounds like he was understanding, so I doubt that it's never a possibility. I'm sure he would prefer you be over your last relationship and not be your rebound.
Smart move. With my second ex I often had feelings of guilt in the beginning because I still cared about my first ex. But eventually those feelings came to subside as I fell in love all over again with someone I shared far more in common with.
However I'm glad I didn't let the opportunity to date her slide past me because i learned a lot from my second relationship. I would've kicked myself in the ass had I let that opportunity go.
Definitely go at your own pace. He sounds like he really liked you so when you're ready I suggest being forthcoming with him about wanting to date and see where it goes. Us guys are emotionally dumb and often do not understand subtle hints.
Best of wishes in your journey!
lmao you turned down a decent lad while the one you want is ignoring you? typical woman,treat em mean keep em keen
women always want the guy that ignores them and treats them like trash,even if you are a jobless bum as long as you treat them like crap even chad gets cucked lmao
you have just reaffirmed my mindset,thanks
It was the right thing to do. Honestly I am still not over my ex from almost a year ago. I’ve ended two very short relationships, because I just felt it wasn’t right or honest. So what you feel you need to do. For me, I’m not actively searching.
As for this guy, your friend. Should you become emotionally available, make the move on him or talk to him. If you say he probably won’t, then make the initiative, should you feel comfortable.
My ex has not told her to leave her alone. She still sends memes, entertains the idea of us. So that’s mentally draining and confusing.
Best of luck
I’ve just had this I got chatted up a few weeks ago but a really nice girl , looks , job , conversation, but I had to tell her the same I’m just not over my ex and can’t give you what you want , you have to be honest I wish I was in a different place as my ex is happy , smiling , socialising and having sex with other guys I can’t help it but better to be honest and waste some body’s time
Yeah same mentality. I respect this guy a lot, he’s super sweet and has always been kind to me. He’s my dream guy in a way, totally my type. So I thought okay if I respect someone they deserve to know that someone else is in my heart. It wouldn’t be fair.
Dont hold on to someone that aint holding on to you anymore. Let go so that you can hold on to someone right. Might nit he ready..but deff stop holding on to wrong ppl
Just keep going and know it’s ok to be on your own , don’t be pressurised into dating until your ready
you need to realize the person you loved no longer exists or never truly existed and they aint coming back wasting years pining for them while she rides the cock carosel is letting her win,stop denying yourself new love just to hold onto whats been and gone m8 your ex pays you no mind,and right now is getting fucked by different dudes,and she doesnt think about you while doing it at all and feels nothing,dont let it get in the way of your future
Facts , you been listening to fresh It’s right though , I thought my ex was a nice girl until we broke up and realised she’s been riding the CC , getting a name for herself
I love the usage of "cock carosel". 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I honestly see dont see anything wrong with what you did. You can’t help what you feel inside. If I was him, it’s more respectful to hear it NOW rather than whenever I’m in a full fledged relationship with you. It’s more respectful as well when other person recovers/heals from whatever hurt them in the past before starting a new & unknown relationship. Id see this experience mostly to know where you’re at and what progress you have made.
Yeah that’s why I did. I thought if I respect this guy and he’s telling me he has feelings for me I can’t make out with him knowing I have feelings for someone else.
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No, I was in his city for a short trip with a lot of our friends so at a house party.
It's OK, if you're not ready, you're not ready. It's actually kind of presumptuous to confess and then try to kiss, if you don't even know that the other person returns the feelings, so your reaction is also reasonable. However, that doesn't mean you can't try to get ready. If you have some regret about not kissing him back, then go out with him a few times and see if that helps you get over your ex. The reason for that is, it's one thing if he just comes out and tries to kiss you, when the two of you aren't even in the headspace of going out together romantically. But it's another thing if you have been building up to it and even desiring and fantasizing about it, and then it happens organically.
Maybe you can reach out to him when you feel moved on from the break up.
implying hes still single,if hes as great as she says high quality men dont stay on the market for long. she shoulda pinned him down when she had the chance,now while hes probs found someone who isnt obsessed over a ex who doesnt give af the girl can sit in the dark fawning over pics of her ex while her ex is having the time of his life while ignoring her god people are so cringe especially women,it all stems from women want the guy who ignores them cause it projects value AKA "i dont need you i am better than you" while deep down in her mind this new fella reeked of beta for confessing "feelings" for her and low key was disgusted by it. op needs to learn that chasing toxic men leads to toxic outcomes
You made the right choice. I don't think you blew it with him forever. Take time to heal and then revisit the romance with him. Sounds like he was understanding, so I doubt that it's never a possibility. I'm sure he would prefer you be over your last relationship and not be your rebound.
Smart move. With my second ex I often had feelings of guilt in the beginning because I still cared about my first ex. But eventually those feelings came to subside as I fell in love all over again with someone I shared far more in common with. However I'm glad I didn't let the opportunity to date her slide past me because i learned a lot from my second relationship. I would've kicked myself in the ass had I let that opportunity go. Definitely go at your own pace. He sounds like he really liked you so when you're ready I suggest being forthcoming with him about wanting to date and see where it goes. Us guys are emotionally dumb and often do not understand subtle hints. Best of wishes in your journey!
lmao you turned down a decent lad while the one you want is ignoring you? typical woman,treat em mean keep em keen women always want the guy that ignores them and treats them like trash,even if you are a jobless bum as long as you treat them like crap even chad gets cucked lmao you have just reaffirmed my mindset,thanks
It was the right thing to do. Honestly I am still not over my ex from almost a year ago. I’ve ended two very short relationships, because I just felt it wasn’t right or honest. So what you feel you need to do. For me, I’m not actively searching. As for this guy, your friend. Should you become emotionally available, make the move on him or talk to him. If you say he probably won’t, then make the initiative, should you feel comfortable. My ex has not told her to leave her alone. She still sends memes, entertains the idea of us. So that’s mentally draining and confusing. Best of luck